 If your husband is a good guy but you're ready for divorce, you're not a bad person. So don't let guilt get the best of you. Your relationship doesn't have to be toxic to validate your feelings of wanting to leave. Think of it this way. If he's a good guy, he deserves to be happy. That means he deserves to be with somebody who values him and wants him just the way he is. If that's not you, you gotta let him go. Honestly, I think this is why a lot of young guys are scared of the idea of marriage. Why would I invest all my time, energy, money, commitment into somebody that could just end up leaving me? The truth is, unless you're grounded to God's definition of marriage, marriage means nothing. But here's the ideal, you both collectively agree and believe that it is a covenant made not just before men, but before God. This is a covenant that's not dismantled merely because you had a disagreement or somebody else seems more interesting. The problem is the world approaches marriage as a means to get, while God approaches marriage as a vessel of showing off his glory and his wonder through these two people. That in their sacrificial love, they will display his love.