 Hi Jay, what about getting back with an ex better timing perhaps? Okay, so there's this saying it's a you know Timing look it as far as getting back with an ex. I guess the question is do they want to get back with you? You know, it's one thing you want to get back to them But if you're going to choose to get back together then what's your fucking plan? Okay, because there was a reason why your relationship ended. What are you going to do to heal the Challenges that caused you to break up now might have been that he was a train wreck Okay, I get that and sometimes we want to come back to the well But I want to highly recommend you have a plan and you do some serious vetting to make sure that you're both on the same page Because ladies, okay, let me just say something. This is really important. So listen up listen carefully Most dating advice is centered around Attraction attraction in other words, how do you develop attraction and basically centered around chemistry? Okay, so great Attraction, how do you create attraction be friendly? Be smile? We're a nice dress, you know, just be friendly smile We're a nice dress. You're attractive. I get it brush your hair. Have a big smile make up all that stuff, right? You're attractive. I get it. Okay Now you start dating. He's attractive. He's six foot two full head of hair Handsome's got a great job. Oh wait, am I describing myself? Just kidding. All right, that was a little ego braggadoce is coming out I'll own it Okay, so now you're attracted to one another and you're dating for that six weeks only to find out his actions Don't match his words. He doesn't have empathy. He is in victim consciousness. He's not very Transparent and he doesn't know how to resolve conflicts This is because most people focus on attraction and not what I talk about and that is pre-qualifying your prospect vetting for Emotional maturity determining who's truly compatible with you and asking the right questions ladies the biggest problem with dating and men meant if your men are listening to this as well is dug on is Learning how to ask the right questions the other day I Not too long. I was interacting with a woman and I said screw it I'm just gonna go through my laundry list of questions on the phone and after we got through it I realized she's not right for me. So I didn't get dressed up for a date I didn't drive for a date. I didn't only you know because here's what would happen got dressed up picked a place drove for a date Paid for a date. We would add chemistry. We would have dated for a few weeks We would add sex and I would have realized I would have broken up with her because she's not right for me So do the same for yourself. I want to encourage you to ask better questions And if you need some support, that's what I do check out in the description the discovery call with me. All right So anyways, I got off on a tangent. By the way, I sometimes go off on tangents. It's what I do Leaf says I agree with you a hundred percent. Thank you leaf