 Discussing it with my daughter and and the idea of asking her to leave her school and all her friends and I just I felt like I just all these fears around it just seemed so Real and I felt like it wasn't I could just be very very hard thing to do to ask her to do that and And I did feel like I would be doing that to her and it's just really up for where an awareness right now lot of I guess fears around it So I thought I'd just put it out there and let you speak to it Yeah Yeah, when you go in the spiritual journey and you start to Follow the prompts and take the steps and everything for yourself you know, you will find that you do bump up against this idea of What will the steps that I take impact on others and And You know, of course, it's going to seem to go that way because the very belief in others and the belief in self and others is At the core of what the ego is So so the unwinding of that is you take the steps inward, you know, those things will get flushed up into awareness I think to the extent that you start to realize that You really want to kind of tune in as you're even talking to your daughter and working with your daughter tune in and kind of come to adjoining in mind on this because she Will seem to have her beliefs which really are just reflections of of your own and Preferences and bondings like you mentioned and so forth and then as you go much deeper. It's really an opportunity to join in the miracle I Have one friend Donna who actually Linked up with her daughter and linked up and linked up and as her daughter would go through school She started to tune More into her daughter, you know, reflecting the wanting to have miracles as the center of her life and and be the core of her life and then and then them joining together on that and even bumping up against Teachers and guidance counselors and so on and so forth Some very interesting parent teacher conferences where she decided to totally Align with her daughter and what her daughter with her and that would go in and it would seem like the teacher was completely opposed to What the daughter and the mother were? Joining on and so on and so forth and it took a lot of faith to kind of continue on Holding on to that as well and it's that just is very similar to the spiritual journey because as you have doubts about who you are Those who call them self-doubt thoughts are reflected in the world because the world is nothing more than Than a projection of the mind of consciousness So you do have to face those things So you can see where you're kind of heading closer and closer to more of these heart-to-heart Talks and heart-to-heart joining Where you just pay attention and see where you have a hesitation where you have a fear arise Where you have an embarrassment maybe arise Because as long as you know, you're Feeling a charge with anything then Then that's where the the point comes in you it comes to a self-honesty. How am I feeling about this? You know you you have a strong calling, but wherever you have a charge Like well, I don't want to force my daughter to do anything or I don't want to make it more difficult for her And so on and so forth. That's where you're going to start to bump up Against these thoughts and beliefs that you still are holding within your own mind your own consciousness Once you get to the point where You know, it's it's all the same where it's just this big play this big skit It's all your mind and everything Such a lightness and there's such a joy and I find such a playfulness that comes in And every day there's this there's laughter. There's joy. There's playfulness Today I couldn't help it. I was in looking at my computer and I read I was then going to my emails and it said Greatest basketball shot in history recorded and I thought Okay, so I clicked it on and sure enough. They was some I used to coach Kids basketball and these kids it looked pretty much like like the team I had they're out there It was it was actually at a Christian Baptist or a Christian school and And the one kid was throwing in and half-court and he took the guy dribble past it over this big guy his good foot foot foot and a half taller than the other kids just He was way far away from the basket He just caught the basketball and he turned completely away from the basket and Through the ball over his head Completely with no sight at all of it and I did a slow motion I could just see the biggest grin on his face almost like he knew the secret of the universe He couldn't wait to get his hand of the ball Big kid and he just big chubby kid He just took it and he just soon as he caught it He just went and I stopped I did a freeze-frame and I said look at his face He was just like total glee enjoys you look like Santa Claus just heaving this little sack over his head And the thing was it went all out. He had nothing but net. I mean this was a long This was he was out in their half court He just received and threw it immediately with the biggest smile on his face And then I just and all the reactions of the kids around him and everybody Would go on like this their eyes and one guy the little kid was just like going like this and the opposition and then I Was this I'm forty forty five forty nine second clip and so I watched and I had to bring Replaying it. Look at this freeze-frame shoulder the kid doing this. I said this total miracle And it was just in the total glee miracles are involuntary He just got the ball and these flunger switched it and then they all everybody piled on the People piled on and from the stands and everything almost like it was a buzzer beater You could hear something like it was maybe near the end of the game and we just watch it then The guy who who was filming it He was like going you can hear his commentary because it was he like he's like go look at that I get it just threw it up there. I got it on film I get it on film the pile on the thing and then he goes he got it on video. I Got it on video almost like a reflection like I got it on the film Which is a reflection the film was his whole mind and as soon as he said I got on a film the opposing coach Who was in red and one of the players in red? turned Pointed straight at the camera Right up into the camera and I look at the reflection there the guy who is a miraculously recorded it I got it on film and then soon as he said I got a film One two then three four and then five five faces. They reminded me of like Henry Jaglam Kind of movie, you know where he says what if this is all a movie? What if I'm making movie? What if there's a camera up in that corner and all the characters all turn and look up there It's one of these surreal moments that Jaglam puts in his movies You know or the Truman show it's all for me It's all for me You know like when he when he when he's in the car and it starts coming through the radio thing and he starts to get the feel Like it's what if it's all me so I was like they're going like oh look at this so I got you in and then I Go in the kitchen Laverne and Andy are working in there cook and stuff. I said put it all down Put the lid on it and they come in so they come in there And I'm here so you're coming look look at this and look at it get to the point here No look so they saw the shot. They're like wow I said wait no no wait and we'll listen very carefully. Yes. I got it on film and then freeze-frame look Look at this face and then look at this one and then this one and then this one over here There's like all these people five faces and a finger pointing up just Does any of you ever see the movie next with Nicholas Cage when you know? he's there and and these guys are looking at security cameras and They're going I think he's he's rigged it. He's rigged it in some way and they go and then as soon as they're talking about him As soon as they're thinking of him on the camera He turns and he looks he goes look at this. He's looking. It's like he knows we're talking about him. Yeah Yeah, because all the characters are reflections of our mind and Occasionally you get these beautiful like those little scenes from Truman show or next or in this case of 45 49 second shot of some guys filming this miraculous But over the head Hail Mary thing with a big grin on the kid's face, so he knows exactly He's just in the glory of the miracle, you know He's winging it up there without even seeing it and then you can see it all is there and then everybody Comes running to him bumping up against him, you know, they want to just touch him, you know Because it's almost like yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it's like it both Opposing coach he's thrilled the opposing players. They're all They're all smuffed up in it. They're all forget competition forget comparison forget winning and losing It's a miracle and they're all there in it And it's all one mind and if you've got the eyes to see you can even pick out those little Little pieces of of the reflections of like it's one mind when when one two three four five of them on the whole shot On the whole court. We're looking, you know Simultaneously up and the finger pointing back. It's like come on. Can you see that so that's what we're looking at here? We you know, we're just calling on the miracle to start to see that Everything without exception is the reflection of our mind and if someone or something reflects a doubt or A fear or a hurt or a lack or something back to us then that's our snub That's our snub. That's That's right where we've got to do the forgiveness work because you know, it's like that That song I quote from at least a more that at workbook lesson myself is rule of the universe It is impossible for anything to come to me unbidden by myself Even in this world a desire that rule my destiny What happens is what I desire and what does not occur is what I do not want to happen gosh That's snublessness if I've ever heard of it That is true snublessness, you know, there cannot be a snub in there if everything Happens to me. There's nothing that comes unbidden that it's like my whole perception of the whole universe is Just what I want it to be. How can I be a victim if everything is just the way I want it to be And only if the ego tries to pull out a scrap and say, oh Huh It would be good. My life would be so much easier and better If it wasn't for this little snub here and this one snubbed there and a little distraction here and a little scrap here and there That's just totally denying the all-encompassing power of who we are the all-encompassing power of our mind So you can see that this is a great opportunity to really get into the real subtleties of forgiveness They go way beyond the comparisons or you know, I mean I have to laugh I'm just I just look at that and I see a headline and I go What is the greatest basketball shot in history, you know, is it a slam dunk is it a Some big kid big chubby kid That's absolutely clueless and yet it turns into Ah Like I could slow it down Replay it, you know, and you can see it you can see oh The spirits like using it as a little teaching tool 40 45 second teaching tool, you know, it's all there Just all we have to do is have the eyes to see it