 Get her mind, don't worry about her body. If you get her mind, her body's gonna follow. Don't try to please yourself with her pain. They got these toys out here you can't even know with. Get her mind, don't worry about her body. They got a toy for that. I'm telling you, don't worry about her body. I'm telling you, try to think you tear it up. It's a rope duel or come hit some spot, yeah. One of the things that the Manisphere fails terribly at doing is really explaining to men the pathology of women. The Manisphere convinces men that women are these instruments for our consumption. Women are simply the consequence of our success. And if you check these specific boxes, you get this amount of six packs, you get this amount of money in the bank, you get this amount of status that women will come to you. And it's true. However, it fails to acknowledge the reality of human beings needing companionship and needing people who actually genuinely care about them. I think the Manisphere only addresses the ego stroke that comes along with status and wealth accumulation. And one of the consequences of that ego stroke is you end up around people who are simply around you because of what you are, but not who you are. So you end up with the baddies, you end up with the club promoters, you end up with the club owners and all that good stuff, but they don't really care about you. They care about what you do for them. They care about the boxes that you check. And it puts boys and men in this perpetual state of competition, right? I have to be the best lover she's ever had. And for most men, that means spending more money than any other man she's ever been with is capable of spending, having sex with her better than any other man is capable of doing. I am driving a fancier car. I have a fancier career. I have highest status. And the reality of it is a lot of those dudes are the main ones getting cheated on because the reality of women is all those boxes that you check is cool. It's what's going to attract her to you, but it's not what's going to keep her. And to country Wayne's point, what's going to keep a woman is having her mind. Her body is a consequence of her mind, not the other way around. See, a lot of men are programmed to think of women as consumer goods. And women only exist to validate my masculinity. Women only exist to validate the status that I've achieved in life. And some of those men achieve certain statuses and wonder, where are the women? And that's where you get the angry, fresh and fit-esque telling women that you have to have sex with me if you want to come on my show or you have to do this for this transactional guys. When you have other guys who the woman is spending on them. And a lot of times we talk down on like the quote-unquote pookie and ray-rays where the guy is driving her car or the guy is living at her apartment. But I've always said there's something that we can learn from those men. Like toxicity to the side, because they didn't have the boxes checked, they had to play a different game. They had to play the game of getting into her head. And honestly, fellas, that's what you want to be. Because, and I say this to women, if a man has two women, one he lies to and one he tells the absolute truth. Chances are he loves the one that he lies to the most because he is trying to keep up an image in a facade for her. He wants to be Superman for her. He's afraid of losing her. But the opposite is actually the case for women. If a woman has two men, one that she lies to and one that she's completely honest with, complete, authentic self, the person she likes the most, she loves the most is the one that she is honest with. Because women crave security. And to men, security looks like, oh, I got you a house, I protect you and I provide for you. But to women, that also involves emotional security. Can I be myself with you? And myself means not a bad bitch. Myself means all my flaws. Myself means loving me naked. I think it's an LMA song. And oftentimes, I think a lot of us young men, we neglect that and we focus on box checking. She cheats on us with some bum. Because why we were focused on all these accolades, we never had a reminder. And that's not to say, once you get a woman's mind, it's a done deal and you can never lose it. But the reality is the country Wayne's point, there's somebody out there more handsome than you. There's somebody out there more interesting than you. There's somebody out there with more money than you. There's somebody out there with a better sex game than you. If you're focusing on that, you will lose. Because the type of people you're gonna attract to you, especially women, are gonna be people focused on that. And when they find another that to focus on, you're no longer of interest. So the reality brothers, learn about psychology. Be an interesting person. Understand what's going on in the world, what's going on in pop culture. Listen, we say it on the channel all the time, listen then speak. What differentiates the guy who actually has success talking to women, and the guy who doesn't, is that this guy is actually more involved in hearing what she has to say. Not in an interrogation way. And you know, like he's the police, but like, you know, tell me about yourself. And that's what gives her that level of comfort to open up. Because that's part of what she needs to do even sexually is open up. But the other guy, he focuses on the fact that she's a bad bitch and she's gonna play that character for you. But in the long run, you're gonna lose. I want you guys to look up the 36 questions that lead to love. Group of psychologists that came up with 36 questions that apparently if two people asked them each other these questions, the outcome will be love. Whether or not that's the case is by the way, but what makes those questions work, quote unquote, or tie in together is the fact that each of those questions gradually force the participants to become more and more vulnerable. So like as we talking about standing on your square and the whole nine and don't devolve too much, part of seducing women, if you're interested in women, if you want relationship with women, is showing something. But most importantly, giving them permission to be themselves. That's it. And then you get to choose if you like them, the version of them that they're showing you. But yeah, just checking boxes, brothers, it's not gonna work. And you're also not entitled to any outcomes. That's the main thing. She's not supposed to like you because you are X or Y. And obviously there's a conversation about the type of masculinity that our women in particular celebrate and our women in particular give attention to. But the reality is we also have to look at why that is. For better or worse, Pookie and Ray Ray make her more comfortable. For better or worse, Pookie and Ray Ray give her permission to be honest. And that's part of her feeling safe. Now, obviously that's been bastardized and that's gone too far. And there are other reasons why Pookie and Ray Ray make her feel more comfortable. But as far as brothers who are actually doing the right things, stop leading with that. It'll get you there, but it won't keep you there. Because then you have to be human. Then you have to be relatable. Then you have to make her feel safe. You want to be the one that she's being honest with. Not the one she feels like she needs to put up a front for or create a facade. But at the same time, she needs to understand that you are valuable as well. And that she has a good thing. And that there are other women who would be thankful to have just a piece of you. It's a delicate dance and we'll talk more about it. If you want to see more of this, please click that like button. It helps tremendously. And share this with somebody you think would gain value from the message. And hit that subscribe button as well. Peace out y'all.