 she was seven okay so I want to talk to you guys real quick this is gonna be a really quick video and I'm gonna talk about reading between the lines okay a lot of women don't know how to read between the lines when men say things to them okay I'm a pro at translating what men really mean okay for example if you are on a date with a guy or talking to a guy and they say oh you know I'm not really looking for anything serious right now my heart was just broken and I'm not trying to get into a relationship right now you know but I you know we can date we can whatever to a woman to some women this is me this means oh he's gonna be a challenge oh he's gonna fall for me I know that I can make him fall in love but in reality with that man is really trying to tell you I just want to sleep with you I don't want no strings okay deal with it that's what he's trying to tell you okay and okay so if a man says oh you you're really smart and you know I see you're very independent take care of yourself you know good for you translation I can't do anything for you I can't impress you I'll date you and maybe sleep with you but you know I'm not it's not gonna be anything long-term because you're not gonna be impressed by me and my ego is big and I need someone to be impressed by me and with you I can't impress you okay that's what that means okay so for example if a man says oh you know I bet you can cook or you look like you make a good wife blah blah blah blah basically he's saying I want to exploit you for your your feminine aspects your cooking your cleaning your you know whatever whatever but I'm not gonna marry you okay this means he wants to exploit what it is to be to have wife privileges without being married okay it means I want to play house with you but I'll never marry you okay when someone says oh you look like a wife material I bet you can cook I bet you can do this and then he's thinking all the girls gonna be like so flatter she's gonna start naming off dishes and stuff that she can cook and blah blah blah blah blah no like your response to that should be yeah I bet I could if I was married okay another another thing guys say is so what are you looking for in a man translation is what do I have to do to sleep with you how do I have to act give me some clues on what you're interested in so I can fake it till I make it or give me some clues how to get in your pants okay so whenever whenever a guy asks you what kind of man you're looking for don't ever answer it walk around that question say oh well I don't know if I'm really looking for a man right now but I don't know it when I I know him when I see him or I'll know it when I meet him basically you just told him you probably not the one for me and I'm not gonna tell you how to get in my pants you gonna have to work that's what that saying okay don't ever answer that question what are you looking for in a man because first of all he they're just gathering information from you so they can sleep with you okay or they're gathering information from you so they can know if they measure up or not and you don't ever want to know let a man know what you have what kind of job you have unless it's just obvious but if you can keep it from them the longer the better don't ever tell them in how much money you make don't ever tell them in what you do for a living on the first couple of meetings and you know always scoot around certain questions that try to get information out of you you know because they're gathering information to try to you know to see what they can get now not all guys are like this there are some truly genuine men who will show like a lot of interest in you and what you want to have in life and you'll you'll know those men it's not gonna seem like game they're gonna be like the nice guy that most women just pass up because they're too predictable too easy too nice and probably someone you're not really attracted to now I'm not saying those aren't good guys I'm just saying a lot of times women like to be pursued and if that man is not really pursuing them and they're just shelling out compliments you know instead of showing like general interest like I'm here for you I'm vulnerable here and they're just asking a bunch of questions and being nice and you know women are more attracted to masculinity okay but they're also turned off by too much masculinity it's like okay your cycle if you're if you're too nice as a man it's like I might cheat on you so gotta find that middle ground you know and when a guy says oh I've had my heart broken this means I'm not committing to you anytime soon don't ask me to be your boyfriend I'm not meeting no parents that's that means so oh and I don't trust you and I never will trust you that's what he's saying so also when a man says oh you know let's let's see if let's talk about it or we'll see or you know when you're trying to solidify some plans or a date you know and he'll he'll say I don't know let's see let's go let's play it by ear I'll call you the day of I'll call you the night before when they say that they means like I have other plans but if those plans don't follow through you're my second option and I'll call you at the last minute and I know that you're gonna be eager to go out with me and even if my plans don't fall through you know you'll be so eager to date me the next time so if you have a last-minute planner or someone who won't commit to a time and place and a date in advance they're saving you for their second option there have more important things to do ladies okay so a lot of women are confused and they don't understand why I'm trying to look at the time why men you know say all these things to them and oh he sounded really interested in me oh he's this and he's that he's just trying to get information out of you to see the easiest way to work his way into you know either getting in your pants your wallet or you know exploiting you in some way you know women want to ask the questions women want to keep themselves a mystery women want to read between the lines you know so what do you do if a man asks you what you do for a living and I've said this in another video oh I work a 9 to 5 you know the grind don't give any details well what field are you in oh I do a little bit of this and a little bit of that is I don't want to talk about work blow it off do not talk about what you do because as soon as he thinks you make more money than him or have a better career than him he's gonna start treating you different okay he's gonna start treating you different he's gonna start talking himself up more he's gonna start trying to impress you more with lies probably or he's going to kind of lose interest in you because you he can't impress you you know so you never tell him what you do find out what they do first and if they make more money than you if they have a better career than you then they're not gonna mind as much what you do but still never tell him how much you make you know so yeah I'm just starting out I don't you know I should be making more but I'm not don't ever tell him you know that always make them think they still got to pay okay always make them think they're they make more money than you even if they don't just laugh you know never let them in know that you make more money than them because it's a turnoff and I don't care what men say in the comments it's it's a shift of power okay so if you want them to treat you the same as they treat you know minimum wage Betty trying to impress her pay for stuff and take her shopping to you know target you know I like but you know what I'm saying the mall forever 21 you know the shops we all shop at but you know to them it's impressive you know for a woman that makes her own money and a lot of money you got to go to like you know the high-end stores but for a little you know minimum wage Betty forever 21 it's good you know so if he could if he can impress a minimum wage Betty with a $200 shopping spree you know your sunglasses cost $200 you know your wallet costs $200 so he's not gonna be able to impress you like he can impress her so he's automatically gonna be turned off he's not gonna get as much reward or return on his money spent with you then with minimum wage Betty so you never tell a man how much money you were I mean make you never telling really what you do until you see how much he has and what he can do for you first okay and a lot of guys are saying oh you're teaching women how to be gold diggers and better no I'm teaching strategy on how to date okay it's not about being gold diggers it's about strategy it's about being smart okay too many women wind up losing wasting time dealing with cheaters dealing with broke men because they don't know the strategy okay this is the best way to see if a guy has what you need if not to cut him off and move on to someone who does okay this is saving men time and women time okay it's saving women from being hurt and men from being probably windshields busted okay so you know should be thanking me all right I'm trying to help y'all on both sides men and women okay I know men will say anything to get sex to get whatever they need at the time you know a few dates here and there but there's a strategy you know some women will use you for food and drink some won't you know some men will use you for sex some won't this is just the world we live in and if you don't have strategy you'll end up a victim okay so have a game plan have a strategy know what you're doing read between the lines dating is not about love anymore it's about strategy and getting what you want and if you just so happen to fall in love that's an added bonus right I'll see you later bye