 Now aside from simply feeling these things in your body There's another component To getting sexual All right, because once again nine times out of ten of a woman who has been trained in our society to not be the aggressor to be told that that's slutty or unattractive, which isn't true whatsoever I mean if you're attracted to a woman and then as you know She fulfills the fantasy that we've grown up watching and all of our our boy movies and you know makes it easy for us We're not gonna complain But as we know most of the time that that doesn't happen so when You're feeling these things right? When she's communicating back with us that she's on that same level Then we have to typically move things forward physically If we want them to go anywhere from there Keep in mind I say if she's on that same level I mean the first thing that I'm always going to be looking for is That vibe reciprocated from her If I feel attracted to her once again, I'm not closing my eyes and thinking of a scenario that's sexy in my mind I mean either I'm attracted to the person in front of me and those things come out naturally I'm doing my best not to get in my own way or start overthinking but simply to let her know that that's how I feel I'm gonna be reading her. I'm gonna be paying very close attention To the messages. I'm getting back If she feels that energy coming from me and She makes eye contact with me if I can feel that Turn on coming from her I'm going to move things forward if on the other hand I Look at her and I'm hit by this emotion and My tone the look in my eye the expression on my face carries with it that message that attraction and I'm not getting that back if I see that she feels a little bit uncomfortable for whatever reason Maybe she's not attracted to me. There's tons of women who aren't attracted to me It's more personal taste. It's more the smell of your body the sense you give off tons of scientific studies about that More about what kind of mood she's in More about her current relationship status how are days going for whatever reason I'm getting that discomfort back that hesitancy back Shutting it off completely. I'm the last thing you want to do is make anyone feel uncomfortable Just as a human being just as a basic courtesy to other human beings And so I'm going to get back to platonic. It's very nice to meet you like I would any friend Right and this goes throughout the entire process, which I'll soon be demonstrating Because different people have different boundaries Maybe a woman who's attracted you would love to hold your hand Right, but she is not ready to kiss on a first date or on a first meeting Maybe she's down to kiss on the first meeting But she doesn't want to go any further than that And so the entire time I'm going to be expressing myself and then reading okay, where's this other person at you need both sides of it So when it comes to getting more physical to getting Sexual right because once again nine times out of ten Got myself to where I've got myself to the point where I can kind of close my eyes and bring it up and Keep in mind like what you saw up here on this stage is a pale shadow Like when there's a woman that we are really connected and we're really jiving. I mean it's going to be like this times ten right In terms of answering your question, I would say it depends on the person You