 Hi, how are you? I hope you're doing well. My name is Ndanya, the gracious host and I'm joined by Liz Jackson and we're back again with another video Let's start by celebrating lava. Diana and Bahati they set up a billboard to celebrate the seven years anniversary miyaka ni saba miyaka ni saba and also, kuna tufunonu tunasema aderirashil kwa drana yeah, what do you think about that? I mean, well, I don't know why I thought they've ever done a traditional wedding I think it's an introduction ili kwa introduction, I think, kwa ikwa rurashil I think it was an introduction, so mi I thought that they actually dana na vangaring aje propoziwa? aje propoziwa stage sometime aje propoziwa stage kwa performance aka pewangwa kitia, mekaliya, ya gold I remember, yes so introduction ili fanyuwa, they are engaged kitu probably haiku we me fanyuwa ni mahariku pelikwa then we don't know if they are legally married on paper I don't know, I'm not sure but see, Bahati has been saying that jamfanya arusi this December arusi this December, so probably that's when they want to make it official for his babies later but kila amtuna like neshiake? kila amtuna like neshiake? would you wish that for you? definitely for me kids will come before marriage definitely you think I'm going due to date I get married and then I have kids apana plot twist toto marriage, because I feel for me marriage is temporary yo baby daddy yo yo baby mama forever so choose wisely, so for me the parent to my child my son or my daughter is much more important than marriage for me see, I don't care but for me I am more focused on giving a better parent to my children because watu kusana, watu divorce but if you have a child with someone yo ni pakade doing that I agree but also I feel like with these ones 7 years I feel like by the time I have a third child I will be sure this is the one yeah I think but kuna wene kuna watu they feel like titles sometimes bring a lot of responsibilities like it is just better off to be with someone but you could tell for sure they are 100% sure about each other so for them they are also wondering why it took that long they didn't even rush into getting married kufanyaro rashio as well that is what suited them na regardless of whether they were married on people or not they knew like they are doing life together plus kila mtu kwa na preference oku elia kunanga the right way am at the wrong of doing things you do you we are happy for them congratulations on the same note on love na kwa mdi ya watu wuku wameru disoko siju kama wali yoga ha tu koshua but we have two instances one, amira who got a divorce two years ago from jimal rahasafi alitone shum puwa wake then puwa wake a mediativate comments susas jimuna mediativate comments puwa waka sayi a mediativate comments fila ni amira na pata esi where is the comments a mediativate comments alafu they were together where they were sayi wanaka ni kama wakukos but me I don't believe continue to create a school kama sayi ni post ni kondia ni na nikuwa we won't say kumunia ni kondia ni as we speak but I am here but anyway regardless of that regardless of that there is evidence of them being together but do you know it could be akiki kusimu kwa li deep down I feel like it's clouds you feel amira is cloud chasing I say amira is cloud chasing what's the vacation or the whole thing the whole relationship thing I've always felt like amira moved on but ita liwa I think do you remember the time amira posted photos in a wedding gown na kumu kwa temali post nikuwa na utase me li agari nikuwa agari chusimu geto me ya wedding gown pa sini content but me ni kwa po ni me li paku markets ja ni kapo nizu na zengia pinterest na koti kubambe I don't feel like I don't feel like e-relationship nikuwa nikuwa nikuwa nikuwa nikuwa nikuwa nikuwa ya one month of kustiana na Mike Mondo na jana Mike Mondo lukuna watotoa ke they were spending quality time together which brought a lot of controversy because the ex to Shiko Rama say that I is itaka watotoa ke will introduce him to another man so I don't know you ita endaji ita Shiko lukuwa Shiko had a daughter na li introduce you wa kwa Rama maybe he thought they were going to end up okay in that setting they were married na get who you ni boyfriend plus I also feel like when you have meaning e kwa na mtoto and I'm not together with the father of the child I will not introduce my children to all my boyfriends but I feel nikuwa mtotoa mtotoa at that point I would so labda Rama has a problem with your point but let me tell you Rama I don't know if you watched his podcast I have not his podcast he was being hosted the things he was saying in that podcast hei because there is a comment he said we will sit down and from that day I have never said him the same again he said the worst mistake he ever did was date a single mum and leave all the other hoes alone like alia cha Rama miata nilinishtwani I thought she learned from her first marriage you thought she learned from her first like oh my he is speaking as if it was her first una get as if she didn't alafu ni kama pialim sa idea sana like without Rama Shiko will not be there Shiko packed all the bags went to Malindi to pursue a future with this man and that's how this man is talking anyway you made me willing we fear men also this past weekend a lot of events have been happening wajua wakiniwa na penda shere na bada kwa tata tata ekonomi imagine the whole of Nairobi was indiani for ma piano nili piti ya nili piti ya pala masayangu nili kwa pala shugulizangu kido kido kwa na pita mahaliki na nongi aseng na shangu na tukondiani wameva wai wajua nongi aseng magari mingi mingizi subaru subaru evi tuka ingi apalenda ni watua Nairobi wali kwa wameja una jumpa ka ili creates iyo barabara I think in itwa diani road kumbuki ba ikona mahoteli mingi that whole road head traffic kaja ikona traffic ili kwa na traffic ni Nairobians pala wane da na penda shere imagine unapata gari kuna watu sita na nidemio kuna ingili wana 50 kufu wata butu watu wana mwa gika watu wana mwa gika mba ya kenyans nilawatu they will do anything kenyans wana waka influence they will do anything kwa kiskiya kuna foma jabana na nilawatu tarap! wana waka rem comenzsu nilawatu na nilawatu nilawatu kwa kufu watu kusikii bani kwa wana kufu watu nilawatu wana kwa kufu watu kiki kwa kifu wana Na kwa pende waima kwa waha? Y� machine hacia kontushia Na kiwa w waited 2 karahusato ¨ ¨ ¨ ¨ na moja tulini yuma kendi kristin manze ajawin for 3 years ajiba kashindan bili last year batwan last year then now this year alpha house wakawin so kendi ame kwangakwezu zote but next year I've seen so many people complain complain on social media kusima haiku na ka very fair is that true ok don't know actually when I posted the kendi story someone was asking it just means that the award benefit 100% kus that's free marketing that's free marketing at least gave someone a token of appreciation kus they obviously probably make money from this award so the least you could do arapia mutu wata ubaya kuru di home o something like you never know imagine umetume utfitiyako kus a kids outfit did you see I saw it that tremendous don't play pia kendi kristin was looking nice hey alafu nipa zanda nizi fashion police akamua nina ni fashion police nime gama ule wamaju ule wamaju wata wamaju ali tukana mudo si mudo si wetu mudo si wetu nila benderaya us si mudo si alwa ewa koti koti inaka iwi ankara na kukwa na hupki dali samani benderaya us omg nini kwele ni kamin na fana nini misa na trahura tia nika mudo siya kwele wa tibu tabu di yo movie ali wachia ya hiya ni interpretivo wui kus alwa nasa mani kama sasa now fashion police alwa nasa mani kama sasa ame mo kwa pasta kwa mudo siya tibu mudo siya tibu omg nipi ulo niwa kuti amudo siya na kajok nina wai wai nina wai wai mushahara nina siya tibu kwele kwa the man sector nina wai wai muna na tata nenda mbali awa ewa koliig hausa king naka tina wala wana ijo hausa king silva kido hausa king kwa lewa kwa lewa maalikno nina wala wala nina suti yango naka ni pula ni naka wala wala wala wala wala wala wala kwa wala wala kido kido mafake wangubu wala li jaribu Chewa raja wala yungi nga nga na nga la na yolo suti yaka asu, nina pula nga kwa silva kido ewa silva kido mafake yukali kwa mwakoli mwa mwa mwakoli kwa kili naka kila Sri Fanto kwa kili naka kili kwa kili naka kili kwa kili naka kili naka kili Mwantua kusingo mudosi, nani atujui Naka mene kwa nyote hitou ukuya papa pende Nyote hitu kwa yandoa Kwa fire Uko Shoko Uko mwambuka kikwa pipa Mwambu ya mwa chana na yo Busti nara Busti nara Aghhh Wey nebeii kampuni Wey Gye hipu suko Lakin ni palia falspa ya Banda rea yuli zwa Bifili kwa nii nina kairu Bifili kwa nii nina kairu Aga se ma She's just an entrepreneur So wajin mitama nabata kwa kwa wak Women And you know how it is, the people which are at Biff And you know how many reports are sent, you know the report How many of them vote So it's a shame I feel like she is our member Not just saying the same words But something related to that You know if I was in that position I would not speak to my 7-th, I don't know its what Os menda na Buu shea Hey, titua hako hoi Ako hii kuia hanku kwa gapo Why did you tell me it was the age of the jeff or the number? So, it's a number? It's as if you were a tiny brad, and surprised me the day you came to Hong Kong and you told me it was the age of the number Because I'm an independent woman Mi ni kibara ram tu tu, mi ya kakidugi menda lakinsi saa na e tu neza lal Bati ya keni, they have a 40-year age difference So when the man was 40s when the girl was born Uki ya kibuna kabi, bahia And he's a pilot And he goes to the U.S. every now and then but they spend some time, aneshi ko, teneshi dea ni Wali toka, Singapore waka nda Maldives Then jana kwa klabu 229,000 Musima Singapore Maldives E, Singapore alafu waka nda Maldives alafu waka Onamimi na standard zone Wewena standard zone ko, waka na independence woman Independence woman, lakinsi kibara ram kibara ram kibara ram kibara ram kibara Uki M-m-m tu pale Renji ya ko, rent, salary, bills za mwa ka Chupa moja 229,000 Mi am happy for her But you feel like you are even in a relationship Na age and all these things Na race, peer, jukuna hote, can't date wives Ya I feel like you do what works for you Muximu kwe li, mi am the kind of person Oneza ko na nipatia everything I want But onelai if I don't like, I don't like you Ya ni, I don't care how much money you own If I don't like you I'm very okay in my small house But nipatia ni shindanges juwapi nda But there are people who will tolerate Na kwa utiwa kwa like, eh, na nifanya kila ki tumi na kap So you see, apondo Kila mutu na lake Tu pala ki kwa mahubiri Eh, mi upasi My favorite pasta, pasta nga nga Eh, wei api ani wa kikosi Kusia kikosi wini bamba, tumi ni fa noak Wini fa nga nga Uga nga ni komidia Wini ni komidia Hei I feel like he knows what to say He knows how people react And he knows what to say So alisa maia ya Mutua situa tai temi, atano You know what made me feel sad It's because alisa ma Uma mamu nyalim pei yu 500 Ali mambia ni umbe umbe wa tutuwa nga wajiku So this woman was in desperate To her, like it was coming from a point of Ame fanya ya ke yote Anata ka A umbe, una joku na watu wa wana bili wuki umbe Wana mutu mi shuwa bana Ma umbe zina fika fasta So alia nda tu, a point where Ali kwa anata ka mumbe na umbe wa tutuwa ke na umbe wa juku And you know when a maza says that it is very sincere So I would love to know When alimpe 500 Nga nga li ambia Who mama awards on her face like that Imagine how she is feeling Mutua me kuja kuako She is frustrated with life Like 500 bob is all she has She brings it to you And then that is how you dismiss it It's sad It is wrong It is very wrong But you also feel like We've seen so many clips nda nga nga But for us, we can't do anything wrong I don't think she was surprised Like nga nga Me may even wonder Who are these people who go to that church every day And sit down You know Religion will be the end of us That for me That's how I view it This is how someone talks This person drives This person lives a good life Then you Who is earning 2,000 You are taking the whole 2,000 to the church Waiting for blessings You will die, my friend You know what this story has taught me That kabisa kabisa church has turned into business Yeah, it is business 100% business Kabisa kabisa Kus eh Me feel like If you believe in those things In religion and all that Also At least jari buku ana Passion Pashon Papa na siwa kamawe tu kwa shal ni anda Personal relationship with God You can also pray for yourself Directly fike But she says Ukupe de kiyangangatana kwa mbe Mi etanata kumbe haji Me even the words that That they are spoken in that church I'm always like You know Una tokanga subuyu unao ga unaji Pakama rashi unaji Pakama futa unenda kukai Bimutu wa kongelesha evo Don't you love yourself Me you cannot raise your voice on me Even if you are a pastor My God Talk to me nicely But That was wrong Pastanganga na kipata e Trenapia ni tukane Shindayake But me to be very honest I felt that was very wrong Me too Anything else? Hakuna lakwangesha Tutokua Papa do Wednesday same time Same place different clothes To give you guys Nini tagole mwa Faniika between now And Wednesday My name is Liz Jackson And my name is Ndanya The Gracious Host Turuz