 because there's some deeper reasons why he's not texting back. But I wanna go on to say the problem with this approach is that it's all about your desires and not his. See, you're expressing a desire would feel really good if you do this for me, okay? It comes across as a demand. It could even come across motherly, okay? And as you know, men oftentimes resist their mother because as growing up, mothers would tell us what to do. So when you say do this under the guise of it would feel good, you're making this assumption that he's naturally going to want to. But understand that it might feel like a demand. And for the guy that's lost interest in you, well, he'll keep forgetting to do it. He'll avoid doing it. He'll come up with excuses.