 So I'm outside my girlfriend's house and there's a big festival thingy going on that's attracting a lot of families here and When you see families and kids you often see a lot of crying a lot of Screaming you know because kids They want to get things. They don't know how to get them so so that you just go You know just go crazy and the parents don't know how to deal with it either and This actually brings me to a topic That I've been thinking of discussing for a couple of days now and that that topic is the point where you don't need pain and negativity anymore to Guide you to where you need to go in life So most people including me up until maybe the last eight months Are run by negativity Now what does that mean being run by negativity? what it means is When everything is good, you're happy you're calm your life is great You know you don't think about it, but in order to know What to do in your life you rely on feeling bad So for example, there's a job that you're in that you don't like But you're not gonna quit it You're only gonna quit it when you feel bad enough that you don't have a choice because he feels so bad You have to quit, you know the pain of staying is too too big compared to the The pain of staying basically So That happened to me in example for example our relationships like our relationship is too painful now that means I have to leave Again the kids crying just like I told you about It happened to me in business, you know, oh now this business makes me makes me feel bad so I have to change it I have to do something about it and You probably are recognizing your life. Maybe even this, you know, you hear the baby You're like, oh, this makes me feel bad. This means I have to close the video Something like that. Don't close the video so Eventually if you mature enough spiritually and get to a place where you instead of Being in reaction to things you learn to not offer resistance So for example, if something makes you feel angry, you realize the anger is within you You just feel the anger to let it go and then the anger disappears So does the source of the anger Then you yes, you should I start asking yourself like hey If I can feel peace like when my life is good and when my life is not, you know externally good How how will I be motivated to do stuff and you realize that you can take action You can actually do things out of a decision out of common sense so for example Eckhart Tolle the spiritual teacher gives a really really good example about Fire like hey if you were completely present to the moment and you just felt peace and no more fear Why would why would stop you from putting your hand in the fire and to that he answers like, you know Just a bit of common sense. You don't need fear to know that you shouldn't put your hand there so So in the same sense when you're in a relationship and you can rise above negativity rise above Resistance or craving even Which is basically the opposite side of resistance When you let go of all that you basically Act out of intuition and common sense like what you know is right at that moment Sometimes you even Have something that's bad like maybe a relationship. That's not good, but it's not causing you pain Because you are at peace and then you just choose to stay there and it's actually People would think that is irrational like hey, how could you stay there? Well, you actually stay out of like I just I know it's a bad relationship But I just don't feel the need to leave because I don't feel I just something tells me like hey stay there Again, you're not in reaction. You're acting from your own Agency So that's really what transcending Pain and pleasure is all about Transcending suffering essentially It's about being able to stay with what is right now at this moment not offer resistance to it and then Taking intuitive action or not, you know from that place And once you reach it It's a beautiful thing because your life could be amazing and you're not gonna get you know Up to cloud now and in terms of up to cloud now in terms of Like how much it makes you feel good because you're not dependent on it Which means that when you lose it or when it starts to make you making you feel good You're not gonna like crash But the same is when your life is not that good. You just you feel a deep sense of peace Coming and then with that peace you basically are not in a rush to get anywhere But you can move anywhere you want So when you're in that relationship in that business You are the chooser you're not in reaction Let me move it here. You're not in reaction Problem solved You're not in reaction Based on How you feel or the situation you act out of your own agency? If this is a topic that really interests you, you know finding that deep piece which again it does not Go against success at all It's actually the only way to sustain success because again if you're down here and you resist it It's more most likely that the resistance just feels you staying there because it's part of your identity and if you're up here and Again, you're in the egoic state of mind where you're all based in thoughts. There's no space around them It's also bad because if you lose it or if you're about to lose it, it's threatened You're gonna go crazy. Basically. You're just gonna sabotage it. You're gonna overwork yourself Whatever it is, you will not be You know if you look back you won't be happy that you did it So peace is always like the the best solution to your situation In terms of how much you enjoy life and in terms of the outcome you're gonna get so again If you're interested in this, let me know either shoot me an email comment You know, whichever way you feel like communicating And I'll be happy to go deeper into it I'm also really into developing right now my business things Working on a course that is almost finished and Tons of really awesome stuff. Everything is going according to plan according to schedule So I do see myself being completely reliant on Passive sales just basically just making videos like I used to but instead of coaching just passively selling products and my course And making just about the same income just without the physical work and then offering coaching to only a select few Customers, so if you got this far do the video just right in the in the comment like I love your video or something so I know you got here and Again, I do want to get to three videos a day at least Because they feel like I want this to be less of me just giving a daily tip and more like You being part of my life, you know, just as Gary Vaynerchuk says those like a thing don't create content like document Yeah, and that's it so Thanks for watching and See you soon