 Jazeen says, hey, I have a question. At first, I attract guys greatly, but after some time he loses interest, help. Yet you're probably doing exactly what I'm talking about here, which is a lot of women what will end up happening is they'll get a guy and he'll be really really into them and then what ends up happening is usually the guy starts out chasing women from the very beginning, right? And so a guy approaches, he pursues, he tries to push towards a sexual relationship, and then at some point what ends up typically happening is the woman's biology starts kicking in and she wants to start connecting with him, which isn't a bad thing necessarily, but what ends up happening is a lot of times women will start smothering a guy and then he'll start like kind of backing off and she's like, hey what's going on and she starts becoming like the planner and she starts taking over the masculine role and the next thing you know, she's chasing him and so I don't know much about your situation, Jazeen. You know, you might want to talk a little bit more about it, but that's that's typically what happens a lot of time with a lot of women, which is why we talk a lot about leaning back and chilling out and relaxing in a lot of these situations.