 Hashtag is why in the morning, wachild niko na maswalingu mungu na nantereji, but you are too much. Miimato, don't be shy. If you are going to Facebook, I would just happen to be on Facebook, if you are too white of a foment, zewangu shika comments. Tawa niya, we like to hear from you, we like to get your two cents. Tosa ni kama ni mi change na pata rungu, su mune nile, she will buy it to online. Wachild, what is the problem? Why do people create fake accounts? Fake accounts? Fake. Tosa wumaona, maybe mnapenda na niya mama kaku kuku, ama tuwanzana niya. Aya, manome ni kufumiliya, kwa watu ama kwa Facebook status? Kazi eno ni kufumiliya tu o ria ni, like you keep your problems to yourself mki wa tuwa pa lafu vadaiji onimna na Facebook, weka ama ni ni. Manome ni kufumiliya, iyo aya agree, manome vumiliya, lakini, in as much as una vumiliya, it will surely kill you one day. But where does all this content for kina kilimani manome come from? Sini ni nitu wuma na tleke avitu. Nisi sisa saya, the creative minds we have in juwana pustiki. What creative mind? What kind of creativity is that? Soma comments kilimani, tell me, those jokes are all of them very funny. Wezi ni nimi nitu wama ni nyama zivi, aka fikire kitu kama niyo. It's, lasmu kwenaka sense of humor for you to even to write the comment, ya kawdingaflani, especially, diyo posti zo vitu zo tia po kilimani. So, vumiliya kama manome, biya manome, vumiliya lakini, my friend, in the long run. Kwa na mese wapeshiya ni nini, secret is out. If the underlying factor happen, have someone trust you, but don't trust social media. How do you know you can trust someone? Do ya munya sidi aka post munya social media? How do you know you can trust someone? Because I don't think, is it the same for girls? Can we, Syria name me, can you keep a secret? Yes. I love also her, na itana meeting ya watu watatu. Munae za keep a secret? Yes. I love also her cycle, nende wa menda kwa mbe watu, ane wu mungine. Do you know a secret once it's shared with one person, biswa yo isha enda inje, because na atambia mungine, what's a secret? A secret is something you tell somebody, not tell somebody else. So she or he will keep on telling somebody, ana mambiya usi ambiyom se, e piya kambiyom mgnata mambiya usi ambiyom se, but the time we come to love a bit, you mean that? Aki baby, uu, you can't just believe what, na kimu se ambiyom, na kimiata umju agisun is not. Allah fuhende wa kutane tu skumota men's confrates. Ah! Demiangwa lini ambiyas nili nini. Una tukanga aji. I think the only people who can trust your secret na wazazi, ikichum na zema suji mani umu niku bumiliya, just pick up, share your problem, but mkuna wazazi, no, we have parents. So kuna bishtizakwa tede aji kusema nini ni, anza dam wazazi apo. Namun na msambiyom wazazi. Ami am wazazi. And I agree and they are very supportive and they want us to tell them. Aki ni, one thing most of us lack is the courage to tell the parent the secret. Ukuna kareji akununu nua shoka na kushapen. Ya, ukuna kareji akununu nua shoka na kushapen na kutakari mafuta na kuna safari mzema. Aki ni telling your mom or even your dad a secret? It's really hard. Onaji wafiliya African tradition, wafiliya tumekua. Kuna vituzenye atufai kushyana wazazi. Kuna vituzenye wukisha na mzazi inakani shemful. So boy child ama mtui eote anafkiri ya ekituni kizama miyama de atani wana aji sasa. So unapata ningumu kushyana mzazi. Lekini, iyo storya kuku anamtu a kushya secrets wuna eza kua na mtu. Wili wana anza kumutrast ni wuna shyana a secret kidogo. Na pima, pima. Wuna pima. And then wuna ana ipea na ipeani. Wuna shyana a secret kubu a kidogo. So unapata mtu trust ni save. Okay, but we are on the other side. That's an issue. Now another question. Is the boy child seeking attention on the internet? Is the boy child seeking attention on the internet? Do you think he is seeking attention? There are those who are seeking attention, actually. Not all of them. I can say these are percentage. Compared to girls, the percentage is small. Lekini, kuna wala nansika attention on Facebook. Ya, not Facebook, but all of our social media platforms. No, but WhatsApp status and an app you get to get it. Kata iko. Kito jayu kwa hashtag, hashtag things, hashtag there. What is the problem? So it won't get to barua kira kuchu takuana women's confluence targeted. Boy child, kutafita attention on social media. I think in a letter, in a letter by the need for approval. From whom? You see, you have like young, most of the young people that I have met and even know, there is a need for approval from the people you are living with. For example, umetoka kijijin yuko, to say me, I don't want to mention a village, just your village yuko. Ukakuja na irobi, you are now in university and then you are now trying to fit in in a group of people who have grown up in the urban setup ome kwa kikula pizza, ome kwa kikenda club and everything. So it's your first time in pizza and you want to fit in. So you try to show the world that even you know what is pizza. Because you are looking for that approval, you want those people you are staying with to be with you all the time and to now for you to join the boys club. And that's where it all comes up. The need for approval. And most of the young people, they are looking for the attention. Utape tamtu na piga picha, kila maali, kila street irobi, kila club naenda, because you are seeking for approval. Unu ingi Instagram una tag over those and people up on daddy. Una tag, mga kala miwa na tag. Adjui anafakwa ya ni na. Na tag wotre, tu na tag kukutuka desa agu kwen na jubu siyadi, kila maali. Adi sonko unam tag. Na rada sonko, ni kuna na jakior. Eh eh, you are making big moves, I have seen you. So ok, what is the solution? Solution ya? Eh, he is a certain shawking. Why do you want validation? Why do you need validation from other people? Actually, una yuki oki oki go online, kuna bilek, kuna elek ituna aim. Sii itu kuna social media influencers, so mtu okiwa influencer, it's not like you are seeking attention. You are aiming at something. Ion itu ineza kulei pasinda. Likin saizi bitu zingi na isi za kwen da online, and then you post your feelings, that will never help. Ya, mtu ni wukai cini, wu jifu kiriye, wu wana bileoneza, woneza solfu isu za kwen na ya. I am not saying social media, social media presence is a bad thing because personally I am a number one meme lover. Meme lord, meme queen, whatever you want to call me. Meme na memes to kohivi ok? And that's where I get them from social media. So this is a tool. So edit can be used for good or for misuse. Sindia, you want to tell me something? Ya, I think seeking attention from social media, that simply means you have love, self-esteem. You don't believe in yourself. As long as you believe in kusawa na klakti kusawa na, Inaza when you have to approval from somebody else, believe in yourself na onafu na klikata na dia kikusawa, you don't have to go around seeking attention from somebody else. Likini. Get those followers, in fact they just follow you. Wana jileta tu? Ya, wana jileta tu. Likini. Saib liya tunaishi. Do you think you can live without social media? Ka biisa ka biisa. I come from a generation where there was no WhatsApp. There was no Instagram. To go to Facebook uli kumenda kusai baka fe. Alo, volumikusawa. Ya ni nivu na pangalain. Ala watata yaw Facebook, it will take you like 10 minutes kubafa to kulod. So you had to have some serious patients to go off. Isosiku zili pita. We are talking about today. But we will not die. We've evolved. Do we have three extra years because now we have awareness on social media? No. Then what is the problem? Is the changing trend? Okay, trend, mwa choke baby, trend. Because what is killing us here is pressure. Uren na Instagram no na msa yame piga picha na firadi, kumbe yata siyake? And then we're building a msa yame ati, oh, we woke up like this. Ati la shizake as fake as mine, but ati amelala kama kaiwa. I know you do not sleep with them. Ske mwa kaiwa volume na pana menewe. There's a problem, guys, if we glorify social media. There's a problem. This is why we're getting so much pressure. This is why we're getting depressed, where we're comparing ourselves to people. Who are probably doing better than? Are we together? Wherever you go, you're healthy. You fool, umekula, uskibaridi, kumsafi, unaka poa, but na sumbwana na mtumigi na ko Instagrama po na 5000 likes. Will you die? You will not die, you will not die, you will not die. But then social media is here to stay. Social media is not living today, not tomorrow. Which is fine, let's just not glorify it like that. But then there is a good side of social media and there is a bad side. The bad side is that we don't know how to regulate what we post, how often we are on social media, because, example, high schoolers, wa kifunga iwi, Facebook is unbearable. Instagram you cannot stay there even one hour. Because the poster is just, me makulki do me kuji, wa me fika, sasa you have to know we are here. And then sasa wa kirudi, unapatanga, it has become now more professional, the people are posting, you know, people are major, we don't know how to regulate social media. See, niza high school has bad, we fika waza zi koni niya nani. Yes, she has good last book again. I want to look at some of us, do you know what people are? We have a post on Facebook and Twitter as well, at 254 Facebook, at 254 channel on Twitter. Hashtag is why in the morning. So we ask, do you think everything should be posted online? Do we post feelings? And this is in particular today boy child. They said, rain or swear. I don't think everything should be posted. Nobody really cares because everyone has their own battles to fight. Thank you for that. John Mungai, I see you're telling me it's not wise to post everything online, especially if you feel that post will stir some controversy or spark some conflict between you and your partner. Wa, so deep. Liam Hasbroon says it really sucks and it's a turn off when someone posts his or her emotions as for comfort. Keep it low, key and mature. Avoid sharing, sorry, showing anxiety or over excitement on social media platforms. It signals how insecure you are. Love from Bamburi. Are we in agreement here? There's insecurity. Kido butu, who wants that insecurity? Shikile apu mam. We read that once. Masikawvo says I don't think one should post their lives online. Janet Janet says kudos shaks e karibangi shaks sayo Now in this day and age we should all know not to air our dirty laundry in public. Not only is it a bad scene but also people depict your character by what you write in the end. You have but yourself to blame of what people perceive you to be. Hey, not to a kodeb. Imam Jensels, good morning. Thank God you're back on air. Kwana kana mwisho Friday, so inna take courage kwa miss kwa sho from ombas. Adasit na kwa miss Daddy. The cream says carry bag and shaks on top. At least kaya we can proudly talk ata kama afkontu lito lewanje. Situ mesama sinimara pondrana by the way. Kipjoga ya. Satpeleke isho nari, nari yang. Remember to use the hashtag now before they give me any more. Talk to me about this insecurity. Oh, there's one more. Abdu Razakwarn says communication is very vital and open, honest expression is the best way to handle matters. Ata kama ni kwa status na sosho media kuna shida as long as had to fichani na kubishana kwa kosana yashima hadarani. Wow. Alright. Okay. Junior major says atiwara shinda rambestaz thanks shaks for making us proud. Ata rambestaz to kwa proud of you. Afulu na tupe mas bui. Sidi yo, tu me kwa na. Umi e pichako ya jazim na posisyon u licheza rambestaz ndu kudiyo wongi e. Fetfefe Facebook katatatatatata hashtag is why in the morning some more APK dad comedian says shaks on top. Desu kia, betu mi ampaka link baza, I hope you ni link kia kariobangisha. Thank you. Talk to me. Do you think people are getting insecure? Yeah, I guess I think you had case of people's accounts being hacked. Na kuna msa maha kakantiyako u msa na umbayana obviously that person was supposed subservs amazo rimbaya but that's under information of to papako of it's very bad. Udapa na msa mu posipa stepambayo and you know our parents say they work for social media. Alafum baza pijapuana we think some of you unconvins come bauda zia maybe we'll start them maiki tu na haki wana this is not my stuff so you know my post so security is real and we just want to be very careful nabijet na handios. How are we going to attack what online? Are you afraid of coming to tell me to manenu unna miopon anata pichapa heta amali mi because why would you go behind a computer at now to make fan of me or to spread a lie that you know is hurtful ni ni ni napusumbua I think wana jump to action ka social media siyo pekiakutawana your friends and people around you will see it so it's a way of punishing your reputation you see I can jump on me pekiakutawana pikawewa na e na mta solve it taisya na kini nia ya kini kwa ridia wana jina so I take a social media maikupapetijan kwa sumduki na msi asom nata wana kwa mina so maze uniwewa wana nani li katiawa to through Facebook ni keki a box thank God for social media I don't know Kama ma li kwa kwa ma li pema but I actually do know someone who got married and met this mkps on Facebook so that's why I believe it's a tool you can either use it well or choose to misuse it hi Val I'm Mike social media ni mzuret know I hate it jo I'm sorry, boy child. I've had many manyakini. I look to see what Facebook na chalingli kata kwingiha boxi hake, baka ni kato kawko, ntarudi akshiya kufa. Where are your chills, baby? Where are your chills? I'm wishy pata nam to Facebook, atam njuwani, atam uko on the same area code, at ito man nodes. Nodes ni wewe, naku tumia kambaya peloti, kama ina ngo. Sawa. So you wanted to see something that doesn't have clothes, to spend money on. I want to see. Very fast. Report and not just block. Report and block. Alright. We are going to go through statistics and then you give us your final remarks and then we wrap this up. So there are 4.4 billion social media users. Internet users, sorry, this is for internet. 4.4 billion. 3.499 of those billion are active on social media. That's a lot. Social media now means you can network. Kina, the likes of LinkedIn. Am I saying it right? Yeah. So does that put a job online? So it's sort of that thing to use social media. Just use it well. A person has an average of 6 social media accounts, which is quite fascinating to me. 6 social media accounts. And the average time spent on social media is around 42 minutes a day. That's around 2.3 hours. So on Instagram, Facebook, Telegram, WhatsApp, LinkedIn too. Ha. So in all of them, Twitter, if I'm not here, the first 10 minutes and also again I believe people who have SMEs, small businesses and all this, a lot of them I see them advertising or marketing online. So say na kudiyem tu versus IG. Radama, nose and go, ama I am selling jewelleries or something like that. And I see that works for people too. But satu malizie hii in your collaboration. What are you saying to your young brother? To the young people out there, as I said earlier, social media is here to stay. Another thing about social media or the internet, I never forget. What you post today, somebody somewhere might still have access to it like 50 years to come. Go to Facebook. Ita kwa mbe 2 years ago, we have a memory about you 2 years ago. So what you post, people will still see it. And what you post is who you are, is what you do. And nowadays most of the those huge organizations, embassies, they look at your social media background. They look at your social media background. So, let's learn to filter out what we post and that will be well, I guess. Give me a short summary of what you would like to tell me. Kwa social media, social media see marionaka feelings ako. Social media see marionaka post kilakitu kusulefi ako. People are using private information from social media to attack what we need to hack their accounts, to hack their bank accounts, witu mingi mingi. So, okitumia social media vibhaya, you may end up losing everything. So unafakutumia social media visuri so that it can help you. Otherwise, wneza jipata kwa mese ni umedi ya kwa mwine na akuna bili wneza jia kwa. My advice to young boys and girls out there at even the end that whatever you post on social media might be used against you at one particular point. So, what you want to do when you are a post come and let's not do a social media at least use it maybe kupata information, what is going around kuhu, kufu zahutu kitu kizurikla unafakufanya lakini kiposti kitu kibaya at one time because I have a friend wneza social media dimangusha so kilakitu na post wneza kwa faves. This time I heard that the employer nangili asushu but a bro na siste please just be careful, just be very careful. Mali wna nani wneza tia receipt be careful. Also, I hear there is a driver and a Eugene watching us from somewhere. We want to say good morning and thank you for watching. We are about to go now. So I want you to have an amazing day in case you miss the conversation you caught it halfway. Pick the notification button so that you got all the fresh sauce when it is out. 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