 So what this is, MCM, we're just about, oh my goodness, all right, we're just about to get into the last conversation of the day, sorry for that interruption, it happens all the time and you can interact with us on our socials and that includes Facebook, ex, Instagram and threads, which I'm still figuring out how to use it, I don't want you to have a full channel. Ponsonally at Brand Circle 101, we're being joined by Byron Otieno and Matthew Mwania. The question will be running on our social media, but let's pick up what we left up last week, Byron. We talked about some of the things that, you know, as a gentleman, you should do and things that sometimes aren't as lovely and you guys were giving your, just quickly, in three minutes and then we get to the subject at home, maybe we can start off by ending it by saying if you guys can give your personal experiences, maybe what are the characteristics of a gentleman, maybe you can go first and then I'm going to get to you. A gentleman, see a gentleman is somebody that respects women. I see being considered a gentleman, I relate it to the other day, what I classified as a lady, to be a gentleman, you have to hold a certain kind of esteem, a certain kind of respect in society and by that I mean you have to be respected of some sort and you have to be, you have to, you have to, as a person, when you respect yourself, then you can gain the respect of others and most so, and the most important of all, respect these ladies. If you respect ladies, then a lot of these things that men do that might, and they must love as you say, it won't be happening because you know what to do, what not to do and I'm not saying that you can leave a pair. Yeah, okay, yeah. Yeah, thank you for this, again, this time you have given to me. So in the case of gents and a man, you need to understand what is a gentleman and a man. A man is a grown up, a boy is a man, a full grown up man, he is a beard, that is a man, anything that is male in terms of a human being, that is a man. But a gentleman, you have to bear some specific principles, first respect and your character, while you are just in the midst of others, that's, you are simply clarified as a gentleman. Yeah, maybe individually, are there like, let's say traits, hey, okay, are there like traits that define you individually as a man that you say, hey, you know, this is what makes me likable out there to both people? To me, on my side, some of the things that make me feel that I'm a gentleman, respect, respect. What is this respect, do you mind like defining it? Yeah, let me define it a bit. When I'm talking of respect, first I respect myself first, then I respect the others. My contact to others will simply and automatically define I myself, more than I myself defining myself to you. My contact to you, and the way I'm going to interact with you, it will simply tell you the man or the general man, the kind of general man I am, then I myself explain it to you. Yeah. Alright, so maybe one of some of the mistakes, this is the last question, please, and we switched to the conversation at hand because we had said we'll finish up with last week's. So maybe what are some of the mistakes that men make that throw women off the hook in terms of like, once you do these and that, ABCD, damn, you are wrong, you are wrong, and damn, your character is damaged, maybe, Byron, you can start off. See, Brian, the women have changed seriously over the time, looking at it from Generation X to the millennia, to the Gen Z right now, the women have changed, and this has demanded some sort of change from the men to we have to adopt, or else we are the ones who are getting hurt. So of the change of a woman, I think the definition of who a man should be and what a man should do has changed. Look at it from the perspective of our parents per se, in their age, what was a man supposed to be? A man was a provider, yes? A man was somebody who was respected in the house, a man was the head of the family. And now, when a man did all that, and attained the particular respect of the society, going by the morals of the society then, then this man was a gentleman, yes? And when it came to the, I don't know, the late 90s, they came with the, oh, lady of feminism. Yeah, feminism was good, Brian, it was good at the start, and then they transformed it and it became a women's plaything. It is never, that they are not doing whatever family was meant to be, it is not empowering women anymore. Right. Yeah, they are using it to run their weird agenda, so I can say, okay, I should. So in our society today, I could say a gentleman, what a man should not do that will throw a woman off the hook, has completely changed. What should not do, if you don't have money, the woman is off the hook. Come on up, that's it. Yeah. You better stop if you don't have money. Yeah, yeah. Okay, hey, hey, Sal. Allow me to start a bit, and let me explain something. It is now time to call for the breach of the empowerment, because. You think it's going to work? It will work. How? For an instant, let me show you one, let me tell you one thing. Most women have credit for women empowerment, since 1940s, 14 years ago, the mother Teresa, all those women, they have fought, and really they have come from Fethifa. But now, we are going to be able to fly, we are going to be able to fly, because they are, now in 32, at least I am going to be able to fly, I am going to be able to fly. You see now, men don't know me, the last time I went to Gambia, I don't know what happened. And that's why the reason that to have more suicides with women, more than ladies, men always try to engage. But it is now, since we need to engage, to speak, our voice is speaking. Because, yes, I am going to be able to support my foundation, and the key thing will be empowering the boy child empowerment. Because since when? That's what I am going to do, I am going to be able to support the boys at school, I am going to be able to support them, I am going to be able to support them, I am proud of them. Because for the last two years, men are showing the ladies that we are still the head in academics. From before and at the standard, KCP and KCSE, boys are leading, that's why we need to know how to empower the boy child. Now I want to answer your questions that, same to the case where KCSE said that, come on a person is a cut, but at a point, let the lady, let the lady understand, we are working in different fields, maybe she is an accountant, whatever you do as a secretariat, salary will be different, accountant maybe a hundred, we are going to be able to cover 50. So I realize this is my man, let me give him respect, the way he gives me and life continues. I have so many questions on that, but since you are ending it, I am asking in my head like why should money be the first commodity of a relationship, is it a business? Is it a business, it's a relationship, we can answer that for ourselves. Now let's switch gears, we have to talk about our interesting topic today, and it's on our social media platform, to Melisa, graduate, Kipendana, a primary dropout, Itawak, Koheli, I'm a love is blind, once again, feedback will be coming just shortly, graduate, Kipendana, a primary dropout, Itawak, Koheli, I'm a love is blind, still, in the name of love, step in the name of love, shout out to R. Kelly. Let me start off by you as well, but the rest since it's also the end of the 844 system, shortly, do you have any experiences of that, before we talk about the serious topic of love and a dropout, do you have any memories, the high school primary that you still hold on to, even as you mark the end of it? I could say high school for me was a learning experience, but yeah, 844. Learning experience? Yes, it was a learning. What were you learning? I learned a lot. Apart from academia. Yeah, apart from academics, I could say, apart from the academics, I could say high school did a good job in modeling me to become who I am today, it toughened me up. What were the things that went amiss or went right? I could say learning in a boys' school, kusoma in a boys' school, not a mix, boarding, boys' school, public, now that is fun, in its own good and bad ways. Bad ways? Bad ways, the kind of things that go, who could attend? I tell you, who could be in the room, who could be in the kitchen, who could be in the kitchen. What about maths and physics? Maths. Maths. Maths. Maths took on a story. Okay, what about you, what do you remember from high school? I've got a problem with the 844 system. Oh, so you're a big support of CBC? CBC is a support to PIA, and Red Plus, simply because building and modeling of these kids means that at a far distance. Okay. I'm a scientist and I'm a model at a university, so it doesn't make any sense. The earlier you begin modeling a kid, the earlier you begin, the better. Or the less chest pain you'll have in your life. Because since I was a kid, I used to work in a B.C.D., I used to work in a system called LASMO Crab. I used to work as a guest in a party, imagine a song. So from that, I transferred to a university. I used to work at a high school, I was a kid. But now I'm working at a university. But now it's the CBC one. Practicals are standard 4, standard 3. You know, I used to tell people, I don't know what to do. For what purpose? I don't know what to do. So for the rest of your life, except because from 3, I don't know what to do with practicals. But with this kid, I started at grade 4. So, after growing up, his life is more about learning how to play games. Because for example, I saw a standard, I think a standard 3, standard 4, standard 5 kid from Trucana, he left a game. Then it looked, yeah, we need this kind of people. A standard 3, standard 5 kid, a graph, a game, becoming a referee in co-brothers who are bigger than you, it looks interesting. More than that, since you don't have to stretch your football, you don't have to go to a referee, you have to graduate from a football, you don't have to go to a coach, you don't have to go to a referee. So these practicals from early, I supported. That's why I'm supporting CBC. Those mothers were saying, I'm going to graduate from the same school and I'm going to be a judge. I'm coming and say, for 84 years I'm going to be a CBC student, CBC is the least benefit. When I'm at school, when I'm at school, I'm going to be a CBC student. At least, it's the performance I'm going to be from, grade 4, I'm going to be in the first grade, before I'm going to be transferred due to the iron in secondary school. It's a more benefit. Mother and sister who are in the 4-on-4, the majority of them are in primary school. But I get it when you're in a family. That is it. When you're in a family, it's agriculture. That is it. Agriculture, right? Yeah. Big time, I think I agree with you. Back here of a thousand percent. Now, still on that CBC note, you individually, would you love or fall in love with? In the name of the question for the day, would you fall in love with a primary high school dropout? No. Why not? Maybe like three reasons. I'll give you first reason. First reason, this one is a kid. I have the mind. He's like a child. The capacity, IQRK, you could change, more than yours. How? Because there could be, yeah, I don't know how old you are. I don't want to ask your age, but for example, just right now, you meet a lady, beautiful. She's ready for marriage. I don't know if you are yourself, but you'll tell me off the air. And then you don't know if she'll finish high school or primary school. But then you fall in love. Only like six or a year down the relationship, you realize, damn, she did not even finish class four. And here you are. You're almost going to tie the knot at the aisle. What do you do in that situation? Then that takes me back to the last week's topic. I say that during your courtship, what were you trying to understand from your partner, from your partner? Because you need one thing to understand. You need to be happy. You need to be happy. You need to be happy at school. If you fall in love with the same case, you'll have to go to the university. You'll have to go to the university. So, and because at that time, you want to score. Did you confirm that? Yeah, same one, by the way. So, in your case, I learned, you know, I said it before, but... You would not fall in love. I would not. But if you realize, I would not fall in love with this case. I would not fall in love with that Alimaliza. Then, we are in it. Then the next step is, I would just drop her. Yeah, I tell her, it won't work. Simply because, first thing, you would not fall in love. So, if you fall in love with her for three months, three weeks, all of the rest of the next 50 years, what, how many three months to make up all of the rest of the 50 years, mean that, if you fall in love with her, she will cheat you more and more. Yeah. But everybody tells lies. We tell lies to avoid punishment too. Like, every day, then there's a statistic that says, at least in a day, you tell 100 lies. And that's just by saying, Hi, you're good, you're not good, but you say, I'm not lying. How are you doing? How are you doing KBC? How are you doing? How are you doing in Africa? Hi, we tell lies all day. So, maybe it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. You see, this is a relationship, this is a joke, by the way. This is a serious matter. Let us take it seriously. Right. Love and relationships, I take it seriously. And let us build a lot of seriousness. To be honest, I don't know what I'm saying. If I say, I don't know what I'm saying, I don't know what I'm saying, I don't know what I'm saying. So, to be honest, I'm pressing hard from the beginning. Then, a strong foundation is always a strong family, a strong head up. At what times, it is quite strong. Yeah. Byron, would you fall in love with a form 2, a primary dropout, ATC in between? No. Mm-hmm. Uh, maybe at that time, I was a CEO of a company called Babana. I wouldn't have to have a job. So, when it comes to matters of heart and relationship, these things are complicated to be said. Uh-huh. Now, let me push it. Like, at the first stages, if I discover that, then that's a no. We ain't going. But, let's look at, we started doing this thing you like to be here. And now we are, there is into it, I'm a weeks, I'm a months, into it, I'm a years perhaps, yeah. And then I come to realize you are a dropout, you drop out of form 2. Mm-hmm. Unlike William, I don't think I'll just leave immediately. I'll evaluate. Why did we take six years together? Why were we together for six years? Yes, you lied to me, but why have we survived the six years? Yeah. So, I'll look at it at large and then see, as much as the trust will be hurt. Yeah. Absolutely. But I'll try to look at it at large and see. Yeah. Because I was telling a friend of mine that in as much as back then in the days, a learned woman was something to be proud of, say, I remember hearing stories of mahari lipo depending on the level of education of a girl. Yeah. My child is a graduate. You have to pay this amount of mahari because I wasn't able to know how come a class a dropout, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, but now as a person was under, gone this system and right now, wherever I am today. You're an enlightened guy. I think I have. Yeah, you have standards of acceptance. And now I look at it and I see like, is it really worth it selling us the education beat? Yeah, but that's a good question. Is it really worth it? You have a degree she doesn't or she has you don't. Does it really matter? What happened to like walking it out? Let's try walk it out. If it works, go bless our hearts. Money. Money. Money comes in. Yeah, money status and society status, I think the social statuses that happen. If our goals don't align, what do you bring to the table? Yeah. What do you bring to the table? She's the table. Yeah. What do you bring? Now, that is why I was telling you, times have changed. Yeah, that was a time when men were comfortable enough to bring. But the women have championed for a fair world. Yes. And what is fair? Yeah, what I'm going to do, I'm going to do better. If I bring yours, if I bring mine, you bring yours. Yeah, they don't want us to remain in the head anymore. That is what they're saying. They want us to have a fair world. You see, back then, the man was a provider because he was the head of the family. And today, a woman wants to have the same amount of respect as the man. Like, it appears even in the most recent families, you realize that the man has absolutely left the role of the disciplinarian. When I was growing up, if you made a mistake, my mom would call my dad. Tell her, see, and I'm going to be here. Byron, I'm going to find you here in a here. And then my dad, even if it was a way, would call me and give me a lecture maybe, or throw me a punishment. And then you look at it today, it's like more like the men have become the friends of the children and the women of the disciplinarian. The balance of the society, of the family, the nuclear point has been upset. I like that perspective. I like that outlook. It is more of an improper fraction right now. Oh, it's improper. You think it's not helping to nurture. It's not helping. Because if the woman is saying, I am strong enough, I am capable, then why do they keep on victimizing themselves? They've made victimization, like when a jurumisha has a weapon against mankind. I am strong enough as you, but there's still a week. So what are you? OK, that's a good question, by the way. If you spoke that in a feminist forum, they'll jump on you with bananas and potatoes. So I would work it out, I say. When it comes to matters hard, I'm flexible. OK, you can scroll up, Kedogo. We see the comments, and then we'll still get back. In a situation where it's already working, and education didn't really matter that much, and you guys have already had your first kid. Are you divorcing her? We're divorcing her. For us, too, I was telling you, Brian, like, Ilya's relationship with Fika that far, plus the courtship stage that he said. In Amanishad, there are things that you like to put each other. There are some things that have fully propelled you to be the fire. Why would you just decide to abandon all that because she's not a graduate? It don't make sense to me. It doesn't. If we've been together for six years, and we have a kid, and then I want to leave you because you're a dropper. I'm a joker, first of all. Second to that, I'm not the man I'm supposed to be. I'm the man of the genies, and I don't like that man. All right, let me jump on you. Is love really blind? Is love really blind? I don't think so. When you fell in love with the first time, are there things you are blind to? Like, ah, let's ignore this. When you were a kid, you ignored the red flags, baby. Did you even know some red flags, and you just stepped in? And then later on, you're like, hey, let me take a break for a minute. OK, now, to me, I'm always a serious man on some issues. Let's bring it to the table. See, she's going to change you and make you a better man. You don't have six bucks and you can't go to the gym. I'm not going to sign up at the gym. I'm not going to go to the gym. When I have six bucks, I can't go to the gym. How do you fix men? How do you dress? How do you fix men? They want a package, tall, dark, and the rest. You must have money. You must have a good smile. You must have a masculine voice. You must have a masculine smell. My sex. She's working on you. How do you work? Even in that case, I will support her. Based on how capable I am and how can I manage it. Simply, I just want to say that... You're going to go to the gym. Yes, I'm going to go to the gym. Fitness is in me. That is in me. You are fitness. Yes, fitness is me and fitness is fitness. So, I'm going to go to the gym. But compared to who? After all that training, I'm going to go to the gym 24 hours a day. I'm going to go to the gym 24 hours a day. I'm going to go to the table. I'm going to ask for money. I'm going to go to the gym. So, we have to compare. If it is a job and if it's a job, I'm going to say I'm going to do the same thing for 5 weeks. I'm going to stay at home. I'm going to work. That's the weekend. I'm going to do the same thing for 2 weeks. Simply, I'm going to go to the gym. I'm also asking, why should you accept to be manipulated? To be someone you're not. You've not been going to the gym since you were born. And then you've met her now. You want to start going to the gym. All that pain. What happened to just eating and having fun? You're not going to manipulate. On that case, that was said that fitness is in me and fitness is in me. So, on that case, if I've not been going for it, let me train myself now. If she forces on the matter, simple questions must come about it. Reasons why. You're not going to be a boyfriend of mine. Then that means that I'm with you, then you're still comparing our family with that of others. Let us build ours based on what we found, on what we have agreed on and we move on. Not comparing myself at all. You're not going to be a boyfriend of mine. You're not going to be a boyfriend of mine. So, love is blind. That's why I'm asking you, I don't support the point of love is blind. No. Let us build our table. That we are able to do, build our table. Is love really blind? I can say it is. We can explain. I can say it is. People tend to shout all like, I know what I'm doing. I don't know what. And then immediately this person falls in love. Actually, you don't recognize these people. It becomes stupid. They're very stupid. Somebody like, your friends will be telling you, this is a red flag. Now, this is it. You're being cheated on. And then, and then confirm. Are you cheating? Then I'm not cheating now for sure. Yet, a friend of hers met you with a lady somewhere. And then they'd be like, okay, if he says so, then that must be it. If she says so, then that must be it. See, love is a game of trust. I could say so. Love is a game of trust. Don't have evidence of. And again, when it comes to matters, grandeur and everything. But I still answer. If you met one, I want you to be slim, stuck in, I want you to lose weight. Like, be slim. Yes, you're tall and dark, but just lose weight, kiddo. Would you suffer? And why should you suffer? Why choose violence? Or you can stay huge and still eat your favorite food and snacks and still be fine. So if you love me the way I am, if you love me as huge as I am, why do you want me to be slim? Why don't you get yourself a slim man? Oh, nice. Go get yourself a slim man. There is compromising relationships, but not to that extent. But also, it happens with Vasa. Guys still, ladies, to go to the gym, go work out, get an eight-good figure, BSSA's eight or 10, whatever the size is, your favorite flavor, your flavor. You go with your flavor. Well, what if you're gonna get your flavor? She also gets, maybe you want to work on her and tell her, me, I want to make you mine. So let's go through the template here, how to make you mine. See, my opinion is, if I met you and you're my type, right? You're my type from the start. So what? If I love a lady who has a figure eight, you are the figure eight, right? If I love light-skinned ladies, so you're light-skinned, right? You're fair, something, yeah? And if I love pretty girls, you're pretty, yes? I met you pretty. Pretty girls. I met you pretty. No, no, no, I could just say, my everywhere, every woman is pretty. No matter what skin color you have. Okay, okay, every woman is pretty. Pretty in the whole world. Semi on earth, Kwanzaa. So if I like you that way, then I'll get you because you look like what I want. That is the first stage, I'm attracted to you. Right, yeah? Because you look like what I want. Yeah. And then after, now I get to the extent of knowing you, now I've gone past the physical appeal. I want to know the inner you. What is your mindset? How do you think? What is your IQ? But I say nobody carries an X-ray to see inner beauty. That's why you need a worship here. Yeah. So you become... So after this period, now the issue is, I found you all these. And then I want you to know that I want it. It's either you go and cut off that, give me what I want it. Give me what I want it or I'll go and get what I want it. Okay. So as a man in short, you should have options. I didn't say so. Okay, yeah. There's somebody interviewed here, can I borrow as a man if you don't have option, you're screwed, especially if you don't have money. But we'll talk about that later. All right, let's backtrack it to our parents. Time may be they are falling in love. Actually, Ako Kwan has to read, like level of education. It requires, I think in fact, we're going to talk to you a little bit like her. You're 25, you know, to know Namstian Aflani, I'm from a neighbor to know Namak-sut. And they will stay together or raise a family. Ako Kwan has the arguments bring what you got on the table. The table is me, I'm the meal, you're the snack, now you're not, you know, Ako Kwan have to come easy. But why is it that in this day and age, these things matter so much to a point, it's giving people sleepless nights, others are run for their money, others can't even catch sleep like five minutes because I'm a Cataliwan, I'm too many, you know, like Levoleake came my ship at Hamtaki. Why do these things matter in this day and age? Maybe let me come back to you still. Yes, first I begin with the first question, where the, was that the one after Bibi? Yeah, one after after you are gone, is that right? Yes, the question is important, there were more, there were more polygamous, there were a lot of polygamous. Because, yes, Levo meant after you. So, it's a tradition, but in case we don't after you, we are not after you. But during the olden days it worked, you were not after you, you were not back then, you were happily ever after. What is your work on you right now? Right now, because it was as if we were not after you. Simply say, my mother, I drew the kind of girls we were after, we were not after you. We were, we saw them, we saw them, but just in those times, we were not after you, we were not after you, we know them from their beginning, after this time. We saw them from the beginning. But I think, I think in the past, maybe in 2020, I was cooking for the… I told them that maybe in the end, maybe in 2013, 10 years I was happy, so I associated it with my mom and later, when I do have cash, I will be within, within me, I get some idea. So, you know, I was like, you know, I was like, I am a trick. So, you are like 40 now, then you can't imagine that you are like that. But does age also really matter in terms of marriage? In terms of marriage, yes. I was 45 years old when I was in science, damn, because... Surely. Surely, it doesn't matter. Surely. To me, it matters. Age and matter are the same. Simply, it doesn't matter. Do you live in Okati? Yes, I live in Okati. If you live in Okawai, where is it? If you live in Okawai, if you live in Okawai, if you live in Okawai, if you live in Okawai, if you live in Okawai, you'll neither be married nor have a gender status. So, you can live in Okawai if you don't have a gender. If you live in Okawai, from maybe 20, if you live in Okawai, from maybe university, from maybe university, from maybe university, maybe university, or twenty-four years. If you live in Okawai, from thirty-ten, thirty-two years old, you'll die. That's also the case. Because you're married, you're married with a father, and they're married with a father. But that's a good question. If you're in that age bracket, married between 20 between what age between maybe you know for example University 24 to 34 to 32 for a man for a man was supposed to be heading to a marriage lady 28 wish let me buy a 28 27 she should be in it so again that's another she should be in it already okay is age really does it really matter do you feel like to yourself when you get food to your like damn the world is ending I don't have a kid of course of course see the society living Kenny's made up of I would say the middle-class citizens are the nation right and middle-class citizens depend on employment so if I want to marry at 45 yep and the retirement age is 60 60 at what level of education with my child be when I'm retiring and then after that how will I pay the fee one of your pensions pension is a pension is a servings I would say that now servings when it comes to that first of all me may believe that you should marry when I tell you you are vibrant enough you can do everything a man should do in the family you can discipline your kids you can show you can do whatever man needs to know in the house with the kids yeah with the kids and with your wife too okay and it works for both men and women if you look at me use them okay figure a lady once you're 35 if you don't have a name then you don't have a name then you have nothing to offer many if you don't have a name if you know if you have a name you look at I don't to mention any names or something but if you look at most of the socialite socialite relationships a live celebrity relationship like if I come to you as a celebrity there's something again out of it again free again some cloud yes so even after to cry for like three months you look at it they will be married for three months one year and then they separated and then right after that there's somebody now come back to the real ladies now these people do not have fame everybody that is coming to you around that age maybe it happened and fortunately you are single mother everybody wants to eat but who wants to marry when you mentioned married they're running away so who's the problem is the lady the problem of the men who are avoiding what were you doing what made for getting married okay that's a good question I still what were you doing when the rest were getting married but it could be she was not just compatible actually still on that note I've just seen a tweet by Sheila Monega I used to listen to her on easy FM way way back she was like one of the dopest female media personalities in the country she says that she was not meant to get married to anyone and the head that she is receiving it's it's it's too much please leave her alone they're like they're like work at you though you've just said there's one of the comments in the summer when you're in media and you are the hottest that time you never wanted to get married you know she was actually one of the most powerful women in media way way back when easy FM was the radio before classic and keys of famine nation you know so does it mean that you know there's a there's a timeline for for people to do things I've seen somebody give a testimony of 45 she got her first husband at 45 got her kid at 46 and she's still doing fine and she's running a very big business that's taking over the USA age factor I'm gonna eat so serious now I'm not speaking for me I'm speaking for now they tell my question to you Brian is when she was 45 and she was getting the mark was she running the big business yes she was running I told me if you have a name you get what you want but if you don't have what you can get I'm sure to money money on a dinner on a body I see it on a body maybe I also respect opinion if somebody believes that they cannot be married then I couldn't push them to be married because they mess up the relationship and the people involved okay but at the same time why were there like I if you look at it I've read stories and followed some yeah you find that back then in the ages what well criminalize you go in the traditional African whatever yeah actually once you figure 25 you're like time is up yeah well a lady comes at your you have overstayed if you're 25 and you don't have a kid and they were being forced to marry and then these people married and their marriage is worked yeah and they keep the family running and the lineage online yeah but then if you look at it today it's more like I do say again that the Western culture that we adopted brought very good things with it look at it it brought us whatever we have it today so has it helped or destroyed now I brought both perspectives the problem with us africans is that we are more westerners than the westerners themselves okay we took it up as our do you agree we are more westerners I agree with you I agree with him yeah in what sense maybe for example most of African we we are trying to copy from the worst for instance you're not in short there's a loose knot because you are not you know it's okay your dad I'm a same okay I support I support when we were in a cakey I love police or market in your cream to let it a bow to cut it we part to to to share a cake to cool it at the end of home to take a motor to cool it after that that is nonsense so it's better so it's better to answer from nothing yeah not only good for us instead of the whole thing here after that but remember that it's streets streets my sister from Nhaze. She's a man of my heart, and she doesn't share her wedding. So I'm serving as a brother, so she gets married and... I'm from scratch, I was born from nowhere. I was born like this, We publish you up, we may end up bankrupt. But anyways, also does it matter to me to say my story, education? And choosing a partner who has some certain levels of education. As a man, maybe there are standards that you should have as well. Now that education is part of it, just maybe apart from any other thing that you should consider, what are they in terms of choosing a partner, a life partner? Correct. Correct is very key. Correct is very key. Can you explain the character? In terms, for me, when I'm with a lady, when I'm with a girl... She's a scholar. If you're listening, please. It's okay. She's a scholar. She's a scholar. If you want to ask me, I'll leave a link. Let me tell you this. I'm not a scholar. For sure. I'm a scholar, yes. I'm based in Nairobi. Maybe it's because I'm a scholar. I don't have jobs. My job is not a job. But with me, maybe I have a job, and maybe I get to meet my husband, or I'll meet my husband. It's the end of the season. We are passing. We're going to keep going. We'll keep going. And when the seasons come of rents, you just be there. Weekends, you are there to go and get a little bit of advice. And some of them like to be asked, to come to work. So, I learned who is more responsible in matters of home. In matters of home. See, it's a sort of traditional tradition. A homemaker. Yeah. They say a woman is a homemaker. A homemaker. A home builder and a man is a what? We can scroll the feedback we see what people are seeing on social media. Are you able to scroll it up? It does that. Let me just see if we have something on excess. That is called up really fast. All right. Nice. There we go. Maxwell O'Neill says, DJ Apana said, my love is always blind in Kefaana. You had said that at some point by Ron. Sami Chisaka said, good morning. Good morning to you. Deno and Sururu said, I'm watching live from the United States of Sururu. Okay. Shout out to the United States of Sururu. He said, love is blind. Okay. Okay. All right. All right. And then Susuru said, My love is blind. Okay. Sobid and Serum. Okay. All right. All right. Sobid and Serum. Okay. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. Sorry. I didn't have the time to speak. Dennis Nyongesa and I say my love has no boundaries. Kakingia Katasonga too. Natazama Nikiwa Namoisi in Bungoma County. Shout out to you, Bungoma Massive. And then Hagai Oakesa and I say my love and education is two different things. Love Iki Fika Exo, Iki Fika, Nikopenda even UIO graduate Anaiza Penda Hadichokorabana. Okay, nice, got you. Michael Truman and I say my tuning from Nibasha and according to me, here relationship I was in last for long because the level of reasoning will be the biggest issue for here relationship. You pointed it out about Mathias and then Willy Bazzone, I say my watching live from Kitale, Burunda, masculine peak and I say my Siakago with two great tics. And then Kamau Senango, I say my Pamoja sana, Hapa Ki Amwangi Division in Gatundu, South Kambukounte. All right, Ben Rakan I say my it's valve for me. Wow, valve, you got your flowers right there from Ben Rakan. And then Ketrin Shikon, I say my Kagandam, Ranga to Konakas, Kamau, Kamakai. And then also Kizito Nyongesana, I say my watching from Wanda in Bungoma County. Seems like today we have a lot of people from Bungoma, Joseph Penda Amwangi and I say my Nuki town, well represented. Ketrin Shikon, Pamoja, Tena sana. All right, Boaz Mangol, I say my relationship and education between Billy Tafauti Uki Pata, Chesa, Kiba Zenga. Are you the Boaz Mangolia, you know? The one who used to be a footballer and a neighbor. Joshua Moelindo, I say my following out of my Uge. And then Mikey Blessings, I say my following. All right, okay, Iman Jams, a big fan, I say my Missianze Kuzma, Penzi, when I turn up to do, okay, okay, sour. Elias Kaliboa, I say my from Malindi, locked. And then we have Racha Jose, I say my Itawak, okay. All right, okay, Russ Jerry, I say my Itawak, but graduate, so Keoana, Hakuna Ndoa Apu. When I escape, Bibi graduate, I say my Akuna meeting, Jioni, Sasa Tardisa, Sata Nohsiku. And then they spent much time on phones when I was a Pata Yumba in Metulia, Kumbi Ako, Tu, Cosimo, Akuna Kongeleshana. Okay, Willie Boazona, I say my kid, all right. We had read your feedback, Willie, and thank you so much, so much. Just one word from you guys. Do you think going on or moving forward, dating dynamics are changing? It's going to even be extremely hard for someone to get a spouse. Now that you mentioned stories and empowerment, you're saying women cannot even survive without men. Somebody doesn't need a man to get pregnant. They can do IVF and they'll still be fine. They'll still get a baby. I think it has worked on Kim Kardashian and I don't know who else and many others. Just in one minute, not even a minute, 30 seconds. Do you think dating, moving on, onwards is going to be really hard? True. It's going to be very complicated. At any time, it's changing and we're adapting to the times very fast. And we're adapting to things that maybe we should not be adapting to. So as times move on, the levels that we've been given today are even going to get tighter. If a man, at least today, it's money. To more it will be wealth. Money and wealth are two different things, I say. Okay. To me, dating, you come it ended like, let me first tell you that things change. What I did to you, you live, you should have done it to me again. But one thing, be the person you want to be and when you're not at home, let her bring, let me let you know at least she be the person you wanted, she be, it'll work. But again, you are Kim Kardashian. What was the idea? And surrogate is actually into surrogate. Let me take you back to Bible. God created sex and it is our sex, but it gave you the old spirit to control, sour. But now, was it the principle of God who let us easily to sing in a Mambayat or tube? So God gave you a brain. Brain? Have you ever heard of that song, God made man, man made money, man made man, God, something. But anyways, we can't continue, bro. I'm told we are out, we'll be cut off the air. So social media, mojito, mojito, yako. Yanko, me, Instagram, onarebo, matiumanya. Sausage, yours? Byron Uchanu. Right, thank you both for doing like a part two of this, I appreciate you so much. Wow. All right, and that's what we call it a day. We'll definitely see you tomorrow for help and entrepreneurship Tuesday with my co-star, Stephanie. My good name is Brian Sarko, hashtag Y2 for 4 Channel, everyone on all our social media platform. We definitely see you tomorrow right here. And while in the morning, have a fantastic Monday. We'll see you tomorrow.