 My question revolves around the hyper acceptance in our current society and the standards that neoliberalism has in terms of clumping us with other agendas and then having those neoliberals start talking about things like Mehta Amini and Iran and them using hijab and saying it's basically like a weaponization and it's a form of oppression. So how do our young ones kind of reconcile the fact that these neoliberals want them to feel like they're welcomed but then they have to welcome everybody but then all of a sudden our black balls because of things that are happening in other parts of the world that have nothing to do with you know the commandment of hijab in our faith. So I probably am not the best person to address this I am you know but in terms of I think the question was how do we help our youth recognize it to reconcile the fact that you know there's the far left right and how they want to welcome everybody and everyone's welcome and you see those posters everywhere except for women wearing hijab because of things like Mehta Amini who unfortunately was you know executed or or killed because she was not wearing hijab and then the far left saying let's burn all the hijabs and then you see the thing that you're wearing as like a form of oppression even though you yourself are not participating in whatever their outcries are about. Yeah so you know there's a lot of extremism in our in our community right in our cultures right we go from one end to another end very quickly and part of the issue is learning and understanding what our own extremisms are within us what how do we how do we reconcile with okay if we see this happen is it logical asking ourselves these questions gaining insight into okay if one person was persecuted because of this does that mean that the entire you know symbol needs to be persecuted this is you know unfortunately media and news they don't share the entirety of the story they don't share all of that it's based off of people's feelings and emotions and thoughts and desires it comes right back to how we are interpreting that how much do we know of it and how much are we giving into it how much are we giving into that and part of the you know part of the struggle in today's generation of youth is that is to recognize what our desires are recognize what is it that we want and how is it being projected onto the community projected out into the society and how they are using that against our youth this idea that we have to be free what's the definition of freedom that's what everybody has to ask themselves what is your definition of freedom is it this is it going to this extreme because somebody was persecuted unlawfully that you're going to go ahead and just do this is that what is that what we are teaching ourselves or do we look at it from a different point of view that hey okay something bad happened here this is wrong but why are we labeling everything with it so that's sort of my thoughts about it I apologize I may not have answered that as justly as possible but I think we do need to as parents really talk about these with our youth I mean it's not just all right you got to do this and this is how it's done or this is wrong we have to explain and we have to start talking about who Allah is and what this religion is about you know we come from generations that we get we had told certain you know definitions of our being and we don't really understand the depths of it but there's so much in it so if we don't share that with our youth if we don't guide them that way if we don't get them to start thinking critically then we are already behind so if you don't do that now do it today open up talk about it you know listen listen to our youth and what they're thinking and what they're feeling because yes it's about sometimes it's about validating your own daughters at you know struggles it's about validating all of that and if you can and I'm sure daughters if you if moms just said okay baby we I understand or I'm here to listen to you I'm sure you'd open up a little bit more to your mamas as well so inshallah ma'ala make it easy that was really good thank you