 I tried giving up on him, but he begged me to wait on him. We never met yet. How long should I wait? You shouldn't wait at all. If you haven't met a guy, you definitely shouldn't wait on him for anything. You should be out meeting other men. You should be talking to other men. You should be working on taking care of your needs, right? Stop making it about this dude that you haven't even met yet. You're not in a relationship. You're not, I mean, you're hardly even, I don't even, I don't know what's going on between you and whoever, but you're not in a relationship with him. You need to go out and meet other people and talk to other people and make sure that you're getting your needs met. Stop making it about him. Start making the goal, getting into the relationship that you actually want to have, that way you end up getting into the relationship that you want to have. And it stops being about these men, this one man, this one dude that you've never even met.