 Trying to see if this thing working Okay, I see the chat working Y'all forgive me. I was trying to look I was looking on my phone to see if it was working I don't have long I'm only on here about 30 minutes But I was I was on a call and I had the zoom call So I figured I'll just pop on here because I shot a video earlier today and I didn't upload it So with the bless tribe, I wanted to do a little quick 30 minute Q&A Any questions y'all have for me anything that's Going on that you've been thinking about or you know dealing with or seeing Whether it be in your life or in the media You could just put the hashtag Q and I see that I did a video earlier today an hour-long video that I'll get to upload probably just save it for tomorrow and kind of see What I get the get to put that up What I'll be doing is you know while I'm home Until I head back to England. I got to go back to England, but while I'm home then I will be I don't know who rest of Tesla is so I'm not as tapped in as y'all think it's a y'all be sending me stuff, but I don't have a clue who rest of Tesla is and But while I'm home, I'm gonna be doing some some long-form teaching So make sure you kind of is it Milo or Mila? God bless you. Thank you for being a member Be doing some long-form teaching where we're gonna be kind of doing a little deep dive and just with the spirit just flowing with spirit and we're gonna think about that and Unique in here One of the members in here. Why would a woman be approached and pursued by mostly old man Mmm That means you look like young Stella And they trying to get a groove back That's all that is you can't really Think too much about it. It's just a man is a man. So what you got to remember is that even a Even a garbage can want a steak So just because of certain type of man approach you he could be a garbage can and you could be a steak And he just want you My two-year-old has been struggling in school His teacher says he does not listen. Dad is not in the home. How can I deal with the situation? well, I appreciate you for taking me outside of the love and relationship space and Ask me a parenting question But I'm gonna give you a little tip with that because me and my wife we never had terrible tools and So, oh, okay, the 50 part series. That's her name. My wife told me about that What you have to do little Donna is you're gonna have to create Structure so you got to have a time for everything. You got to have a time for bedtime You got to have a time for the bath. You got to have a time for brushing the teeth You got to have a full-body lotion You got to have a bedtime story and then you have to have bedtime and You got to have your two-year-old in his or her His in his own room in his own space if you if you have a room for and You have to have Structure you got to have Things you want him to do and then you have to have consequence and reward even though he two years old You got to have consequence and reward and when you give that structure a lot of time We just let the kids live and do whatever Keys of David. Thank you for being here And do whatever then that's when they don't listen in school and It is normal though, especially for a boy and also you got to explain to the teacher like listen this a boy Some boys just gonna be a little more energetic. What I will also do. La Donna is look up look up soccer for Toddlers my son started playing soccer at 18 months old So that he have a every Saturday out there at 18 months So so your son it'll be a couple of things for him or look into karate They'll have look karate that discipline Like discipline have to be consistent my son came to me today. He's 16 Daddy can I get on the game and Play I just told him two days ago. No video game during the week even though he in virtual school right now Nope, can't get on the game Do something else watch game film? Can't get on the video game I'm gonna do one question at a time for the people who asking questions So don't put a second question if you see other people haven't had a first question I got to go in 30 minutes though So I'll try to find time to pop on here more often while my son practicing if I'm not coaching I normally be coaching right now from eight to nine But the young lady asked for a refund because I only do audio sessions. She won't do video sessions I guess she felt like video is worth more than audio and I'm like the only difference between video and audio is you look at me in the eyes So do you want is you paying to learn and get advice or you paying to stare at me? So y'all that's nothing I say to y'all, you know ladies that hire male life coaches Make sure your spirit in the right place and make sure you don't want to do a session just to meet somebody or just to look at I'm what have you cuz if you if you get in the information the information is the information whether you looking somebody in the face or not and So y'all keep that in mind when y'all hired me and the reason why I only do audio sessions is because I'm a married man And so when you if you sitting and you talking to a woman for an hour And you looking each other in the eyes for an hour That is a form of love making and that's why a lot of women is getting Tow out the frame by their therapists because they going in there in person and they having vulnerable Open conversations and that thing you know it get hot and steamy in there And there's my legs some some ankles behind ears And so y'all need to make sure that when you dealing with men that you coming for the right reason and it ain't because you want to Look somebody in the face I'm 29 turning 30 this year with a four-year-old and the man I'm talking to is 40 twice divorced with four kids. He filed both times. Would you consider that a red flag? Yeah, I would consider a red flag because he is more than 10 years older than you and Also because you have a four-year-old and you really don't want to have Not it's okay to date, but you don't want to have them like in person or around your child That's under five and sometimes even even at five is still be a little tricky. And then me personally I I would kind of pause on a man, you know, who didn't have to divorce you got to really take your time but a Man who 40 and he won a 29 year old There are exceptions to the rule, but I don't trust it at all because to be honest with you. It's not really attractive To have somebody 10 years younger than you it's not really attractive Because it's almost like you have your child. It's almost like you raising somebody you just so far apart. I Just really don't trust as a man. I don't trust or like when men date women so much younger There are exceptions to the rule I say that because I know three men Personally in my family in close circle that their wife is significantly younger than them How and why it happened I do not know did they do it because of the age? I do not know but just as a general rule of thumb You don't want to be with somebody. That's 10 years or more older than you But again, there are exceptions to the rule Tony, thank you for letting us ask questions in regards to publishing a book in the future and Plobility, how would you advise someone who is shy about being around people in public speaking? You either gonna have to get out your way You gonna have to get out your way and just and just do it and just know that you're doing it For a reason for purpose. I'm very shy and I don't like being around people and I don't like public speaking But because the reason I do what I do is much greater than me and much bigger than me That's why I do it. So if it's not connected to purpose, it's gonna be extremely hard to do But it really just comes down to just doing it to be honest with you There's no it's no real secret sauce. It's like you just have to make it happen Demaris Why do men keep texting after he has said he doesn't see us going towards a romantic relationship? he wants to put you on the roster and he wants to Have you as an option he want to turn you into friends with benefits or he want to be able to use you Sometimes a man may not want to be romantic with you But he'll keep you on the roster because there may be other benefits he can get from you So if you are dating intentionally and you only want to talk to a man if y'all can move towards a relationship Which is smart then you should cut them off because otherwise he's taking up that male space and that male energy Which will actually block your actual husband So I cut them off how to know if a guy was pretending to like you or lost interest in you along the way If you have to ask then he was Like I will tell you this like 17 years of marriage next month March 30th it's 17 years of marriage and I still Say sexual stuff and touch my wife and rub on her every single day After 17 years like when a man is into you it is going to be annoying like to the point to where We have to give you a break the man will have to give you a break you will get tired of him trying to be on you In you around you Just men who are into a woman. We are very clingy and territorial Even when we like our own space and our own time and space and freedom We're still gonna be very on to that woman when you have to wonder that mean a man has a another Interest it don't necessarily have to be a woman it could be it could be porn it could be his job It could be his erectile dysfunction. It could be his family. It could be his health But it just means you no longer a priority in his life when you got a wonder I took your advice and up my bag and now I'm a business assistant for a construction company But how to utilize more of my gifts in this position? You're probably gonna need a one-on-one session with that, you know, because that's very specialized and it's very You know something kind of unique in detail and then also I may not be the the business coach for you because that's a little You know, that's a little more niche As a new business owner with a e-book and other products Would you recommend having all your products on your site and create content to drive traffic to your site or launch products? Individually if the products go together Then you could put them on your site If the products are vastly vastly different like very different then you will have individual sites for them if they're very very different, but if it's like a You know a product line that kind of goes together then by all means you can Do that a little differently and and have it all together He has good character standards and is a hard-working man The problem is that he doesn't know the Lord He's willing to learn about Jesus. Should I give him a chance at a relationship? Only give him a chance if you could keep your legs closed and you could represent Jesus Christ The lot of times the greatest witness is is your witness is your ministry. So what happens is women meet a man who have no interest in Jesus and don't want to know Jesus and It's not you're not the first time he'd a herd of Jesus But if a man can pretend to want to learn about Jesus and get between your legs Then that's that's what he would do and it's so many women who are single-saved and having sex that you kill your witness because you either sucking on something or ducking on something and then Trying to tell the man he need to have a relationship with Jesus But you putting the man before Jesus by fornicating. So if you can live like Christ say live then It can be a chance, but if you're gonna be in willing sin with them Then you shouldn't care whether he know God or not because in his eyes. You don't know God So y'all got to be an astimous state that most women make If they be talking about he don't know God He don't know God and the man be like you don't know him either but you sin against them every day intentionally on purpose How what advice do you have when getting back with your ex? I broke it off with him He's a good man, but we need it to grow. I'm 30 him 33 problem I have is I'm super fit and he's obese, but I love him Well, if he willing to work out with you if he willing to eat right with you then that's the start But if he's just rebellious and he won't go to the gym and get on the treadmill and walk 30 minutes a day with you and he won't eat healthier with you then It's really a waste because that says more about who he is and his character and If he's unwilling to get better then he's not actually a good guy So a good guy would be what want to be better. And so that's what you got to see and And Honestly, that's the best thing to do Ex and I broke up for two years He called STD while messing with a girl. He met on a dating app wants to get back with me But I feel he's asking from desperation since it's been so long Yeah, I'm gonna tell you, you know, I don't necessarily believe in going back Unless it's special circumstances And so you got to really ask yourself why you left why I ended what has he done to change? and grow what have you done to change and grow and The only time is when there's been mutual growth. There's been mutual and equal growth But other than that, you really wasting your time Really wasting your time They didn't older God doesn't mean he'll treat you right I married a younger male and I took Carrow bike and I took care of bike knowing the red flags Leave that male alone Missed him out of Type all Welcome to the new members So few new members here. I Got to get on here and do the Q&A is a little more Frequently just sometimes after I do them they get the questions get redundant and I'll be saying the same thing over and over And I don't like saying the same thing over and over But sometimes I just get on here and just do a lesson You have one kids. He had multiple kids. Oh this y'all giving advice to each other If you have a question put the hashtag Q in there I see it recently went out after church and a guy gave me his number He was about 40 years old has a five-year-old recent career change I am only 23. Does that mean I look older how to take it? No, don't mean you look older Don't mean you look older at all. That's just what men do men see women that They're attracted to and they approach them he too old for you And sometimes a man could just not know because a woman could look a woman could be 40 and look 25 So just men have stopped judging women by that. So it's not that you look older But there's women who are 40 that look like you there's women who are 35 that look like you and You may still look the same at 30 35 40. So That's the thing. It's like sometimes you'll see people that a man. You still look same It's like it just that's all it is But once you find out the age difference, that's when it's on you And it's not to say that you can't do it But everything got the lineup and it you got to make sure it's a exception to the rule Yes, you God bless you know, I just learned about that yesterday. Somebody said her name. I didn't know her name I just learned about that yesterday. So to be honest with you. I Couldn't really watch it, you know, I talk slow, but she talked a little slow But it to me she just it's from the little bit me and my wife watch I Could tell that She She gonna love the attention that she gonna I really go. I think she gonna be putting a lot of sauce on there just cuz The world treat us how the world sees us and we all are aware of this And so like I tell y'all a lot of times when you outside of the world's beauty construct you get overlooked and You get mistreated and there's not rules that we wrote ourselves, but this is rules of the world So sometimes with that kind of stuff you have to be careful like what you listening to and all of that because you don't know Person motives, you don't know if it what all they making up what all they add to it And then you giving your time to somebody else business So it's one thing to like watch a video or two But when you sit there and it become it taking up your time that's time that you're gonna want back on your death bed So the thing is is if if you're gonna watch it make sure you learning from it Make sure it's giving you and once you get the lesson then go about your business because otherwise You just watching reality TV and you're gonna want that time back I got about 14 more minutes maybe 25 minutes because sometimes I'm gonna take with some about 10 minutes to get out Hell the long brother Gaskins. Can you please share best God lines being a business owner single woman and Having to meet with male clients. I tend to keep it for phone only with males The phone is the phone is good if you got to meet in person. That's okay. Just meet in a public place And just make sure you don't cross that line unless you know it's your husband Make sure you don't cross that line What do you think of only dated men from church? I don't want to be with someone random and I really want them to be a Christian Well, the thing about that is like you're gonna have to be changing churches So if you're gonna date a man, make sure that you have a checklist And you got some guidelines if you're gonna date them because otherwise It's gonna It's gonna get real ugly. I coach a lot of people who dated somebody at church and now they got to change churches It just never change One second don't gotta forgive me some somebody had text man. I was trying to help them out real quick What do you think of a mentor being a male? I don't recommend it unless you pan them. So mentor is free coaching and stuff like mentor could be paid as well, but I don't recommend it unless you pan and Then you just if you ever try to hit hit on you across the line You got to just cut them off immediately. You cannot play with it Because because it's some people men and women like to use that power dynamic to sleep with people So you got to be careful Joy says she just had low self-esteem. I think she's talking about the TikTok lady And I and I'm gonna take and I try to tell y'all that too like when I seen a young lady She's not ready for a relationship. So who TF did she marry? She married somebody didn't want her because to be honest with you typically nine out of ten times a Man not gonna want you When you're not taking care of yourself yet unless you got a health issue That won't allow you you really until you get to where you all the way to where you at your best meaning You you working out three to five such three to seven days a week You eating clean and you eating healthy and you living right wherever your body settles that That's where you want to be Wherever that is That's you and that's where you at when you're doing everything you can when you're not doing that You don't want to date outside of that because who you are track who you are tracking is a reflection of who you are Who you settle with that's a reflection of who you are and This is that's the hard part. I'm gonna listen to some of to see what she went through But that's what I try to tell you is when you don't have the three B's in order brains brand body It's very dangerous today Because the way we are wired on average as men we are hunters so a man like what he liked and It really don't deviate outside of that So if a man come and to meet a sister look like she had some meat on her bones It could have been my wife phone It could have been the way she was holding the phone, but it looked like she had a Little extra meat on her bones and if I've seen what I seen I If I if that was my sister I'll say you're not ready to date right now Because you don't because a man not naturally genuinely attracted to The extra in this right now Because let me tell you the type of man that's gonna be attracted to you is a man who could lift you up and When I say lift you up he want to be able to lift you up put you up against the wall and Wrap your legs around his neck like the man did AJ and baby boy If you meet a man and you know he cannot physically lift you up to that point and wrap them legs around you You got to be skeptical. It don't mean he don't want you But you need you need to ask your board or directors If your mama is living Ask her if she even she's not living Think about what she'll say ask your sister ask your best friend If you unsure, you know, you could ask me and I'ma tell you He'll watch And I've been having clients get real mad with me because I've been telling the truth because I said too many people lying to you And it's too many people that's telling the truth out of hate I'ma tell you the truth out of love because I want to see you do better I want to see you in so I'm gonna tell you what ain't nobody ever told you That's like my first book what daddy never told his little girl. It's too many y'all women getting lied to and Then the man who telling the truth online. They telling you from bitterness Like the gentleman who passed away He was real bitter. He you tell the truth, but you could tell he was bitter. He was sour single unmarried man Raising a single by a single mom Was overlooked by women and mistreated by women Still was a little bit feminine But because he was so harsh and so direct with women it made men love him because he he Led the brigade of revenge revenge other lanes And so it made men love him and then even men who were not treated like a lame Still loved them because he was so direct with women and But it's again when you're not living right and you're not living healthy Unfortunately he checked out early but you know just so many red bulls and Then you trying to perform in the bedroom. So it probably popping pills and that'll lead to a premature heart attack and That's why I try to tell y'all so I'm trying to I tell you the truth So some people say oh you sound you saying the same thing that such-and-such said everything that These men who be upset with women everything they say is not a lie Everything they say is not a lie. It's just where they saying it from They they may be saying it from a place of anger from a place of bitterness Because stuff haven't worked out in their own love life because they don't been cheated on or mistreated But the truth is the truth now and I'm gonna tell you the same thing It just I may tell you from a different a different way. What advice would you give to me? I'm 22 And this guy been friends for three years and just started dating last year. He's 25. We are not together. I Feel attached. He has always been there for me You know, you just have to be careful You got to be careful don't get your hopes up don't give too much Reciprocate what he gives what he show you what he give you you match his effort you match his energy But don't get your hopes up a lot of times when you friend for for years and then you go to dating most of the time it's The curiosity killed a cat situation a Man finally get in there. He want to Just explore and experience this woman. He's been sitting beside looking at but it's different between being friends and being lovers And friends. It's a difference Older lady met the man online again. See that y'all another red flag I'm gonna watch a little bit of what she talking about But I already know I'll be done ripped at the shreds And I don't even feel like wasting my time because I could tell she She a little bit of tension seeking because we have to take we have to know all that You have to come do all of that That what you get you on the online day should have been on here You but one don't hear watching these videos you don't have watched these videos to the thing You know it all when it went through all that So that's why I don't be feeling like wasting my time because it's too much information out here It's too much information out here for y'all to begin played. It just it too much information out here But then so many women will think men like me is Full of crap and then go get played by a man who is full of crap Instead of listening to the unadulterated unbiased truth from a man who Cannot touch your body from a man who can't do nothing with you. Just give away the game You ain't got to pay nothing to sit on him watch this game get gave away But people are taking put it in a box. Oh, that's just me and telling women what to do No, that's what God called people for he put people as front liners to help protect those who will be deceived by the adversary That's all the deal This month I've had to cut off five guys. I met because I didn't want to waste time I'm 28 what do men think if you text them? Hey, this isn't gonna work because I Usually blocked them after Some of that's a good that's a good position to be in some of them to be able to block some folks and you know What have you but maybe see what they say after instead of blocking them, you know But they a man respect that a man will respect you telling him that It just may it may it's gonna hurt his ego, but he'll respect you telling him that Then wasting his time Yeah, that lady got a 50-part series you about to make me do a 50-part series You finna have what she about to do what she don't realize that she finna have everybody doing 50-part series And she's been have a lot of people telling lies and Then it's gonna turn into this toxic narrative stuff me and verse women cuz it's gonna be on people just it's gonna be people That's bored and lonely and want some attention start doing 50-part series telling a complete lie and Just shattering people hope and dreams and love and in marriage and relationships and everything. That's how the devil work That's how the devil work. Watch what I tell you What does it mean when a mom enables her son my mom enables my brother and he is so disrespectful I believe they're both narcissistic well, I don't speak on the turn really narcissistic and Some women say it's because I'm a narcissist Which that probably would make them a narcissist. They don't even know me calling me a narcissist but reason why I don't speak on narcissistic because that's a clinical term and I'm not a clinician and So I try to respect that and stay in my lane But what I will tell you typically when a mama is enabling her son it's just a it's a deep inner issue of Her not having been loved by a man the way she desired to be loved by a man And so she giving her son what she wished somebody would give her which is a Unconditional Forgiving compassionate love Which with a young man Could become enabling and to be honest with you I'm not sure I've ever seen a woman that's not guilty of that Like it if a woman isn't guilty of Enabling her son. She typically is the complete opposite which is abusive And I know there are women who probably find who strike a good balance, but It's very rare Very rare. I even have to get with my wife, you know, just even today You know, she was something she was feeling about our oldest son and with him doing his school work and I say listen Whatever God put on your heart to say to him you need to say it Don't come in here telling me for me to go be the bad guy You need to make sure he respect your voice because I may not always be here So if you feel like saying something to him, don't come tell me go tell him because You are his mother and he needs to respect your voice She said oh, well, he gonna do everything you say do because he don't want to lose this opportunity to go play in England I'll say listen if you tell him something to do and He don't do it. You could tell him England off the table and I'm gonna back you in that Because I'm your husband, but it need to come from you He need to know what you expect from him not just what I expect from and so But the thing is as a lot of times women don't understand men And so a woman think that if she stand her ground the man gonna hate her And the man gonna mistreat her and the man gonna ignore her and the man gonna leave her And so a lot of mothers act like that what they son But what moms don't realize is your son can't leave your son need you and Your son won't discipline He won't structure and a lot of women don't realize that and I told my wife I say it's no nothing ever you to make that boy do that he then came to me and complained about But that he doesn't start a hate in you or he doesn't started mistreating you or disliking you I say he expect that but if you gonna let him get away with something he gonna get away with it That's just that's human nature a girl will do that to you too My friends who look glamorous 24-7 are still single. I'm only motivated to look glamorous when I'm in a relationship But I'm single I only care to look normal. Is there something wrong with me for being this way? Nope, and you're probably gonna figure something out But today they ain't about looks no more It's just way too many women and not enough men to be honest with you a lot of people single just cuz of the ratios It just ain't it just it just ain't as many men as it is women to be honest with you To be honest with you and then today men because men are easily programmed and men more like robots and creatures of Creatures of habit a lot of single men is being programmed by the toxic narratives. That's online and it's giving me paralysis by analysis because they're hearing so much information that they don't know what to believe and most people don't have an internal guide that tells them What they should do and what they shouldn't do and they looking and listening for guidance even if they're not admitting it So a lot of guys are just They shell shock and they don't know What a wife looks like and they don't know how to choose a wife And they really afraid to choose a wife because they've heard so many men say so many toxic Negative things about women that in the back of their head. They kind of believe in it Separated almost two years from my husband. We have a two-year-old. He is currently jobless doesn't seem to be looking for a job This is really delaying a divorce process. What can I do? Since I don't know the divorce laws Typically They have something that you can go ahead and get around it If the other person ain't doing what they supposed to do, but I Don't know the divorce laws what I would say is focus on take care your child 100% because at the end of the day, we can't when we bring a child in the world we can't Depend or know that somebody will always be there with us to help So as unfair as it seems your focus has to be 100% on your child Not the divorce and not that not the dad is just Making sure you got a job and making sure that you if you could earn more money by adding a second stream of income third stream income didn't do that and Don't sit and wait or allow anger and resentment to block your creativity from earning more money for your child a Young man took me on a first date to twin peaks. I thought this was inappropriate. What do you think? It's he might didn't know what twin peaks was and then he probably didn't think much of it And if you live somewhere with a twin peaks then Because if I'll be honest with you, I do a seminar in Atlanta. I don't live in Atlanta and right outside of Atlanta That's a twin peaks. I thought it was like a Colorado Mountain thing. I later learned that I'm thinking twin peaks mean woman breasts But to be honest with you the little waiters in there So basic and terrible. It's like they they all more mess up your appetite then turning your own So it's kind of like and then when they look have decent they doing so much for that dog on raggedy tip It's like man Will you calm down I come in here to get a good my burger So don't don't look at it like that if he took you to a strip club That's different. But if it's a restaurant where kids going after the game and all of that Don't get in the don't get caught up in the over analyzing the first date stuff Don't if it's not just completely All the way outright disrespectful like the strip club or a club Then I wouldn't think too much of it because twin peaks and hooters and stuff like that Stuff normalized and if the food good then a lot of people, you know, especially grown folks and it's grown me and like I Could look at a naked woman and then my body don't do nothing It don't do nothing for me Like a woman could be walking down the street cuz it's just like, you know, you're grown So it's not like he going in now It's not that you probably like that price point the location And just to see and it could be a little test to see if you jealous and insecure But again that come from the information that these men get and you just don't know how they be thinking What's your advice on social media present my personal pages? How often should you be posting every day? every day If you got something to say every day, what are your thoughts on? With these X is still living together his roommate sound so concerning and miserable for sure It's his living together. They still in relationship to me Are you gonna live with your mama your homeboy your home girl? The lady moved in after two weeks. Yeah Shout out What it says she making 30k per video or she finished our line. I Might go team up with a man. Let me go over here. Ask somebody lying Well, hey, let me do a coaching session on here for 3k She about to have me do a 50-part series tonight 30k a video I'm fit to do the 50-part series of when I did this and that I'm fit to be on the I've been asked my wife who a let me do a who tf. Did I marry and just start lying on you? With a 30k episode. I might tell my wife to do one on me Hey, baby, don't do one on me man Call me all kind of names crazy call me a narcissist call me a psychopath a sociopath 30k baby listen I'm 21. I cut off a guy because he smoked weed occasion in vape's daily. He low key Gas lit me over the phone when I told him. Maybe he knew I didn't want to should we cut them off via text? I Cut them off via text, but it's okay with the phone to it. Don't matter. I mean just come with territory You get gas lit. You didn't get lit on fire. You didn't burn burn death So if you get gas lit and you know, you being gas lit. It's not the end of the world But it's best not to do it in person Because if the man crazy things could get physical you could get hurt you could lose your life And it's best not to wait too long as soon as you know a man is not the one let him know because the longer you Wind them up wind them up like a he's gonna be like a jack in the box What advice do you have for me on moving in silence from my kid's father who I currently live with? I'm ready to move on with my life. I'm 34 now kids are 12 and six Six that's a little that's a little tough one right there. You're gonna have to consult god on that because When you dealing with a man and you live with him and you're close like that and that's your child's father The question like this could get you killed. It could get me killed So you have to you know him better than anybody So you got to come up with a devise a plan and what I would say is get you a ally meaning a Homegirl a homeboy mama daddy brother sister get somebody that's going to support you and help you Because when a man see that you got somebody to go to you got somewhere to go that you could stay with They're gonna let you have a room or you got representation or support it kind of diverts Any type of violent plan that he may come up with now if he's not violent and you know that 100 percent then Create your exit plan and go Make a move I have a male family member that dates women outside his looks range He looks like a taller version of Tyrese and the women he dates looks like many From the help and weigh about 300 thoughts Typically what that means is The man is gay or He uses them for They credit and money And they they baby him enable him or treat them like a like a king And sometimes it is an exception to the rule And he he's just naturally attracted But it's very rare What are your thoughts on a woman approaching a man if she's interested? Never do it because if you see a man, he sees you And if he's not approaching you it means he's taken or he's not interested Because it I'm married, but I see every woman It just it just men we see every I see every man too not in no sexual way I see every woman. I see every person It's just men we we hunters We killers We we very observant so you not seeing a man that's not seeing you And if this in person And so if a man don't approach you because think about it You know me like because you know me, but what if you didn't know me and we we go to the same church We go to the same school But I am who I am like on me like I'm married and I'm faithful I can see you every day But if you don't necessarily see my ring or whatever or if I don't wear a ring and I'm not shooting a shot That's because I'm married I could even be attracted To a woman but because I'm married and I'm faithful. I'm not going to shoot no shot So that's what you so as a woman never ever never shoot your shot Never because when you do that, you don't know if the man want you or like you but he will 100% Take you up on what you offering Because he know if you coming at him and you like him that mean that's half the battle for him That mean you know, he know you sexually attracted to him How do you rebrand yourself or find your brand? Right now on tonygasacademy.com Is entrepreneurship with purpose It's a 200 dollar course, but I got it up there for 19 dollars right now So go on and take entrepreneurship with purpose because that's a whole that's a whole sermon right there Little too deep for him Unique lyric god bless you Yeah, you too. They be Tripping up sometimes Is it bad me and my obese man met in rehab Then one year both sober now. Is there a high risk in our relationship? That's why I broke it off to let us grow. He's white on black So it was organic meeting Sometimes that's not always as organic as you think it is Because when you add that element in you know, you could be a fetish You could be a fetish So It ain't bad. Listen A woman is wired for love A woman is created for love A woman won't love In marriage more than a man won't love in marriage So if you as a woman Ever leave a man or feel the need to leave a man You are going completely against everything in you And your nature and what you created for so that is your assurance and your safety right there See men because we feel differently about love We could actually leave a woman that's good for us Just out of our ego our selfishness our greed But if a woman leave a man Nine out of ten times you you're doing the right thing Just because of how you are and your intuition Should I be entertaining more than one man at a time going on dates hanging out? Yes, you should but not if it's turning into sleeping together Meaning it's okay to go on different dates But now when you come exclusive and a man say will you be mine? Will you be my girlfriend? Can we be exclusive when that happened? Now you got to shut it all the way down There are two men that I follow on Instagram that are highly educated handsome and men of God but single You would think men of that caliber would have their choice of women is that weird? It is very weird It is very weird But a lot of these men that's out there they do have their choice of women and they they Knock in the line and not the women Drilling the hole in these women And that's why they single because they're going from woman to woman tan them up And they build a relationship and a rapport and they get in women who not going to tell That they slept together these women got a brand they got a name and they got something to lose too So these women not going to come up and say sudden such Slap with me or sleeping with me because that look that make her look desperate and dumb too and so that's how these men have this safety and We protected and insulated like that as men So it's like Even me going on 17 years of marriage if I wanted to cheat I could go out and cheat And if I cheated with a high enough caliber woman She knows she will look dumb and stupid for sleeping with a married man So she would never say nothing And the reason why I'm expressing this to let y'all know that's how this stuff is that's how these guys out here doing that Now I can speak on that because I'm not doing it if I was one of the guys doing it. I'd be You'll never hear that little piece of game if I was out here doing it And because I wouldn't be on here if I was sleeping with a woman who not telling I wouldn't be on here saying this gas light no But that's what these guys doing because We don't live in a day of apostle paul We don't we don't have out of a thousand men that single and claiming to be a man of God Out of that thousand maybe 10 of them going to be like apostle paul maybe 10 of them You could pretty much bet if a man single He getting them a little piece of cookie If every nine then he might not be in the every night. He might not be in it every week. He might not be in it every month But even the men that I mentor who are single men of God Every nine in they fall off in that thing They fall off in them And they'll get real quiet and they'll get real distant from me And then they'll come back later. Yeah, man Tony. So yeah, man, you know, I was I was a little distant man because I had fell into some sin and I just didn't know how you would feel or how you would see it And I say, man, you know, I get it. I get it. I totally understand But you know, my thing is I just say don't play with God now So if you're gonna be falling into that sin, make sure you shut up Stay off that internet giving advice if you're gonna be falling into that sin And that's how I tell Oh, and let me tell y'all something Let me tell y'all something now. Listen to me, man. Let me tell y'all something It's if not, it's women been trying me Women been it's just real subtly Trying to send little messages and I'm getting random text messages Just hey, long time no see if you're watching this video. Stop wasting your time Stop wasting your time if your plan is to see if I'm a cheat on my wife You are wasting 100 percent of your time and You are building a hot hole inhale Because you trying to be a temptress to a servant of God So you are wasting 100 percent of your time if you was a woman In bed not be no man now because you digging your grave now because you come trying me like that There's a diesel Hey, but God bless y'all got to go My son got him a haircut. So now you got plaques now we going to manchester This car Hey, we going to manchester england I need somebody who could do plaques like that just in case he need to get them plaques. Uh, my wife did those Um, they'll call plaques box breaks Brakes to the to the head. They might be boss break them. We call them. I call them plaques. So need somebody over there Preferably somebody God blessing and we'll talk soon