 First of all, for those that don't know you, I mean, just in case there's somebody in tonback too listening right now, who are you? Hello, hi, I'm Sasha and I'm a Danny coach for men. I help men get a little bit more ump in their lives so they feel good about themselves and they go out there and sort of more women and get themselves a girlfriend. Or what, if you're in it, that's all I think. Perfect, so we're talking a little bit about self-defense and such and I'm a gun guy and I'm just wondering, what do you have any ideas for how somebody might de-escalate the situation so you don't have to use your fists or a gun or something like that? Oh, so you know, yeah, you got them. When you're a fire or a fist, you just want to use your fists, I'm not kidding. So, well first of all, my background is a comedian so the first thing I would say is you could use humor to de-escalate the situation. So if somebody's younger, you're either getting a little aggressive. You might say something like, you know, you don't want to fight me. I'll probably just fall over and hurt myself and then you're going to get sued, you know, it's really not worth it. So really just, you know, just, you know, make the fun of the whole situation. You know, like, I'll say it's over a parking space. It's like, dude, is it really worth it for somebody to get hurt just over a parking space? Honestly, you know, think about how, you know, we're going to look back at this and think this was a really bad idea. So really trying to give somebody, using humor and giving someone a little bit of perspective at the same time can be really effective. It's almost like you're giving you friendly advice also. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Also just, you know, a lot of people argue because they don't want to admit that they're wrong or they don't want to let the person win. But if you put your ego on the side, let the other person win. Just say, hey, you know what? You're right. You're right. Let them have whatever they want. Because, again, when you look back on it, sure you're in that moment, you're heated about it, you're pissed off, but actually a year later, it wouldn't have mattered at all. So just let them be right. Let them have whatever it is that they want. And just accept that you're helping somebody and you're actually doing a good deed. You know what I mean? So let them win. Everyone says, I have to win. I'm right. It doesn't matter if you're right. It's not worth getting into a fight or getting stabbed or having to shoot someone or being shot. So just let them have whatever it is that they want. And accept that you're actually taking the higher ground by being able to remove your ego and actually, you know, to do that. So if you can safely walk away from it and maybe even make a friend out of it, share a smile? Absolutely. And not only, another thing I would say is, you know, what I've noticed is most people are really lazy in life and they're not going to chase you. So really, if it's coming down to it, I've done this before. I've actually said to someone, hey, you know what? Hang on one second, I'll be right back and I'll just leave. I like it. Yeah, I was just like, you know, just as you're getting into it, it's like, hang on a second, one second. I just gotta do, you know, my friend's just over here. Walk away, just keep walking. Keep walking and as they start following you, just start running and then no one is gonna chase you because people are lazy. No one is gonna chase you. So it'd be weird to just start running in the moment but if you say, hang on one second, you can almost actually act like you're just going for your phone, like your phone's ringing. You can just hang on one second and then literally go for your phone and just take a couple of steps like you're just going on your phone and just keep walking away. Don't come back. And that's it. So what are they gonna do? They're gonna run after you? They're gonna run after you. Nobody can be bothered. Not worth the effort. And one last thing I would say is point out that you're not actually their enemy and that you're actually on the same side as them. You know, because a lot of people, they get aggressive because they think they see you as their opponent. When you actually say, you know what? I'm actually on your side. If I was in your situation, I would think the exact same thing. However, here's actually what I meant or here's actually what happened but we're actually on the same side. We're not enemies. There's no reason for us to be enemies. And maybe point out who is the enemy. So maybe if you can frame like actually the government as the enemy or this third party that's actually put us in a situation there, the enemy, we actually, it's not us. If you take it down one step to the fact that we're just normal people and actually some outside sources of the enemy, not us, you can actually create an ally and then you can sort of, you know, walk away as friends like you said before and everybody wins. Awesome. Good advice. Thank you, Sasha. And I'm gonna put your link in the comments down below. Please subscribe to Sasha's YouTube channel and hey, subscribe to ours as well. Don't use your gun unless you have to.