 it's your girl Coco Styles and on this channel we talk about beauty fashion and lifestyle and styling. So just a quick disclaimer I do not have a mic on today I do not want another snack food so I'm going to replace it so you guys can hear me clearer. Today I want to talk to you about why you're frustrated with your wardrobe and I'm gonna break it down into my three different parts and the first thing I'm gonna do is give you five reasons why you are frustrated and the first reason to jump right into it is you hate the way your clothes fit you. The second thing is you have a bunch of items that you pretty much bought on sale. You haven't been strategically shopping nothing is your style and nothing fits you guys. So let's jump into why you are having these issues why you are encountering these issues so the first thing I want to say is you are not shopping with a plan or strategy and what happens is when you do that you end up just buying a bunch of stuff for your closet that doesn't go with your current aesthetics right so you're going into a store and you're just grabbing whatever it is you see okay. The second thing is you're shopping for sales. Most of the time people and women and men shop for sale items only is because that's how they were raised right. Parents try to get the bank for their book bunch of kids in the house nothing wrong with it but it happens right. They're trying to spread the money as far as they can right. The third thing is you are pretty much not shopping for your style. You are buying things that has nothing to do with how you want to look okay. If you are a person and you want to dress like let's put honey Tracy Ellis Ross or Rihanna but you're in there buying princess dresses right it's just the total opposite. If you like chic you go for chic you don't go for preppy right. It's just not you're not going to feel good in it and then the last thing is you're not investing in the pieces that you really really want guys. So how do we fix that okay. You guys know I always talk about shopping with a plan and a strategy. The reason why I say that is because when you're going into a store you are buying exactly what you want okay and we're not going to do sale shopping. Sale shopping just does nothing for you unless it's something that you already wanted and it went on sale. That's the win okay. It's not just a piece of clothing that you just bought because it's on sale. So the third thing you can do is start sizing up in clothes okay. When it comes to your clothes not fitting you properly it's because you're probably buying it just at the mark where it's just fitting. If you size up and get it tailored you will definitely feel so much better in your clothes guys I promise you and think about it like this. If you are an athletic person you have really big thighs right muscles good stuff but the pants are really really tight but you're like oh you know if I go up it's going to be too big. It's going to be big around your waist but it'll fit your legs and then get it tailored guys. Once you get it tailored it's the best and here's the thing. Tailors do not cost a lot of money I'm probably going to do a video on how I'm probably do some research but it doesn't cost a lot to get things tailored guys. It really doesn't and it actually makes you also look a hundred times better. And the last thing is you guys have to be patient okay be patient. Patient when you're investing in pieces be patient when you are shopping have a plan it sounds insane to do but I guarantee you guys feel so much better when you're actually shopping for the things that you need. And I'll give you an example. There was a hat that I wanted and I wanted a really bright color and I was like you know what I have a black hat already but I wasn't really a hundred percent satisfied with it so what I did was I said you know what let me do some best in the hat that I really really want and that's what I did so now I have a really good quality black hat okay I know that I'm not gonna have to replace that for a very very long time even when it comes to shoes guys if you are a person who shops on shoe dazzling all that good stuff it's very difficult to have longevity in those stuff because they're not made with the best quality they're good for a couple of wear but I guarantee you within maybe three months you're not gonna be able to have them and to be honest sometimes after like a month or so it starts to tear away like eat away at the blue whatever it is that they use it doesn't last so just just invest in something really really good good quality and I will say this I'm not saying go slurge on a bunch of stuff what I'm saying is get the best quality for your money okay and you can do that so those are all of my tips on how to fix it but I gave you reasons on why you're frustrated with your wardrobe guys so if you like videos like this please comment below and if you say to the end of this video please comment Coco we see you and don't forget to follow me on Instagram at CocoStylesNY and my website CocoStylesNY.com and my blog CocoStylesNYC.com guys catch you guys later bye