 What is good about the squad? And welcome back to our channel. Today we're doing a highly requested video. Why is it that the stuff that you should know is the stuff that people want to know? Yeah. Today we're gonna be answering your TMI questions about our relationship, the way we view life and just everything in general. So, we're gonna give you the inside scoop of Mariah and Bill. I feel like we're doing a lot of sit down videos and I really like it because we've been getting really personal and open with you guys. And for everyone that's asking what is the car story, I am never going to tell you, okay? We're just gonna have to. I am, no, no, no, we're never gonna tell them. They're talking about the car story. I know, I know. They're just gonna have to make up their own scenarios. I know all y'all wanna hear that and this is all out of love, but I promise you, it's just one thing that I can't say because it's just so, it's when I was a kid, so weird and- Some things are good to stay private. You know what? If you're wondering what video this is from, this is from when Mariah put me in the hot seat. If you're curious, we did talk about a little bit of the car video. So make sure, seriously guys, make sure you guys are following us on Instagram because we ask you guys literally questions to ask us for these type of videos. And in this video is gonna be our first starting back up doing our post notifications shout out. So make sure to be commenting down below every single video as soon as we post, even if you're an hour after we post it or a day, so comment down below because we wanna shout you guys out and show you some love. All right, so this isn't really a TMI question. I've been seeing this a lot, which is kind of TMI. TMI also can mean like things that we haven't shared. It means we're sharing too much information. So what are we sharing right now? But someone asked, when is your wedding date? I love you. Okay, so we said the month. We said the year, we said the month. 2024, it's in February. Do we say the day? I don't know. Okay, it's in the 20s. Okay, there we go. That's your next hint. So comment down below what date you guys think our wedding is gonna be. When do you think our wedding date is? That is very much TMI because we've never told anyone. Anyone. Besides the people that we know. Besides the people that we're inviting, these are the only people that they know. Bro, we just sent out saving dates, a whole stack full, so many, so many. I went to the post office and they're like, oh my gosh, we need a second truck. Because we had so many of those. I know you're here for the TMI and I'm gonna give it to you right off the bat. Someone said, what did each other think of each other after the first time y'all went around the whole, the whole hundred yards? Do you know what I mean? It was good. I feel like I got really connected. You know, we were jamming to some Khalid, Khalid. Khalid. Khalid. And we had a whole playlist. So 2018, right? 17, right? 17? Yeah. 2017, when Khalid was like huge, you know, when I was 18, and I was so lit, or like roller coaster and all that. And they was just very goodbye when he saw us. Yeah, so we popped that on. I would say it was good until the ending of it. Yeah. Do we share that right now? I think we already told them. We already explained that. That is very much TMI. It is. But yeah, so what I was thinking was like, oh my God. Like, what were you thinking? I wanna know your thoughts. Probably like, oh my God, I can't believe like, I'm with this hot girl right now. No, you wouldn't. Doing this, and it's crazy. Yeah, because you were beautiful. I mean, you still are. But like, when I first met you, I'm like, that's just crazy that a guy like me was able to share a moment like this with a girl like you. I know. Is it because like, we weren't even on social media yet. No, this is before we literally had any followers. Like, just our like high school followers. Yeah, we just were just normal high school kids. Seriously, literally normal high school kids working a nine to five job. At a grocery store. At a grocery store. So I felt excited and just like honored that I could spend the moment with her. It was a good time. I will say it was a great time. Here's another funny one. How many times a week do you usually do it? Oh my God. Why do we gotta unleash the beast? That's what Mariah calls me, by the way. The beast. Oh my God. It honestly just depends on our moods during the week. Oh my God. Sometimes it makes her crazy, sometimes it's her nothing. If it was up to me, Marvel Squad. It would be every freaking day. It would be, no. Yes, it would. Multiple times, everything. Really? No, no, but at least, you know, you know. I mean, your voice has to you. I feel like my anxiety medicine that I've been on kind of has lowered my drive for things. I will say like, that's definitely a big factor of it, but there's some weeks where I'm like. Okay, so when we first started dating, probably like as much as possible. Oh, you got a cloud. Well, I didn't want to see the world. I didn't mean to do this. We need a code word for this. What's our code word gonna be? Like, baking banana bread or something. Oh yeah, bacon banana bread. Every time we're baking banana bread, Marvel Squad, at first we baked a lot of banana bread. Like, we literally made so much banana bread, we didn't even know what to do with it all. Now, we make a banana bread every like, once a week maybe. Honestly, whenever Mariah just wants to make banana bread. Cause like, I'm ready with the materials. You are, but you're, I'm kind of the one. I got flour, I got the bananas. But then there's the time where you are, you're not ready for the banana bread, so. No, there's not, it's when. Bull crap. That is, no, don't even say, no, don't even say. All right, we're moving on. Wait, I have a question. Maba Squad, somebody asked, who's more dominant? And this can mean a lot of things. This can mean a dominant relationship, dominant when baking. I'm more like, this is how we're doing it. Mariah is definitely more dominant. I'm the more like, curl up in a ball and cry, because she scares me. Guys, she's making us feel like I'm a terrorist. You know what I saw? She's a very freaky girl. Get it from her mom. Her mom's a super dominant person too. Ew. No. Okay. Why are you talking about my mom? I'm not in a baking way. Okay, okay. In like a personal standpoint, so that's where you get it from. Your dad's pretty dominant too. You all have two dominant people in the household. When you say that, it makes me think totally left feeling, I don't like it. I'm not thinking of like a baker standpoint. I know, I know. It still makes me think of a baker standpoint. It creeps me out. I don't ball up in corners, by the way, and cry. He doesn't. He was just trying to be funny, but it really wasn't. No, but I feel like I'm definitely the more emotional one in the relationship, which is fine. I still wear the pants, but like, you know. Yeah. Why didn't you wait for marriage? I feel like that's a really good question. So I feel like everyone always, they have different views and like the way they view life and like things like that. I just feel like for us, we weren't really raised in like a super religious household. So we were never really taught. And I literally did not even know we're Catholic and you don't have to like, whatever religion that you are or you follow or you were born and raised on, is awesome. I love that you have something to look forward to. And if you don't, then that's awesome as well because everyone has different views. The way that we were raised, we were both Catholic. And I didn't even know, I got confirmed in everything, which means I went through the whole, you know, eighth grade confirmation and all that. I didn't even know that you were supposed to wait till like, that's part of like- It is. It is. The traditional like Catholic way. For me, I just feel like I view it differently. Like I'm okay with doing it before marriage. Well, now that it's like happened, like we're not even supposed to be living together right now. No, we're not. But the thing is like, I know I love this girl and I know I'm gonna marry her. We've been dating for literally six years. I felt like we were married to the past like, four years. I get it. If you're like super religious and you like, you guys are dating and you get married within that year, I totally get that. Yeah, I can see like you just met. And like, you know, why would you live with someone that you just met? Like I can understand that. But the thing is for me, this is how I view it. I feel like I would want to experience living together because that is when you actually feel everything. You see how the relationship's gonna work. You see how things are gonna, the roll out. That's a big thing too. Like a lot of people that don't live with each other and like, I know everyone has different experiences. So if you have a different experience than literally kudos to you, that's freaking awesome. I only hope the best. But a lot of people that don't live with each other first and then they just jump in a marriage or jump in a relationship and live together, they end up like clashing. Because like this, me and Mariah, like I push her, like she can only go so far. She's still in the same house, you know what I mean? I feel like it's a good way to see if you're compatible before you actually get married because like I feel like it leads to a lot of divorce which I'm not saying that that's how it is, but for me that's how I view it. But I also know divorce is like a sin as well. There's so many different things. At the end of the day. It's ultimately up to you and what you feel comfortable with and how you wanna live. But I don't think there's any wrong for any situation. I feel like if you wanna do it for a marriage, go for it. If you don't, go for it as well. Everyone's life literally plays out differently and no matter what you believe in or what you follow or you don't follow, you are gonna do what you're gonna do. And at the end of the day, if that's what you think is the right decision, then do it. You know what I mean? Cause it's like at the end of the day, you control your own life. This is just our experience and what we've experienced. So don't take our word for it. If you wanna wait till marriage, do it. Seriously, if I could do it. I think that's awesome. I think that's awesome. Cause it gives you also like a goal and like you're both working together to do something, you know, so huge. So this was gonna be a little team out that we've never really talked about on our channel. Okay, and I feel like a lot of you can relate and a lot of you might not be able to relate. But have you all ever vaped or smoked? I wanna share my high school experience because I was crazy. So back in my past, like with my ex and all my old friends, I vaped a lot. It was like every day I would vape and then I would smoke weed all the time. It's just like in high school guys, like my sophomore year, I was a pretty big stoner. Like I smoked a lot of weed. Do you have that little drug rug? No, I was never like that. I was still girly. I will admit, yes, I used to smoke weed and I've only smoked a cigarette once and that's cause I puffed it. Not a very good moment for me. Like I would never smoke a cigarette again. And I just, for me, I feel like they're nasty. Now smoke and weed, I could probably do it again. The thing is, is I don't like the way I feel when I smoke weed. I feel like I trip and I get so much anxiety. I already have bad anxiety, but that stage, like I don't know, I feel better sober. Like if you know me, I really don't drink often. I enjoy the moment when I'm not drunk or I'm not high. I also feel like Mariah got a lot of that out of the way. Not that you have to go through that and try it cause you absolutely don't. But she did a lot of that like back in the day before I even met her. And like she hasn't, like I don't think you've smoked in like years, like years. I don't even remember. Literally the last time I actually got like drunk. And this is like probably my first time I really got plastered with you was Bree's 21st birthday. But you weren't even drunk. I was even really drunk. That was like a couple of weeks ago. And before that it was like years. That's what I mean. Like I don't drink and if I do drink, I'll drink one drink at dinner. That's it. Like I am not a big drinker. Yeah. For me at the same time, I've never, like I grew up the total opposite. And I feel like it's just also based on the people that you hang out with. Because like you are what your friends are and you do what your friends do. So I was more of like the, just like go and build a tree house or go on this. I never went to house parties. I, you know, I maybe played video games with my buddies and we hung over each other's houses. But like we never like drank or did anything. I was actually super like, not against it, but like super like, I don't want to do that. I don't care about that. And my parents say it all the time. Cause I do go out and I do drink, but it's not like I get blacked out. I will say you get, you're getting drunk. But I don't get blacked out. I get like a little like, you know, buzz. And that's it from drinking. But like even my mom and dad were like, oh, and you were the one that never wanted to do anything. I know. I've only smoked weed maybe, I know twice in my life. And the second time I threw up and I just had a bad experience. And I never really cared too after. I don't like the way it makes you feel. So I typically pass on it. But yeah, that was my experience. I feel like I never shared that with you guys before. I don't think I've ever, yeah. We've never shared that. And I've also, I've never smoked in probably, it's been like eight or nine years. It's been a long time. Like before I even met Mariah. Off the weed and the smoking vapes and stuff like that. Do you take showers together? So I. Yeah, tell them, tell them. I like my space in the shower. That's my time to kind of be by myself and like. She's making herself sound nice. I just. She doesn't like shower with anyone. Babe, if we had two shower heads, but I don't like like waiting out of the shower. Like being out of the water, letting you wash off. It's just. Even if I shower with her, we did this in the Airbnb when we went to Orlando. I literally was waiting until she finished her whole shower. Yeah. She got out and then I went in the water. But no, we don't shower together because she doesn't like shower here. I don't, I just, that's my space. Now next house, I want a big shower. Where we have two shower heads and enough space where two of us could be in there at the same time. And like not worry about like scrunching up. I want two shower heads. Yeah, that's a downfall. Yeah, opposite side. This house. And have a shower like the size of like two normal showers. Yeah. That would be perfect. Then we'd probably shower. Then we'd shower together, but it's just not a lot of room. That's also like when you're showering, like I'm doing other stuff and when I'm showering, you're getting ready. So it works out when we don't shower together. Yeah, I personally say no. So this one is a huge, huge question that we've never answered. Do you try to make babies often? Well that's a good one. Because like nobody knows about like who's trying or who's doing this and that, but do we try to make babies? Or have we ever tried? We use protection. I'm just going to blatantly say it. We use protection. And that's genuinely because I'm not ready. I will say I have been getting really bad at the fever and I've been telling them that I'm so excited. But now that our wedding's coming up, I'm really protective because I just want to make sure that you're going to say now I'm trying. Oh, no, no, no, no, no. But I don't want to get pregnant before our wedding. So I'm trying my hardest to like stay protected and you know, keep it low key. So we've never tried. Like have we had scares in the past? Yeah, we've had like uncertainty or like she's late on her time in the month and this and that. But other than that, like nothing's ever happened. We're not trying. And also we're not in a rush. Like when she says that she's not ready, I'm also, it's not that I'm not ready. Like it's not like we're not ready, but we're just not trying. We know we would be awesome parents. Like I would love to have a little baby and especially seeing all of our friends and other family members that are having babies. Like it's just, it's so awesome. And we're so happy for them. It's like, we can't wait to be able to share our life and experience with them. Yeah, we're not crying for babies right now. Maybe we'll let you know if we are not. I feel like- I will say after the wedding, the protection. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. That's all I'm saying because then I got- 2025, Marvel Squad, Marvel baby. Marvel baby. Or 2024. No way. February, nine months. Oh, oh. Oh, oh. No, don't. You don't know. This is a good one. So we were talking about babies. This is the last question we're gonna answer. Uh-oh. Is Bill gonna watch your future child come out? I feel like that's a good one. And I just actually saw like a video of this dude passing out after his wife had the kid. He was standing there and he was just like, and he like passed out and the doctor like had to like go grab. Am I gonna watch the baby come out? Yeah. I really think I will. The thing is, I don't- You think you're gonna pass out? Me? Yeah. No, cause I feel like I deal with stuff like- You deal with stuff like that, right? Yeah, I don't get like lightheaded when I see blood or this and that. I don't know, like I like scary movies and like all the stuff in scary movies. You kind of get grossed out at, but me I'm kind of like, ooh, that was nasty. Yeah, yeah. But the thing is, I don't know how I'm gonna be in the moment. I don't know if I'm just gonna be like looking at like from your POV, you know, holding your hand. Yeah. And I'm not gonna be like, damn, like, you know, they're gonna be like, they're probably gonna be like, babe, the kid's coming out, you know, and like, come look, come look. I probably end up will, like, I wanna cut the cord. I wanna, you know, do all that, but like really in the moment, I don't mind what I do. So just gotta live in the moment, but- I'm just saying that. That's gonna be crazy. That's gonna be like, like, what the heck? Like, we're gonna be doing that one day. That's crazy to think about. I'm excited. Well, I'm not excited for labor, but I'm excited to like have that next chapter of life. Yeah. Well, I hope we answered all of the most recent TMI questions that you guys wanted to ask us. Once again, make sure to follow us on Instagram. If you wanna be incorporated into our videos, but before we end this video, we have to give our notification shout-out. Mm-hmm. But today's shout-out actually is gonna be from one of the questions that one of you asked- On Instagram. 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