 Hey what's up you guys, welcome back to my channel, I actually am new here. Hi, hello I'm Lydia and I'm meant to have videos here on YouTube. Today I'm talking about cyberbullying and the effects that cyberbullying has and carries with those of you who don't know I've been relentlessly bullied for most of my lifetime which is sad when you think about it but hey let's not be down about it. The only reason I want to talk about this is because the last few days there's been an increased volume of hate and before it all says trolling and cyberbullying are different I disagree trolling is cyberbullying it doesn't make you big it doesn't make you strong it doesn't make you powerful trolling is just wrong so anyway cyberbullying it happens in teenagers it happens to children it happens to adults for some reason no one's ever going to be able to justify to me bullying someone you'll never be able to justify bullying or trying or whatever you want to call because there is no justification for it there are a million different things you could use at home for you know choosing them to put one person down trolling and cyberbullying do one thing hurt and attack the victim I always get asked why I'm so defensive about things in real life and it's because I get bullied over everything I say and do like I know full well that this video is going to get taken out of context all over red and I'm going to get bullied on that I already know that but what people don't care is it affects people texts messages comments it over it's real fly and read it or whether it's cool over there or it's a comment on my Instagram DM it has an impact I'm going to talk about myself for a minute because that's what much helps about me shock and I'm good at gas like I said the last few days have been has been relentless online I haven't even wanted to go on Twitter or read it or anything I don't use reddit that often I think reddit's an awful awful website and I might tell there's no thing yeah I'm no longer using anonymous app if you've got something to say to me you can say it behind just something that's traceable where you're not hidden behind an anonymous button a few nights ago I had the incident I don't want to go into detail as to what happened but anyone who knows anything about inpatient there's incidents aren't good and that was because of all the stuff that's been said about me I want people to realize that the message has an impact it's not just a message it's another message and you have no idea what's going to push someone over the edge when you click send you can't take back what you said I had someone on my tail say I sent you a horrible message at once and it didn't really feel any better but that's exactly the point that I want to put it off it's putting me down and really going to make you feel better about yourself or if you don't like me would you be better off unfiring and going about your life I won't be bullied off the internet comments on my channel are already moderated anyway key words is automatically flagged think before you send that message type that comment reply to a post stop and think of how you'd feel if you was directed at you cyber bullying and trolling is nothing more than cowardice it's sad behaviors and I hate the fact that I know there are so many other people going through it if there was one thing I could change that would be one of the things no one deserves online abuse and there's never an excuse for it the effects of one message can be the difference between life and death thanks for watching this video and if you're new subscribe sorry the lighting's kind of gone down I'm using natural lighting because I'm in hospital forgot to pull out the intro I'm currently impatient for my mental health probably should have mentioned that I'm mentioning it now tats on Mars it was easy big shout out to my patreon and a big shout out to those of you who follow and support me over on twitter and instagram thank you for watching and I'll see you guys on my next one