 So, in case you missed it, or in case you have just joined us, what we did, the beninging of the show, we went through the newspaper to list kiazduri zingineza kufraisha, zingineza kukasirisha, I think zingineza ku uleza maswali. Ya, that's basically what happened and then after that we had an interview with a very, very surprising fire mom. I really hope you caught it and if you did not, I encourage you to find it on our YouTube at White Fire 4 Channel. However, payonezut pata 25 on Facebook, Y254 channel on Twitter, Y254 underscore channel on the ground, just head us up, ukiskiya tu, kitu tu feeling tu, natuka tu kwangileisha tu wa 254. I told you were many as presenters and as shows, so if you want to reach out, I urge you to do so any time of that day, any time of the night. Akuna kafiyu ya social media, isfukuwa ya Uganda right now, but that's a different story altogether. Hashtag iswa entamoni. My name is Valentine or atkala miwa matinanda kukafunga. Remember we have a question on our socials and we're asking you, are you feeling about the way this generation is raising their children? Are you feeling about rate? Hashtag iswa entamoni. But before that, let me allow my panelists to make known their presence. How are you? I'm fine. So, how are you? I'm fine. How are you? I'm fine. What was that hand for? I was forgetting it's a pinui. We are just how many days? 13 days in? Ya, it's been 13 days. It feels like the 7th. Ya, we are sorry. Alright, please introduce yourself to the people. Good. My name is Isaac Ake. I'm a journalist by profession. Ya, it's been a while, but it's good to be back. Thank you. And our Eza. So, I want to use a word, sagacious. Sagacious just basically means wise. So, I'll ever ever saw sagacious a guest. Her name is something I want her to say herself. How are you? Oh, I'm good. Look, all kinds of fresh though. Thanks. My name is Belinu Dide. I'm a student by profession. Yes. I'm learning. Student of life. I like that. I really... Why are you laughing, sir? Surely. Why are you laughing? Student of life. Ya, learning. It's a very good school. It is. Do we get a certificate? Because all I am getting is lessons. Maybe she can tell us. Eventually. Eventually. I don't know when, but eventually. Ya, na, so, nika manimu isho. Muko. Oh. Aluta continua. The struggle continues. Alright, so, if you will allow me to ask you, how are you feeling about this generation and how they're raising the kids? For me, it's quite different. But we must also accept that things do change. Today, I think parents have embraced dialogue rather than punishment. I can say during our time, it was more of punishment. Your mum could talk to you and I would say, so they talk as they do it. You get. When you make one move, if I knew it, I would talk to Pia and they have done it. Your father would come and find out that you've done something wrong. The first thing they'll do, they'll walk out, go to the forest, they'll come with some canes, they'll be slapped. So today, you find that they're inviting them for a talk. You're being told, what you've done is wrong, don't do it again. But for me, it's not the best way because I can always do, and I know they will tell me, don't do it again. So I'll accept now, not do it, but I continue doing it. So I prefer the older generation. The old school type. And the old school type. It was efficient. Like you already know, if I do this, it's going to be hard. This is going to happen. Okay. Belen, what do you think? The generation that we have today is a very amazing generation. They are very interesting. And for one, I think what brother is saying is just true. But also the same Bible that are munitions that we, we don't spare the road, also comes up with something like, come, let's reason together. So these two things can go together. But the generation, we have today is a very interesting generation. You don't really like it. It's not something you'll really be proud of or you appreciate because this is a generation that Achal will come up and tell you that, you know, dad, I'm not doing it. And it's just, they are looking at you, dad, I'm not doing it. And when you try the slapping way that you're trying to say, they know their rights. They land you in jail. So it's an amazing, it's something we don't really understand. But I think we messed back in the beginning. The two ought to have gone together. Come, let's reason together. And then you also don't spare the road. No, you could not even reason with your mum. Just like he's saying, nita kuchapa, no, let me kuchapa. There's no debate. You say kuchapa, you warm up. And then you say mamu muli, you say mamu muli kuchapa. Hey! Apuza su me kufa. My heart will break loose. So I think they took that one side to some extent it's not even working now. So they're trying to introduce this countless reason together that Iza is talking about, Nabi Saya. It doesn't seem to work. That's an Iwachore diagram, not because my very able, I'm not too sure the capacity he's holding today, so I'll just call him Ram. Ram today has equipped me with things. So I am just going to drive it. You won't see the diagram, but I will explain it to you, okay? So once upon a time, not too long ago, I was sitting with my grandmother and my mother. We're having a conversation. And I don't know how we landed on this particular topic. So we're actually talking about when you had totona layer squeezy, but now it was from their version. So how my mother was raised me, kupatikala unafanya kitu kibaya, point A, na unaishi maybe, let's say point E, unapigwa from A, na mwenyame kupata, na unendela kupigwa unapatukilia, point B, why is she crying? Because she did this, unapigwa piyana. Aya, wufikesi unapigwa po D, by the time you're reaching now, the person who is going to beat you properly now, I think you have learnt like four different lessons. So beating was for the whole village. Aya, sasa mimi, wengemimi melelewa. Misani kwa napigwa, nasfai kuli zamaswali. Yes. Unapigwa, no. Anakwambi ambora na kupiga, but na kupiga. Sawa. You're being explained to why you're being beaten as you are being beaten. I remember there was one time I watched her for the time I went, no, my mum came for a parent's teacher conference. And but tu yungumbaya, I had just made fun of her teacher. Na lini kuta, like she saw me. And it wasn't at a kitu very rude or very vulgar. Nili me nyanye nye tu nyu maia ke. But she duali nio na aje. Hey! Hey! So calmly to live kwa kwa nyuomba, mi na jwa kila kutuko sawa. So she's just removing her coat. So I heard that you nyanye but mami So you did what you went nyanye. I'm like, guy, did I kill her? It was not bad. Did I hurt her feelings? Like what is the problem? All I did was nyanye, guys. That's all I did. That's all I did. But I've learnt peleson. I've never nyanye that teacher ever again or any of my supervisors. I've never nyanye you because my mother taught me not to nyanye people in its roots. I think some few parents that could blend the two. Let's mix them together and they're beating. I think to some extent they are not enjoying what other people are enjoying right now. How do you? The shame that we are enjoying right now some of them are not. You know, those days, most of our mama she would beat you. It's not telling you why. Ulianda maalu kaka kama mi nkwa na tumo maziwa na takunwa barabarani. Ukuja uta uliza yu maziwa ni. Mi na taka maziwa. So mama mameshwali. Kukunwa maziwa ndomba ama ni mekasama. Ama kuli na chaapwa. But of the same, ok, next time unaji jazi atu labdai maziwa ni mekunyo njiha ni dimeletai. But angeni kalisha chinia nyanye nyanye liku tumasangapi. Maziwa yanguiko api. Ama pesa yanguiko api nyanye nyanye lala chinia. I liku atu. Maziwa yu kua api. So the two things did not work together. If you would have blended these two things together come less reason together because it is biblical. And then also don't spare the road. But today amekunwa maziwa yako na mtu dana kusana utadu. Oh my God. Mamia ki please. Next time don't unaji jazi na pesa. Aki usi fanya iwo. Iwo iwi ni sheapataku jana kato diwa si kutume. So now she has exempted you from kutume napia utakunwa maziwa. Ile makoso mi bakitupale na kwa. Eh. Ok. Isaac, before I let you speak because I heard you wanting to say something. Do you think there are benefits? For example, mimi, venya sasa iyo storya kupigwa when I do something to maybe someone in authority. Right now I'm very diplomatic. I have a type of reverence for authority. I might not like it but I will respect it to their tea. To their tea. Juezi penanakilam and in the workplace there are people who have different personalities and not every personality is very easy to handle. But I respect authority simply because kunam tu konyuma made shuwa ali. Hammer that point into my head that authority must be respected no matter how it comes. Are we together? Yes. Do you think is or lessons are going to stick more when you enforce things like discipline or types of punishment? Do you become a goatee? Amma skriziata kuende kwa ku. Baba ndo usmame kwa ku na nda time out do you think also that one is going to work? Amma nda zima wi-fi for two hours. Because of what you have done. That is the reason why we are where we are. You see when you are doing you didn't know it was a big mistake. I didn't know actually. Until your mother was like I had you and then you knew that oh what I did was wrong. You see children if you've not done something that is I mean a little bit painful to their skin sometimes they don't care about the things they do. Are you getting? Like if I start comparing the older parents and parents in the new generation you find that if you compare the two you realize that it's today that we are having very troublesome children. Because a kid will do something and then the parent will call Himoha and have a discussion simply because you believe that they know their rights. But what you're forgetting is that at what point do you let them exercise? You know sometimes you have to infringe on those rights to help them. Because for me for example if I'm doing something you know sometimes you can be told not to do something you like. So for me until you do something that will convince me that I don't really have to do it. That may be including kening me or doing something painful. Because if I do it and you talk to me then I will know ma'am will just tell me I should not do it again. I like it, let me just do it. You understand? I'll say dad atagombana lakini borata nichiapa so many funny truth. That's why you see children in this generation they acts abnormally. That's why sisi when you talk to Kiwanga Leah we feel like what are they doing? They are not made to feel some pain. You understand? So I think let me say for example a child who is 5 to 15 or even 16 let me just say under 18 they do not even have a mature brain to think. So sometimes you have to think for them and inviting them for a dialogue sometimes could escalate the situation. Because for them what I say sisi tachapua, wacha ni fanyetu I talk out I end up at night akirudia na say ma ah kwetu na ingiangatu wata mama na shida tagombana tu lakini but I say baba hapa ni simba mama hapa ni mwingine dobe there in kutana. So I prefer that yes talk to them but also at some point let them know. I don't really think that their brain is not they are not able to really capitalize what they want to do. Because just the other day I read over a school boy maybe high school mule mule muluza kwa ni numechelewa what did you do? Where did you get that brain? Those days you will come and humble yourself and even ask for mwama before you are beaten. But today the brain is so developed but in a negative way they are very horrible because where did they get that? I think the government also has got to some extent they have opened a lot of boxes for these kids we learn too much things that we are not even supposed to know. These kids are not even supposed to know but it's open to them they can access any information so they are misusing this information because when those days a child that is under 18 just like we are saying did not have that she would be canned she runs to the grandmother's place the grandmother would can you and bring you back to father and they can you again until you know that there is no any other place but here today you can then they run to the chief's office or they go to feed or whatever I don't know so I think to some extent the government also really need to help us there are a lot of information that have been opened to these kids and access you go to the internet you find a child of just class 5 she knows too much so I think the government also should now come in and also help us because obviously we've missed tungiansa ikitu na kuchapa na kuwangia concurrently it ought to have worked but so far tuleansa na kuchapa bila kuwangia you are not supposed to ask any question ma mwa are you caning me if you do that you have atapunga bido moi ako na na so I think ikitu but because now the mistake is already here with us the mistake is here with us we really just have to find a way of now rectifying it we can't run away from it another thing the government should also help us is here they should at least let them regulate the amount of information that our kids get otherwise I don't know what our grandchildren will be seeing nima na mim flanini kwa na vene tunendele a kutai kuna ma mambogda tena kusakunam tu atukayo kazi kilam tu ame kwa slikwin it's like we don't want that to happen it's like we don't want that to happen I'm not too sure slikwin na utaku na nini kwa ma kuna utaki mambogda mambogda lazima awa na mkulima lazima awa na isu kutiazakunzurinzu lakini zinajua kushika ugali so there are some pretense that I think we have just to get rid of and again I think parents parents should also be serious there is this thing we call it freedom today children have have a lot of freedom no wonder they behave the same way I like what what was her name the guest that went that madame fire mama fire mama she said that today everybody is working we all live in the morning and come in the evening that is mommy and daddy you look at that now you find that all this time from morning to evening children are free to do anything then they will smoke, mimea, bangi they will drink they will even engage in some such immorality but you know when you come back it's like nothing happened you are also exhausted you can't go into all that but you see you will not even find out you read in that newspaper about the kissy boy look at that who does that like for me I was listening when you were reading and I was like because when I was in high school you couldn't do something like that yeah but when us we were in high school there was no kovid-19 they did not stop the whole world for nine months this is not kovid-19 these are nothing to do with kovid-19 I am not defending him I am not defending him I just want to lay all the facts on the ground number one schools have not been open for almost a year nine months all right that we don't know what has been happening in people's households we are all living different lives there are some people who have online learning and things are going on as usual but they're helping out just like this there are people who have gone to the mines and these children have become adults overnight and they have to make a living there are people maybe who are not eating there are people maybe they have so many children in a household it's only the youngest who have to eat because they're young and they're developing we do not know what's going on in this person again sim tetei because that was a heinous act sim tetei in fact that knife that he had he had bought to commit suicide to kill him zelufu and then he found a teacher and then apparently he was late so he was being asked where you why you late and asked to kneel on the ground which if that does not sound normal to you I think it's a bit normal to some schools it was normal for us so when he was being told to do that that's when I guess he lost it and again sim tetei sim tetei because now that someone who has gone to hospital they also have a family they also have a wife they also have children are we together and this is a school all right but with all those facts on the ground who who are we really going to blame and why are we blaming them you know what is funny how is it funny though it's funny because it was no more during our time you are late teacher on duty would come and say all people who are late lie down that side you either lie down or you kneel down and we used to respect it if you know it's normal then not withstanding we also had problems when we were coming from we had a lot of problems don't you think it's a mental health issue then yeah and what brings it bad information yes just like the other guy he was saying that he was influenced by the movie has been waiting I was going to come to that very good very good kuna diagrami gina pa niratura okay so this other one from the kuru ramada I was just amazed guys just amazed kwa angale story kani movi enye I'm like what do you mean ina tha movi so there's this and I'm sure Kili Eve has gotten so many many more views after this okay so there's this series called Kili Eve and if you've watched it it can that that character Villanelle is some kind of character but it's just a character walae okay and after interview zake zingine she's actually a very sweet person and she's not as violent as depicted in the role that she is playing and she's wearing a costume there are cameras on her kuna continuity kuna mta nambia cut fanya evi sungapo fanya evi it's not real life so someone has watched Kili Eve all three seasons and gotten inspired inspired that is the word they used but in a negative way inspired and then he continued allegedly do these things because apparently he's just a main suspect and the investigation is ongoing so he can't pinpoint and say this and this so according to what's going on he allegedly did all those things alians yasudwe na mwenye stream me son friend wake aki kujahivi na in fact he was targeting all his family members it's just that his sisters that's the only reason that they apparently escaped and this story is again giving me goosebumps because I cannot imagine it happened in Kenya it sounds like something in the states they were just here random school shooting yeah it happened but one thing our bono contention here is not the suspect we don't know that's for the police to know sikletu na sema our children they access too much yeah they access too much our parents believe mama anaza kusata kumumamboka lakini alipe wi-fi njawututwangu zikabila wi-fi so that they watch those things you know to some extent no and then you find this panel these are the panel that used to kneel before their teachers our generation now whereby you will tell kneel ur and hands up until such attack you are tired but you have just to carry them up because she used to call the rain then they never call the rain I don't want my child to go through the same sure you know the problem is not even this child nisi siwenye wi-fi the parents this isn't up to my to my mess muna sema haro umtoto toa kujen yubani akuambie mami mma lima lini tuna maski apo bande dutaka kubanu u shikem wapu wamalini furuke watu and naji wajafina nilewa umtoto naji wajafina eleba pain so sure li wuna saibia umtoto aji kusasa umtoto anakuwa kujua I'm not supposed to be pain chitaha no so I think the problem is the poor parenting in fact all the parents should be wiped out of this surface so these kids should not have something to hang on we are really messing this kids up then when it's going to job the to the way you are saying that mama mendaka zini baba mendaka ii responsibility nwa na ume wa mehacha iya nasema this time you know babe that's the wife now niki li parent utali pa school fees what do you want this babe to do he'll have to go and seek for employment so sa kumina moja nyo temu me toka dutama mehaba kia puna me daba taku wenda shule kashosho mingini apu ata juiyu tv na iyoneria dwa kibaba kadasta kumikun oh iya ndo maria iya juiyu nini mutasuchi suwa dini steak kuku anani nini nyo temu mendaka utafuta na sa zingidini 7000 nuna utafutana matu suwa disa something unesapata kwa kitchen garden manamukia kainyumbani alewa toto iya ukuwa na ume dapunikua responsibili the way i feminist will come i don't care but that's the truth because our kids we are raising murderers now just imagine you are that parent mitu nami kuja kamaliza kila muti ame watch tv ame watch yo movie akamaliza yo generation satu me saida nini atis feminis siji slikmin let them go to hell oh i think based on the situation where we are right now i would agree with whatever she is saying because right now we are dealing with with a new generation that is very complicated there says more information than even than we do you understand like what has happened in kuru ramada that boy in kisi and the others that may not have been mentioned is a wake up call for parents to pull up their socks start finding out what your children are doing you could be in the house watching news waiting for them to cook and bring or even doing other things yet one is planning to wipe all of you and you know is not because of anything i'm surprised today even a 13-year-old boy has a smartphone a very good one they can say they can assess youtube videos they can watch everything so you may be here and you do not know what the child is planning so parents should watch out they should talk to sometimes you know you just call your son and talk to them as them what did you do today and you know nowadays parents who are a little bit intelligent about the phones you can ask them for their phone pretending that maybe you want to call someone but you can go to the preview you can see whatever most of their phones are locked these guys are terrible they are always asking for password they'll never give you that they will never give you a password everyone else will give you a password that's why they don't want to see me they don't want to know but i think here the parents should work hand in hand with the government so that the government should also help us regulate some of these things and then parents also play their rights no no i think that will really help but parents alone because some of the government say we should work hand in hand through online we should work hand in hand because online we have to work hand in hand we have to work hand in hand we have to work hand in hand so that's why the government should also help us so that the government can help us through these gadgets so what is going to happen i think we really need to regulate the information that we really is for these kids to be able to consume otherwise to take care of them we'll just be talking and then they'll kill us nowadays you even fear killing your kid because at the time they don't even know but even in schools they should start checking maybe those students because no one realized that there was a knife a knife it's a sock kwa ni kwa ni kwa ni kwa ni but but these same teachers we've had them just last year on the Anomba on Afunziwa wa pay so wapen kwa ni kwa ni kwa ni kwa ni kwa ni kwa ni kwa ni kwa na sema seo gopi kwa na ona ma bibi thank you thank you very much by the way to make to say ma one hour one hour to make time and I have done it several times kama ni uniform na taka two days of work achari ni na ya was tanwa shule wa some are we together we will wear two days of work is that what is making you happy tell us we would unataka tu paches kalagani nani just leave our school girls alone let them read let them finish school so my problem is and I'll bring in two scenarios we are trying to be hand in hand helping wear what what but there's also a threat in school the people who are supposed to be checking them are checking them out angaliya then you may grow although on those nine months monges are two hips say to gani instead of checking my pockets saying if I have harmful weapon that is what you are looking at number two last year to li kwa na fani fani stories all you hear they've been around 13 people been caught in one house doing God knows what naked tafa dali and all these people are between the ages of 13 and and 17 ikyenda sana 17 and these people at someone's house and the person of the owner of the house is 40 years old and above help me help me or my rentisha the space for that time it doesn't sound like it's safe even when it's supposed to be safe for them so why are we not known when they do wear things wow I also think you know ignorance of the law doesn't mean that you should be excused if you are 40 years old and you have accommodated more than 10 teenagers in your house drinking I mean dancing naked and all that what are you trying to do really that is someone that legal action should be taken against that person it's it's as simple as that the only the only problem you're having again today is that nobody is willing to talk like if I'm your neighbor and I know you're doing something wrong I just say it's your business sometimes they want hosting this because you are land lord and you haven't paid rent how will you dare look at that interest again how will you dare you go and report your land lord until you are weighing him wow it doesn't matter it's not a mummu it's not a mummu so the day we will come out of all those restrictions I think that's the time we will be able to transform our society but they shall have wiped us out because it's terrible it's horrible by the way but I think parents and I still maintain and insist the government and then it must work together they should work together let them also impose some restrictions let them pay these teachers let teachers be paid so that at least do they still do that kwa na kunyua na mazia wa toto which is not good which school is that and now I think the government that job was just by the way but I think the government should really come in and help us let them pay teachers yeah so that they do their work what is that kwa na kwa nga le wa toto it na postage na shukila fengeshum na naifina dem shikia oh li kwa umemtenken kanzun de at least imuende baka 4th form mama whichever aki fika pokatia na tafutaka teila imu aki runi njuwa na zain dem njuwa uli toka na pa njubani kwe kwa chai we are a little bit a little bit just the guilty of something like that because na kumpukati kenda fanki high school le tuliko of course tu na checki u mukuam na penda kutu check kia insa watu so hana to checki kengia kwa basi everyone is decent everyone looks nice aha by the time tu nengia kwa basi tu mevangu ondani sotu na tayo kubuat na baki na ndogo by the time we are coming back to school tu na vast uniform ingini tofa uti caption iya kili wali toa watu toa I don't know I don't know wama watch kwa isi riyana kwa ni ni ni see wama watch we have a problem we got the societies we are not we are not doing so well we can't assume and it is it cuts across umtotoa pasta mehari bika umtotoa ma lima mehari bika umtotoa politisha na kila umtutu kila umtutu so I think everybody should just come up because nobody is exempted and today you cannot say the ones in urban are more rotten than the ones in the village today they transmitted all over the place because we have these ones who are coming here and then they go to school in their rural areas so they still take the behavior there kwanza haondi o kuki long time ago a man used to say I want to go and get a wife back in my village ebu muleti apasiti only one week haondi chippo that's terrible we say ma kwa ground between is different we even used to say I will go to church when I want to look for a wife material yeah but now church is now church village now the worst don't even try it oh my god you'd rather do it wherever you want but I go and pick somebody from the back she might make a good mother a mother of your kids this is a very confusing but these are not here there's some there's a problem somewhere here where do we meet where the villagers and the town dwellers they're just the same where did we meet yeah I think it's just this information the problem here is information is too much internet hey internet imagine when I was watching a movie the father is down mother is down she says haa haa sure yeah I figured it's just a matter of time what I am looking for and I don't know who brought the idea that you can buy your wife and install in your house that's today technology parents what's the problem I mean you know there are things that I think we don't need there we don't need and they're expensive I mean come up here and say ma mtoto anasema I mean parent anasema mtoto mtoto ango awezi kabila wi-fi nata kani kimwacha kwa numba tlista kona kwa wi-fi asi yende inje asi yende inje and in case of ma mtoto anasema oh ana ribiki apakwa kwa what you don't know he's watching it's here and when you when you give him or her little bit of time practice they're going to practice it yes if you kimzuhi asi yende inje si kuna dada kia pandani inyumba haa haa si kwezi nisa anasema surely God where do we even start okay what we're going to do is we're going to just listen to your thoughts you the view one I tried for Facebook quite for channel on twitter hashtag is why in the morning we're trying to figure out how you feel about how this generation is raising their kids hey man james our staff students says good morning tabloan mombasa is tuning we are together he says this is my only sorry this is only my point of view we all agree to disagree but if you want a peaceful life to not neglect or push away your children that pain never goes away and some go to an extent of discriminating them and showing love and affection to one child as a human obviously we will feel jealous and when jealousy is formed we start getting hatred which can cause death and coincidentally this is part of the karura story ati apparently the the guy Lawrence felt as if his younger siblings were being treated better than he was alright so again we have Isma De Bois says tuning Shikondongo says tuning producer magusto alo tabloan inside I see you and I see a Hilary Bayer says nowadays siyoni slipa ziki fanya kazi like before who is that and it was Hilary Bayer mumangu a li kwa na aim mumangu a li kwa na kimbia she used to run track as in she used to run professionally run track and then she was a really good swimmer so ni kwa na ambia watu wana ni ambia zovit wana fanya kwa wana sema hey bro mi siyizi jaribu siyizi hipa mamangu ata kimbia ni kuute kwanjiya I can't even pretend to swim she'll catch me in there that's when I knew our homes are different different very different to you the things you do in your home I might not be able to in mind alright so we have Newton says kapsabets andani was siku wana was wizi wana request wakufanya duties wakatisi sii li kwa mandat okay baba uto ushaviyombo mumsi ni jana niliyosha ara ni me choka masiinde kutuka vumi liya sezen kondani esho kitambu kitambu uli kwa ukiliya eti totonya maza hei na kubaiya juice aweruakibu says kitambu kiboku li kwa inafanya kazi na kula ni suwa toto I remember very well too lazima unge adibiwa na mzaziwa ko unge patukana off guard saa ika baba na kamam kizazi chasa saa hi ni kutupa naivaasha mi rera prezend wei nisi yoni kama nishi jai toa kaba mama kamamsi jui I don't remember like that but it's okay it's okay right now it's about you try to reform facebook now we're going to slide over to our twitter page that is white five four channel so we have zero gravity he says saa ii umtoto aizi pigoviyo but during our days umtoto ali kwa wa community wala wana cha pana kila umtoto everybody everybody just gets opportunity to beat you and na utambiwa thanks thank you for beating me tell thank you for disciplining thank you eman chains again I said the river it's a new generation kids always after new things and new ways until something bad happens hi okay miss branda says respect hakuna hakuna ah ah ah isn't it point by point respect hakuna tabia hakuna utu hamna we are just going to know where i'm 20 years anakusho life ni had how we need to go back to the 80s that is wisdom you have given rich tom let's go back yeah but there's no way we're going back and this a rap just accept she's not gonna be I go nema za mba yes i remember bati kusari kete na kwa nama punan nama punan kuna bila esu ali explain ha ha nisi ati urodi kwa tumbo yama mama doutaka ten Mwa mwa mwa mwa hibu Jumi godema sada hikwa na dani Boda ke Boda hikwa tumbo atokete Atokete Aga mwa mwa mwa, apa nase hibu Wende wengizwe kwa imagine douto So what we are saying Not that we go back to 1980s We cannot go like that But we can apply some of the Some of the policies and rules we were applying then To see if they can work today For example, mimi nashi hibu Hikwa itam douto mama, baba Duit dadi, nani Wachana na hizu muite we Wacha hibu But you know, names are just Names only serve two purposes Name is for identification purposes Sada ni muite mami Will not stop me from hitting them I will beat them But you don't do it Mam But you should do it So names To see kada names Names is for identification purposes And the fulfilment of prophecies God is watching Kuna ita wako aji Mami Look at that I love you But I am not mami Eh, but na jone kigewza sura See mami ita ena Okay But what we are saying Kuna jokuna ele kuchapa to correct Not ele kuchapa to kill For sport O to heart Kuna atu eti kwa li kuna enjoy sana kutupiga I love you Kuna ele tu unauna Uyu, uyami fanya mistake Kumkorek tu kidogo Tu siimbaya That is what we are encouraging And another thing Na jokitambo Somebody else could beat you You could not even You could dare go and tell your mam or your dad Atakongeze Because they will tell you Oh, that's what you did Write down They'll do it again Now where people lost trust It's a situation whereby People stopped trusting Other people's motives Kuna eza pata We disagreed with you Now you are going to look for my child Then beat Na wudu tole asera So ele kuja ikaleta shida Because now we don't trust Why are you doing it What motive do you have So at some point We lost that trust That is where we stopped But I think Someone with a good motive If they do it I mean But it is not easy to know Such motives Because somebody will just meet your kid Your kid was number one The other term Waka kavuta nyoma Lafame pata kwa shida Siya tia na kujapu mefa niyama kosa So somebody will just meet your kid And say Let me just say Anam cha patu kumumizia And the next term Atakenda shula have na jichu Madya wa siwa na onaw Iza butu kwa bod vizu Aku epea bottom So it's not that easy To read such motives Na na Then I think when it comes to that We didn't now need divine intervention Because how will you know That you are just okay Training my child In a better way That you would have done Even to your own It is not easy Then we surrender these kids back to God But they don't go to church You tell them go to church At a branch and take wapachi Ya This is my last question Before we wrap this up Okay So say Umu meni ceketia ni kapa Ongoja What's going on Tweet perform Facebook Tweet perform channel Twitter hashtag is Why in the morning So basically Na tkaku juwa Ii storya kwa na dialogue Talking to your children Na na Mr. Zaza So I am still writing down notes So keep them coming So storya dialogue And talking to your child Is it still okay Kus now You might be like Museveni You're beating me You're a tyrant Tata staki karibia But in the same Dafa niya tooken yun asema Versus I want to say But be fine Who's a person of the people But I want I want Or is there a balance Between Disciplinarian And you still love me Versus Weni wakunipiga tu Sezera kujeni kwa mbe storya In fact I'll probably get into trouble Just because I'm too scared To come talk to you Is there a balance Ya I think But a very good question But it goes with age There is age Let's say Between maybe Zero to Seven or ten At that point Um Discussion may not Dialogue may not apply So you punish Diligently And then Maybe from Ten eleven That one now Even beating Cannot help It's only dialogue that can help So you have to weigh At this point We can talk At this point No, no, we don't talk I act Because now What will you discuss With a five-year-old Or six or seven Hey, I have a walk Had baby knees And I'm like I'm not ready to go Look at that So nimpaka I have meeting Mami is working tomorrow So that's why we have to leave Mami I'm not ready And they have a discussion They talk about it So that age you act Then maybe eleven The ones you can reason with You talk You tell them This is wrong, please don't do it So there is a point You have to Punish at times You talk In our homes There's nothing like age My young sister tried that Madness with my mother When she was in Form 4 She did not like it To date She didn't like it Because she now She was feeling that she's a woman She has grown Yes Form 4 She did not like it I know wherever she is She didn't like it at all Now What There's another challenge here You that you want to talk to This kid Who are you Because You will not correct a child When you yourself Mama Don't allow this man To be teasing you around It is bad And you You came back late last night Drunk With a stranger in the house Uncle The other one was uncle This one is also uncle Then you want to sit this down And you know Sure do you Where I think this This salvation must come from us first Before we divide it to our kids Parents are rotten Yes I know the economy is very hard If you are in a single room With your kids At least practice some morals So that Sometimes you don't even need to tell them They know that Mami cannot tolerate this There are things you don't even need To tell your children And in our home Like me personally In our home Kuna majina wezi ita mutu Umami mutu nim jinga Nini iyo tuwa na Si kuizu nimi kwa ni kama kwa Atwe kwa nda wuku Pelika wu jinga bali Kwe tu unge ufanya ivo So akuna mutu tuwa kwa mbe nimbaya But you just find that he's a tabu But kama kwa kwa uemu niyo uli ita babake Ah, kwa nda kwa nuleviu Kwa uemu jinga bali Then na keshu nama mbeo na No, toto Now that's a five year Whatever the age you are seeing Nama mbeo usifanya ivo Ataku skiza So we have a problem As a society Yes And I think that's the most important thing Parents are more worse Because there is no way You are going to do what she is saying And then you expect your kids to be better Kus kids copy They copy the environment They hear, they hear, they hear They go see So before you correct your child Be corrected first And as another nobody will correct you It is within you now What do I really need for my generation How do I affect my generation How do I affect my environment Otherwise We are lying to ourselves Because Kuna mwali mutu juzi Mwali mutu Siju ali patakimistia naake na Na boyfriend Ali mchapa Isas iyo age u nasema waku chapa Ali mchapa mpa kaka muwa Ha ya Yes, ali muwa De ma kaha Because ali mpata na bo Boyfriend waki waki onge Ma mututu nasema wakua na discuss Exams God knows which exams During corona It was there And it died So it's not that easy Ya What I said was You only Punish to correct Not to kill Okay Oya muwa Oya muwa We don't know where we'll be Because we're going to have a lot of lab trauma I don't know Obviously We can't understand We don't know We can't understand Because we don't know We can't know where we'll be Because we don't know But we don't know We know where you'll be So when we go to the market We don't know So we don't know When you were chips How were chips? We were chips, material, anyway That is just beyond the point I don't know how time has come to an end today But I would like you to please tell us how we can find you on social media You're so entertaining we also want to come see you there I'm just on Facebook That's all. Or you come to my house if you need me. Ya, for me, I'm on Instagram and Twitter. You can find me at Lucid Isaac. Yes. I like that. You're always Lucid. Before we conclude, I just want to say three things. If we can try as parents, let's try the parents, government want to say, then above all, let's give it back to God. Ya, because in the beginning it was not so. So if it was not so, we cannot insist and challenge God that it should be so now. Let's just go back to our roots. I can also add one. Yes, you may. I'm just saying that as parents now, we are the best teachers to our kids. So let's begin on our children, where we can talk to them, let's talk to them. But let's also behave well. Yes. 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