 It happens all the time. Say you need them to open up a new checkout window in line at the supermarket. You say, hey, can you open up a new one? You know, however you guys want to do it. There are so many situations where the way you choose to communicate dictates a response you got from the person you're talking to. This is kind of going back into immersion. Unreactedness to anything around you. Nothing exists but you and her. You guys are in a little bubble. This is not about being direct or indirect, but you have got to be just there with her. Eye contact, unreactive to everything else going on. Doesn't matter if her girlfriends are screaming for her to come follow them. Unreactive. There are so many times where they're trying to drag her off. And simply because you're not reacting to that and you're just staying there with her like this, just calmly talking, she's just rooted right in place. And the world could be falling down around her, but since you're right here with her, she's ignoring everything else as well. That's a big deal. You're not grabby, you're confident attitude is quiet and pulls her in. A lot of guys, they get in this mindset where somehow they're going to batter her defenses down and convince her to go home with them. And that's really not how it works. You have to make her want to go home with you. One way to do that is just be there with her. We'll get into more of that later. Huge. This is a huge thing right here. Existing outside of social tension. As men, it is our role, we exist outside of social tension. I think the first time this was driven home was Tyler on the blueprint. He said, he's like, look, there are socially tense situations that go on all the time. You're going to find yourselves in them constantly. But as a male, that is not you. You do not respond to tension. You don't even feel it. And you can have the craziest nonsense going on around you. But it's got nothing to do with how you feel right here. Just the other night, I was out with Labito. And I see these two sexy-ass girls. And I'm kind of like this. There's like a rail here. I'm on a higher spot. And then I'm talking to Labito at the table. Two really cute girls, probably before they were then where you're at. And I'm like, yo! And they don't hear, I'm like, yo! And the new guy that was standing with Labito just goes, and scampers off five or six feet away. And I'm like, dude, I'm like, if you can't stay with it, man, it's not going to work for you. Social tension is not you. It's not your role. You don't respond to it at all. Forget it. Oh, man, this is a good one.