 exist but they're watching you yes that's right that's what we're going to be talking about in this video before I begin hit that thumbs up button down below hit subscribe click all notifications then you will be notified when I upload a video in the future for one of ones you can go to my website it is narcsurvivor.co.uk and if you'd like to make a donation to our community leave a super chat the live chat a super thanks in the comment section or go to my paypal it is paypal.me slash narcsurvivor anyway onto today's message they're acting like you don't exist but they're watching you yes believe it or not while they may have treated you with contempt as though you're worthless or beneath their consideration they are watching your every move they're monitoring you they want to see what you're doing they want to see what is going on in your life and really you've got to look at it like this when they were around you they downplayed your worth they minimized what you were doing they acted like it wasn't anything special but they were in denial and they were lying to you because now that you're gone or now that they left you they can't get enough of you they are constantly watching you because here's the thing with toxic and narcissistic people they already know that if someone is around them if someone doesn't desire to be involved with them or if it's something where you disapproved or something they did and then they had to leave immediately your value goes up in their rise so they're watching you because they have idealized you they viewed you as perfect as being greater than them and that's why they're willing to invest their time energy and effort into you because if they really deemed themselves and their lives to be more valuable they would be investing their time energy and effort into that and yet instead they're investing it into watching you because yes it's all a game a lie they viewed you as more valuable so that's why their rise are always on you and just to really get in deeper into this and confirm it you disapproved of some things that they did maybe you didn't approve of them cheating lying or stealing maybe they would drink alcohol or doing drugs they were getting involved in stuff that you did not approve of and that's why they could no longer be around you so now they have to settle for for watching you from afar and yet the people that they surround themselves with yes they may be fully aware of what they're doing the difference is that they don't care they're okay with it they don't mind that the narcissist cheats lies or steals they enable them they allow their behavior to continue but the narcissist doesn't really value the people that they're surrounded with because of course they're not completely stupid they do look at it like if these people were actually any good they wouldn't support what I'm doing they would recognize that what I'm doing is wrong and then that's why they're so fascinated with you when you're no longer around them that's why they're still watching you because anyone would make this connection and assume that if they're cheating lying and stealing they're involved in all sorts of immoral and corrupt activities and yet you disapprove of that and you choose to move away from them obviously they're then going to see the value in you and idealize you because quite clearly you do not want to be a part of that so then in their eyes that means that you must be greater than them even if it just means that you're more intelligent because they're looking at their enablers and flying monkeys as though they're completely stupid that's exactly how they see them and just to really confirm that just look at celebrities many of them are narcissistic and if you look at it what do they really think of their fans do they look at their fans as being loyal and devoted or do they just see them as being stupid as being idiots for blindly following them while they're involved in all sorts of immoral and corrupt activities I mean just look at some of the things they're doing and yet they've still got many fans many supporters who are still following them do you really think they respect those people of course not it's exactly the same with the narcissist and their enablers and flying monkeys they do not respect those people and in fact they look at it like this the same way that celebrities view their fans because celebrities know that if it wasn't for their fans who are supporting them who are buying their music watching their movies if it wasn't for them then they wouldn't be earning any money so they're essentially like a teenager who has no choice but to depend on their parents financially so they become very resentful they feel like it's unfair because they're heavily dependent on their enablers and flying monkeys yes they secretly hate all of them and yet with you you woke up you didn't approve of what they were doing you managed to get away so then they recognize that you're not like everyone else they see that you're different and then that's why they become so fascinated with you because it's like I've got all of these other people wrapped around my thumb when I say jump they will say how high they will do whatever they want but then they're looking at you and you don't do that for them you're not willing to comply with their requests and in fact you're going in the opposite direction you're going a different way from everyone else I mean if you were going in the same direction doing the exact same things as everyone else you were listening to them following their demands complying with their requests there wouldn't be anything fascinating or mysterious about you it's not going to leave anything to the imagination because they see you're just following the crowd you're going the same way as everyone else so there's no need for them to watch you then they could just watch anyone because they're all doing the exact same thing but that's not what you're doing you're doing the opposite to everyone else everyone else is blindly supporting them following the agenda agreeing with everything they say enabling their toxic and dysfunctional behaviors but you're not you're not going along with a collective you're going the opposite way and not only are you going the opposite way but you look good doing it too all of these other people who are blindly following them they're not going anywhere but for you you're going the opposite direction and you're succeeding in doing that things are getting better for you by going against the collective by doing things differently to everyone else so of course they're going to be fascinated with you of course they're going to be watching you I mean of course if you were going the opposite way and everything was getting better for them and yet for you you chose to go in a different direction and then you went downhill things got worse for you they wouldn't be watching you then they wouldn't even care there's nothing fascinating or interesting about that the difference is not only are you going the opposite way to everyone else but things are improving things are getting better for you and that's just one thing they can't understand because remember the very grandiose they're arrogant they're delusional in their minds they're gods in their minds they know everything that is right and correct they know the right thing to do that's why they always had to have an authoritative position over you they've always got to be the boss they're going to be in charge they believe that they are the omega the almighty that they're never wrong they're always right and yet utilize this contradiction because if they're never wrong and they're always right how can you go off in the opposite direction and do better without them they can't understand it it baffles their minds it confuses them and yet at the same time they are fascinated so of course they can't keep their eyes off of you especially after everything they did to you because it's like they did all of these things and yet you're still getting on with it you're still able to do the things that you need to do and that's what really shocks them because you may not know this but the other victims or targets they've had in their lives they didn't manage to have such a lucky escape like you did a lot of the others they may have gone downhill or they may have remained trapped with the narcissist they didn't get so far as you did so of course it surprises them it baffles them because they look at you and you just keep coming back you just keep emerging from the gashes like a phoenix it's like there's no stopping you it's like there's nothing they can do and they may have tried every trick in the book they may have done all of these things to you they may have devalued you targeted your self esteem strangulated you with other people ghosted you discarded you cheated on you lied to you stole from you gaslighted your minds deflected all of their shame onto you shifted the blame they may have started a smear campaign against you turned everyone against you assassinated your character targeted you financially got you fired from your job they did all of these things they brought you down to the darkest steps to the lowest of the low to where it seemed like there was no light at the end of the tunnel it seemed like there was no possible way for you to get out they were watching you and still kind of poking you with a stick just to make sure are you still alive have I really done you in this time have I finished you off and then to their amazement you're still there you're still moving even if you're crawling on your hands and knees you crawl out of that pit that they left you in and somehow you managed to get yourself together you managed to get back on your feet and maybe you don't manage to restore yourself to your earlier condition before you got involved with them but you're still managing to get by you're still managing to do something you're progressing you're becoming more knowledgeable and aware you're more intuitive you're more awake you're more experienced now more wise and all of these things are threats to them because you threaten to expose them because at one point they had you confined they had you trapped and they were doing all of these things to you and now you know their secrets you have personal information about them and it's like you escaped from the prison you found the key to the door you unlocked it and then you ran away from their lair so now they've got to track you down or at least they've got to keep an eye on you they've got to keep you on close watch because you know things that they don't want you to know and not only that but they still fear that you could move on and while yes you may already be doing better without them they fear that you could move on and you could be doing better than them i mean you've got to look at it like this they have all of these enablers and flying monkeys all of these fake family members and friends all of these people are blindly supporting them why maybe because they don't see anyone who isn't following that agenda and doing better than them because if they did they'd probably be following them this is why you're such a threat this is why they have to keep a close eye on you because here's the thing if you're opposing their empire you're going in the opposite direction you're doing your own thing you're not following the collective you're not following the agenda and not only that but you're doing better without them and not just doing better without them you're doing better than them by going your own way then there's only one possible conclusion there's only one possible explanation and that is that what they're doing is not working what they're doing is not the right thing because if it was how could you leave and do better without them it's kind of like if you have a tribe and while you're in this tribe you're not really doing anything and yet the people in that tribe they just blindly follow the leader and they just kind of get on with things they're not really questioning anything they're not really questioning what they're doing or what they're getting out of it and then you you go against the tribe you disapprove of what the leader is doing you stand against them and then you decide to go in your own direction you decide to go your own way you really think that tribe is going to care if you go off and they don't really think anything of you you're not that great you don't have many strong abilities you're not going to be capable of surviving on your own you really think they're going to bat an eyelid over you they're not going to care they're just going to look at it like yeah you can go off on your own that's really what you want to do you're not going to make it very far you won't find any foods you might get eaten by a tiger that's exactly how they're going to think but if you are strong if you are powerful you're capable of going off on your own and doing better without the tribe or maybe not just doing better without the tribe but doing better than not only the leader of that tribe but doing better than all of them put together on your own if you go off and do that the why doesn't just every member of that tribe overthrow the leader and just follow in your direction I mean that would be the only logical and rational thing for them to do because that's the example that you are setting you're showing everyone that this is the best thing to do just forget about them and go in this direction if it's quite clearly working for you and of course they don't want you to send that message to them because they want to be the authority they want to tell people what to do so they have to create this narrative they have to keep a close eye on you even while they may be pretending that you're not anything like you don't even exist they have to keep watching you because otherwise that means the entire time they were wrong that means they were wrong about you that means that everything they said about you not being good enough you're not knowing what you're doing it means it means that they were wrong it means that they messed up and if they were wrong if they messed up then they got to go they can't be the leader of that tribe anymore because they just made a massive mistake I mean they were all just getting on with what they're supposed to do what they've been told and Jack here's you just approve of what they're doing the corrupt and immoral acts that they're engaged in you go in the opposite direction you do your own thing and you do better than all of them you do better than all of them which means that they're wrong and it means that you're right that's why they're so fascinated by you otherwise they wouldn't care if you're going off on your own you can barely even survive and they know just exactly how your life's going to pan out you're not going to get anywhere you're barely even going to make it you really think they're going to be worried about you of course not and this may have been the case with other people before you who were once a part of their lives maybe they also disapproved of things that the narcissist did they went off on their own the narcissist may not have batted an eyelid at those people because they already knew they're not going to get very far but they didn't think that way with you they knew no this one's different this one's better than the rest this one's going to surpass us all this one's going to achieve things we never expected at least not until it got to that point where they stood up against us where they disapproved of what we were doing because you see that's the only time that they actually realize your worth it's when you do stand up against them it's when you do disapprove of what they're doing because by doing that you are then realizing your worth which then makes it clearer to them i mean as long as you're just following them blindly and you're going along with their agenda you really think that they see any value in you when you're just letting them do whatever they want just going along with it no they think you're stupid but when you decide to go your own way then it's like this one's a smart one this one's on to me this one's not falling for my lies my future faking my gaslighting they're not following my false narrative they can see that i'm full of shit and they're not falling for it anymore and it's like what if this one goes off and shows everyone that i'm actually a fraud because if they can go off and they can do better that really reveals how corrupt their system is because if if their system is correct and it's good for everyone involved there's no way that you should be able to leave and do better outside of it i mean what does that reveal to everyone who is involved in that what does that tell them if you can just disapprove of it all and leave or if they can ostracize you they can cut you out they can isolate you and you go off on your own and things get better for you what does that say to everyone i mean the entire time you are a part of that collective things won't go in anywhere for you things didn't go anywhere for any of them and then finally they cut you out they ostracize you your life changes completely it just says their system is garbage it says they're all idiots they're all useless that's exactly what it says that it says that in fact you should be the leader you should be the one that they're following because if things aren't going well for them with what they're doing in the tribe that they're in and things won't go in well for you while you are in it and yet you leave or your ostracize from that group you go off and things get better for you quite clearly they're on the wrong team they should be with you but then should they because you disapprove of those things the corruption the immorality they decided to go along with it so maybe that is where they're meant to be maybe that is where they belong while you wanted better for yourself you wanted a life that was more righteous you wanted to follow the correct path and they weren't thinking of going that way with you and even if finally when you do succeed maybe some people see all things are getting better for you now and then they decided to come over onto your team no i wouldn't have that i wouldn't have that it should already be too late because they weren't with you back then when you stood up to the narcissist when you told them exactly how it is they weren't there for you then it's only when they see you moving on they see you succeed they witnessed the fruits of your labor then they want to come over to you when they realize that you're more powerful you're stronger it should already be too late but the odds are that most of them they're still going to stick with the narcissist all of their enablers and flying monkeys even your own family members and friends you may lose a lot of them they're still going to be over there they're still going to be in denial lying to themselves gaslighting themselves and instead all they're going to do is seek to destroy you because it's too painful for them to accept that their entire life was a lie it's too painful for them to accept the entire time they were lied to future fate gaslighted by the narcissist they don't want to accept that and they're still hoping longing and yearning but if they just hold on then maybe at some point in the future it will be worth the wait it will be worth everything that they invested into it and that's what keeps them holding on and that's why they were born together with the narcissist over your destruction that's why and they'll act like they don't care they don't care when they see you moving on when they see you succeed they lack like they're not concerned about it meanwhile they are watching your every move they're watching everything you're doing and they're envious and jealous of it they can't stand it they don't want to see you doing that because it just reminds them that this entire time they've been making a big mistake they were listening to the wrong person they were taking the wrong person's side all along and they just don't want to accept it especially since they were taking this side all of this time instead of being with you they already know you're not going to accept them after all of the things they did they know you're not going to take them back they know you're not going to support them they know that the best chance they've got is to continue on that path even if it isn't serving them and while you can move on you can succeed and maybe if they had just stuck with you you could have taken care of them you could have done all of these things for them improve their lives in ways that the narcissist never could they're not going to go along with you because they stood for that agenda all along they stuck by the narcissist so it's already too late for them for a lot of them but meanwhile they will still be watching you they're still going to be checking in see what you're doing and they're going to be hating on everything that they see they're not going to like it anything to do with your progression your comfort your safety your security anything positive about you they're not going to like because just reminds them that they've made a mistake it reminds them that they're going the wrong direction so it's kind of like they're going one way with their group their tribe the narcissist their flying monkeys and enablers and they want to make it look like what they're doing is good they're going the right way they can't have it where you're going the opposite direction and suddenly here you go you got a nice comfortable place where you stay you got all of the luxuries all of the food all of the resources they can't have it looking like that if you're going in the opposite direction they've got to make it look bad they've got to sabotage you they're going to make it look like you're struggling on your own because otherwise it's going to look very bad for them it's going to expose the corruption it's going to expose just how whack their system is because again if their system is functional if their system is there to support the members the followers and supporters of it rather than just the authority the management of it if that's really the case then if you seize to be a part of that system of that group you should not be doing better without it you shouldn't be because otherwise that really says a lot about them it just reveals that that system that group was holding you back the entire time if you can move on and do better without it that means that they should do without it as well but the narcissist does not want people to come to that conclusion because they're benefiting from it from having all of these people on their side who are blindly following them even while they're getting nothing out of it i mean if anything they have to sabotage you so that they can get something from you because they're never going to benefit from the system directly it's completely corrupt that's why they have to sabotage you because it's a corrupt system it doesn't benefit anyone involved other than the narcissist other than that it benefits no one and the narcissist is fully aware of that that's why they manipulate and gas like everyone involved and it's really sad when you look at it i mean when you get away from it all and then you look back and it's like you may feel sorry for some of them i mean in many ways it's like one of my favorite movies actually that's quite an old one but i don't know if any of you have seen this movie the island it's with um ewan mcgregor he's an irish actor and scarlet joe hansen i'm sure many of you will know her and shawn bean as well it's a brilliant movie if you haven't seen it you must watch it look it up online and it's just the way that these clones of the rich and the the celebrities as well they're all held captive in this um like this this underground base and they're all kept there they don't really know what's going on they're told that there is some kind of uh like virus outside and that's why they can find there and they're just clones of real people on the outside in the real world they're locked in there and they've got their own little community their own little world they're not really experiencing real life they're not reaching their full potential of what they could really be and so they're kept in there and they're manipulated they're gaslighted they're lied to there's also future faking as well where they're told about this lottery that they can win where they then get to go to this island which is kind of like selling them a vacation only it doesn't actually exist and if they do win that lottery they just get wired up to this machine where they are then indoctrinated even more or it's because the rich or the celebrity they finally need the parts of their clone because they got sick or whatever it is and then that's why they then disappear from the group so yeah definitely check out that movie one of my favorites is called the island and that's really how it is for the enablers and the flying monkeys of the narcissist they're all enslaved in these communities that are not even serving them and yet they're blindly following it because they're unaware they're at a very low level of consciousness and that's why when you do get away from it all you get away from these dysfunctional dynamics and things will get better for you but then they will try to pull you back into it because they don't want everyone else to know they don't want everyone else to see that if they would just separate themselves from the group things could get better for them it really could just as you will find that things can get better for you i mean that's what happens with me when i left my family and my social circle i went off on my own spent some time by myself i got away from the world the nine to fives this corrupt world that we live in i just spent some time by myself and for maybe just five months i researched about this disorder and then i built my channel as you can see here on youtube and then within just four months i already was monetized on youtube i had 1000 subscribers and then within the first one year i had achieved 30 000 subscribers within three years 100 000 and then before you know it i was traveling around the world within just a few months of creating the channel or rather within within one year after i created the channel i was already traveling the world i was renting luxury cars and that was actually it's actually my life and that's what happened from leaving their groups from leaving society and of course when you do that people get fascinated by you because they can't understand it they've been manipulated lie to gaslight of their entire lives and to go in in a certain direction thinking that it's right thinking that it's best for them they've been indoctrinated brainwashed and yet you you become awake you become aware you finally understood that something was wrong with it and that's why you then left so of course they're going to keep watching you because they greatly fear that things are going to get better for you and if things get better for you it's going to reveal to them that something is wrong with them and it's going to reveal to the enablers and flying monkeys something is wrong with the entire system because if your bads if all of these things are wrong with you how can you leave them and do better without them that doesn't make any sense and it's always been this way since the very beginning of human existence if you're not built to last if you're not built to survive if you're no good and you leave the group you leave the tribe you should die your life should fall apart things should get worse for you but it doesn't because you're better than them you're meant to start your own tribe things are meant to get better of them and the rest of them they're meant to die they're meant to be left behind because they're the idiots they're the foolish ones they're the ones who are going the wrong direction not you and this is what they don't want everyone to know they don't even want to become aware of that themselves they gas like themselves as well because just think about it no one wants to accept that they're the ones who are inadequate they don't want to accept that so they've got to watch you and they've got to sabotage you but of course the entire time you're not even watching them you're not even concerned about what they're doing because you already know or at least you should know if you have been watching my videos you should be aware of it but things aren't going to get better for them things never do get better for narcissists they're the ones who are watching you because while things may be predictable for them you already know how it's going to go for you they don't know there's a lot of mystery things can get a lot better for you and that's what they're afraid of because they don't want that to get back to their enablers and flying monkeys that this corrupt system that they're following this agenda this collective it's all just a waste of time it's not going to get them anywhere it's not going to leave them anywhere good and once you develop this confidence and self-assurance in yourself and you know that you're following the correct path you're going to look at them and it's all going to make perfect sense it's not going to leave any unpredictability any mystery to where they're going to go i mean you can look at their lives and you can already see where they're going to be in 10 20 years at the end of their lives you can see that they're never going to be happy and while for you it's like the sky's the limit as long as they don't keep coming back to sabotage you it's like you don't know where things could go and yet you wonder why when you look at them it's like they have no belief in themselves so then they don't want to believe in you even though deep down they do that's why they keep watching you if they had no belief in you and they just assumed that you were going to go down they would just leave you to it they'd just be like okay here's the rope go hang yourself but they don't do that they don't just give you the reins and let you go off on your own i mean think about it if they really thought that you're that bad things aren't going to go right for you you're the one who's corrupt they would just let you go they would just leave you to it knowing that at some point you're just going to die out you're just going to end up starved maybe you'll end up in a mental hospital in jail without them having to intervene so why do they keep watch why do they intervene why do they try to sabotage you it's because they know that if they didn't intervene then guess without them things would get a lot better for you at some level yes they know their system is corrupt their system is no good for them they know it already and yet all they want to do is support this false narrative sustain this illusion this false reality that their side is better when deep down all along they already know that it's not they already know i know this message is quite different to what i normally talk about and of course as you can see with my work which really does go against a lot of the systems in society today so i have a lot of experience in this and going off in my own direction away from the rest of society and doing my own thing that's how i'm able to talk about this for 50 minutes now and i could go on a lot longer as well but in all honesty it's the end of the day here it's uh about 11 p.m where i am so i do need to get some rest but i think i've done this topic justice i think i've given you a lot of food for thought a lot to think about and i know many of you are empaths chosen ones you're not following the collective and sometimes you may need that reassurance that confirmation that you're doing the right thing by keeping to yourself by not following the crowd because that's what i did and i want to serve as an example for that for developing our own identities our own individuality instead of just being a clone of everyone else think back to that movie the island one of my favorite movies definitely go and watch it anyway that's all i've got to say for this one but don't worry i will be back again tomorrow with another video anyway if you found it helpful hit the thumbs up button down below click subscribe and all notifications so that you will be notified when i do upload a new video and let me know what you thought about this in the comment section below i'd love to hear from you and if you would like to donate you can leave a super chat in the live chat or a super thanks in the comment section you can also go to my paypal it is 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