 Ni sasa kusimu kueli, ono nakama dimwango kuna doku unili kwa sasa taku uta mspankaji. So, minutaku uli za? Uli ya? Uli ya? Uli ya? Uli ya? Uli ya? Uli ya? Like, lemi ask you guys ya? Buying this cool amazing guest and from my right we have... My name is Mdanya. Excuse me. My name is Carlos Experience, I said it on the other episode, let me just say it again. I'm a hobo. Mksilvakido is my name. Eh? Memske a kueli? Ando Silvakido. I'm famous and I do come out. Oh wow. So today we have an amazing topic ya? Recently we saw, you know, Annalisa and Ben Paul ulkona drama Kiasipale and come on a backstory. Annalisa went ahead to want Ben Paul against talking about their marriage in the public saying that Ben Paul is speaking negatively about their marriage but in the real sense Ben Paul is texting Annalisa asking her can we give it another second chance and that's what we are going to be discussing today and I would like to ask my fellow panelists do you think when a man realizes that he has lost a treasure he tries to get it back and that is the case between Ben Paul and Annalisa? Ya I think so but then what I feel like what Ben Paul is doing wrong is he's talking to the public about it instead of talking to Annalisa he was not married to the public, he was married to Annalisa so he should sort his issues on the low you don't have to tell everyone your business Ya for me I'll say it in black and white that is what happens when you start dating for the wrong reasons thank you Wrong reasons? Ya it's wrong reasons Okay which wrong reason do you think? I think this is the kind of relationship where one party needed the other party and the other party also needed the other party because one party is richer, one party is famous and when reality hits in this life what happens is the relationship is when you get into a relationship for the wrong reason a time will come when reality will hit a reality that now says now for how long will we be doing this it's pictures pictures pictures okay it's fun fun fun fun we cannot have fun everyday mandate to mandate no the moments when now life has to get into reality where important things first now enough of pictures enough of outings enough of all those fun and stuff and now reality has to hit and this is where you realise this was not meant for me okay it depends what I'll say when the marriage is something sensitive we don't need to talk because it's a two way thing because if Benpole didn't work for Benpole at the same time didn't work for Anelisa so as we are seeing it from Benpole's side so what I'll say is that Benpole akufa kumgea in public but at the end we are going to learn from what Benpole am I sharing we are learning from that what Anelisa pia mese ma Anelisa pia mese faku jibu juwa maji hangi jibu chinia maji no but Anelisa says Benpole was taking her silence as weakness because we have seen in several cases Benpole was always throwing jobs but Anelisa was quiet maybe if he got a point Anelisa kase ma bedeni me kunyama zia tena sana pia mimi lazimani jibu but now you know I'm looking at it at a point where people who used to do these things openly so why would she go silent but was the marriage going to work because if ume owam tu umnafa kuka marriage mu yeke loki because kiki kichia fuka kiki kichia fuka because from the word go I'll say this Benpole al kwa umsani Anelisa al kwa nafaga bisha raza ke maisha eke kama ungeza kweka mikakati kondwa ea kama ni maisha ea yandoa ibaki ndani maisha usani ibaki uko inje leuhia tungeja raka mauluwa chana maulu koza no kido I feel like it's ok kweka you know some people post on their instagrams for documenting their journey I'm not posting to hear your opinion so I feel like nisa wawali eka basa sa ite miwa wakivutana awange eka public yo you show people the good life ya ni wawane shea lakini mambo yunye uswa chanda lo they say it does not go bad it does not go wrong it starts wrong so the moment you begin the whole thing by showing people then even when you're going through the darkest moment ni wawane shea tu wa tu ni kido uniche agua it tells Benpole wasn't happy you cannot be happy when a woman is reaching a new sasana manisha basi monome aki happy for what way is even a woman aki putesa waifu mbaana if a woman is happy ni muongu naha happy nesa na toa happy kuna screenshote analisa palia liyeza kushea Benpole aki muwashua by the way I was not with you for money even when I was dating you I was the brokest so it definitely tells there is a financial angle that contributed to this marriage breaking which I think Carlos anytime a woman has money than you my friend you and happiness are two different not always because Benpole kuwana liyeza kwa gani anampenda hai kuwa pesa? let me tell you it's the same thing the woman you're dating represents your income wukiwa nama mdi puta nilisa kuwana ishina view siza benpole sasa si baya alko miyo pesa nasea nilisa pesa mama ake lakini kwa ni usupo takama mama benpole nalisha mama nilisa what I'm going to say mama kisha pa tiana pesa sasa pesa niya nalisa ame pewa ndio asha pewa sasa niya ake benpole problem is sasa benpole kititu anani freedom and as a man we are designed to be the head manu mendi u head manu mendi u kusema uno na toki enda kwa inangi uno kwa gatuna pita alafumusia na na kwa mbiya hey come kwa kwa kwa mbiya senma bata man has to be a man sowa na manisha anilisa lukwa mewa benpole saba benpole ame wana nilisa saka kwa tanya oki kulingana ah sava manisha nilisa sasa benpole ake kwa the head of the family sina manisha anilisa lukwa mewa alikua mekatisha kouti anilisa lukwa mekatisha kouti haimtosh but how sure are you anilisa lukwa mewa how angaja yu are you not sure we are not sure So he confessed that he was broke during the relationship. Na actually alimwambia, wakimpata alikwa ana wish ake kwa levo liya kina whizkid. Levo aliwa taja whizkid rake. Ioniku manisha, even in the relationship alikwa na esteem issues because of money. Yes, that happens mostly when a woman is seeing her in you. Ati tiza dimuangwa kona doku nili kusina sayi lazima ni fiki home mape. Wacha kwa bia, you know the pride of a man nili ya maze, ni kuhom dimuangwa kuhom ni nina mbibibibibibidrom my water. You know, like a woman has to be a woman at some point. Like let me tell you the beauty of V2Zingine. Onona kwa hiu relationship iao? Ilu kwa relationship power for one day. Ilu kwa relationship iai kila sii. Ilu kwa relationship power ya one day. Inye kama ni picture songi chuko picture, see us iku ishii. Because ono juwala wacha kwa, lawa wacha chu example kama ya, ya sex. Onona sex, the beauty of sex, ni haina edge limit, haina language barrier, haina nili. Ni wewa wacha sasako inche, kila kitu na kuja uku, uchi, iwa kuna suju, wakuna kala kuna nili. But now he di ya kina sayi, ikona wichumum. Ni sasak sumukweli. Onona kama dimuangwa kona doku nili kuh. Sasa taku utam spankaji. So, minutaku uliza. Ulu kwa? Iwa ni wewa wu kuna esteem. Ulaza fukuzu kwa uliwa. Ulaza fukuzu kwa uliwa. Let me ask you guys. Do we see a chance? Is there any chance for Anilisa getting back with Ben Paul? Because I believe everyone deserve a second chance. That's their business. Mama, trawiliu sii? Minutai ingili liya hii. Initai ingili liya kwa sababu moja me. Sota mungi niya kuna do na iwezi wak. That's advice Ben Paul. Ben Paul, kwa ili pesa kidogo me bakinayo, taftan wambia maziwa. Kamuwa pata pesa, kama mziki kidogo. Nadiwa kuna ili time, nadiwa kuna mndaflani mziki na delay kidogo. Ida jeepa tu. Naki ni the moment, the moment mo namke, hataku wana pesa kukuliko, hata wakitanda wezi wambia, say my name, baby. Tatandi. Whu are you? You say your name. Alright, guys. Well, that was a very interesting conversation na tuambia hapuku comment section. Do you think Ben Paul is simping? Do you think Ben Paul is not simping? Labda hana pocket mani sayi? Yeah, Ben Paul is not simping. Ben Paul is needy. He's needy? Yes. Kama labda pocket mani, alikwana pweime isha. Najiwa pweo twizi jwa. Kama kuna mziki na kujatuna pwanguapia. By the way, but I'm atata to Diana. You never know any. Mziki, mziki, ni mziki gani heye, heye Chris Brown wadiato. Alright, guys. Thank you so much for watching Friends Vibe. Make sure you subscribe. Leave a comment down there. See you in the next one.