 Poonga, Poonga baby. You okay, sweet pea? What's wrong? You tired? Are you tired? Give me, baby. Give me, mommy, you kissy. Oh, you so cute. You be okay. Okay? My sweet heart. Yeah, he's sleepy. Yeah, let me turn off the car and talk to y'all. So, um, this thing. I want to clean this car out. I'm a big stick. I'm gonna have to have my car professionally clean because there's stains and stuff. I try to do it myself, but it's, I think the stains are too, you know, y'all, my skin is coming back along. I've been having some issues with it. I'm a big stickler on skincare. I need to store. I ordered me some more retinol and collagen for my skin so I can get it back together. What I was gonna say, so I'm gonna make sure, I'm gonna stop by the grocery store, pick up some groceries. It's early though and I want to stop by the Dollar General when they open, um, that JB's thing. Y'all, his, his little DNA test, I need to go ahead and mail that off this morning. I think that kid is gonna be very interesting. I think that's gonna be some, some, uh, actually, I shouldn't say that. I don't think that's gonna be Eric, Arabic blood. It may, it may be some Jewish in there. So, cut away. I actually guess pretty good. This is JB's mix of with 13 different ethnicities, child, Ethiopian Jewish, Jewish in the Middle Eastern, and that's like 3% Filipino. I'm very interested to see what's gonna, how it's gonna turn out. Y'all, March is gonna be crazy. April's gonna be crazy. I hate Dallas people. Are y'all hearing how often people are coming up here for the eclipse? Baby, they shitting down the schools. April 8th, I believe it is. I told JB we're gonna have a Delores Clay One party. Hey, you guys, it is Tuesday, no, Wednesday morning, 6.13, trying to get this child up. It's going to be a busy, well, it has been a busy month so far. A lot of doctor's appointments. I wanted to get out of the way at the beginning of the year. And now it's the fallout for the most important as well. Other appointments that are not so urgent, like eye doctor, going to the dentist. I get so much energy. I'm gonna get this boy up. So, at this age, at any age really, but especially at the preteen age, it's all about teaching them consequences from their actions. So, JB wants to be late for school. I'm not gonna feel very extreme with you all day. So what I do, I tell him two or three times to do something and then I go in there again. This is for anything. And I say, okay, it's okay if you want to be late. That's fine with me. I finished school over the years ago. So I'm pretty sure he can hear me now. And let him learn then when he's late. That's the consequence. That's on you. That's not me. I worked from home. I ain't got the rest to work. He could be late. Right with me. You hurt me, child. Child, my coffee's down. So, y'all, that's nasty. Today, I have a eye doctor appointment. Now, I haven't been to the eye doctor in like, pooch. Oh, how long has it been? Actually, I went right before we moved back to Texas. So, it's been three years. But I get glasses, new glasses like every year because I have the same prescription. But this time, I think I'm gonna get some contacts. Drop JB off to school. It will be a busy month. Super busy. It slows down towards the spring summer. And like I said, I have an appointment this morning and then after the appointment, I'm going. So, look, y'all, it's time for me to get another vacuum cleaner. And so, I've been looking often on those holes are expensive. The one that I want is minimum $3.50. So, I was like, yeah, I'm not gonna be able to afford that. So, then I found this, like a short, swivel, HIPAA, you know, all the good stuff we need. And then they said it wouldn't come to April. Same thing. I'm gonna be delivered to April. I'm like, that's like the end, excuse me, the end of April. Sorry, y'all. And so, this would have been like a month. It would take. I'm like, what? I searched on Walmart. Why is it here locally? So, I cancel it. And so, I'm gonna go pick it up at Walmart as a pickup order. Also ordered some closet, those cloth cubicle storage bins to put JB's stuff in. Y'all, this child, he is definitely in that tween, preteen. And I'm glad my husband was here last week because he could see him in motion, like attitude hormones are on. And so, I'm like, this is him now. He has a full blown attitude at times. You know, JB's a good kid, but I'm like, it's not what you say is how you say it. One, your attitude, speaking of my father, he sent me a message last night saying, you know, that my niece is doing a lot better. My niece, my oldest niece lives back with my parents, you guys. So, I had invited her here, like I mentioned in one of my chit chat videos a couple of weeks ago, so that she could see how I think it's really important when you are teaching a young adult or even just children to model their behavior. So, I wanted her here for a week so she could see what is how I run my household as a wife and mother, even though, and a working adult, even though my husband's not here. So, she was looking at things and I'm like, wow, you know, child there are cops everywhere. I don't need none of the damn ticket. And so, the last day though, I had a come to Jesus meeting with her. And y'all, oh, y'all, sorry, my thing is dirty. I'm sorry about that, y'all. And look, I must have a person. I don't hold anything back. I'm very honest, but I say it from a place of love. And so, I told her, I said, let me tell you something. I'm going to be very honest with you. Please know that everything that I say is from a place of love. So, I'm just really honest with her, you know. I told her, I said, you wouldn't last, you wouldn't last, you wouldn't last a few weeks with me living here. And so, she was like, what? I thought that I was supposed to be relaxing here. What is this about? I thought, I thought that I was on vacation. I said, you are relaxing. You sitting here, you ain't doing nothing. You are relaxing here, but I'm going to let you know, living in an almost delusional world to where, let me tell y'all something, y'all. She's young, she's 25, but she's also a mother back home now. Anyway, let me turn on the light here. Can y'all see me? It's a little blurry. So, child, long story short, I was telling my niece when she was here, I said, you wouldn't last here because even though you're not doing anything that's bad, for a sake, you're not doing anything. So, I said, let me tell you something. There's no reason why my, why that house, meaning my parents' house is not spotless, not clean, and you cooking, having food cooked. And so, she's like, I have tried to cook that, but they don't like the food I cook. Well, then you cook what they want to eat. Like, you not doing anything else. And so, the thing that kind of ticked me off because she was getting that little attitude and she's like, so, you mean to tell me that I should clean up after able body adults? And then like, I looked at her, I'm like, you're not doing nothing else. You're not working. You're not going to school. So, yes, I think that you should clean up after able body adults. You're not paying any bills. Like, that's the least you could do. Y'all, it is making me, since my mom was working full time. My dad is retired and he has a back injury. So, yeah, you should be helping your grandparents by cleaning up the entire house. So, I'm like, yeah, I think you should do that. I said, so, because if you were here, I would have made you sign a contract. If you ever lived with me, first of all, it ain't happening. But I would have made you sign a contract, 60 days. She started smiling, smirking, not smiling. She was smirking. I said, I'm dead serious. I said, 60 days and you would have to have a plan to what are you doing. We could extend that contract if I see that you're doing something. But if you're not doing anything, I mean, like, what is she doing? I got to look in here. She had her little journals and stuff and she's writing stuff down. She's manifesting. She has her to-do list of things she wants to do. One day she was back there. I'm like, what are you doing, Shia? Oh, I was looking at mansions and I'm like, meanwhile, her baby is sitting there, hasn't been changed. I say, your priority is this baby. And so what you need to be doing, number one, get a job. Get a car. Number three, move the hell out of your grandparents place so that you can get it together. So, and I'm like, this isn't making any sense because there are people, and I didn't tell her this, but there are people that are her age that don't have any kids or that have multiple kids, has more than one kid and they're making it. They're doing what they have to do. And I'm like, you can't just be sitting here writing in a journal and manifesting mansions. I said, look, she even had to have to ask me what would be the upkeep of a mansion. I'm like, let me tell you something. So my father sent me a message last night. He's like, hey, hey Vivian, they call me Vivian. He's like, hey Vivian. So, you know, Shia's doing good. Thank you so much for spending time with her, for her being up there. We can see a difference. I'm like, okay, good. I said good because I'm gonna be up there next week too. I'm gonna be up there next week. Hey, y'all. I look cute, don't I? I'm out of my appointment. It's loud, y'all. I'm out of my appointment. I'm here at Chick-fil-A to get me a grilled grilled chicken sandwich because we own that. Look, my clavicle is like real orgy like that. I'm so silly, y'all. But why did the optometrist, it's like, he was checking my eyesight. He's like, it may be time for bi-focals. I'm like, first of all, Tran, we're not here for bi-focals. I'm here for four contacts. He's like, you so even when I said that, right, he's like, okay, so we know how they do. They do one, two. Sure. Mm-hmm. They're like one, two, one, two. You know, you have to figure out which one is which, right? After all that, he's like, okay, so this one is with bi-focals. He said, so this is how it would look like if you got bi-focals. But I didn't ask you to do it. Oh my God. Here you go. Awesome. Do you have a good one? Thank you. She's supposed to say my pleasure. I'm going to write them a letter and say she didn't say my pleasure. Here is my salad. I'm putting together here. I have a lot. I have romaine. I have carrots, cheese, avocado, a little bit of green onion, sorry, purple onion, tomatoes. We have cucumbers. I'm going to top that with some tortilla strips. I don't know if I want to use the Caesar dressing by Panera or creamy salsa by Chick-fil-A. I don't know. But my steak is in the refrigerator, marinating, and then I'm going to go ahead and put everything on. I'm going to cook, it's around 4.30. I'm going to wait another 30 minutes or so, cook the meat. I'm going to make it well done, chow. Not meaty well, well done. And yeah, I'll see the leftovers tomorrow for some tacos or another salad. Here is the final product, you guys. This was, this is so good. Yeah, it's all done. I put myself a little drink, okay, a cranberry juice. And yeah, we're going to dig in. Thank you so much. Thank you all so much for watching. Take care. Bye.