 Unlike a red flag, a yellow flag means proceed but with extreme caution. Scent. I think the mistake that we make as men is we are so led by visual stimulation we do not consider our other senses. Most mammalian species on earth rely on their sense of scent when it's time to mate. This is how they deduct if their mating partner is a good genetic match for a strong offspring and human beings have that same ability however with all the chemicals in our body because of food and because of plastics and everything else that we're inundated with we have slowly lost that ability. Also women on birth control lose that ability so when fellas we talk about women making terrible decisions and with men and things like that part of it is the fact that their pheromone ability has been stifled because of birth control but my point is pay attention to how she smells fellas for multiple reasons. Number one it's a good indicator of her ability to wash. It's a good indicator if this is a clean and hygienic woman. It's a good indicator if this is a woman who takes self-care seriously. It's a good indicator if this woman is healthy. It's a good indicator if this is a woman who pays attention to the details. It's a good indicator if this is a woman that you could potentially learn something from in the realm of self-care and more than anything it is a very good indicator if you too are a genetic match. Unfortunately as man we're so led by our dicks we don't think these things through and we end up in situations that we later on regret. The other day a brother DM'd me talking about Laurie Harvey leaving Damson Idris and how now is the best time to shoot your shot and I told him I'm not attracted to Laurie Harvey and he was like how she's beautiful. I'm like yeah but she's not my type of beautiful. See one of the things I would like to accomplish is changing that paradigm where now we're having not just the attractive conversation but the attracted conversation and women understand this very well. Women can see a man and admit that he is attractive I'm just not attracted whether for good reasons or bad reasons but men on the other hand we tend to be attracted because she's attractive and the best analogy I could think of is there are some beautiful shoes that you might see you might see them on the shelf at the store on the rack and they look really good on the shelf but as soon as you put them on your feet you look stupid you either look stupid because they look goofy with your outfit they don't match you or your style you either look stupid because as good as they look they are unbearable and uncomfortable or they're not your size but we'll force ourselves to wear those shoes because they look good when really those shoes were for somebody else or those shoes were for the shelf and this is how I feel about sin. Pay attention to how she smells fellas it's a good indicator of if you are supposed to be with her or if she is supposed to be with you past all the theatrics and pageantry of dating it's part of the reason why I'm such a fan of walking dates coffee dates low effort dates because it's part of your introduction to their essence because you might get there and realize I don't even like how she smells and not because she stinks but this just isn't my preferred scent and you can save yourself a whole bunch of money frustration and heartache let me run through some things I've identified as red flags and again the distinction is whereas yellow is perceived with caution red is stop do not pass go do not collect $200 turn around and delete that woman out of your phone and never look at her again even if she's fine in the whole nine if you guys want me to do a video breaking each of these things down please put it down in the comments first one if she has multiple baby daddies or crazy baby daddy red flag if she says things like I am the table red flag if she's married or in a relationship red flag if she's an alcoholic or whino red flag if she doesn't know how to say I'm sorry has never apologized in her life red flag if she is a neo feminist new school man hating we are better than men women girl power feminist red flag if she can remotely justify or defend lori harvey jada pinkinsmith or women of the like red flag if she can't slash doesn't cook or clean red flag if she has anger issues red flag if her past boyfriends are all bums and you would potentially be her first good dude red flag if her friends are idiots or people of a certain ilk red flag if her finances are in disarray red flag if she has worked in sex work from prostitution only fans red flag if her space is dirty i'm talking about her dorm room her apartment her house as a woman red flag looking her trunk of her car if it's messy not a wife it's a reflection of her mind if she is dry or uninquisitive in conversation red flag if she lacks listening skills red flag if a female stopped fucking with you out the blue she got a new nigga or her old nigga came back and sometimes the new nigga never be a new nigga you just never knew nigga don't let that go over your head bro now let's do the same for some green flags and again if you guys want more put it down in the comments make sure you like and subscribe if this is a woman who is okay with the low social media profile and presence low follower count she's barely on instagram facebook she doesn't really care about all that stuff green flag if she's intentional with her nutrition and her diet she can tell you not just the what but also the why green flag if she is clean and intentional in her space where you would rather go to her spot because it's so nice in there green flag if she was a good student in school especially elementary middle high she made straight a's perfect attendance those types she was a nerd green flag now again if you guys want me to break those things down leave it in the comments run these likes up and if i see a large number of likes i will go into detail in the red and the green flags thank you guys for watching hit the subscribe button on your way out check out some of the other content and i'll see you guys in the next one peace