 Rough time at the moment. Hey, the YouTube's actually up. Oh My god Now there's gonna be like three different separate videos on my YouTube channel just have like four seconds long Okay Releskaity asks do you have any thoughts on a rejection sensitive dysphoria? I do I know it's something that's that's talked a lot in terms of ADHD but I think that You know a lot of the experiences that autistic people have is specifically during Teenagered adolescence during school It tend to be fairly negative and we experience a lot of rejection from all sides All sides of the spectrum in life I know it's something that I experienced a lot whether it was you know me trying to find someone to have a Relationship with whether me try to find some friends but a friend group I was always very sensitive to that kind of stuff and I think I Think as well, you know going into adulthood having that sort of looming negative bias about my experiences when I was younger and having sort of those inbuilt reactions and Defense mechanisms, they didn't really lend themselves very well to me Dealing with rejection in adulthood. It's kind of like You know, oh here we go again. Something bad happens that kind of thing I Don't know if there's that there's been any any sort of research Specifically around that and I know that a lot of people have been talking to me about how You know the common reaction to people saying that you you have that kind of RSD tendency is that you know, well, everyone experiences rejection and rejections horrible to everybody and I think that that's it's kind of a wrong attitude to have about stuff like that because the reason why those turns have come about is because You experience it to a very great degree and you experience it almost immediately and there's this like really intense emotional response with like loads of withdrawal There's a self-esteem issues following even for like the smallest things. So it's kind of You know, I think it's very dependent on the person Hello viewers to the YouTube welcome to the stream. I have set this up like two times and failed to Choose the correct settings. So there will be like some really short videos on my channel I'll have to go through and delete them So, um, I just want to ask something because I've been talking to A Russian guy who is wanting to help me was sort of setting up with streaming and stuff and I'm thinking of doing some more commentary type Stuff like on different YouTube videos that are popular at the time different sort of hot topics and issues and things of that nature If you watched like other streamers before like, I don't know asman gold or Hassan That's that's the kind of style that I'm wanting to go for but I'm also wanting to perhaps dedicate like a day of streaming to like Indie games or like roguelikes or you know stuff like that something that's chill I can not feel like I have to be concentrated on it on it all the time because that's is that is one of the Biggest issues that I have it's the multitasking element. It's like two things at once It's it's sometimes a bit hard to a bit hard to manage sometimes I have time Managed to sort it out the camera is on Any travel trips plans coming up for you, um Not really not the moment. I do have this really big project that I'm Waking on at the moment, which may require me to travel to America at some point. So Could be traveling to the US possibly. I don't have any like leisure trips that are scheduled in to do at the moment By I'm wanting at the mechanics and get my business out to Start doing some more like public speaking events and training events in person. So that should be really cool Yeah, traveling is cool It takes a little bit time to get used to especially if you've been out of practice for a while though like It's the same with anything in life really for me. It's like if I haven't socialized for a long time I'm gonna Finally a little bit more stressful than usual But then if if I have done for a while and I go to an event It's it's a little bit easy for me to get like in the groove of it and I think it's the same with traveling So whenever I do set out to do like a traveling holiday and stuff I like to like bulk it together. So I'll do like instead of making like two trips a year or something. I'd love to You know, like travel to some different places do a bit of like the back to back packy kind of Sort of holiday, you know see places talk to new people from different cultures That's that's what I like to do I'm autistic too and I'm struggling with body addictions. What does what do you mean by body addictions? Oh No, I don't I don't know Adolf what what's happening to her. What's what's occurring? We used to be good friends. I Think what we just ran into a sort of some sort of like issue within our friendship like I think she was thinking that I was like this this really bad person or something that I Don't know. I made like a really You know a post and I thought it was fine and it wasn't necessarily received in the best light and She got in touch and she was like, you know, this is not You know accusing me of being a bad person and stuff. So I don't know I have good, you know rapport rapport with her. I think she's a great creator and You know, it's But yeah, I'd like to know what's happening with her Yeah, um, I don't know. I think it would be because I'm working with someone who's like a celebrity. So I will be working Possibly traveling to like I don't know what where is Hollywood? somewhere somewhere near Hollywood somewhere near like the media place Uptem says on YouTube that They can't travel anywhere due to the war That's that must be really tough Like no lies. Um Yeah, it must be really hard Janie says I find dating or having romantic relationships It's so difficult these days because everyone wants to travel the word now and I need time to build up and get used to the idea totally I Think as well if you're It's it's quite a bit. I don't know for you, but it's quite a big thing for me to like go traveling with someone because I Need to feel like completely comfortable and like on top of things when I'm traveling and if I don't then I get Pretty bad anxiety Around it, you know, I like to know exactly what I'm doing that kind of thing Find traveling difficulty to sensory everyone. Yeah Totally Yeah, it's it is stress and it yeah is a good stress I think You know, sometimes it is good to to expose yourself to some level of like stress and different things But I think I think for us we need to be kind of a bit more careful around how we go about doing it It's like Instead of going in and just just going for like a two-month trip Might be good to do like do a couple of smaller trips beforehand just to get used to the Feeling of being in a different place and coping with anxiety in the organization and stuff. So I Think so she got banned. Oh I Don't think I'll be doing any acting Relic Katie It'll be more like media stuff Why do what what was the post like? Why did you why did she get banned? like before diving with a scuba totally or I've got a funny story There's there's probably one of the the most silly things that I've ever done in my life but basically I was um For anyone who knows I took a year abroad in Thailand So I went and I studied mosquitoes there and I did all sorts of different Crazy adventures on the side and there was this one one time that we went to this Park near it was near Chiang Mai and I Sorry, I'm just reading the chart Yeah, it was it was near Chiang Mai and it was this this place it was Kind of it was called the light the Grand Canyon water park or something It was really cool. They had like some massive like inflatable Park in there that these these weird Like water contraptions that you have to like bounce on to keep it going like kind of like water water skater It's pretty cool, but there was this cushion. There's sort of Dean like This this sort of water I'm doing a terrible job of explaining this this cushion on the water and people sat on the end of it And then people went up to the top of this like ladder and jumped off and then the person on the end of it would just fly off and I saw someone doing it with like two people and I Was like, hey, you know, it'll be a really great idea What what why don't I have free people jump on to it and and see how I do with that? So I sat on the end of it and there's about three people who just Jumped on to this inflatable cushion. I've got no word of a lie. I went about I Went past the place that they jump off they jumped off. So I went flying off and I was like free-falling in the What happened but the figures I had no anxiety beforehand because I wasn't expecting to go so high And I I pretty I got like pretty bad we plashed from doing it as well It was really not a good idea Yeah, I went like You know like one and a half times the place that they jumped off, which was probably about five meters seven meters Bit crazy. I shouldn't have done that wait, so She wrote that she was kidnapping a friend and That was offensive That's weird. Is it like it's she been like completely outright banned or is it like a temporary thing? Or does she not know because that's our social media platforms do this stuff That sounds like proper summer fun. Yeah That's a weird for it. I thought I was brave jumping off like the seven meter cliff that they had but No, I should have been a lot more hesitant about the inflatable cushion You don't know That sounds really tough. I actually get sort of count back. She's she's got up like a really good following on the Instagram It's a seems a shame that she'd be have to give that stuff up. It's really tough Um, it's trying to think of what else I've done this week. I've had pretty chill week to be honest I haven't really been doing much If you follow you can still see a page. Yeah That's a good sign So they haven't like completely removed it Hmm, I'm gonna check a page. Yeah, we did a a podcast back in Okay, I just show up on Google weird. Oh Wait, no, I'm chopping on the wrong name. No, it's not it's not showing up. Oh It's you have to follow her. Okay. Okay Yeah, I do I well Sort of I play it on and off as many people do Old school RuneScape is Something that I picked up. I think during lockdown. I was looking for like some games to play while I listened to like audiobooks So I can't read I found it really difficult to like follow the words on the page And I was like miss miss and then I go off in my head And I I think about certain things and then I come back to reading again. Don't know where I am But um, yeah rescape used to be something that I played a lot, you know, it's It's good It's a good game and I made I made a friend on there who I'm really close to Turns out that the new person I interacted on there was also autistic, which I thought was quite funny Um But it's good I like to do the really boring stuff though old school. Mmm. I Like to do the boring stuff like chopping down a tree or running a jet an agility course or something like that Yeah, you've never played it before It's um, it's pretty cool. It's good. It's got a good community around it sort of I mean It's got a big community around it And the people on that I've tried to avoid being always been quite nice and stuff But now is more about something that I did just to like wind down in the evening just like chops and trees and just like Watch the numbers going up. Sounds like it like Stardew Valley Maybe maybe I'm always very hesitant start new games because I tend to get very like Into it. Hmm Jane it says recently started streaming on twitch playing horror games. It's good fun and gives you a focus definitely recommend Yeah, I I heard someone else. Um, you did that. I think one of my my youtube members He uh, he does is into like bodybuilding and stuff and he he does some some streaming on that Um It did it will pull you in. Yes I like animal crossing animal crossing was something I really enjoyed Although I got to a point where I was getting frustrated with my progress So I I I use like a duplication glip glitch on the money And I just yeah, it was not a good idea because I pretty much just like ruined the fun for me with like I'm bringing up You stream on twitch for six years. Wow Holy damn Yeah, it's it's That's that's pretty cool I am interested in doing it. I don't know if to be honest. I don't know if it'll be a good idea to stream on youtube or stream on twitch Because I'm not necessarily going to be gaming all that much. I don't think Maybe just be watching like Different things you dropped it because of work. Yeah Yeah, I think that's the issue that I have because if I'm going to start I want to be consistent and I'd want to I'd want to stream for like um I don't know. I'd want to do some long streams and I'd probably only be able to do the streaming during the evening So I'd have to check if that's like a good time to do it or not If you tried discord for streaming now Although I am working with go from planet aspy on um creating a discord sort of subgroups in her discord around My podcast and around like different aspects of this work that I do YouTube's pretty better for general stuff. Yeah I think it'd work as well because it's You know, it's something that I feel like I can I don't know I'll have to think about it Yeah, once a week. I could try that Yeah, I'd really like to do that. I just I know that I think what what what I'm really Would be looking for with doing the streaming is to be able to like chop up the clips and like um Post them on my youtube channel is like separate clips about different videos because I feel like For me, it's been particularly quite hard to grow on youtube With the type of work that I'm doing and I think it would be good to have some More of like the mainstream audience come on Just do like raise awareness for like non-autistic people Neurotypicals Anyway, um I should probably talk about something that's not streaming and probably related to autism. So I'm going to have a look at my page um If it will show up Hey, look Thomas only is alive. Yes. I am I talked about maintaining friendships This weekend this this week Talked about um being autistic in the gym Uh, I talked about trigger stacking which You know my post this week my longer form like carousel posts this week I haven't been doing very well. I don't know why but I guess that's how it goes Talked about interception bit about the uh coke bottle bottle effects Very we're really wanting to sort of dive into more like the aspect of trigger stacking because I feel Although it is something that is being created for like um Like dog owners and stuff I feel like a lot of the concepts in there can be quite useful for Sort of understanding the ways and times that we have meltdowns like because is basically All the stuff around this this trigger stacking concept is around cortisol And cortisol is something that everyone has and the idea of trigger stacking is that when you experience multiple stressful events over a long period of time and In a short no not over a long period over a short period of time um, this cortisol is released and it kind of builds up And then once you get to a point Where that cortisol is really high you become very sensitized to different um stressful events So it's basically like you've had a really hard day You've had a lot of difficulties. Um You've got people You've had a confrontation at work. You've had some anxiety Just generally throughout the week and then something small happens like you can't find your keys for your house and It just absolutely just tips you over the edge and you just get Absolutely overwhelmed out of something that's so small and I think a lot of people can put a lot of pressure on themselves for um You know For having an issue With managing their stress levels um In that time I think for me as well definitely because there's often stuff in my own life like if I have like a small inconvenience um it's uh I've I've got very upset at myself sometimes about how How little it took for me to like tip over in the edge and have like a shutdown or a meltdown or going on verbal but um I think understanding that was really interesting. There's that there's another study on autism and um sort of cortisol in general and they've they've shown that Autistic people release more cortisol than most people And it also stays up for longer That means that you know, it might take us a lot more time to sort of rid that cortisol from our system Awareness to be good acceptance would be better. Sure. Definitely You like the podcast I'm glad I did talk about sui on the podcast which is um It's it's a bit of a hard one. I I really Like it with my podcast titles to be like straight to the point about what I'm talking about But I knew that if I called it something like that um If I was very direct about what we were speaking about in that podcast it would have been A little bit too much for the algorithm to push me out. So I had to be very careful with my wording I think it's a good it was a good podcast to talk about sui because it you know, um It is definitely like a big thing within the autistic community in terms of Just how prevalent is even even at young ages So it's kind of I think it is important with that that stuff to really speak about it Yeah, I did very well with the podcast. I'm glad It was a hard one There's a hard one to talk about but um, I think it's really important Hey, jay true love. How you doing? I just want to Say again you guys on instagram if you want to ask some questions You're very welcome to you can comment or you can use the little chat feature Um either of those would work for me You can ask anything about sort of autism personal stuff related Uh, no one questions Although if there are questions that I don't want to answer then I just won't As far as I can judge being in the gym music slash trance my full sounds from outside my head Helps you being in the center of your own world concentrating on your barbell I like that Yeah, I I try this as much as I can at the gym to remove all sense of um I don't know Also all like background noise. I don't like I don't like hearing people So I just turn my music really loud screw in my earphones just to make sure that there's no like sound leaking into my ears I found that to be really helpful. I've got a song at the moment that I just I'm playing on repeat constantly You know like one of those songs where you just You know, it's like your go-to kind of chill song that you have And it's I've got one of those at the moment Names Jess and you're meh Why are you meh? I'm not too bad. It's um It's been a bit Been a bit of a weird week again some some bad things happening, but also You know, there's some good things as well thought I didn't What's the song? Let me see if I can find it Why is there no showing up? I saw I'm listening to it constantly. It should be like the first thing that comes up It's probably got one of those annoying names that is not using the correct characters It's called blaster, but it's not spelled like blaster It's like it's like a bit of a funk a funk song I really love it God, where's it gone? It should be my top favorites By the way, if you want to check out the music that I listen to you can you can find me on spotify and there is a like a spot 4080 song song of the day pot podcast playlist that's down in my um Down in the description of my podcast if you click on that you'll you'll be able to see my page on that Yeah, it's it's it's called blaster, but instead of an s It's a dollar sign It's by a two switchblade um So in like two minutes long I'm gonna play it actually connect my headphones It's just one of those ones that you you know, you can walk to and it's kind of It's a bit more sort of strong and upbeat, but it's it's also like Quite relaxing for me for some reason It's just live right now. It's not going very well. I'm sorry to hear that Yeah, it's tough Also, do you have a specific thing that you like to talk about? I like theme parks. I can talk about them forever Yeah, autism is my thing or the gym But because because I do these lives and because I I do so much like speaking work I feel like I don't really have much to talk about so I just kind of I like to listen to people mostly Um, I don't I'm not as vocal in person as I am sort of online Not because I can't no because I don't because because I want to and I can't but Just because it's you know, sometimes I just like to chill um I think to be honest my my interests tend to Like fluctuate look quite a lot. I have some core things that I really love like martial arts and um Sort of gym work and You know those kind of things. Yeah autism isn't info dump. Yeah Yeah, totally. I don't know They get very much depends on what I'm interested in at the moment Do you guys do you guys info dump about autism to your friends like every single time? Oh my god, I was also talking about some of the things this week about um, autism in the gym like One of the things that I I You know, I'm I'm kind of one. I'm one of those people. I don't really mind about making I don't make as much eye contact as like most neurotypicals, but I do make some but One of the things that I found really difficult at the gym or I did do for a while Kind of got over it at this point, but it's knowing where to look between your sets at the gym like You just kind of look around like are you supposed to look around and are you supposed to like Avoid people's gaze. Are you supposed to look at people for a little bit and then look away? Are you supposed to not look at people at all? I have no idea No idea I just kind of stuck to like doing a lot of my social media work at the gym. So that way I just constantly looking at my phone Sorry about wobbling the camera. I keep putting my foot on my desk another one is uh Like walking like if you have to go to another place and like pick up pick up a piece of equipment And then take it back to the place that you're doing your set at That well that one's a bit funny because I have to spend like so much time making sure that I don't hit anyone with like a barbell or something Like you know, I'll walk past a piece of equipment at the gym and just like bang my leg on it or Just completely just walking walking to something um, and I'm also like I know it's really it's really bad, but I'm I'm so With my sets and the exercises that I do at the gym if I don't do them in the same order every time that I go to the gym it's um I get really upset like I so sometimes I'll just wait forever even if someone's got like loads of sets left on on a piece of equipment. I'll just like You know go in the corner and just do some stretching just waiting to like continue my workout um I think as well like I have to record every single Like set that I do how many reps have I done how many how much time do I wait in between the sets? It's can't can't get by without like recording every single meticulous thing I'm also starting to do um some what I've been doing some neck training at the gym, which is You know, it's it's interesting to do that in public. Let's just say um You have to do like neck curls with like a plate on your head. I like using like a harness or something You don't info dump about autism and you recently diagnosed and still working on coming out That's understandable I think there's a lot of stigma around autism. It's a bit harder to like Tell people about it than it is for like stuff like ADHD because I feel like some people can relate somewhat to The struggles that ADHD is might have Whereas when you're autistic, it's kind of it's a bit I guess I think it's harder for people to relate. They want autistic You're in oughty as well. You go to the gym. What kind of stuff do you do? Jane who asks have you made any content about autism and feeling romantic love? I have indeed I have a whole series of about it on my youtube channel And it's called the dating and autistic series and I also have a Dating and neurotypical series, but I didn't I didn't do many videos on that before I switched to doing my podcast stuff So if you're interested in those, that's you know, my youtube's in my link tree but I do have um If you scroll my profile to like the little newspaper icon You can see like some of the Post collections that I've thought I put together one of them is about relationships and dating So I I do do stuff I don't do too much because um, it's it's not of why does the topic has just general autism information and I don't tend to I think I think there's sometimes when you talk about Dating and relationships some people can you know Perhaps get a little bit upset about it because it is something that I think a lot of us find hard to navigate um So it's you know And I will I will produce some more stuff around it. I think I just need to think about What what exactly is going to be like the the frame that I'm going to go with You know You look at you you look either at your phone or at someone doing an identical exercise for a comparison Very cool You hate part of king and public because it looks like I'm having a fit That's um, that's tough You know, I've I've had a couple meltdowns in public as well. Those were Not not not the most exciting experience of my life. I can tell you You appreciate the job I'm doing I'm I'm very happy Very happy Mainly basic stuff. Do you mean like like weights weight training things like that? Like the the minimalist kind of bench squat pulling exercise Carves and lateral raises kind of thing Uh, oh you do I've heard press nice Do you do strength? Or uh, are you looking to put some of the muscle on? I'm gonna have to after this stream. I'm gonna have to go through and properly like um Delete some of like the the attempts that I did with the youtube stream I think there was one of them was like 29 seconds people people are not in the stream. They're gonna be like, what what is going on? Yeah, for muscle that's cool and strength Bre asks, how are you doing today? I'm not doing too bad Feeling very chill although there's a lot of stuff going on at the moment Jay true love says uh I hate everything like that loud noises and people being behind me and everything and yet the impacts can't be Are you a vestibular stim? I like me you like uh balance based stims I love them They're like the most relaxing thing for me So, um, just a bit of an update on the the pod um I'm gonna have a podcast with mr. Kiran Lee Who is an autistic singer? He's really great. Um, I love his music and uh, we're gonna talk about autism and mental health for men In that one. So it's gonna it's gonna be a bit more of a focused one. We talked about mental health in general but I feel like there's a lot of um barriers that that one has to overcome as as a man to Recognize that you you have mental health and and to also feel okay about getting support So I think that's that'd be something I think that would be a good thing to talk about And you know, you obviously have the aspects of being autistic that can make mental health a little bit different Like Alexa fine. Yeah That sounds like a good topic for the podcast looking forward to it. Yeah Should be good. It's it's it's gonna go out on sunday. I know I said that I was gonna produce my podcasts for monday's but um Kieran made this like graphic this animation Which um, he like embedded like the the date of the podcast that we're gonna do Into it. So I'll probably have to talk to him. It may be more might I might reschedule it for monday But it's gonna be a really good one Hey, Austin How you doing man? You've been to the gym today Right So we've probably we've got about 10 minutes. I'm gonna have to actually cut it off exactly A half past six because I've got about a 30 30 minute window in between ending this and Um, I've got a podcast that I'm going on to as a guest so it's um I've got about half an hour to eat so I need to get some food in the system Great like day coming up brilliant. I had one like yesterday I'm actually um, I'm downsizing my my regiment From six days to two five days Which I'm a little bit anxious about because I hate change, but I don't know. I'm I'm struggling. It's it's less about having the motivation to go and more about having the time and like because The the stuff that I do online. It's so up and down in terms of You know when I'm able to Actually get out for two hours and just just have that two hours just to go and exercise Bri says I'm working on my masters in mental health counseling and I'm worried about being ADHD and autistic And if I'll be a good therapist um To be honest, I feel like just as Austin says, you know, it's I think it's um I think it'll it'll probably give you a bit more of a more empathic angle specifically for ADHDs and autistic people if that's something that you're wanting to to go for Because it's not like you have to learn how to how Autistic and ADHD people work necessarily in terms of How to get on to them how to communicate because you're already that so it's It's kind of like you have a bit of an edge with that I would say might be a bit more difficult with the neurotypical clients, but um You'll probably be able to offer a lot of out-of-the-box ideas and sort of different perspectives That they might find quite helpful So I definitely wouldn't be put off by by that. I think you'd make a good You know, it's it's not gonna Get in the way It might be any place that it might as um, if you find constant Sort of contact with with people that you use kind of strangers with um on a regular basis if you're doing like Anywhere upwards of like three Um sessions a day. I think it can sometimes be quite a lot But it'll just be something that you'd have to Work what works out for you and to be honest um, there is a big demand for like therapists and psychologists around autism So you could definitely fill that that niche. We definitely need that What's the podcast that you'll be going on? We'll check it out I um, I don't know if I can Let me have a look Uh, what is it called? It's called something Leave your mark podcast But there's there's quite a few leave your mark podcasts So it's a bit of a smaller one, but I like any opportunity to kind of go on and and speak and share the message in different spaces So it sounds like it'll be a very in-depth podcast. We did like a whole hour like talking about How what would be best to talk about during the episode? So I think it'll be quite good Leave your mark podcast if you want to check it out I used to go six times a week to the gym, but I think five times is better for recovering gains totally Brie says thanks Austin. I wonder That's but I worry about the trivial things such as eye contact So clients know that you're listening and stuff like that. Yeah Yeah, I think that that that could also be another thing but again if you're working with Autistic clients, it's not going to be necessarily something that They're bothered about having because you know for me The best way that I get the most out of conversations like that is By not making hardly any eye contact. So I think it really depends Are we definitely trying to specialise a bit more with autistic people? For sure I plan on taking on no more than 20 clients a week. I'd burn out fast totally Yeah, you gotta be gotta be careful that stuff um Might feel good like the first couple of times in the day, but You know long term That's sort of constant social interaction and press to communicate can sometimes be a lot So I've got about five minutes and then we're going to wrap up the stream I know it's been a bit of a short one because I've been trying to Sort out my My youtube Oh my god, I don't I have no idea why my camera is being so annoying at the moment Gonna have to go through and like delete the the random clips I made Dark path says my daughter are free just got diagnosed autistic How is that being going for you? Like someone someone keep people keep asking me like what what age did you start speaking and I don't know You know, I'll have to ask my mom If that's good, so that's what you're gonna ask. So it's a very common question that people have This should probably fill myself in a bit more um Hey, yorick, how you doing? Thank you for coming in to the stream. Thank you very much, man. We've got um Four minutes left. So if anyone wants to send in some Questions for us to finish up that would be absolutely amazing Dark path says not not bad very expensive to get medical support and psychologist, but I'm loving him good good Austin says that he had speech therapy until he was 14. Wow That's not something that I will ever went through as far as I know so we're probably I'm chatting to um Someone with uh Who's going to help me with setting up streaming? So it's possible that at some point we are gonna Start up a very long stream perhaps sometime in the evening So that's something that you really would enjoy I'm going to be looking at some like videos on youtube Um, so I'll do my own sort of commentary on that stuff and go to upload that um We're probably gonna look at some I don't know. I'll have to like Collect a number of like videos that I think will be really good to talk about because I think um There's a big there's a big like reactionary movement at the moment on people being autistic or um sort of displaying their neurodiversities online Um and sort of people reacting very negatively towards that So it'd be good to watch a video on something like that and give some commentary See you later adult. Thank you for for contributing to the to life lovely to see you Got two minutes left. Um, just wanted to say as well if you haven't already Um, please go check out the podcast youtube channel Trying to grow that at the moment I'm also um Doing some stuff on twitter and um Tiktok now So if you if you prefer any of those platforms Um, you you'd be able to find all my links in my in my link tree It's like a icon list at the top that you can check out Oh, I I didn't see your question How do I have a question how to overcome being autistic and being a 64 dude? Um, I don't know necessarily. Oh in terms of dating That's that's that's gonna be a long question. I have to approach that on another another stream Hmm, I think to be to be honest, you probably have a bit of a advantage when it comes to that, but It's still not going to be very easy. You know, it's I think the advice I give for anyone trying to find a relationship find a date someone to To fall in love with and have a romantic time with I'd always recommend trying to find social groups and workplace not workplace um like hobby groups like sports, um Hobbies around whatever thing you like trying to find those kind of things in your area and just approaching it just trying to meet new people that kind of approach because you may find someone that you like And you'll have a bit bit less of a sort of open conversation as in like You know, you will have to try and Think about different topics to bring up you can you can just know because you're already in a place that You know, it's surrounding a certain topic. So I think that's that's often the best things One topic which might be hard to discuss or not appropriate is to ask about Oh Yeah, um, maybe Maybe it could it could be a topic. I do need to do a topic around like sexuality and stuff. So Yeah, maybe I need to find someone who can do that though Because I don't know if there's a lot of people who talk about that kind of stuff It could be interesting I know that that like the drives of people in the spectrum can be Either at one end of the scale or the other end some You know, you know, you have a sort of high occurrence of like asexuality in my autistic people Which is interesting, but then again, you're not on the other side So, um, I'm gonna wrap things up. I know it's been a bit of a disordered dis disordered Disordered livestream. So I appreciate your You guys on YouTube for Being patient around that um Yeah But I appreciate you all um coming in to ask questions and be involved in the stream so Always really lovely to to do these kind of things and I will update you on The status on streaming For a long time um On instagram or i'll try and remind people See you later guys You're welcome sminkity. Thank thank you guys for coming on to chat. See you later and