 Hey everyone, here we are Another live just got the new car. Yes, that's right the new BMW X5 M Sport Pro It's a great drive Very big. I'm not just preaching this stuff on YouTube You know about leaving these knocks behind This is something actually do for real in real life. That's what it's about Leaving these knocks behind Getting out here and living your life got the sunroof Sit back and recline Look up at the stars. Oh We've got our own stars in you. But as you guys know, I don't do this stuff to brag and boast It wasn't long ago that I was suicidal I went through hell with the knocks and even today, you know, my life isn't perfect I still I still deal with a lot of stuff every day But you just got to focus on the positive, you know You've got to be grateful for what you've got No matter how big or small that may be. I remember I didn't have much at all But I was still grateful even for the little amount that I had You know, just living off 500 pounds a month. I was grateful for that Even though I wanted more, I appreciated it. So yeah, you know, I don't hide All of these amazing things that I've been blessed with in my life Because it's just about showing you that you can do it, too You really can Anyone can it all starts with that belief and I know Many people will say it's not all about money But money is important too. We need money to survive We need money to fulfill our basic human needs Like food and shelter These things are very important and once you fulfill those basic human needs It's only natural That you might want other things you might want to live a luxurious comfortable life And there's nothing wrong with that and That's what brings me to this video Everything that glitters Is not gold these narcissists Will portray things to you whether it's a lifestyle personality an Image and it's just not real They may look sparkly. They may display some kind of shine But as you get closer The more you learn about them you may realize that Their shine It's just something that they're reflecting back to you because you're the one who's really shining It's like you're the Sun and they're the moon They're just reflecting your light back to you everything that glitters is not gold They will try to make you believe That they are Real gold They use that to lure you in But you need to be able to identify that it isn't real and I hope that with this material that I'm putting out It will help you to realize And to see through the facade because no matter how intelligent you may be These narcissists can fool you I've been fooled myself many times and I know a lot of you After you've watched my videos you may think I'm very smart I've been fooled so many times and I'm not saying that I couldn't be fooled again. That's why you have to stay on top of this information You have to know what you're looking for Even if you've moved on from the narcissist that you were with before you need to safeguard yourself Against narcissists in the future. That's what this is all about Protecting yourself Because people are out there looking to take advantage of you. They see your kindness as a weakness something for them to exploit and Some people are just not to be trusted. You cannot trust These narcissists anyone Who seems too self-absorbed or lack an empathy. That's right Ronick studio You feel it in your gut when something is wrong with them Ross Rosenberg did a video on that You will feel it in your solar plexus You'll just feel it you'll know that something is wrong. You'll know that this person is too preoccupied with themselves but it's important to Remember as well what a narcissist is it's not just someone who Cares a lot about their appearance Someone who looks in the mirror a lot That's not always a narcissist. I mean many of us After we've been involved with narcissists for such a long time We might start looking in the mirror ourselves. We might start looking ourselves at ourselves like Wow, I'm not that bad after all, you know after everything they've said to me and Try to destroy myself with Maybe I actually do look okay So you might just look at yourself a Lot after that You might admire yourself That's great, you know, it's it's good to practice self care and self love There's nothing wrong with looking after yourself just because someone Wears nice clothes Or has a nice car That doesn't make them a narcissist Now if they're really going out of their budget and they're spending money that they don't have Buying things that they can't afford To maintain some kind of image Well, that's a completely different story Narcissists don't want to live within their means and what I mean by that is a sensible responsible person would think If they can't buy something twice Then they probably cannot afford it but narcissists are very impulsive They just want what they want Regardless of the expense or how it affects other people they don't think about it because all they can think about is Their image they have to portray this image of being superior to everyone around them Because it's all about Tricking themselves into thinking There's something they're not so That's what a narcissist is There's nothing wrong with looking after yourself at all And in fact, I encourage you to do that, of course either extreme Is not good if you're neglecting yourself Or you're over indulging That means that something's wrong either extreme Suggests a lack of self-worth a healthy person Will have a balance they might want to indulge from time to time But they will have limits and they will consider other people and that's really the difference but these narcissists They will do whatever it takes To display this image as though they're what you want going out of their means spending and money They don't have all of these things Because they're trying to trick you they want to make you think that they can look after you But then when it actually comes down to it You're the one who's looking after them. They present all of this stuff to you in the beginning And then time goes by and you're looking around wondering What happened to all of that it's future faking the glitter makes you think that there's something there Maybe there's some potential Maybe you might see something unfold in the future But no matter how long you wait along you wait around Nothing ever actualizes You never really see anything and a lot of them Can be very dangerous to you because they'll act like they've got so much going on Then they just need a little something from you Whether it's a loan or whatever it is and If you give them money The odds are you will never see it again. They will try and make you believe that they've already repaid you in some way Even though they may never have told you at the time that it was the repayment and Even if their potential does eventually lead to some form of success They're not gonna share that with you They're just gonna keep to themselves and if it's enough to last to the point where they don't need you You'll probably never see them again They'll probably just want to get rid of you then because they're only around when they need you When they need something from you many of us here are empaths When we see someone who needs our help We want to do whatever we can for them and there's nothing wrong with that There's nothing wrong with helping people at all my entire career my life Revolves around helping other people, but when it comes down to narcissists You should really limit the help that you're given to them because they will only see your kindness as a weakness They will only try to exploit you And you're never going to get anything back in return If you do It will be the bare minimum It will be far less Than what you ever gave to them and yet they lured you in in the beginning With glitter They made you believe that they had something to offer you something to share But then when it came down to it, they had nothing to give Like they're glowing and you'd swear that they have something to offer you You'd swear that they have something to share But no matter how much time you spend around them, you never see anything manifest and it's just you Invest in all of your time energy and money Because you think that because it glitters it must be gold and you don't get anything back initially They use the future fake in the false promises the fake epiphanies to keep you around and you're just Waiting around doing all of this stuff for them Never getting a return on your investment Some people waste their entire lives Doing all this stuff for narcissists Making their lives easier More convenient and at the end of it they get nothing and in fact they lose everything or because They thought that that glitter was real gold and these narcissists know exactly What they're doing they know that they don't have any goal to share with you They know that it's just glitter It's fake they know that but they're not gonna tell you that They're gonna try and trick you because they know that will keep you around They know that will get the what they want from you, but you need to trust your intuition Pay attention to the red flags If you've watched my videos, you should know what to look for Don't let another knock fool you They will do whatever it takes to make you believe them and you want to believe them You want to believe that it's real and then you just feed into the illusion you feed into the fantasy You're co-creating This reality with them. That's really what you're doing. You're co-creating it and when you realize that When you develop an awareness of what you're doing Then you can pull away Then you can see what's really going on Everything that glitters isn't gold Thank you all for joining this live video. There will be more premieres tomorrow So I hope to see you there