 Hi y'all she was seven so I'm back. Yes, and I have something to talk about though. Okay, first of all Let's just get this in There first because a lot of people will comment because they don't know my history. I'm married I'm married to a man who has a very good career. I don't have to work I can stay home all day and do whatever I want. Okay, let's just get that out of the way and And I'm not bragging or anything. It's just a lot of people that comment They are automatically I assume I'm an angry bitter single female, but I'm not I'm I'm just I'm trying to help my friends go I'm trying to help these other women get to where they want to get and Look for warning signs and the skip dating the loser men. Okay. That's what I'm trying to do. I helped one of my friends Go from Hanging out with losers to marrying a rich man. Okay. I helped her. I did that. I helped her. Yes, I did I'm gonna take credit for that So I'm trying to help other people do the same thing to get out of their Ways when I first met my friend She was into looks only into looks only into looks pretty boys Those pretty boys wouldn't even buy her a drink They would use her up toss her to side not call her back You know, so She started hanging around me. We met right Even though I was already dating somebody We wasn't super serious at that time. So I showed her how the game was played. We would go out. I Would sit at the bar. I Would I would just sit there. I Would buy my own drink and I Wouldn't look at anybody. I was just Yes, I wouldn't look at anybody I Wouldn't talk to anybody. I would even I would just be drinking my drink and talking to her and Lo and behold a man would come over and you know offer to buy us both another drink and Would sit down have a conversation and you know, I Would show her how to ignore people and have them come to you because if you're steady looking at somebody from across the bar Begging for their attention, you know flirting with them. That shows that you're very desperate Now women don't need to do that because men are automatically gonna come to them if they're ignoring them If they look like they're having a good time already if they don't look like they need a man That's when the man comes. Okay, if they're just like It totally ignored, you know There's like I wonder what she's got going on. I wonder what she's thinking about You know, she's not even looking at me and you know, I think I'm the cutest guy in here And I'm just gonna go say hi to her, you know Anyway, so after she's been hanging around me for about a year She starts meeting rich guys. She starts upping her game. She starts going to nice places instead of the not so nice places She starts hanging out with me. She starts getting approached by men with money She starts getting relationships With men with money. She married a man with money that man bought her a bar a Really nice BMW that man had a lake house and a house in the city, you know all that She went from almost homeless We're in the same pair of jeans That were too small for her like she was just bad y'all and then she went To having everything she ever wanted plus her own business. He bought her a business. Okay? And she was not the most beautiful woman in the world and I'm gonna tell you that she was always a little bit kind of jealous of me But it wasn't what was here. It was what was here was her game She got really good at it because I taught her and she saw me in action. Okay. She saw me go from Living at my mom's house to living in a penthouse, okay so To make a long story short I'm trying to help y'all and I know a lot of men get mad because They don't want women to have high standards anymore. They want y'all to accept whatever they got They don't want to have to work hard anymore. They don't want to have to put in any effort They want everything handed to them on a silver platter because a lot of men Weren't raised to be hard workers. They didn't see a lot of men weren't weren't raised to be hard workers anymore They didn't see the man doing all this isn't that you know, there's that they saw their mom doing it So now they're expecting women to do what their mom did for them and that's not how it's supposed to be So if you come across a man like that, you gotta you gotta say, you know what? I'm sorry You know, I don't have room in my life for a child right now Or another child I gotta move it along, you know And if they if they don't understand just just leave them wondering Leave them wondering because if they haven't figured it out by now, they really need to sit down and think about that one So what you want is a man who's very masculine who has Gentleman qualities you want a man who will pull out your seat Who will ask you on a date to a real restaurant? Who will pay for your drinks your food and probably a nightcap or whatever Wherever y'all did who will pay for everything who actually put effort and thought into the date who planned it out Who has money in their bank account to take a woman out? Okay? That's you don't need to be struggling and working with these guys just so they can Say that they had a date with you. No, they shouldn't even be dating if they can't afford to and and that's just point blank They can take that money that they can save up that little money and go buy a hooker because Most men date at a young age for a certain reason if he's not willing to pay for your dinner What makes you think he's willing to accept you as a wife? Okay, so By past those kind of men suggest they go get a hooker and move on to the men who are serious You know who really wants you to? Who really want to get to know you who are still gentlemen, you know equal rights for females does not mean that Men have to stop being gentlemen, you know a lot of these guys the MGTOW guys men who go their own way Believe that since females have equal rights now that they don't have to pay for our dates anymore so They really think that it gives them the right to stop being a gentleman and what female is impressed by a man Who's not a gentleman? I don't know, you know They would have to you know what even if they looked really good That aspect alone would make them look way uglier and turn me off, you know some women They can't get turned on by a broke man, and I'm just telling all the truth some women It doesn't matter about the looks it matters about what's in there, you know wallets in their bank account, and it's not being shallow It's a scientific fact some women cannot get turned on unless their man has money some women cannot get turned on unless They are what they man with money. It's it. It's a scientific fact. They've done research a woman It's more likely to have an orgasm during sex if she's having sex with a man with money Then a man with no money Why because she's comfortable she doesn't feel like you know, oh It's my bills dude. I'm gonna have to pay this. Oh my god I had to buy my own dinner tonight. This really sucks. Why am I even the bed with this loser? Oh my god And you're not concentrating you're just worried about everything else, you know when you're with the rich man You're imagining. Oh my god. What if we get married? Oh my god. What if we buy this big house? Oh my god, I feel so good with this guy. He's so he's so Wonderful he brought me roses. He took me to the Spencer there I think and all this stuff all this positive stuff and it's raising their vibration and they're getting ready to just explode all over the place because This man can do way more for them. This man can Do so much when the other guy has done so little, you know, so Even if the man is not that good a bit There's the lady will still most likely be more turned on by him because of what he can do for her and That's just how women's brains are set up. We're scientifically accustomed and Attracted to comfort. Okay. If y'all mills haven't figured that out by now I'm trying to tell you women like comfort women like to be in a place that feels safe and secure and nice We don't like to just be Accepted, you know, we don't want to accept just whatever you got There was this guy who wanted to marry me a long time ago and he thought he had his stuff together He had he owned a house He had a brand new truck. This is the net. So one day he invited me to his house. I Walk in that house. It's It's not nice. Okay. It's like in a bad part of town. It's not nice It looked like a haunted house basically and it wasn't the kind of haunted house you want to live It wasn't the grand haunted house. It looked like a shack or haunted shack and You know, I I stayed for a little while Until it was getting late and I said, okay, well, thank you for inviting me to your house He's like, I just want to be serious with you. I want a wife There's all this can be yours and I'm like No, thanks, I Said no, thank you. I'm not ready to get married and The truth was I wouldn't get ready to get married and live in the ghetto. No, I don't want that I don't want your house Yeah, you might own it, but I don't want to live there. I don't want that environment. No, you got to do better guys sell this house as I Suggested he sell it and put it on a down payment to another house. He was like, well, I Already own this house. I'm like, well, you need to find a different type of wife because I'm not living in this neighborhood y'all So He was basically obsessed with me. He would call my mom's house Every day every day Even after I had moved out He would I mean he was obsessed with me. Uh, I told him I couldn't marry him because of where he lived and I Can't live like that y'all and my mom's like you need to tell that man to stop calling this house I said, well, just tell him I'm married Me he stopped calling it. I wouldn't really marry but I just told her to tell him that so that he would leave me alone so Y'all and I know a lot of guys will say well, you don't look like you're all that well Imagine me 15 years ago. I was very much all that. Okay, and I'm not ashamed to admit it Okay, you got to have self-esteem to make it in this world 15 years ago. I was all that okay And a bag of chips, you know that old saying I was all that in a bag of chips. Yep. I can say it cuz I'm that old so Yeah, when I met my husband, which was 2001 He thought he had won the lottery So yes And we've grown we've had we've had a family. We've got kids. We've got dogs We've got houses. We've got cars together and he likes me just the way I am and Nothing, you know could be better, you know, he tells me I don't have to work He doesn't ever want me to go to go to work. He's already told me you're your best Right here where you are. You don't need to go out work for nobody else because he already knows He already knows the best place For especially a woman with young kids is with her kids You know Do you have so many people raising other people's kids and the kid doesn't even really know their parent? I like my mom worked a lot. I don't there's still stuff. I don't even know about my mom and I never you know, I Passed the point of asking her, you know, because she's always gone or at work Mom, you know, my kids know everything about me. They know my favorite this They know my favorite that they know my favorite show my favorite song They know my favorite food. They know all the stories. I told growing up. I mean, they knew all the stories of me growing up They know everything about me. Okay And they have a father figure who shows an example of a provider Protector man who goes out to work brings home the money takes care of the kids And stuff like that. They see that so when they go out to date when they get older They're gonna expect their man to be like their father, you know, they're not gonna expect their man to be like, you know Their brother or their son Or a baby, they're not gonna expect a man to come halfway So automatically they're gonna just shoot down All those guys with their hands out and be like No, my daddy told me no, you know, my daddy pays for stuff like that. You're the man You're supposed to pay, you know So I Won't have to worry about that because I have my house in order and Men Don't ever fix your mouth to tell a woman that she needs to lower her standards You need to raise your standards. Okay, you're supposed to be the man You're trying to tell me that you're gonna let a female have Standards that you can't meet so you just got to get mad and throw a fit like a baby. That's just silly Rise up meet your standards and you can meet women standards And a lot of men are going to different countries because they can't meet the standards of the women in their own country so they have to go leave and Trick other women the world and lie to them and then you know get their way with them Then leave the country come back here be a loser again so they can save up their little miles on their credit card bills from Getting gas money to go to work every day at their meaningless job So if y'all agree with me if y'all don't agree with me, I don't care But I just had to get that off my chest because I have so many trolls on my channel Who are mad at me for having high standards and teaching other women to have high standards? Men if you had high standards, our standards would be normal You don't have high standards. You have low standards mediocre standards. You're lazy. You don't want to do nothing You don't want to set an example for our daughters or your sons anymore And you want us to be more manly than you