 Hi everyone another discussion video. I'm just out here in North Yorkshire That's where I record my videos over there. Just being out traveling all day so now Just taking some time to relax and we can discuss this when the narcissist Realizes they messed up. I'd like to hear from you as well Please share your thoughts in the comments Let me know if you feel like the narcissist Realized they messed up with you. The truth is these narcissists Never really come to that conclusion. They can make it seem like they do They can make it seem like they're really sorry And they feel bad for what they did They regret the decision But it's all fake It's fake apologies Fake epiphanies future faking. It's all lies They'll tell you whatever they think you want to hear Whatever they think will get you back But really they don't care about anyone but themselves They haven't got the capacity to even consider you They might even tell you That they realized they messed up That they made the wrong decision, but really it's all lies They never come to that conclusion. They can't see themselves as making a fault or mistake They always have to see it like there was something wrong with you That's how they're able to function by seeing it as though You were the problem and the truth is Where whether you remain around them? Or even if you choose to leave them They still see you as a fool. You're a fool for wanting to be around them But then you're also full if you leave It's because when you're around them You're validating their false self they feel like they're bigger than life and They're able to manipulate you and they just see you as a fool for letting them and do that But then when you leave As long as the false self is still being validated Which it almost always is They just see it as though You're a fool for not realizing How amazing they are. That's just how they see it. But now you're not a fool If you leave a narcissist, that's One of the best decisions you could make in your life And your life will quickly turn around Everything will improve But I'd like to hear from you Did the narcissist tell you They realized they messed up did they give you a fake apology a fake epiphany Future faking please let me know Karen says I was with one for ten years They left we threw me out a hundred times But this time it's been five weeks with no contact. I'm glad he's no good But why is he leave me alone now? Maybe he finally realizes that you you know what he's about You're not susceptible To the manipulation anymore. He knows that you can't please all those tricks with you anymore Corny says I've yet I have heard so many apologies. I can't count Yes, you will find that with these narcissists a lot of people think that they don't apologize And then when they do People think that maybe they're not dealing with a narcissist, but actually narcissists will apologize It's just another one of their tactics Sheridan says he didn't tell me anything He ghosted me discarded me and I was forced to leave that happens as well sometimes They won't apologize. They'll just leave Especially if they've got a new source lined up Lisa says I have been asked. What do you want to hear? That's it. They will just tell you Whatever they think you want to hear whatever they think will manipulate you Sandra says lots of future faking He suddenly out the blue wanted to get married That's it. Whatever they think they have to do to secure you. So yeah, they never realized they messed up That's just a part of the manipulation and their minds their false self was perfect They can't do anything wrong And they have to see you as the problem to function You'll never get a genuine apology from a narcissist They can't self reflect for long periods of time And although you may get a small window Well, they do reflect on what they've done And they might feel bad they might feel shame They will quickly project that shame onto you They'll push it away They'll fight it They're not going to reflect in it for long periods of time if they did that they would be recovering from narcissism and up until today No one has sheared of anyone recovering from this So don't believe them when they apologize When they say that they realize they've messed up It's just a part of the manipulation Anyway, I hope this discussion video has been helpful to you Please give it a thumbs up if it has Share your thoughts in the comments and they look for