 How do we how do we deal with this? So this is where we're going into so I got some mindsets and Then I'm gonna get into my formula for basically destroying approach anxiety and social fear and how to do it So some mindsets here in reality Nobody gives a shit about you Okay, this is really big guys are like I could talk to her and people will see me No one gives a fuck about you I don't know like how to really put this across if you actually look around all the people walking around doing their stuff Doing their business you could do anything you want to and I make my students do some really crazy shit Like screaming things on the street and flipping out and running around like with their shirts off No one cares people literally will just be like no one cares Everyone is too busy in their bubble of worrying about their thoughts and their problem their ego and wordable what their parents think What everybody else think no one gives a flying shit about you at all nothing Nothing, but everyone goes. Oh, no, I can't I can't do that people learn it. You know, it's ridiculous So the truth is no one cares about you that's actually really empowering because you could just do whatever you want to Maybe your mother and that and then only about half the time. So just saying okay, so The only person that really whose opinion really matters is you this sounds really obvious But this can take a lifetime to really develop to get to that point where you're just like I know what I want I know who I am fuck everyone else if you can just get to that point your whole life is gonna be awesome Seriously, I mean and that might take years. I might take years I take it at 30 40 50 it might take you your whole life But this is really what you want to be shooting for and this is and my formula is really gonna help you guys get there, okay? and I'd say again That destroys everybody trying to live to other people's expectations trying to do what other people want you to do It's fucking horrific. I went on a date once with this beautiful girl. She was she was Chinese and I'm talking to her And she's so hot. She had this great body. We're just hanging out and I'm just like Yeah, so I want to know more about you tell me more about you and she's and she's reveals that She's like, yeah, you know, I'm gonna be a I'm gonna be a doctor. I'm like, okay Do you actually know it wasn't a doctor? It was a lawyer. I asked her what he wanted? She goes I want to be a lawyer and I'm like, okay, do you do you like laws and interesting for you? And she's like no, I don't really like it But you're spending years and years and years and all this money to become a lawyer I'm like, what do you want to be and she's like I want to have a health shop I'm like, why are you gonna be a lawyer? And she's like, oh, it's to please my parents my parents want me to be a lawyer Now I'm like That's fucking crazy. You're ruining your whole life for what your parents want you to do that doesn't make any sense She's like Asian parents. I was like what? It's not Asian parents. It's just Okay, so so yeah, and so so I've really found until you actually let go of what other people want you to do and you Actually start acting out of what you want to do your life will always be you're always gonna be a slave to other people's desires and wishes And you're just never gonna be happy. So really one of the keys is Stop giving a fuck. Okay. Yeah, so I think I've covered that so I want to say Pam, okay, so the solution So this is the main part here What do we do? What can we do to shut up these thoughts about what other people want us to do and our ego which is trying to protect us What do we do? How do we live a life in a way where we're gonna do what we want and live our lives and not fucking let other people ruin us based on their expectations for well, I'd say many things but Destroying your fears as a man if you have trouble approaching meeting women or working through some issue in your life Sasha day game is the man to talk to come on stage my man There's many paths, but try and pick the path that's gonna serve you in the long run No, no, I forget the baby. How about a date? We'll start slow. Okay? Simple effective Great, okay, so this is this is huge here. I love this is like one of the most important things I've been teaching for years and years and years and years and years and people used to have they pay a lot of money for this So pay attention