 I think the the most obvious difference is that my primary responsibility just as from childhood and even until now has just been to to chase after success from a platform of being given a certain amount of privilege the fact that versus my parents who's is much more about sacrifice so the two words that I've always kind of battled with internally has been success and sacrifice my parents and I'm sure that this is shared by every immigrant parent is we're going to make the sacrifice to kind of level you up and place you and your siblings on a platform where the rest is up to you you know we'll hand you the baton at the end of our lap and yours is to just keep running