 today well I think most companies are closed today because of Juneteenth which is the 19th but most jobs gave us the 18th off so my vacation officially starts today guys so you guys know I am gonna be taking a trip just a quick trip to probably Miami also but I am going to Florida to visit some family into have a good old time and I'm gonna vlog most of the trip so you guys can see what I do when I'm out there not staying long but I do have a lot more time off of work I will probably take a trip an additional trip I may think about switching my flight to a multi-city flight and just go ahead straight to New York or to LA I'm not too sure yet honestly is where the wind blows me on this one so we shall see but I'm gonna drop some stuff off at the post office now for a friend of mine she left her glasses here at a restaurant in Atlanta and we freaked out because we saw a big old waterbug and they didn't take them so which is great so I'm gonna take them I should have sent them last she's probably waiting for them I'm gonna tell her that I sent them today and you know try my best to get them there as quickly as I can so I'll be back let me go inside here and you know get this handle with her in my car it just seems so dusty in here so what I'll do is I think I'll go get a car wash I think it's gonna rain today in Georgia let me go inside and get right back to you guys if people have a mask in there I think so are you guys still wearing masks cuz I am did you guys get vaccinated I have a lot of questions alright guys I'll be right back so guys I just came out of the post office and let me tell you something you know when you work in I don't care what it is starting the week I am your destination if you are in customer service your behind need to have a little bit more patience in I don't know this guy I just can't stand him like okay I don't know I don't want to say it's because he's you know on the other side but his attitude like I hate going in there and I try to be as pleasant as possible but Lord I cannot so this is my thing if you are I look really red in this it's so bright outside if you are gonna work at customer service guys you gotta have a little bit more patience okay well it wasn't even crowded in there I wasn't taking along or anything like that but he was he's just an asshole okay I don't even want to curse y'all you want to sit happy up I don't even want to curse but he's an ass you hear me like he's just an asshole and I don't like going in there and I part of me sometimes I'm like do I do this survey and just say how nasty he is and I have a friend that she knows that I hate going in there but look like I would have just choked him out but you know what I'm just not I'm just saying he's just so staying you know bottom line is if you're working customer service anywhere restaurant post office not be a a-hole working behind the counter we didn't make you get the job there we didn't actually work there there's other people that would love to be behind their helping you know what I'm saying I'm not complaining but I just I can't stand staying I cannot stand staying people like I can't stand it now granted I am not the most approachable-looking woman okay how and but when you get to like when you start talking to me I'm just like a black mouth I just I laugh I crack jokes all day it's just something that I do right and you know I work in a place where I have to deal with people from another state and the bottom line is I've always worked in corporate I am a hundred percent a work from home work of employee but right to this I've worked in New York City my whole life and you know dealing with all types of people from Asian Indian I don't care Middle Eastern whatever they were not stank they were not stank you know and I just feel like people need to do a better freaking job I don't know that's just me ranting of the stank people that I encounter when I'm going and you know what I remember going to what was it some restaurant in Atlanta where it was in the restaurant like a before I went vegan it was like a burger spot and the little girl she just she was nasty and I don't know if it's because sometimes I look younger I look so red on camera I don't know sometimes I look younger then they expect but I'm just not to be played with when it comes to attitude because you know I treat everybody with respect I don't care what kind of job you have you know it's just what it is it doesn't mean that you treat somebody less than because they have you know a different type of job I'm just not that person let me see if I can fix this lighting because it seems very very very bright in here and look at these cars trying to um did I darken it up some I think so it just seemed really bright so um so um yeah sorry the guy was trying to get behind me but um yeah so she had a she was pleasant to some and then as soon as I got up there and I'm just like baby this I'm not the one I am not the one to have an attitude with and and think that I'm just gonna just like let it slide absolutely not let me tell you something I will tell anybody this in life you give people what they give you do not give them more do not give them less because at the end of the day you end up being depleted from just shit okay so you know just give people what they give you and then they'll notice it especially if you are a person who's like always giving all of yourself to people and then you all of a sudden just give them exactly what they give you oh they're definitely gonna notice they're gonna think something is wrong and yeah there's something wrong you just given you giving them a dose of their own medicine do that because bottom line is I know a lot of people who deplete themselves to always give and give and give and then they're tired because they're always giving in other people and never point back into them you know so I you know I am a firm believer of that and I think I am like this because as you guys know my mom passed away I don't even think I ever told the story but she passed away in 2007 she had breast cancer and you know she kind of chose to put her kids first you know and I wish she would have put her health first but she was a single mom and she really wanted to make sure that her kids went to college and stuff and you know she did her best so but she poured into her kids she poured into us of course we poured back into her when she ended up getting sick I took care of her I was pretty young but it was just something that I had to do you know why because she poured into me her entire life she poured into me I'm the oldest she poured into me so it was nothing for me to pour back and to stop what I was doing with what I had going on in my life to make sure that my mom was good so and this is what I say sometimes about men and women who kind of bail on their children you know you have single fathers and you have a lot of single mothers out here and to me even though some people don't work out in a relationship or a marriage it does not mean that all bets are off with the kids like you don't just take care of your kids you don't get to do that you don't get to do that and it makes me sick to my stomach when men and some women who actually have to pay child support have a problem with paying child support it's called child support okay your kid has to still eat your kid probably maybe in diapers your kid may do extracurricular activities all these things that the parent who has who has the kid has to do you have time to get up and do what you want to do while the parent who actually has the kid at home living with them they have to calculate every move because they have their kid with them they have to plan a vacation you know they can't just jump up and go I don't have children but I see it a lot and I'm just like you know it just it just I don't know it just it just pains my heart sometimes when I see women who always have to try to figure it out and you know it's just it's sad I do feel like women should you know child support is important now okay it's important however I will give you a scenario if your kids father is in jail or something locked up many many moons ago right let's just say got locked up many moons ago right and he's he's you know he's getting out I don't personally think putting him on child support right away is the smartest thing to do now I don't have kids but I just don't think it's smart because he has not even tried to like I don't know like get it together I don't feel sorry for people but I'm just saying logically give give shit there are women who are locked up to who come home and have to deal with this to give the person a chance to get on their feet so if you see in six months they are still lollyganging they're not making an effort