 Hi, I'm Matthew Kose from commitmentconnection.com and today I have another question from a woman in our community who asks What are the signs and actions of a manipulator and how can I prevent being with one? It's a good question You know And it's kind of a difficult answer because if you look even if you look at the women's dating side, you know the Industry of selling products and programs and information to women most of the women who come to my site are trying to Sneakily trick a guy into falling in love with them and commit to them forever. That's kind of what the Most of the women are coming here for and the the programs that are the top selling programs in the women's dating industry that sell millions and millions and millions of dollars a year in you know, sometimes tens of millions of dollars a year in Program sales to women are these programs teaching women how to trick men into falling in love with them and committing to them forever and so a lot of the tactics have gotten really really sneaky Because it's that's what a lot of people are demanding, you know, and and it's the same on the men's side the men's side has just as many sneaky manipulative You know things and it's it's really difficult to kind of determine Whether a guy is being a manipulator or not You know, we're all kind of on this planet together and we're trying to figure out you know, how to get our own needs met and We all want to have Amazing relationships and we see people and we're like, oh, I want that person, you know And so in a way a lot of us almost all of us are kind of really And so to some degree a manipulator But if you're you're looking for kind of signs of a sneaky You know bad Type a dude that's trying to manipulate you in a bad way There's a couple things that you want to do first is to listen to your intuition, you know Your intuition will tell you when there are things that don't seem right About a guy or a situation and my suggestion is that you listen to those things another thing that you might want to do is to You know talk to friends or family who are in Healthy relationships and remember healthy is kind of the keyword there About kind of situations and men that you're with and and just see what they have to say about it You know, sometimes they're wrong. So, you know, don't take everything that they say You know You know take You know, just use it to evaluate the situation and don't place all of You know your weight or value on what it is that they say and the last one is to really be authentic and real and Don't put up with anything less, you know manipulative people that are trying to be manipulative There will be Existencies and the way that they act and the things that they say and so those are things that you'll Want to look for but you know again, you know, like what I was saying before is is we're all kind of Influencers or manipulators to some extent because we're trying to get something. We're trying to create something and and so we try to influence situations in order to get what we want and what you want to avoid is guys that are have some type of malicious or negative intent behind their attempts at influencing you and so those are some of the things that you'll want to look for and You know to prevent you from from Accidentally falling into the hands of them Otherwise you have to like learn about all these manipulation tactics and stuff which takes a lot of time and I don't I'm not sure how Worthy it would be for you to do something like that But you know pay attention to your intuition and look for inconsistencies Ask friends about it and just be authentic and real and don't put up with behavior that isn't authentic and real So that's it for this video if you want more information about how to attract a quality man into a committed Lasting relationship. Make sure that you subscribe to my YouTube channel. I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon