 What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel. My name is Lloyd today We're gonna be talking about how to have more energy when you're out This is a big thing that you need to get right because if you come in with low energy You're not feeling too good. You're not putting a lot of effort into your interactions You're not gonna be successful when you go out like girls aren't gonna want to talk to you and people in general Won't want to be around you and I know this could be a big challenge for for us people like introverts that Don't feel very energetic when they have to talk to people in fact they they tend to feel drained When they go out, so I hear a lot of people complaining about being tired before they go out type tired while they're out and so hopefully this video will give you a lot of tips and Steps to be able to eliminate you being tired when you're out and actually give you more energy when you go out Like you should be feeling more energetic when you go out like it should be good You should be having a great time And so if you do these things, I think you're gonna be on the right track So the first thing that I'm gonna give you is to move around more now And a lot of people get into the venue or if they're going to a social event bar club Whatever it is or maybe they're going to something else like you're talking to women during the day a big mistake that a lot of people make is They sit they they go to the bar get a drink or whatever it is and they sit down They sit down. They don't move and they just kind of like sip their drink And they stay there and they hope you know something's gonna happen Well the longer you sit down and you're not moving the more tired you're gonna feel the less energy You're going to have you need to start doing things that are gonna give you more energy And so what I recommend that you do is go in there start talking to people start at least walking around If I'm in a bar club or anywhere where there's music I'll just kind of like be moving to the music to you know, I'll be standing up dancing and getting myself into the groove You know just by that alone I can pick my energy up a little bit if there's no one to talk to step number two is kind of a mindset shift Which is focused on how to talk to a girl that you you're interested in versus should I talk to her? So a lot of people when they go into like I said a social event They see a cute girl or whatever it is they spend so long thinking about should I do it? Should I not do it? Am I being a pussy? Am I being needy? Is she not gonna like me? all of these thoughts are Wasting your energy like your willpower is finite and they talk a lot about this in RSD and Owen especially Your willpower is finite and if you spend it doing things that you're not go that aren't going to help you You're wasting it. So you should be spend time thinking about like Like how should I go up and talk to this girl? I'll give you an example like if I walk in and I see like, you know The only group of girls and in the place is like this giant group where they're all kind of all huddled together This is like probably one of the hardest groups to start talking during one of the hardest situations to start a conversation with But it's rather than me thinking about should I go up and talk to them? Is it gonna work? Is it gonna be like a good thing for me to do that? I I know that they're the only group of girls in there. So now I'm thinking about is how can I do it? Can I stand nearby them and wait for one of them to kind of like branch off a little bit? Maybe I could talk to her then one-on-one Or maybe I could just like go be around them and like start talking really loudly and see which of them kind of starts to Turn, you know, I'm thinking about how as opposed to should I and if you spend time thinking about those sorts of things You're gonna have a lot more energy and you're not gonna feel drained before you even go up and talk to that person Number three is to drink more water not more alcohol. Okay when you're out I don't mind if people drink alcohol. That's fine But don't drink too much and don't drink way too much before you go out too Because a lot of the guys that are you guys are getting drunk like I used to before I went out You're gonna be really exhausted and tired by by the time midnight rolls around which is the most important time That's when people start pairing up is around that time So if you get smashed at like 9 p.m. Or 10 p.m. Walking in there like the next two hours You're probably gonna drink more to keep it going and then you're gonna feel pretty frickin exhausted and drunk and sloppy by midnight You're gonna feel tired drink a lot more water at the beginning that way you're feeling hydrated Even if you're slightly dehydrated which alcohol makes you dehydrated. You're gonna feel more tired So I would be drinking water throughout the night make sure you're not drinking too many Alcoholic beverages and you know what I think too is that if you're gonna use like caffeine and drugs and that sort of stuff You're gonna be really careful with that because it can be bad later on like what you start using that if you're dependent upon those types of things to stay awake do these things you're gonna be more coherent and you're gonna be you're gonna be feeling a Lot better these natural remedies are gonna be far far better than than using Using drugs and alcohol, which you know in the long run is probably better for your health Anyway, step number four is don't pretend to be someone that you're not if you're not the kind of person to You know shout really loud things and dance around like a monkey, you know Don't do it. Okay One thing that I do and this is a very relevant example is If I'm feeling tired before I go out which does happen I do feel tired a lot of times before I go out But I still do it because I know the things that I need to do to bring myself back up and a lot of you guys are You know use it as an excuse to not take action Which is you're never gonna be successful if you don't go out So if I'm feeling tired before I go out, I rock that shit, you know I'm like if I'm talking to a girl. She's like, how are you? I'm like, oh, dude I'm like such a zombie right now the fact that I'm talking to you right now is a complete miracle and then you know By me being like on tired like I'm this tired person. How are you? How's it going and you know like doing that? Ironically, it sounds really silly But it's better that I do that than I try and fake like I'm high energy and you know Jump around and do all that sort of stuff because if I force myself I'm going to feel even more tired because it takes more energy to force yourself to do something You don't want to do that you just be yourself and sometimes a lot of you know A lot of the time when I'm talking to a girl that I'm in that tired mode She'll be like, oh, let's find some stuff to make you more energetic or you know We'll come up with a game where you know We can we can use to try and get me to have more energy You know usually involves is going around maybe you know talking to different people or maybe you're touching me Would probably get me more excited Step five is talk to people that you know we're gonna give you a good reaction Or you know people that have the right energy You're looking for if I first walk into the venue and I start talking to basically like the hottest girl there and She's really low energy. She's like kind of just talking to her friends. They ignore me And I'm spending so much time trying to get this girl interested I'm wasting so much valuable energy that I could be spending with someone else that's gonna give me more energy So after that conversation, I'm probably gonna feel drained I'm probably gonna not want to talk to that next person But if I chose another group of girls that you know Maybe I might not be as attracted to or maybe even a group of guys I might not necessarily be trying to have sex with them But I go up I talk with them and they're really fun super high energy really cool people now I'm feeling more high energy now I'm feeling better more positive more enthusiastic all of these things are attractive qualities So when that hot girl does come around that I am interested in that I do want to sleep with I'm feeling really good and I'm way more an attractive person at that point in time Whereas before I just wasted all that energy and an opportunity that wasn't there I made myself feel drained and I didn't open myself up to the opportunity to meet somebody later Pay attention to who you talk to try and find someone that's gonna give you a good reaction and good energy And the final step is step number six, which is stop judging yourself guys This is so huge if I go up like let's say I make a mistake and I end up talking to a girl Who's really low energy or you know, she's just not interested in me Okay, that would normally make me feel drained, but if I don't judge myself and I laugh it off and I'm like Let's see what the next girl says, you know If I have that kind of attitude I'm gonna be a lot more energetic and a lot more likely to go talk to somebody else But if you judge yourself like you go up and she's like oh I have a boyfriend and it kind of turns around and then you walk back thinking like that was stupid I can't believe I thought that would work like, you know I'm a loser and you know, like I'm never gonna get good at this like how do you like there's no possible way That that is going to give you more energy like you're done man But if you have the kind of mentality where you're not judging yourself and you're not too hard on yourself it's important for you to make a note of it and Review it later and see if you could have done anything better But while you're out, that's not the time to be doing that the time to be doing that is to be taking action And giving yourself positive vibes. Okay, hopefully you've seen from this video that Positive feelings positive emotions are going to give you the most amount of energy negative emotions Feelings like I'm not good enough feeling scared feeling anxious being angry all of these types that will anger in some ways can get you more energy But if you're feeling more excited if you're feeling happy if you're feeling humorous if you're feeling like You know joyous like all of these things They're gonna give you more energy Being able to shift and turn things into a positive light seeing the positive sides of things is gonna give you vastly more energy Than thinking about the negative so stop judging yourself. Don't be too harsh on yourself when you're out Look man, even I go out and girls shoot me down. It does. It's not a big deal It's not something that you should hold against yourself What you should hold against yourself is if you don't take action You don't do anything and you sit around stand there without you know even trying so That's the kind of thing that you should beat yourself up for Okay, so Basically, those are all my tips you guys if you maintain and consider subscribing and come out with videos like this every single week If you're interested in my weekly one-on-one mentorship program shoot me an email of us single guy 2017 at demo comm And just based on the way my channel and my business is growing I'm actually gonna start looking for an assistant soon So if you're interested in that you want to travel around the world have sex with a bunch of girls and help me out And build your own influence This would be the place to do it. So thanks a lot you guys and good luck out there