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First of all, welcome to studio. You look like an empress My name is Aisha Saidi Rahim I'm the gender special needs secretary at Kinete University and I'm so much happy to be here today We're also happy to have you You look fantastic also Amazing And I'm so happy to be here with money too. Oh, did you give us your socials? Give us your handles And you have to give us your socials Yeah Yeah, my name is Simon Masila media practitioner You can also call me by my social media name at Simon media Instagram Selamadia and I'm also the voice of reason for the boy child and defend of all rights related to the way to boy child All right, so today the topic is the caption rather is know thyself know thyself. What do you understand by know thyself? Knowing your strength knowing your weaknesses and also knowing how to manage your emotions. Yeah, wow Basically Which I'll do me economy came came I'm not here trying to teach self-love to But I love whom to could you say it's too much girl child empowerment You see it's something too much of something is bad really and currently in their current Kenyan society. I think the Girl child is being empowered a little bit too much for their own sake. So you see really give me one negative effect of self-love Well, I advocate for self-love, but now you see most girls nowadays They confuse the concept of self-love. They think that self-love is only let's say pampering themselves On let's say just say material things But now self-love you need to discover yourself If you want to be an independent woman be an independent woman you don't have to depend on a man Now that is self-loving, you know no matter what happens. You can stand up for yourself No, don't just be a parasite only dependent on people What are some of the make-up sauna to cure independence? I make-up sauna Complain up on this. Yeah, for real. What do you want? What is your middle? Help me ladies. Are you not confused? Like they say yes Take care of yourself stop asking months for money for hair So do you know what be just do your own thing enjoy your own money, but to quiff on your sauna I buy this if I know get put inside all the time all the time. You need that money in your life You cannot replace You see Because he class in your self-awareness Correction I've never make come across a man who doesn't love a very submissive wife We love a submissive wife We love a submissive wife When you tell her something she's very kind to you and then there's that level of respect, but nowadays you Most girls think that they can let say match up to the man in many levels But now you see even men there are some things we live out to you ladies to do because we know we can't match up with you in that Specific field, but now girls try to squeeze Everywhere Right As a kid you go up Why not We have our I know you have something to say yes, I also feel like the word submissive as the boy child is saying has been misused Yeah, because What is submissive? It has even been encouraged in the Quran and in the Bible that women should be submissive But now the submissive that the men nowadays want is you slap a woman you expect her to keep quiet You know, we have gone to school. We've been empowered. We know how to speak out. Yes So we men it's not that we are not We're not submissive. It's only that there's some things we cannot allow to be done to us Yeah I like that Affirmness So we started off with defining awareness self-awareness is awareness of self synduums But what is awareness? It's the details you pick up from you the perception Of the world that means says that okay. Kyvi. Okay. Okay. Um, what does work mean to me? Do I enjoy what I do like? My neighbor naked and I mean, how do I relate to my neighbors? How do I relate to my co-workers and all this? How do I see the world? And I think it's very important to know how you feel about certain things And then we continue to say if you are self-aware It is easier for you to understand other people and detect how they perceive you in return Ah, yeah Some of what Anna if you are self-aware It is easier easier for you to understand other people and detect how they perceive you in return That means where we come a girl then If you're self-aware You will understand if boy child really cares about you I'm an oak feature what an oak feature white you'll understand And we have so many cases It just so happened I was talking about now Man talk we have man talk on Monday then girl talk on Wednesday It was a thing like we're about to fight because I was talking about So I was self-aware But you should really make a decision So those are the kind of things I'm talking about and I want to relate with what's going on in society right now Do you think this particular idea of self-awareness in is a true And why Because students and they think no matter how wrong someone is Yes, they had they were in a relationship, but I'm told according to It's because of some amount of cash or I don't know she was cheating or Something that do so cheating by killing or you saw issues by sitting down and discussing them And Men Okay, one of them you can approach me and I will say like Okay, maybe right now. I am dating And since you're coming a date, why would you still insist to want to date me yet? You know, I am dating Yes, meet a kubali out. We will go I mean So I don't see why you guys should like So much into Killing our you know killing doesn't necessarily mean taking someone's life. You can kill someone by breaking their heart and Yes, so First of all, I want to say to one strong point in this world nothing is for free and you can take that to the back nothing at all And even in the days of our grandfathers we used to go buy wives for a certain amount of cows At school the mother was a to I Who are sorry we used to go and buy our wives So now you find a guy coming and investing a lot of money in the girl And then the girl comes in after time and honor at C class here I see those are the buttons that's usually