 G'day, May 40 here. So I went for a dip in the Koojee Beach and They're like these four beauty queens wearing their tiaras And they were mucking around in the surf and taking selfies But their iphone's out in the surf Not a good time. So refreshing. Anyway, point of etiquette So I know that my audience is particularly attuned to questions of courtesy and etiquette What's you know, what's the right thing to do? So someone asked you to go for a walk Right, and then they take an incoming call Like how long? What's the etiquette for how long can you? Can you talk on your on your phone just to someone else when when you're on a walk with another person? All right, so I think it's like five minutes All right, so let's say you're going on a two-hour walk if you take one call for five minutes Not a big deal, but ten minutes I think it's too much. That's where I put my foot down so Yeah, I was the recipient of that the other day and I really didn't like it, right? It's no fun walking along with someone who's on a phone call All right, where you only hear one white part of the conversation so on the other hand like I've gone for a walk and I wanted to sit down and Read the Wikipedia entry on Garth Whitlam Right to me that's a different thing Because you may be disengaging from the other person, but you're not on the phone So you're not subjecting them to a one-way conversation so I I've been on dates like a first date and the woman was taking calls Like she probably took like three calls on our first date and That was it All right, 40s got stand as I made up my mind right there I'm gonna put out with this. I never wanted to go out with her again, but then Whatever reason she became hyper interested in me. I kept tracking me down But all I could think about was you disrespected me taking all those calls on our first date Like why why would I want to go out with you? So what's when you're when you invite someone to hang out go for a walk Now what's the appropriate amount of time that you can get on your phone to someone else like? Obviously a matter of life and death, but there's a lot of money at stake then I can understand Taking the phone call But if it's not urgent and if it's not a lot of money at stake There's not a lot of money at stake then I think like five minutes should be the max