 George Bruno at the 21 convention the patriarch edition our first one and I'm talking with Steve Williams from Texas From the man mindset.com welcome. Thank you so much. It is an honor to be here. I'm a huge fan of yours Thank you so much for having me. Thank you likewise. Absolutely. Well, this was your first time here What do you think of the 21 convention so far man since I've met Anthony? I've been blown away. I mean, it's just layers to his drive. It's layers of how he sets things up and He's like the model that I always try to tweak together if you want to do it, right? Get with Anthony because he gets with good speakers like yourself and he knows what he's doing very and and the Just everything second to none. It's just a one like five stars all the way. That's fantastic You are part of our red man group. Yes, which I was just telling you if you're a fan of the red man group, you know Steve and you know the spice that he adds to the show and It was just the right spice that we needed to make the show interesting informative intellectual man oriented and Definitely needed. Yeah, my I love the guys and I'm love that can be just an addition I mean, thanks to Donovan and rollo and also Anthony for giving me the chance. I Appreciate that. I'm really grateful grateful and gracious and it's just great being hanging out with you guys Really just doing things that men do so. Yeah, I love it. What did you talk about today? Today we talked about relationships as far as being a man knowing your worth knowing your value and Really understand the ins and outs relationships a lot of people usually go into rail relationships They'll meet the woman they'll go through the dating the relationship living together engagement and moving in and in marriage, of course Without having any principles without having any standards laws rules and codes and what I was showing them is that as a man You just have to follow three laws law of the land don't kill anybody you go to jail Love the street don't go over if you're 35 miles Don't go over 70 if you get caught. Yeah, and the law of the job That means you go to job go do your job work leave Outside of that what they don't tell men is that they can create their own laws and rules They can create their standards that they can live by and also expect a woman to live by So when you meet a woman you have those standards in the get-go And if she cannot reach 70% of those you fall back because most guys don't have a troubleshooting guide See a lot of guys just go through life But what I was saying to them in the the convention was just like a car a TV and a telephone They all have troubleshooting guides whenever there's a problem Solution base that you can just go to the problem try to find it find the fix It's the same thing with relationships relationship. Excuse me, but they just didn't know that hmm Yeah, we like to talk about hope and optimism here and so many of the men's movements are pessimistic and dark and negative and we want to be positive here and We love women. We love children. We love people in general and we want quality lives for everybody's this patriarch convention is about fathers for fathers by fathers and for men who want to be fathers some day What advice would you give to a young man who's not yet a father? Who wants to be a father someday and it's a different world now than when you first had your kids and when I had my kids What would you give some hope to that young man today? Well, and this is why I have the hammer and this is the hope that I want to give you because just like the hammer The only way you can lift is what you have to be what worthy and The thing is a lot of men don't know their value and their worth See you have to know your worth before you can get the worth of somebody else And that means that she has to be worthy of your time your last name your sperm And that's something I want guys to know it's you can win at this But you just got to learn you and unfortunately for a lot of guys because of you know The internet and a lot of bad information out there. It confuses a lot of young men And that's why we I try to push the narrative of we're trying to show you the best way We can you are a very important person matter of fact I always tell guys you're a winner and I know that sounds so cliche But I tell them think about when your mom and dad got together You ran a great race against millions of your brothers and sisters and you were going through Obstacles in her body that we're trying to prevent you from reaching the egg and that alone makes your winner It's just somewhere along the way. They lost themselves Somewhere along the way as kids they forgot that as a as a kid I was you because I when I when I talk to you I see the adventurous man I see the man that has imagination and creativity. It's just these young men have had those things They just lost it along the way But you and I and these guys out here are just trying to get them to find themselves Forge that key and unlock the man that they should be how does somebody get their mojo back How do they how do they find that? Spark that they need to be the best version of themselves. They've got a what I call I've seen this before burn the ships and What I mean by that is when you get on land you burn the ships meaning there is no return See a lot of men have comfort in running back You don't live in the past you learn from the past But you don't live in it and what they've got to do is start to draw a line and stop walking into the direction of negative Because there what they got to understand about their mindset is that right now their mind thinks everything's comfortable everything's perfect right now, but being feeling weird and The voices are getting louder that means you're doing something, right? You drive the car the car doesn't drive you and once they realize that you know what I'm in more control of myself Then I think let me just give you one example. I always tell guys when you're hungry You are the first thought is I'm hungry then the voice says do you want pizza hot dog hamburgers Chinese food Italian? What do you want to eat? I'm thirsty Soda water shake coffee. That's your mind working for you. It's no different with a woman It's no different for the manhood what I'm gonna use him as an example Once you want to do something your mind kicks in and gives you options When you trust the narrative you trust you don't listen to the voice let the voice work for you when it's ready to work For you, but right now for those guys They got to cultivate it and nurture it to get it to grow a lot of sunlight a lot of water as far as trusting themselves Trust in the last name and knowing that you know what at the end of the day being the best me who I was Yesterday is not who I am today because every day you grow you just got to learn how to grow What are the things that hinder a man from growth and being the best man that he can be the most thing they hinder them is Most of time themselves and unfortunately The problem with a lot of guys is they lie to the most important person and that's themselves. Yes, sir They you they look in the mirror every day and they pretend to be a man sometimes and they wear a man jacket and a man hat And a man gloves and they want to act like a man, but then when you rip all that stuff away They're just a shape of nothing. I called it flow You have what I call flow the way you write the way you text the way you talk Even the way you put a note on a dove is flow because it's all going in one direction Unfortunately for these guys, they're chaos. They're thinking this way. They're typing this way They do this and they don't have the flow it because of the lie that they're living if they can just be honest with Themselves and realize that this is not how men act I need to be more solution-based because like you say there's a lot of dark people I got to be more solution-based and problematic and you've got to stay away from the negative people You can't listen to the negative just like you can't listen to the negative in your mind Do you think that this spans this solution spans all? socioeconomic and cultural barriers it sounds like a very universal message to me. Oh, it's absolutely What I always tell guys is they start off with world is flat thinking That means they can only they see the edge, but sometimes they won't go over the edge Once they start to trust themselves they go into what his world is round because they're just you know They realize the world is not as flat and they're just going in a circle But then I try to get them to the universe, which is infinite because a man is infinite I can never call my yes I have the Abilities in the mindsets of a man, but I will never be a man until the day I die because I'm always learning I'm infinite and you know, there's no roof on being a man So what happens to these guys is that they just got to start trusting themselves They've got to start to realize that there's more out there than the tricks and the gimmicks and the Pickup lines and all that other stuff because that has nothing to do with the man Nothing at all. I always say Manhood has nothing to do with women. Women are just a perk until you deem her worthy to be called wife And that's what I'm trying to give these guys and let them see man as I've heard some people say you are the prize Yes. Oh, yes over the price. Hey, I am everything. I am all things. I am the one on the throne again I love her hips. I love her thighs I love the way she smiles and the way she winks at me but I love myself that much more and because of that I can make the Decisions that will better suit me and my name because at the end of the day, I'm not going after her last name I'm not going after her ring So she's got to prove her word first thing she's got to prove is my time because I don't waste my time Because I'm a Williams and as a Williams I don't waste my time with anybody when I spend time with someone is because I find value and worth in it And that's what they need to start doing. Excellent. What would you say is the opposite of a man who possesses these qualities? What what what does that man look like and sound like? What are some of his? Behaviors we call those guys cookie-cutters or humans because because we feel like we're aliens We feel like we just don't belong here because we feel alone and weird But though their behaviors are problematic blaming being a victim It's unfortunately a lot of feminine emotions because women do the same thing It's no knock on you know mom or anything like that It's just they display more feminine emotions angry and and pouting and it's his fault It's the weather's fault the clouds fault. It's the grass is fault, but they will never say it's my fault They're always pointing the finger. They always are looking for quick fixes I always tell guys if we're on an airplane and we have two doctors and one went to a three-day boot camp to learn How to be a doctor and this one went to medical school residency now who you're going with you've got to understand This is a long-term thing. This is not just a a magical pill. It's not just You know watch this video and you're gonna be a man because a lot of these guys Want the quick fixes and I we all want quick fixes, but we know the truth It's not gonna happen overnight and that's some of the behaviors that they have and you know when it comes to negativity and stuff What if a guy wants to improve himself this message is appealing to him? He knows he has fallen short He knows there's something missing in his life. What are the first steps that he takes? Well, what I would tell him to do is go to the man mindset calm when you go there I always talk I have something about the second page you enter it five women a day Talk to five women a day because the end result of everything is learning the skill have of hello And the way we break it down instead of getting them to trigger trigonometry I've got to walk you through one through ten and then I got a sure you got to add and then I got a sure you Have to subtract okay, so it's a it's a process But I cover you as well because if you were able to say hi to a woman I then show you how to introduce yourself that is one of the biggest problems a lot of guys have which Really kills them is that they are looking for the gimmick or the trick or the pickup line? No, just Approach her be courteous shake her hand Transparent clear concise and impactful. That's what I show Excellent excellent, and you mentioned man the man mind set calm. Yes What is at the man mind set calm what I call ourselves a lifestyle because what I want to do is I want to Cover everything that deals with the man from Okay, we have a cooking show where I show him when she comes over. I show you how to make desserts for We have a radio show that we do all the time a great radio show I got to get definitely gonna have you on there white chocolate gonna have you on there definitely We also have podcast videos Coaching we have products Matt we what we do is I want to go beyond the scope of things We have things from Halloween how to pick up women on Halloween how to pick up women on Valentine's Day How to pick up women on Easter? We talk about how to set yourself up for the 4th of July So what we want to do is we want to look beyond just the well What do I say to her? I want you to think five six moves ahead of the game and be prepared We always wanted to be prepared. How is the best candidate for? Coaching and for your services any man that is ready to change This this has no race no color. I we welcome all men who are just open Yeah, just push your ego and your self-importance to decide and understand that I want to help you I want to get you where you need to go But that's one of the things a lot of guys don't do but I think with a lot of trust do your homework Kick the tires. We've got testimonials from women Got not the women not the women testimonial, but the the results of yes, you get the results You get to hear the results you get to see everything. I'm doing because we do things unscripted and fresh So women are happy with the results of the product of the man mindset. Oh results Oh, yeah, we've got the I've never met a man like you before for if I wanted a guy sexually This it'll be you the women crying and one saying hallelujah. I've finally met a guy I've we had one guy that he always wanted this Instagram model. He just what she has a 3000 4000 followers He followed the man mindset he followed the playbook always say follow the playbook Yeah, follow the playbook now his problem is how do I get rid of her because? She wants everything from me. She wants my time. She wants the air that I breathe, but I always tell guys It's not the fear of failure Sometimes it's the fear of success because when you become successful the whole thing the whole game changes How long does it take a man to change? What how long is the transformation process? Let's say you engage a guy Who is very new to this how long does it take for him to start seeing results and for him to? Transform it depends on his drive passion and devotion I put the weapons on the table if you want to keep throwing dirt rocks the tanks go right ahead But for the ones that win are the ones that devote themselves and the beautiful thing about it is I meet you halfway You meet me halfway I'm there for you meaning that if you're having text problems you let me know I'll tell you with the texture if you're having phone problems. Let me know I'll type and tell you what to say I'm gonna do everything I can but you have to meet me halfway that means you're gonna have to do some work You had to buckle up get your bootstraps on and do that work. You have to see some effort on his part. Yes, sir interesting now Let's say a guy has never utilized Coaching or any kind of services before and he feels nervous about it or he's skeptical How can you alleviate his fears or skepticism? First thing I tell him don't trust me at all do your homework on me go to the testimonials and listen Don't see listen to the lies I've changed listen to all the positivity that I've done then the next thing I will do is you call me Send me your number. I'll call you and we'll talk because I feel that every man is different every man's on another level So I need to talk to you in order to find out where you are at and once you purchase a product You will be able to contact me for clarity, you know, there's some guys out there They'll buy a product and then once they buy the product the guy is gone And then they like oh my god what I do next and he's I'll forget it I'm gonna put it under the bed and move on to the next one right not with us you have me until I'm dead So basically if you have a question you can say Steve. I don't understand this. Please help me out Send me your number. I'll call you for a few minutes and I'll get you there. So I'm always there for my guys How does the man mindset deal with fatherhood? The man mindset deals with fatherhood because for men we try to push legacy in last name I it's sad to me. I see so many guys saying they don't want to have kids and they want to stop and I Don't want that. I want we've got to grow. We need more Georges we white chocolates. We need more guys out there. We need more men out there and I Want them to realize once you learn more about your king your man your warrior and your lover and you know that Okay, my king is the one that sets up my laws coups laws rules codes and narratives But no woman gets to meet my king and tell she's wife worthy. So my representation is my man That's what they're gonna see because the man is the representation of the king The warrior is the one that protects you and also goes after what you want But all of this is all about your last name and I really feel that these guys just Gotta stop listening to people that are negative like we said before Here's the biggest issue I call it ABC it's If a does it to be then that means a is gonna do it to see and that's not true And the problem is they believe that they believe if a does it to be she's gonna do it to you And that's not true because you don't know what B did so that's why I always tell guys Learn about your last name learn your worth. We're there to guide you, but you can be a great man You can like you were saying you well I can't talk about what you said and the thing is I was you know, you were talking about some good yet You know two months, you know, I mean the two months, but after two months you live on yeah, yes You go on they were they will remember you even though they might forget you sometimes But they remember wow my dad did that my granddad did so a legacy is something that we want these guys have at the end Of the day legacy is important very good. A lot of young men don't think legacy. They live for today They don't think about tomorrow All quick fix everything's a quick fix I They when I tell guys I'm teaching you not to go after sex. I tell guys all the time when I meet a woman I'm not trying to have sex with her because I'm Steve Williams. She's gonna have sex with me So I'm not gonna sit around and beg and barter and but what they don't understand is is that they don't understand that? There's more to all of this than just sleeping with a woman Or if all you're thinking about sleeping with a woman what they don't understand is she has met you and I before like I Said she has met us before so she has she knows the game a lot of guys don't think she knows But these women watch your shows watch my shows I get several emails from women and they they know they're up on this So stop making it about sex make it more about the man Sex is the perk that you can give her when she shows you she's worthy of it But until then you're working on yourself sex is the perk. That's interesting. That's an interesting concept That's not the end goal. That's not the end. No, it's it's no sex is never the end goal The goal is is she worthy of my time and and as she grows and as you move from the The date the meeting and dating and you move to the relationship. We have a pow wow This is my expectations if we cannot agree on 70% guess what we'll fall back Yeah, and we'll move from the meeting and dating to the relationship This is why so every move that you're going up high up the mountain higher you go The more expat expectations you have but again, it has nothing to do with sex But when it comes to sex wrap up just because you're living with her and she's your girlfriend of three years Wrap up because you never know when it's not gonna work out. Yeah excellent Steve Williams from the man Mindset.com that's how they can reach you. Yes, sir. Yes. Thank you Steve. It is a pleasure to be with white chocolate He's my hero man. This is this is my guy way you hold you need to hold this. Yeah, he's worthy You heard it here first. Thank you. Thank you