 I'm a big proponent of doing a background check, taking their phone number, doing a reverse look up on it. Now, eight out of 10 times, most people are giving you their honest information. But I'd say there's about 20% of scam artists out there. So it's incumbent upon you to do your own due diligence. Debbie, I highly recommend asking as many questions before you ever meet them in person. And certainly before you ever get physically with a man, try to meet people he knows, red flag means ask deeper questions and maybe through those, that invitation of dialogue, you can actually get to know the person at a deeper level to determine if they're capable of going beyond their wounds from their past and actually lean into a healthy, happy relationship and see they operate from a place of interdependency.