 Ladies and gentlemen, let me see here see if I can Get this here Okay, let me see make sure my Wi-Fi working that Wi-Fi See here ladies and gentlemen y'all forgive me my video Guy I guess you kind of say like producer of the podcast The guy who shoots it and edits it texting me I put the link in the description to the podcast. So I got a I'm in season right now just flying around the country eventually be around the the world and Just flying around doing interviews and kind of loading up some interviews and then I'm a release them And it just me kind of studying, you know studying greatness. So I put the link in the description and I'll upload a kind of like an intro video soon that you can watch the video and Then once we get it all set up and going hopefully be launching In June at the latest. I'm hoping y'all forgive me for that now make sure on your Question put on the hashtag cue on there and I had a Was lotion in earlier. So I forgot my took my rain go if y'all give me one second. Let me get one Let me get around All right, y'all forgive I apologize about that It's just when I'll be doing a video Special if I'm gonna be answering relationship questions. I Feel naked without my ring on we got two minutes single men Giving relationship advice I can't be on here because you know, somebody might just be passing by and be like, oh lord another single man Talking about relationship. No No, not over here. We over here trying to live this thing Yes, no, I post a video earlier today if you did not see the video make sure you go see it and Share it with the boys on The podcast that's out here talking crazy Because it's just it's just getting ridiculous. It's getting absolutely ridiculous. I Just can't I can't believe it. I just can't believe it because just to see what's going on out here with men trying to quantify a Woman's worth in dollars and it's like what what a day buddy. Good night. Love you Love you Like your hair Just just to think about the fact that we really out here doing that that's mind-boggling to me that men sitting and trying to count up How much money a woman is Value that and then to hear the one guy say $600 that a woman will be saving him $600. It just really blew me Just really blew me. I Said man, I cannot believe this Cannot believe this y'all give me one second. Let me put this on Instagram story cuz I won't be always going live for them So I'm there just to invite them on there But it's just mind-boggling, you know, and so I really appreciate y'all too for sending me the videos I see y'all questions coming in the good thing about this. This let me stay up where the questions at But I appreciate y'all sending me the videos about you know that type of stuff and a Lot of videos I forget to speak on it if I don't get to shoot a video right then I'll forget but I'll be you know looking and Catching the DMs on Instagram and I can't always I can't respond because it'd be so many I'd be sitting there 24 hours a day responding, but I try to go through them and look through it and see especially when this, you know Guys just sitting there saying ignorant stuff, you know, and I noticed that Other men will start to speak up and you know, I saw a young boy speaking up. I Mean he was on something else, but Other men are starting to speak up about the ignorance because a lot of men. I'm not raising daughters I got two sons. So I'm fortunate in that sense not to say a man raising daughters is unfortunate, but he kind of is a little Disadvantaged because of the type of men that's being raised out here I feel sorry for people raising daughters because he because the men with the voices the men with the large audiences is So many of them are so idiotic that The women just gonna have low self-esteem because these men on here spewing nonsense and got grown women Listening to them and calling in and going on the shows and sitting there. I'm like my good If you got grown women listening, y'all know it y'all know are the teenagers be on the phone the teenagers be on the phone So, you know all the 13 14 15 16 16 year-old 17 18 year-old young ladies is on Instagram They see in these viral clips And if you are young lady, you don't know any better because I'm not gonna be in the end crowd And I'm not gonna be going viral because I'm speaking and teaching on substance So it take me longer what I got to say. I can't always say it in one minute. And so I'm not gonna be going viral like the idiots So then the idiots going viral and then the 16 17 18 year-old girl They see in this and they they out here About to be back in slavery basically For what these men tell them and I'm gonna tell you the reason why these men putting those messages out Is because they want them something like that. They want them all 16. Yeah, that's what they want They don't want no 30 35 with some sense. They want them a 16 18 19 20 19 20 young and dawn ain't got no sense and and the man to be round up running around Driving on absolute crazy And it just it just ridiculous. It just ridiculous. They're like if I become the president Man, we're doing a thing different. We're starting a slap line You just if you say something stupid, we just standing everybody in the line who say something stupid We just I'm gonna have professional slappers. We start a slap line. I'm doing a thing differently Slapping tea fight your mouth. Don't even open your mouth to say nothing else no more If that's what's gonna come out your mouth. We're starting a slap line It's just sickening man. It's just sickening. I Mean he hit you is lolly boys got mommas who work they finger to the bone and Then they get not here on podcast talking about women Like that like they were raised by wolves out in the in the wilderness Like they was out there eating locusts and honey Raised by wolves. It's just it's crazy and then it's like, okay Now it's starting to make a little more sense to me because I was getting upset with E women Who have the channels talking about divesting and trying to tell all black women to go to a white man I Was getting upset by that which I shot the video with with the gentle with a white man asking him of his opinions and in the general Consensus of white men of black women. I haven't got a chance to post it yet but it was probably about two hours long and and Every man speak for themselves, but it's only two type of men a Grown boy and a grown man. So it ain't too many variations. It's just gonna be two types You're gonna see a grown man. You're gonna see a grown boy Point blank period and so I'm gonna post that one day because it's a white man talking to me about how in a circle His friends his family his homeboys The white man how black women are viewed and and then you're gonna have some white men Of course on the other side who have another kind of opinion and but it's only gonna be about two or three different types of opinions It ain't it ain't that complex, but it's it's women with channels now telling the women. Hey Go on out here and get your white man. Like that is the promised land. Like that's the holy grail Like like they were like black people want slaves to white men but when I hear the black men on Napodcast saying what they saying I'm like what dirt if I was a black woman, I'll be trying to die best to I Be trying to die best to if I got to listen to a idiot like this I'm like my goodness. How in the world you expect the woman to feel safe and secure and protected When when when black men are here talking foolishness Talk about a woman worth six hundred dollars I don't know. I'm guessing he's talking about a week. I don't even talk about a month. Oh, you're talking about a month. I Was on my month. I'll say boy. Look here boy. Oh my goodness I'm finna start a Mike snatching club We finna be an all-black just going around the country just snatching microphone Jump bad if you want to lay down. We finna just be snatching my with it microphone boy and Mike Just tap him with it one time before we leave because it's just getting ridiculous That thing got me I felt like Jesus when he went into the church and we're flipping over tables when I when I be seeing some of this stuff I'm like in the room Say man the way I'm raising my son They gonna have all kind of savage women coming at him because these women fed up With these sorry no good men and Then for the good women my son's been to have they finna have a thousand women to choose from Because it ain't gonna be too many young men with sense If this how they daddy's talking I'm like, come on now. We got to do better We got to do better. We can't be out here telling men. Oh A woman ain't worth nothing, but some cooking and cleaning It just getting bad it getting bad y'all just I'm like man, I try to keep hope alive. I'm gonna try to keep hope alive Like my good. We got to start having morning corporate prayer Intercessory prayer every morning For these fools. I'm like my good Why don't men test women if they don't want a relationship with that one? Man, that's what we talk about Ratna. You kind of see that's that's why that's why they testing Ratna Because of the idiot club I say boy, look here We have got to do better Hi, brother Tony, what does it mean when a guy says he wants to pray for you? Because you pray for him during the time of his mother's sickness, but that was last year in December and she died I'm not sure on that one. So that's a little too Specific on that one look too specific because that could be tear binding nephew Why would a man that you are sleeping with tell you in depth about him with other women and the pleasure he brought them Include That's a man who don't respect you and that's a man who listened to podcasts in the dark that's a man who he don't really he don't care nothing for you and a man who cares about you he wants you to feel like Believe you the only woman walking the face of the earth He really is not gonna mention other women to you. It's like he wants you to feel Special like the one the only one a man who bringing up other women for one He need he needs therapy to It's a sign of very strong soul ties that he have So that mean that if he talking to you about the women that mean he Still touching old women some of those women or will touch them if he get the opportunity and It also mean that he gonna be telling y'all business to another woman he'll soon And so that's what you got to understand on that one Now this one y'all only have to post y'all question one time because it don't just run away from it I'm able to just go in order Do you think that these Podcasts are influencing the mindset of men today and that's why it's so much division. I'm gonna tell you what I'm gonna tell you What and that's the best question we don't got so far Because we need to be addressing the state of the Union right now, but I'm gonna tell you what it is 100% influence in the mindset because it influenced my mindset and I know better It literally had me sitting there looking at my wife with a side eye like oh God had to check and correct and get me in line I had to hit my head. I had to wake up and smell the Folgers in the morning because That is the trick of the enemy. That's how the devil work plant a seed in your mind That's what he was doing after Jesus had fasted him 40 days 40 nights And he was hungry and he went to Jesus and say listen, I Give you all this right here the whole world If if you want that you gonna bow down to me. Hey, can't you jump off? side of this hill cliff and The angels will catch you before you hit a rock and Jesus had the quote scripture to him had to tell him That I shall not tempt the Lord like God He was the adversary was planting a seed and that's what these devilish men are doing They planting seeds and see here's the thing when we say something as a human If I'm going around and I'm spewing a message to women and I'm telling women listen You are the prize you deserve a man that is going to cook breakfast for you That's going to massage your feet every night You should be able to spend Without a budget budget should not be in your vocabulary If I'm telling women that there's going to be a large sector of women that believe that and They're gonna go and they're gonna up end their household They're gonna destroy the household and so what the podcast is doing is the podcast is telling me and listen You are the prize these women ain't worth nothing but SE That's all they were is getting on their back They bring nothing to the table because everything they bring to the table could be bought which that's an absolute lie That's the dumbest thing in the world Because I mean if they had a good robot if they had a half decent robot a Lot of women would be like a get your robot So when I got a headache when I ain't feeling good you could go and climb on your robot They need got no they need got no robots made We're sending people to space And I ain't heard nothing about no robot. That's that's human life That's in the budget of these men of these men on the podcast. So a Woman so irreplaceable They they Got no replacement for But that's how these men talking Like a woman just is useless like she just irreplaceable like he just could go climb on another man and have kids Like he like like a woman heart spirit her energy for these children her attention to detail her her Organization skills these men talking like a woman just ain't worth nothing and I'm just I'm just I'm like I'm finna just be walking around with olive oil And just be praying and just be putting it on my forehead just because the Trump is about to sound The way these men talking Lord on his way back Lord got to be on his way back How can women support men today mentally and emotionally in today's time? Without overstepping boundaries support is your presence and it's your words so What what a lot of women do that's overstepping boundaries is when you let a man move in with you and That's not your husband. That's overstepping boundaries when you invest money into a man like big money. I mean like 10k like when you invest money into a man business into him and that's not your husband when you Sucking and ducking ducking with a D. Okay on cuss and Trucking and you doing all of this for a man. That's not your husband. That's overstepping boundaries So when you give him money, you let a man live on you live off of you. That's overstepping boundaries Supporting a man is listening to him Asking him great questions pulling greatness out of him Listening to his answer not cutting them off not being condescending speaking life into him encouraging him praying for him in private If he the type that he liked to pray together and you cool with that and praying together that's support like and Speaking affirmations over him like man, you smart Like men we don't hear that enough like man. You smart man, you you kind of like a genius and Humans we don't do that for humans enough And so that no my wife slipped up today because that's not her personality But I came out the room with my sleeping shorts on and I Guess you can see my muscles in my thighs And she said oh you look good. She said I had a double take. I'm like who is this athlete? I'm like, well, I mean I've let it but she but she gave him a little compliment I had to sit on it. I had the process that like Oh, I just hope I look good 15 years in a marriage Yes, I just rolled off a tongue. I had a process that really sit down. Let me sit with it for a second y'all give me a second hmm Gonna order some more of these short short So, you know now Cuz this is in style that a little bit of thigh a little bit of muscle on your thigh right above your knee My wife liked to see that so I'm finna be why and I'm gonna tell you what I'll be doing There's nine. No, she liked it. So every time I step I got to step hard I got to plant that foot and then squee that thigh So the muscle kind of do that love upside down Mitt Donald logo Get a little ball. I'll be about the hyper stem. I need walking trying to play that muscle every time I hit around Trying to get that good flat. I know she liked that No, I ain't talking too loud. She watching Brooklyn next Don't watch grown. I work if I got to work. Why do you mean working? They got millions of dollars I got to be on here working too. So now listen to me. So That's what we need as men, you know And we got the and I'll be telling my wife just because we got two boys So they ain't always just gonna come to her naturally to be thinking about it. I'll be like, hey baby I'm about to hit the milestone. I want me a cake. I want me I want me a cake with this number on it but a milestone I'm about to hit and I'll tell her that and That right there means something I need to remind her cuz I ain't got my dog on cake But so that's what that's what we need as men that I Say 90% of men really need words or affirmation cuz never got it Never really got it. I you should know this not recorded now They say live up Let me see Now, how do you know if a man is using you as a cover? So you really don't know But if you sense it then the way a woman's intuition is set up nine or ten ten times if you sense that the man using you as a cover up Cuz a Straight man ain't gonna confuse you like you gonna be able to tell a man straight if he's great now for man if Got other stuff going on It's gonna strike you it's gonna strike you now. Honestly, I have been around man Who I had no clue and I'm a man. I had no clue. Well, I can't say that I get a little inkling I Get a little inkling But you just still cuz sometimes they be muscular and you just ain't used to seeing muscular men and and like big men like when I like seven feet tall six five Muscular You just ain't used to seeing those kind of men Be using women as a cover up just because it just really I just like this even made sense Like what you and that man in the door? All of the hug each other I'll have on a shoulder contest like the world you hug a man With shoulders and so sometimes it just be confusing sometimes you cannot Tell but today is happening more and more and I'm gonna tell you why it's happening It be happening because of the web sites So what happened is people don't understand that lust Cannot be quenched So these men at the age of 12 10 11 12 a lot of these men is getting into these sites And they watching that stuff and they getting in and it's only so long after they even watched it What I don't notice they want to start experiment so these men they get bored with them a woman and then they start wanting them a Man who dressed like a woman but still Got old bat and ball and so I just Because some stuff that came across my desk or just emails and stuff women be sending me And then I just I'm flabbergasted at what's going on out here. I'm flabbergasted Because when I heard that the men be using snapchop Y'all know snapchop when stuff disappear the men be using snapchop. I got snapchop Nah, I won't go on now My son begging me to have it for his 15 snapchat snapchat and I said no son Cuz you got my name so somebody be searching you somebody be searching me find you One of these men being sent to some One of these women being sent to some that disappear Do you know it's an elderly Caucasian lady sent me a video But that they'll She and when I thought now I didn't mean elderly that not elderly in the sense of what y'all thinking I didn't mean that take that word back Because not a people who in they 50s or 60 be like elderly Ain't mean that I just meant my elder. I meant my elder but the lady There's a Caucasian lady which I have to clarify that cuz sometimes people think only black people deal with me This was a Caucasian lady And I don't know if it was another Tony. She was trying to send it to her and just not really too Familiar with Instagram The lady sent me a picture a baby. I showed you that when that lady sent me that other bear but a The elderly the older white lady I told you that you don't remember that Huh, huh? That ain't good. Oh, I'll talk to you about it. Mm-hmm. That ain't good. Mm-hmm I like telling about some something happen to the my son and friends My son some my son and friend had a little accident like, you know golf cart or something But I Sent to my daddy sent it to my wife. She says you don't remember I was I was floored and So that's what's happening right now because the web sites and these subscription sites men are becoming zombies and becoming so addicted to the access of Nakedness on a phone But see loss cannot be quenched So when you feed into lust it gets stronger So these men of today is want it going from wanting a budget Okay hot dog in a bun To then they wanting them on a woman then they wanted to enter the exit Then that ain't enough for them then they want to go get them a Person who looked like a woman but got the man body part and it's getting worse And it's just going and it's really they chasing lust and Then before you know it They all the way out there and it's all just because lust cannot be quenched It got to be started there and that's what's happening. Let me see this time Yeah, great. You can give out you your mentor has me excelling in self-worth with wrong boys Now men are telling me about my value and that I'm a rare gem. Thanks to your teaching God bless you. God bless you. That's not like I ate up. Let me see this here now Oh somebody has sent me something up there Mother God bless you. It was somebody else sent some I guess when I scroll down at a short to me Somebody has sent I've seen 499 of their God bless you Tony if I'm ready to invest in starting youtube channel slash blog should I file for LLC even though It may take a while to start Build something big. Yeah, you should get your LLC because in a lot of states It's probably only like a hundred to three hundred dollars on the state website To file for your LLC, but just having an LLC then you're going to get write-offs Just your your business expenses. So if you go to tony gas and academy And you take the u2 for beginners course and you're going to be able to count that as a business expense Your when you get your laptop and you get your camera With your LLC you could write that stuff off just under your name You're not going to get every write-off that you would get by having a company You know, it'll be right off some stuff probably but You have to talk to a you know tax person But it's definitely that's why they create these companies because You ought to remember that that was created for People who had rights And people who had access So what they was doing is like hey if you own The company You're going to get to write off all this stuff But your employees who are in the 99% They can pay to their name. So we're taking tax it right on up out of them And they'll get a little tax return But they ain't going to have all the benefits and write-offs and Hiding in the tax code like you're going to be able to do as a business owner And so that's the very nuance to get really deep. So you got to talk to a you know CPA or a certified, you know tax person But um, I remember the first time I started my LLC was like 2008 And when I went to the CPA and she asked me what all my expenses was and I wrote them all down and you know I'm added all up gave it all to her and I got me a $1,500 check back And it didn't get to me because I owed student loans I hadn't been in collections on my student loans. So they the government took my my return from the student loans I say well, I tell you What y'all won't let nobody win Why do men ask for pictures? During the talking phase a man I met in person was asking me to send him photos of me when I was out of town Men are visual creatures and so a man to get that picture and a man to just sit down He'll sit down and look at that picture 30 minutes. He'll just sit down stare at that picture and Just and then he'll send it to his homeboys He'll send it to a couple homeboys and say hey, how does she look? You know what you think of her? So it just me and being visual pictures and I mean visual creatures and it's just it's like a feeling You know, it's like interaction for the man And it's just it's different because I realized that A lot of women don't get the same Feeling from looking at a man the way a man get from looking at a woman So it's like as as men just being so visual you will see like a man got to be It's a man who gonna make a woman turn her head and watch him walk That might be one out of a thousand And only know what what kind of man that is. I've never really seen that, you know, except for the little thirsty women who just be dehydrated but just A regular woman who not dehydrated She could look at a man and see a man might think he handsome or whatever But she's not tongue on the ground and just be spinning all around. But if you notice when you watch men Men are taking look at a woman all the way the whole way And so that's all it is What is your definition of wife material? That's another topic a lot of these men be talking about A lot of men are saying modern women are not wife material. Well, see you got to realize Modern women is a term that somebody made up So I don't know what modern women mean really and if they saying modern women today You know, I really don't know what that means but for me My standards are different because I feel like when I hear these men today They're looking for a woman that God has not created And they want a woman to be something that they are not the male equivalent of And so for me the wife material For for me is can I trust you? Like can I believe like will you be honest with me? Will you be faithful to me? Will you you know, can we build on trust and honesty? And humans going to fail at that too But it's like is this a habitual thing or is this You know an environment that I created that I need to fix and I don't think why and and being a role model So a woman being the type of woman That I want my sons or if I had a daughter to be able to look up to and see and respect So me personally I don't like For women to curse or smoke or get drunk Or to you know, like act irresponsibly like aquafool Like a woman over 30. She's still going to the club And drinking and in there smoking weed That right there all is totally no gold because some of that stuff can form an addiction And and when you form an addiction to hookah or to cigarettes black and miles marijuana alcohol When you form an addiction to those stuff toys battery operated devices That stuff can't always just be turned off And so for me I Feel like a woman who is emotionally intelligent Who is responsible who is a role model who like this woman being herself Can be looked up to by a eight-year-old little girl being herself And like how she carried herself is with class and dignity not perfect not an angel but respectable and I feel like That if that's what me and talking about modern women are just not motherly or not Respectable by the youth which I see I see a lot of it. You know I went to um But it's it's also phases. I feel like a lot of women Wait to meet a man to change Be because they tell themselves It's no sense for me to act You know like a wife if I'm if I don't have a husband or to act like a mother if I don't have kids And I have noticed that a lot of women can just turn it on and off And like just become motherly when they get pregnant But that's that's a little that's scary to me That's scary to me to kind of you know Do that I'm gonna tell y'all that what she said Now make sure you put hashtag q in front of your question so I could See that Yeah, I'm telling you Yeah, I need that Yeah, that's getting rough out here I'm trying to tell you How do we as women respond to some of these Alpha males who are convinced by the man in the dark without proving these Ideologies right Ideologies right You know that honestly that's type of man. You don't respond to If a man think he know it then he think he know it He think he convinced you got to go on about your business You really don't sit sit down try to argue because you're not going to be able to change a man mind A man got to hit rock bottom And hear the voice of god at rock bottom in order to change in mind And that's that's what you you you can't really argue a man out of something that he feel he believe And so that it's honestly a waste of time So if you see a man he thinking like the man in the dark you got to just take off running You got to take off running Because it really take a man who has real love For his mother for the women in his life Who saw a good example of a man from a man. That's what it takes for a man to really understand and respect You know women How do I tell Man, I'm not comfortable with out the one slip up But still want to date or should I just take the L and walk away? No, you could tell them like you're not talking to god If god if you can approach god, you know Anytime a day You can talk to a man. So you got to understand just next phone call Next text message just tell them like hey, I'm not really comfortable with this Point blank period. You know, I slipped up But that's not really where I want to be what I want to be doing and you know Can you respect that it's yes or no and so The right man he'll respect that and say okay, I get it and now He's not already Then done that so he know what it's like now So now it's put up a shut up now. It's like, okay, you didn't you didn't been down you know rodeo And me and always tell my oh, I got the test drive before I buy Well, and that's a horrible analogy to talk, you know compare a woman to a car But that became a thing from people saying I got the test drive Before I buy on buy a car without test driving it Then that came oh, let me check her car facts And and I got to keep on going. Let me check her tire pressure What how many miles she got on her, you know, so it just kept going. Oh, she needed she got a flat tire Oh, she need a new transmission. So now guys just equating so many men looking at women like A ride and you have to be able to address that and just let a man know if that's not what you're comfortable with The man for you a respectable man. He's gonna understand that and he's gonna respect that he's gonna appreciate that A man who he just thanked you full of it and you know All of that then that's different Is it a bad thing if a guy states you remind me of my ex but in a good way I feel it is Yeah, that's a bad thing. That's a horrible thing That's a horrible thing That is the dumbest thing in the world man could say it just show you he'll leave you in a heartbeat for his ex That mean got a soul tie with his ex then you you like a therapist If a man is living A life getting closer to God says he is living in his truth Told me on our second date. He used to Have to mess with other men to get money to feed his kids Years ago, how should I? Just I got to go just I got to go Just I got to go I got If I was a woman on and I'm out on a date with that man Okay, all right Okay, all righty. Very good. No, you don't check me Okay, all right. Oh, this is good. No, you ask them a fist bump. Uh actually here you go Hey Okay I got I got to go come on now That but see that right there. That's the man trying to let you know He's trying to let you know right there. He's saying listen I do some strain for a piece of change Really he really what he trying to say is like listen He's trying to say he is out here like Look nice X And uh, what the boy named billy ocean or frank ocean He's trying to say that's how he feeling and he want to know if you're okay with it. That's all that is That's all that is So if a man tell you that because listen if that's the real if a real reason A man that if that's the real reason the man did that And he didn't want to do that or he wanted He took that to a grade So for a man to say that right there. Oh Oh, yeah, he had him a little bit of fun He was like He had him a little fun. What else I could do for my kid. You got anything else I could do for my kid My thing is I just wish people a choose Just like man, come on choose now because don't be going over there And now you tend to take that thing out of all that boo boo and then go To that woman that one you finna get that woman a uti You finna get that woman a uti You to come over from over there with that man Got all that feces And now you finna come over here and get his woman a uti. That's the and that's the thing. It's like come on now Just at least be respectful of humans and be like, okay, listen You know, that's why I just I just want guys to just You know, get that together like come on now Because it's because what it's doing is it's it's confusing to the women And then y'all getting in a relationship And then the confusion happened and then y'all have had kids and then the confusion happened and then You know, the woman got to be Putting us set up with the olympic swimmer So it's like your man and went and Got that swimmer of caitlyn jenna Imagine if you want to fight for yours and you got to square up with caitlyn jenna You finna get wore out You finna get wore out the frame Caitlyn jenna finna put all kind of paws on On her on on her man girlfriend It's like come on not oh no, I think it's a caitlyn like women It just it's it's it's it's it's getting real out here for y'all now. God bless you. God bless you Because I just I'd rather people be honest like listen And then add the letters to it They didn't add the letters to it, but I don't know what the new letters mean. They added a i and a so I don't know what what it mean, but It's just I wish people just to be honest because it's it ain't fair For a male or a female to want something Of the same but then deceive somebody of the opposite And this person of the opposite think they getting love And they want somebody of the opposite But the person they with really want somebody of the same It's like just honesty is the best policy and people just need to be straight up about, you know, how you're living because It just you're gonna cause more problems than solve High tone I was dealing with a man who lied about dealing with multiple women I found out and blocked him on everything He keep contacting me from fake pages. It's been almost a year and he still won't stop Why is that he just don't want to lose Some men can't stand a loss Maria tall of a god bless you now jasmine blessing now some men can't stand a loss And i'ma tell you a man who's doing it. It ain't he don't want you that bad Because it's too many women too many women in the world. He don't want you that bad. He that's his ego He takes you out of ego not out of heart Because if it was out of heart and he really wanted you he would you wouldn't have never been able to catch him in all that other stuff Man, I've been dating six months says he sees me as a wife How long should I wait before expecting a proposal You know, you don't want to put no time limit on it, but I would say on average A man who won't you who ready and he see you as a wife It's gonna be between month 12 and 24, which is a big window But it's typically going to be between month 12 and 24 But what you have to realize is that a lot of men will say that too To get you to drop your guard to get you to get complacent So you drop your guard and you're like, oh, this my hood and this gonna be my you thinking you telling yourself That's gonna be your husband and then you get on your bike And and if you are already on your bike a man might Say that to see if you're gonna open your mouth Or if he gonna be able to in or an exit You know, he might say that to get you to go to the whatever your next level is So whatever you ain't doing if y'all doing everything between y'all A man might say, oh, I see his wife to see if you're gonna Let him bring a third leg in now third party in there. So that's also a tactic So you can't ever really listen to what a man say You got to look at what a man shows So if a man showed you Then he gonna be on one knee Like jagged edge How does it mean when man says to the woman he's dating that He's met his match It don't mean nothing sis I think y'all, you know, y'all be reading a little too much into it. You know, it don't mean nothing Some some stuff man, you got to understand Man, we the same one that's that say did it hurt And you say did what hurt when you fell from heaven Are you tired From what running around through my mind? Like we the same ones that created that stuff So y'all can't question everything a man say now some stuff is just just conversation He just he grew up with a computer And ain't really used to talking to women. So he just gonna say stuff I remember the boy played on my football team in college. He used to tell his girl Everyday girl, you gonna be the death of me. He was from pg county Um, Marilyn girl, you gonna be the death of me. I used to be like Why you keep saying that like what do that mean? Like did you grow up with your granddaddy? Like who keep telling the woman girl, you gonna be the death of me I said you grow up with your granddad. I don't know who you grew up with because nobody say that So some stuff man just be saying it's just it's just a conversation piece So y'all can't read into everything All the co-parent with child's father when I still have feelings for him This you're gonna have to cut them feelings off You're gonna have to cut them feelings off. You're gonna have to hide them feeling how to take some acting classes Is what you're gonna have to do if you're gonna have to be Viola Davis and Angela Bassett and you just gonna have to because you can't You can't be susceptible like that can't be co-parenting and then be up to google google their eyes And if you wanted to be a possibility of him liking you But y'all working it out then you definitely can't be googled out because if you google out he gonna look at you like I got you it ain't gonna you ain't gonna mean much to him because he know you ain't going no well because he got you Tony how do I stop catching feelings so fast after meeting and spending time with a guy less than a month? So this is gonna be hard for you because you're already there But the reason why is because you fantasizing about love Even when you ain't got no man in your life and then when you get a man in your life You talk to him for an hour you think about him for the other 23 Or if you sleeping eight hours you got 16 other hours in the day If you talk to him for one hour you think about another 15 and so you got to get busy in your life Meaning you got to tap into your purpose. You got to tap into your company You know, you got to get going like that And when you do that then that's what's gonna Help you not be so thirsty Man, I've been dating six months. Okay. I've seen that one Y'all don't have to post y'all question twice now. I know some of y'all missed that but This one allowed me to go in order. This is a little system Yes, uh Yeah, yes, it is my ex fiance listening to him. That's why we aren't together He became aggressive and dish that that's what it's doing the men in the dark with e-pod cat That's what they're doing to these men That's what they that's what they're doing. It's getting it's getting bad. I'm gonna tell you I don't know Tony talk about this spy weapon man using when they call women they call your phone Twice next to your camera Next to your camera on the phone is active Hmm Now I heard about that now, but it's different ones work different ways And that's why people be calling me like that too people be doing me like that Trying to listen in trying to get them an earful trying to see if I'm cheating on my wife I'll be telling my wife about that and the reason why I know about that because I know I know about it from women Because I because I remember one lady told me That she got an app that she was able to Tap her man. What's up? And see all his outgoing messages, maybe it was And then another lady told me she got an app that was like 80 dollars a month that she was able to You got to get access to her man phone But she was able to download the app on his phone and it hide in the background It don't show on his app list don't show on his phone And she just always able to hear his microphone Like whatever is whatever being said and she'll she say why he why why he's sitting in the car He had another woman in the car He was cheating on him and she was listening to their whole conversation because of the the app she put on the phone so Because of me knowing that stuff is out there and that stuff is real That's why I live my life 24 hours a day as if somebody listening to me And that's and that's just a lesson for everybody because it's so much stuff out here Anything that could be coded could be decoded ain't nothing safe. Ain't nothing secure So that's just a lesson for you that your enemy your ex Your friend they're gonna have apps to where people could text you and then tap your phone They're gonna have apps to where people could call you and got to talk to you so A amount of minutes and could tap your phone they're gonna have when people could FaceTime you and then tap your phone And it just gonna be all that and then and then the government they of course They just doing it whenever they want to because I see people on news all the time Dope boys that there was a wiretap on their phone And they swore they just was the smoothest thing in the world and then people just listen to listen to everything Oh, yo, this is it fool. Oh, he fit a boob 80 pounds to california Oh, oh, oh, oh, man. He up the a you know, that's why he had 40 pounds But he out there hustling boy. He really think he the paper route, huh? Okay, yeah, all right, we're gonna be the right out there and and I don't know how they put Because they never access the people phone So the same way they tapping it it got to be other people who could tap it at the phone At call center at that. I mean at the thing. So that's how I live my life I live my life. Like somebody listening to me 24 hours a day If me and my wife having a deep discussion I just pretend it's a third party in there And they just sitting over there playing judge and jury like, oh, yeah, she got on this one Yeah, she she won this one. Oh, yeah, Tony got it on this one. And I guess that's how that's how hey Because yeah any day So that that's real now y'all got to be You know Paying attention out there male and female now Um, how can a female pinpoint the difference of a man who is truly busy working or with Family or if they are just entertaining other women like what signs would a player show? Honestly a player show the same signs as a faithful man It's it's really and that's why I just got to be trust And if there is no trust there is no relationship because a faithful man can go to work And have to work overtime And literally be working overtime Phone could die and don't have a charger And then get off four hours late come home And a cheetah could do the same exact thing And just depending on that man and who he is will determine If what he was doing like I just was in New Orleans and I was interviewing a young lady and You know, she in a relationship. She got a boyfriend and all that but If my my wife had no way of knowing that I'm in my hotel room alone that I'm not with another woman that I didn't fly Another woman in the New Orleans that I ain't you know, do nothing with another woman It just literally come down to trust so a lot of times it ain't gonna be as blatant as as you would think Surrender you post your question. You came on here late post that question a million times When you said that Tony that man in the dark said we should start promoting men and being Promoting men being That what the man said The man said Sister from some of the stuff I done seen Y'all send me I can't deny I can't tell I can't And I can't say I'm shot no more Gina. God bless you now. God bless you Now y'all make sure y'all put the hashtag Q in front of your question. Oh lord She'll run you came in here and post that question 90 times Tony my husband compares me to his bro's girlfriend She's too nice Kato's to her man a lot and allows him to go places like Hooters now I look like I'm just insecure and controlling. He calls that love Now sister now Hooters is not the strip club now So, you know My mom and daddy was pastors used to take up the Hooters because them wanes now. So now if they blight now mark as Oh, y'all might be Hispanic But now a black folk just some black folk just love chicken wing And I'm gonna be honest with you You can't think about it like that because it's different as your man trying to go to the strip club now Hooters a lot of them wouldn't be enough It don't be nothing to look at it do not be nothing to look at because a lot of them be Just the flight of the board back there and that's where the black man into now They just beat us just the flight of the board back there and then just have all this right here. I'm like That that ain't you know ain't everybody thing. You said I mean but now no way is good Now So so you can't be insecure. You got to have trust now It's different if a man trying to go literally look at booty clap Okay And throwing money that's different but not somewhere to eat at that kids is in there The soccer team the football team in there, you know celebrating they first place win in the pop wonder league now That's that's different. They're so so And you gotta realize no women in Hooters nine. That's the outfit nine Back in the day When me and my basketball team used to go out to eat to celebrate the win We used to drop push the napkin on the floor and say excuse me, man. Could you get that for me? And so we could see her been over And she's know what we was doing to grow my high woman. No, you know good. Well, you shouldn't be been off of those little boys But my home boy, that's what he used to do. He used to push the napkin off the table and say excuse me Could you get that for me? And boy, we sit there and get us an eye full but this kid stuff. So that right there before grown man Who does ain't nothing compared to what these men got access to on they phone You know the fans site and all the other site the hub and all the other site Listen If you can't you can't shield a man from from that kind of stuff and you're trying to shield him It's actually going to make him act out more That's going to ask to make him do more So the fact that my wife is not insecure And That make me want to be even Most straight and narrow because I'm like what turn why she asked me no question. Now what you got going on over there? I'll I'll be trying to figure out what she got going on because she's so secure And then one day I asked I'm like, why you don't be when I'm on the road like why you don't be checking like trying to see Well, man, you don't even wait up for me Like you be the knock that and when I be home, she'd be the same way like We'll go to the room when I get off this I go to the room. We'll be sitting down She'll fall asleep with her phone in her hand like she'll fall asleep And ain't plug the phone in and and she just be tired just the mom life getting up five o'clock a.m. Every morning And so but that's security and I asked her one time I said why you don't check me when I'm on the road like why you don't be Where you at what you're doing who you with and she said Because of you cheat on me. That's your loss She said you will be the dummy to cheat So you're like, I'm not gonna drive myself crazy trying to control your every action So Give you enough rope The hand yourself or help yourself Point blank pure art And we heard that a long time ago not and then your brother's girlfriend She that's a little different too. You got let your husband know like listen. She ain't got no reign And there's a hunger games out here. So she's trying to do anything She's trying to do anything You know my next book is called husband material But it ain't for all y'all it's just for those in the blessed tribe and on the patreon the blessed tribes and the patreon Um, it's called husband material where i'm just exposing myself as a man of things I struggle with and the things i'm learning the things we got to do and the things that a you know Got to look for the woman got to look for How to balance following your god-given purpose With emotions of dating life I'm 26 and having a hard time finding balance between them Also, so much love for you and your family You don't you don't balance that system. You pursue your god-given purpose full flesh 100 And the man for you will tap you on your shoulder And ask you to take a time out for a second to hear him out And then that's when you have the natural flow Of that man being in your life with you pursuing purpose But until that and that um, and you should be so focused That the man has to get your attention And that's what you got to realize All right, tony. What would you say the best way to grow my following? I've got social media and do reels daily I do the same on my youtube. Perhaps it just takes time. It does take time. It does take time today, especially They you know, they're making it take longer, but The key is consistency. I got a course on um Called social media mastery on tony gas's academy Dot com i'm gonna put the academy in here Now y'all when you go to academy use the code Um, i'm gonna put that in here. The code is happy 15. That's my son 15 birthday tomorrow on the guys in academy dot com cold happy 15 And I use I share my social media principles What helped me get the three and a half million people on social media I share the principles in you can't really share like the trends because it changed the algorithm changed all the time But there are principles to brand building online That can help you as the trends and all of that changes if you have some principles about what you're doing You'll be able to weather the storms and and grow over time And you don't want you don't want fast growth You want slow growth because you want to be organic you want to be real people If a man is intentional and says you are his wife Is less than a year okay for an engagement? It's a personal choice and you got to know that you know that you know and you got to really be feeling that man You got to really feel that in your spirit But I don't recommend it because I feel like a year is a good amount of time and it's a safe time To get to know that man to see if that man is the man for you And vice versa even with a man because it take about 12 months to really see a person And so I don't recommend Getting engaged under a year But if you feel it and he just springing on you and when I say under a year Like 10 months is the same thing basically now if a man come proposing that six months or less Then that's when it's really But like eight months the 12 months you you know It's it's pretty close but but the thing about it is engagement is not marriage So just because you get engaged don't feel like you stuck You don't feel like you got to go all the way through with it You still get the jump ship if it ain't right Says he liked me talking on and off for five months and also says he felt like if we were to be together He felt like his happiness wouldn't matter because every time he'd do something I leave for two to three months. Is he lying? Um What's this y'all only been talking on and off for five months So it sounds like he didn't did something you left for two months Then maybe you came back and then you didn't left again If you had to leave that many times and you leave for two three months you wasting your time You wasting your time and he right he don't he and he don't want you all right what he want to do It hurt you. Yeah, that man. I want you The man don't want you if you leave the man every two if you leave the man two three months And y'all been on and off The fact y'all been on and off and then you keep having to lead a man. Yeah, the man don't want you Go home by the business y'all y'all ain't Y'all ain't meant now Do you think this relationship will work? I'm 51. He's 62 He worked at sea I'm stable on my job. He's wishy washy and has health issues, but that's not everything to me sister I would say a whole lot. I would say don't get weird and well doing I would say Let's keep wading in the water. Not his water that he out there on but sister 11 years older than you he got to be perfect Because you're outside of the range range You really don't want to be with nobody more than 10 year difference unless it's an exception to the rule But he's nowhere near an exception to the rule because he out there working on the sea at 62 years old Yeah, they're working on the sea 62 years old And then he wishy washy and all that right there No But it let me know it let me know though that you uh You're a good one because A woman who ain't worth much They'll be trying to get with them put a life insurance policy on them with their health Can you be friends with someone you've been in a long-term relationship with before? Ex says he wants to start over but wants to establish a friendship first I turn this friendship down you did the right thing Because this was a long-term relationship if it ain't working a long term it really ain't meant to be It really ain't meant to be Kimberly that was my bad on that now Happened to me too. I deleted snap chop immediately Yeah, y'all got to get all that snap chop now It was way my accent is I really don't want to say your screen name. I'll be done Messed you up. I God bless you though. I so appreciate you Been dating for seven months communication is rough lots of debating about small stuff. Will it get better? No No, he watching the man in the dark Yeah, the man out there cackling like that and y'all cackling like some cats And going back at it pawing each other Like some little cats and y'all seven months in and communication already bad going about your business So that he think he know to him. He's too sassy He too sassy. You don't want no sassy man. Uh You don't want no argumentative sassy man Uh-uh gone by he wears fanny pack too tight man around a choking with that fanny pack Uh-uh You around here with them camo toe jeans on That's The man got them camo toe jeans on With a tight fanny pack and be cackling Don't much been Run faster you can Uh-uh Fast as you can So stood up reality check and told y'all now I'm 23 virgin Preachers kid and a pr professional At 23 years old. So you're a pr professional And building career but not satisfied with dating prospects. I've had is that normal should I be worried? Now now email me now about your um pr professional now. I need me a little pr Little freelance now ain't got no salary for you now A little freelance now a little pr But now that's not sassy and yes sister. That's normal because you're 23 You're 23 And i'm glad to know that you're saving yourself Because that give me hope for my sons that they're gonna be able to meet them a young lady Then saving herself So i'm glad to know that and I hope that If you could say yourself in this day and age that it's going to be women that could save themselves When my 15 year old is 23 in eight years because he told me he waited until marriage And I was glad to hear that and I hope he And I hope he hold on to it too Everyone say one second. All right. I'm back now ain't gonna be on here too much longer now about 15 minutes depending on what my wife doing She's been in a good mood I'm gonna tell y'all there's a husband life It just I don't know what it is about my wife, but she got she got a short-term memory in the sense of If I do something wrong or whatever I say something wrong And it upset her she just get over it like quick she get over it You know with it within 24 hours. She'd never yell at me. She'd never curse at me And i'm not the greatest guy, you know, I have communication issues just being blunt being direct You know with my sons and stuff and And just with people in general i'm real direct And I hurt people feelings. That's how i'm just a direct person and My wife she's just short-term memory and one thing I noticed though I was sitting the other day i was getting a bunch of text messages bunch of text messages about my podcast and uh My wife just was talking non-stop She was talking non-stop and she just be so excited and just be talking talking talking talking talking and A lot of time I'd be I'd be working. I might be doing something. She just be talking But that's just a sign to me of just joy Because we know when somebody ain't happy they're not going to be talking and talking and talking and talking talking And she'll talk about in and everything And i'm just so i'm just so proud of that and you know what i'm finna start doing Because a lot of time I might be doing something when she be talking i'm finna start just shutting everything down I'm putting phone down just looking in the mouth when she talking about this cat video this real she's seen I'm gonna be looking in the mouth and i'm finna laugh so hard. You can see all the back of my teeth And i'm just finna just dive deeper in that because we got the strength in these here relationships Tony do you think that holding on to onto toxic nostalgia and soul Has women holding on to uh earth and hence love Absolutely, that is what it is. And so it make it hard for women to accept real love and to accept a real man And a good man because of what you have become accustomed to from your past Divorced and failed now single mom. I have a great job Was also a provider In school for a second degree. I just learned he is having a baby Don't know how to feel what should be my focus feel broken Well, you got divorced in february Well, we in april All right good Well, since what you for one you shouldn't feel broken because you're not in a new relationship pregnant He the one in a new relationship with a baby on the way he is broken Because he didn't take the time to heal You actually healing so you can't let what he doing break you Because they ain't got nothing to do with you So you got to feel good that you healing that you taking your time that you in spaces like this Learning and growing and learning from other people experiences. You're doing the right thing So you can't let his brokenness Make you broken can't let his confusion. How are you confused? Because he's not healing. He ain't showing You see the man I remember a guy had a book called that man. It said men don't heal We ho And that was deep done now. Let me see now Jasmine smilf god bless you now guy i'm dating went to visit a uh out of State he made it clear that he wanted the guy On adam Will likely end it because it's suspect to me. He stayed three nights at his house thoughts Now i'm starting to thank y'all on his line Because this is wrong. It's getting strong out here My god Y'all gonna be walking around with all kind of UTI And std Sister listen if a man one of my man you got to run Because listen like you said that he made it clear That he wanted the guy You dating Because you got the wrong sister because listen if one of these men go to squelp with you It's going to be a long night unless you've got hands like Clarissa Shields now It's going to be a long night And you do not as a woman want to be fighting a man over a man It's bad enough fighting another woman because she might be in front of hood and putting hands on you So you don't want to be fighting no man Because just because the man that's cuz a man like a man. He's still strong now He's still strong And some of them be stronger because they've been lifting men up. So some of them be stronger than Men who just got who lifting a woman some of these men Sister you got to run now That if that's what a man want to do go right ahead buddy Go right ahead Can't have that man bring about them thing A feces give you, you know, uti I'll be seeing that commercial about that monostat ain't that what that monostat for Because of this right here these men going over there And that man and then coming Y'all might have to start me out because y'all conversation this stuff is getting too real. I'm gonna have to open me up Look look private out How the real adult conversation because y'all going through it out here I cannot believe that these men coming and putting the feces stick on you working bad boy My eyes are getting bad out here Dating for three months. No he is consistent calls daily dates every week Asked me to be his girl, but I wasn't ready. I found out he had with a girl. I left He is begging for forgiveness Should I give another chance since that's a personal choice? Me personally, I wouldn't recommend um Also to put your icon picture on the phone so we test call come visualize that too. I see since I wouldn't uh It's the thing as a woman went when as a human when you meet a man And y'all day for three months And y'all ain't sleeping together and he consistent And he called daily And y'all day every week and he asked you to be his girl and you not ready. He's not the one Because the man for you gonna heal your heart The man for you gonna heal your heart Jan the god bless you If if if that man coming he doing all that and you don't feel no healing You don't feel no sense of peace They ain't they ain't your They ain't your man So go on about go on about your business Go on about your business Okay, modern women create that's why I figured somebody will come up with this term Why do some men weapon? Even they're also being disrespectful Sister that's like why the sky blue? I ain't gonna understand everything about everybody Why do I get complimented a lot, but no man pursues me or asks me out on a date 27 year old female Now what you want to do is check that energy now You want to check that energy when they When they compliment you because that might be the little test So if you thank you Thank you Mm-hmm That's how you doing then they ain't gonna approach you So it's all right to be friendly. Well, thank you Thank you you single. Well, thank you. I really appreciate that. Thank you. I'm a married man But I always be looking at outfits. I check outfits. I test my wife. I've seen this lady. She had on some um blight Like some blight leather pants She had on a white like dress shirt kind of but it had an extra little thing on the back and she had on some baby blue and white Dunks with the black nike check on it and I text my wife a I see a dope fit right here Like the black pants the white shirt With the baby blue and white my wife went and googled and found all the outfits So I walked up to the lady. I said, excuse me, man. Could you tell me where you got your shirt from? And she said Zara she said I actually got it from Zara I was like, oh wow, I didn't expect that I said, what about the pants? She said, oh these come from northstrom. She like they're like full leather They're like, wow, okay. I said, I love your outfit. I said I just will text my wife about it I said I ain't lying. I'm gonna show you here. Go to text. I showed her where she can see queen Because that's because that could be a corny pickup line for for some guys And so she was like and when I tell you that lady she she'd say Thank you so much. Thank you so much for recognizing my outfit. Thank you I was like, man, she got some good energy because a lot of women they'll be like Um, I don't know And so here's the thing It's what I have noticed too a lot of women And and and it and it could be because you're tired It could be because you fed up. It could be because you're tired of the games But a lot of women now Especially women of color If a man give you a compliment a man say something y'all be turning your nose up Y'all be tucking your purse extra hard and then go to speed walking And so it's like listen One is a quote that says it says success comes from Going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm So when you have bad experience bad experience bad experience, you got to reset You got to heal just like I tell my athletes that I mentor Next play reset every time you cross half court reset Every time you cross half court reset One player at a time win the possession and you can win the game Don't try to take it all at one time. You got to reset. Okay, you break up Okay, the man ghosted you okay the man played you reset because you want to be at your best and at your full energy When you meet your husband Don't don't let bombs break you down and then you meet your hub and are you giving your hub and bad What what is it? And you doing all that and then your hub and he trying them And and so now he you are talking to your husband But because you know went through 10 bombs now your husband like oh wow Yeah, she she she jaded she scorn she torn but she didn't she tore up from the floor up man Let me go about my business and he he moved on with his life and he picked the next woman And then you look up on facebook and the man that you gave all the energy and attitude to You see him walking down the aisle. You like man. What the hell I did So you have to also make sure that it's not your energy Make sure you're operating the right way child father out of state Seeing our one-year-old two times Didn't come the first bday. I miss FaceTime called next day text. When can I see my son? Doors always open makes no effort while trying to make me look like a That is hilarious That that man show up two times And then gonna text when can I see my son? I look him he probably text that for a screenshot to send somebody on the text on social media Yeah, I'll text him back You ain't can't even but two times in the whole year and missed his first birthday screenshot Just so when it come back to you Of that when can I see my son like you holding your son hostage? You got that right there what you told him Boy, shout out boy I'ma tend to everyone who ain't had no child take that as a lesson now Y'all got to stop randomly choosing seeds from these men now you can't just just let no any man put no seed in you know You got to be a little more selective Part one my ex fiance and I split up and I said listen, I mean you got all these parts now, so I ain't been five part two now all these messages now Part one my ex fiance and I split a year ago I closed the business and raised our three kids all under six alone He had heaven. I blocked all contact with him. He wants me back and is now in rehab So to let him let him go through that rehab let him come out on that other side of rehab Let him get him a job. Let him have his sponsor. Let him get on his feet Let him do right for a year two years Before you even consider that and if you still single and he's still clean He cleaned for a year and you could be around him a few time with the kids and you could feel until he cleaned And that that's a different story That's a different story. Hey, I'm gonna be on here about three more minutes now Starting the way down. I'm gonna make sure Oh, I did part two And trying to get me back in marriage, but his family is poor of mine. It talks to his child outside of me is very Calm and old why we were together You did the right things just did the right thing To the new members. God bless you. I really appreciate you Really appreciate you I ain't see none of the um Moderators on here tonight Why do I constantly attract men who are looking for emotional support or someone to uplift them constantly? It's draining to me and I have been called cold because I push away From pouring so much Now the cold is is totally different So you got to make sure that you are not drained from a man who requires so much of you And you got to replenish yourself and refill yourself now because That sounds like a section to the rule now Ain't no grown man gonna want that much affirmation the way you drain like that now. So he definitely different He did whoever did that to you. He definitely different. So You know, understand that right there now Understand that right now one of my guys They text me but I always text me at the wrong time. I'd be tired up and then I'd be forgetting Hi, Tony What should I do if my guys overly attached to his mom but says I'm number one Hold or fold year three Year three To be honest with you since I really don't understand guys who heavily attached to their mom Because I was raised with my mom and dad, you know in the household and me and my mama we talk like on text every day Um Almost every day she text me but on the phone we might talk Once or twice a month And it just because just me having a family and just me ripping and running and Having you know dealing with so many people I don't get to talk to on the phone as much And so I just know we really understood men who real real close to their mama like that but I guess just different personalities And it's like if it's not affecting you if it's not like he's not comparing you to his mom and you don't do this Like my mama you don't do that like my mama and his mama not coming and giving you advice and telling you Hey, you need to do this for my son You need to treat my son like this if she ain't overstepping boundaries. It ain't nothing like that then But I would say in this year three this kind of it's coming about that time You know to put up a shut up because that's a that's a little long That's a little long and see jazz and it popped up at the top but on the on the feed here I'm just not getting to it I'm just not getting to it What does it mean when a guy questions a woman's emotions? So he'll be shocked by something and say and he'll say shocked is that manipulative instead of acknowledging the woman's feelings Of course the woman's emotions It's just a Jedi mind trick Just to see if you're gonna flip it up You know flip the script How do I hold a man accountable express my needs without nagging Is nagging is just You know perspective on how the man sees it But if you express your needs in a conversation then That's how you do it. That's not saying the same thing every day getting loud with it arguing with it cussing with it That's nagging but now you shouldn't have to express something too many times at least no more than three times for a man to get it How does the person earn money with a podcast? What is the earnings potential? There is no Cap on your earnings with a podcast because it it just if you're on youtube then views So you get paid, you know by your monetized views So if you get a million views or you get 10 million views and the more views the more pay And then with the advertisement It's the more you get the more downloads you get the more listeners you have then the more money you get paid So if you got 10 listeners I'm gonna pay you a dollar to promote my company And you get a thousand listeners. I'm gonna pay you ten dollars You get a hundred thousand listeners. I'm gonna pay you a hundred dollars It's like that you get a million listeners. I'm gonna pay you a thousand dollars So it just it goes up as as you go up by the way Course are excellent tonic god blessing our kimberlin for taking the course giving that old chance It's a minute fake scamming chamois courses out here that course to take a bad name sometime Do you believe in breaks been with my boyfriend for almost a year and he would like to personally grow So he can be better for us. We love each other but communication has been weird. Thank you No, I don't believe in breaks because It happens me and my wife had It was kind of like a break where it really was her breaking up with me But it wasn't but even that it wasn't pure It wasn't intentional it was because she was getting hounded, you know by her ex-boyfriend And then I was acting crazy, you know, I was acting insecure So it wasn't like we was taking a break it really like we was breaking up And we just so happened to get back together six months later But it really wasn't a real break because we didn't talk at all in that time And we really had no intention of coming back together It just so happened because this is what god had for us But I don't believe in breaks because in a marriage you cannot run from your problems You got to work through your problems. You got to sit down. You got to put your head together And you got to work through it. So that's why I don't believe in breaks now One okay like the reset but it should literally be no longer than two weeks And and you really shouldn't have multiple breaks You have one break or something like that, you know, that's different Hey, we done went an hour and hour and a half. It looked like it say so God bless you I really appreciate y'all make sure you taking Don't forget to use That cold because I got it up for you Happy 15 last month. I'm a 15th anniversary tomorrow. I'm a son 15th birthday. And so that's why Yeah, I just left it the same But it gave you 50 off your next course And I honestly do that I'm honestly doing that because I just heard from a lot of people just about the financial strain You know, joe stopped giving them stimulus checks and uh Them stimulus checks and that unemployment And people change went to looking strange. So because of the hearing so many people asked for payment plan That's why I just made a code and then each month I try to make some kind of code just to help out Even though my course already priced 50% of what the competition pricing their courses anyway, so you really getting 90 discount, but Hopefully it'll bless you And everything I do life love and business and if you need a coach Or consultant make sure you get on my mentor dot life Uh My mentor dot life I'm on there as well. I'm getting ready to close my sessions go on probably friday Lord willing Yeah, that me type. Yeah, everybody. Uh Everybody type like that. Yeah Let me type I put the link to my podcast channel So I'm I'm loading up the podcast and be releasing soon. Lord willing It's causing an arm and a leg because I like to fly. I'm flying to the people. I'm flying to the people driving to the people I'm going to the events. I'm going around the city. I'm filming in the city You know getting b-roll footage and sitting down with them in their house and So from state-state. So I've been in Texas and georgia and got alabama coming up new warlands Louisiana got new york california So i'm going all over so it it costs me an arm and a leg and i'm doing it You know with the help of the patreon supporters And on the bless tribe and bless business tribe supporters You know, that's extra like a blessing to me. So that helped me do little projects like these that can Just add to the lessons and the greatness that people are getting you know, we Extracting the greatness out of people's story So hey god bless y'all and we will talk soon Can't think of nothing else and if we had some moderators on here. I ain't really getting to see the moderators but I don't know if they I got on here. Oh Let go share look like But I don't know if it Working on here But I so appreciate y'all god bless you and we'll talk soon This right here got everybody With a With a green thing. I know everybody ain't green This money here ain't showing all the different colors. No, it's not normal But for a lot of men It is I ain't see that sister forgive me. I missed that When you put that so let me make sure I've seen Everybody who sent one of these Your blessing in here Okay, yeah I'm gonna try to scroll to the bottom Okay, yeah trying to answer though. Let me see Man, he messes a lot more than I thought was in here I'm scrolling for day um So let me see if I seen you at that restaurant now That mighta with me might not with me Yeah, that was me if it was the chicken spot But see listen says and put my business out there now Because I wasn't supposed to be eating that fried chicken. Was it fried chicken? because it was about Mid night after the trap karaoke. I went to trap karaoke. I met the gentleman who's who owned it who founded it with my Interviewee introduced me to the gentleman. So I walked past that good fried chicken I had to step in then Get a little bit of calorie-free fried chicken. So I'm just gonna put my business in the street But and then let the people know now I was by myself too. Why not their cheating? But uh, I was tying that chicken up midnight I was on the treadmill today. I'm trying to Walk it off. Hey god bless y'all and we'll talk soon