 You're insecure as fuck. Not much has changed. Well, Alex is a thot. It's a bad hoe over there. That you do some pretty far out shit for the average Joe. Top three bad bitches of my life. When I met Amina, I was bisexual, if you will. She asked a question. She was like, you know, do you still think about men? And up into that planet really didn't hit me. And then I was just like, you know, I'm gay. It just seems like literally like you get hit with a truck. I couldn't talk to you for like, it took like a good year. It was a crossroads. I mean, it was pretty much the end of a life for me. Coming to the conclusion that, you know, you're gay, it's kind of hard, but it's even harder breaking that news to someone. My advice to you moving forward when you're dating, there is definitely room for you to be clear with your intentions with that person from the jump. Ooh. Ha, ha, ha. Okay. Okay, to be on the other side is not the greatest. You don't show signs of something ending. So not communicating, it can be really abrupt and like feel like what the hell just happened. The best advice I think I personally could give you is allowing them to match you. Like as far as being a man. And so when a lover or boyfriend or boy toy comes into the picture, it's still all about Amina. And I feel like often someone on the other end be like, well, you know, this is great. What about me? What about, you know, what I want to do with you? What about the plans that I've made for us? Yeah. So I think just allowing, you know, other people to take some type of responsibility in your life. It's not that I don't let people do or show up. It's once you don't, that's it. But you have to admit that you do some pretty far out shit for the average Joe. Well, then I don't need some an average. Maybe start considering other people working them into, you know, your plans. If I want to go to Cuba, I'm going to Cuba. But what if he does it? Then bye. I go, anyway. Well, let me see your dating profile. It's just a quick little bio. And then you start swiping. I don't know why you look a bitch in this picture. You really do look a bitch in this first picture. I'm sorry. Really? I think I look calm. Really calm? That's like come from me, bro. You don't look like a lover at all. This is like, oh, this man is like about his shit. And he's serious. He's super serious. But I don't see the, oh, this is someone I can have fun with and like laugh with. So maybe a picture with a smile. There's not one picture on here with his smile. I feel like me personally, I'm a fun loving person, but that's after getting to know someone. Right. So this is like wall, wall, wall. I don't know everything. It looks like just I'm about my business, but not like, oh man, I really want to have a good time tonight. Like this is the person I need. Boom, swipe right. Okay. So I guess I'll add a smile in my next picture. I don't think you date people that are on your level in terms of drive and focus for life. I could totally see that. So my hope is that you find that person that is going hard in the paint like for their vision for their life, just like you are. What I want for you to find in a relationship is someone that can challenge you in a good way. So I feel like having someone who has more differences to talk about than similarities. Yeah. Thank you. I learned not that you paint me as this, like the stereotypical like, I'm a single black, independent woman. No, I know you don't paint me like that. However, I know that there's room to allow someone to be human. So I think giving space for someone else to like have their process too and to not cut people off because someone is still in their process. And one word, patience. I found out that, you know, how you felt about our breakup, your thought process of not really knowing what this other person's feeling and then like changes in how to deal with that. So what's that word that you need to work on? I don't know. What's that thing? What's that thing? Clear it. Communication. Ooh. Communication. Patience.