 Three reasons why the narcissist is still watching you. You had enough of the narcissist So you went no contact You stopped talking to them You blocked them on social media Because you know they're not going to change So you don't want anything to do with them anymore You don't want to deal with them, but the narcissist is still watching you And maybe you know they're watching you Maybe they've made that very clear to you Maybe they've used that to try to intimidate you And it's made you feel very uncomfortable. It's made you paranoid It's made you always check your surroundings Because you never know if they're lurking in the shadows At some point you figured out that they were watching you Or maybe they left you a clue Something for you to ruminate over Because narcissists love it when you're constantly thinking about them Wondering why they said or did something Maybe they liked or commented on a social media post through a different account Maybe they called you from a different number Maybe you caught them lurking around your house or workplace They have their way of letting you know that they're still there You can't get rid of them that easily And there are three main reasons why they're doing that One, narcissistic supply One of the main reasons why the narcissist is still watching you Is for narcissistic supply After everything they've done to you They want to know if you're still hurting They want to know if you're still going through it They always return to the scene of the crime Just to witness the damage they've caused It makes them feel powerful and significant To know that they have altered the natural course and progression of your life It allows them to elevate themselves at your expense One of the main reasons why they're still watching you Is because they want to see if you're still suffering They want to see if you've managed to overcome everything they did to you They're not watching you because they care They're not watching you because they want to help you It's the result of their sadistic nature They can't just leave you alone because they get a kick out of it It gives them an adrenaline rush to see you struggling It's like they're watching a movie They're just sitting back and enjoying the show It fulfills them It makes them feel better about their own lives But if you have managed to turn your life around It's going to make them sick They don't want to see that They're only checking back in because they want to see you struggling They want to see you down and out That's what they're looking for Because that makes them feel better about themselves Which is why you need to stay strong You need to rebuild everything that they tried to destroy Don't give them the satisfaction Show them that they haven't defeated you Show them that you're still able to do what you need to do You're still able to live the life that you want to live To sabotage The narcissist is still watching you To see if you're still suffering If you're not suffering They will try to sabotage whatever it is that's making you happy Because they look at it like it's a hindrance to their progress It's an obstacle to what they're trying to accomplish So if there's anything that you're working on They will try to tear it apart Because it shines the light on everything that is wrong with them It makes them feel bad about their lives So they have to destroy it They will try to turn people against you They will harass you They will steal from you Misery loves company They will do anything to make you miserable just like them 3. Hoovering Another reason why the narcissist is still watching you Is because they're planning to hoover you But they need to determine when is the right time for them to come back They want to come back at a time where you are most likely to accept them back At a time where you are at a vulnerable point in your life Maybe you've had an argument with someone Or maybe you're struggling financially That's when they're going to come back to play the hero To act like they're there to save the day When really, they're just coming back to cause more problems for you If you left them, they're only going to come back to punish you So please do not fall for their hoover attempts They have nothing to bring to you but abuse and manipulation They're watching you because they're plotting to take something from you Narcissists only have their eyes on things that they are envious or jealous of Things that they want to take Or things that they believe are being taken away from them They're not watching you because they want to share anything to you They're only looking at what they can get The narcissist will still be watching you So please take the appropriate measures to protect yourselves Lock your doors Close your blinds Especially at night Keep your social media profiles on private And be cautious when talking to strangers You never know if it's one of the narcissist's flying monkeys Just stay safe out there Narcissists are dangerous people You never know what they're going to do next You never know what they're capable of But just know that they may still be watching you somewhere behind the scenes Thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you Please like, comment Share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching at NarcSurviver.uk Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon