 All right everybody day three just back from lunch Everyone's excited full looking forward to dinner tonight for all you attendees. Sorry everyone out there. That's watching just Go to the fridge and get a sandwich now coming up next. We have a great treat for you guys here speaking on the three Pillars of seductive success Australia's number one attraction coach James Marshall Good afternoon gentlemen. How are we all? The thing about the British is they're so fucking polite How are we all? That's very good. One thing I've noticed is that anywhere that was colonized by the British Empire Tends to have issues with picking up girls Have you noticed that there's very little in the way of Seduction coaching going on in France and Spain and Portugal and Brazil There's there's a reason why we're not going to set up business over there Because we would be having way too much fun and be out of business real quick I'll give you an example this I was dating a a French model for some time and she had to go back to France to attend to some team and She was calling me from a public phone box We were chatting away and then I hear this scuffling noise This is and then there's a man's voice. I don't know horse at me And I hear speaking And I'm like what the fuck's going on and she said oh, it's it's okay A man just pushed his way into the cubicle and said you have a charming I would like to take you out on dinner and I was just there like he did what? and This is when I was like a professional pickup coach and I was thinking I was pretty cool But I've never done that as anyone else pushed their way into a phone box to ask a girl out on a date That's pretty fucking alpha But what you'll notice is the guys there have to work a way harder because the girls used to That's why a French guys clean up when they come to places like this. I think the reason why a lot of a Lot of guys have a lot of trouble in this area Primarily, this has been touched on by other speakers is because they don't own the fact that they have a cock they they feel a little bit ashamed about it and We're taught from a whole variety of sources to hide the fact that we have a penis I had a had a client recently said oh well if you're um If you're say dancing with a girl and you um He couldn't even say it like are you trying to tell me you're dancing with a girl and you get an erection He's like, what do you do? He's like should I sort of like go like put it out like this And I said no you should pull her in by the hip and pull her in and hold your fucking cock on her on her hips He's like, but then she'd know that I'm like Yeah Now she knows and it was had this epiphany. She knows that I and therefore the makes sense Only owning your desire is is the core of what makes you successful in this area of your life Men who are balls out get results in Australia. We have one seduction technique Now I do not necessarily endorse this technique because it's ugly, but it works. It's called the Aussie lean All right, so in Australia when you fucking going out to get a route First thing you do is you go out and you get real pissed which you guys do Tick and then you fucking watch some sport which you guys also do and then when you get on to the chicks You just come over and you know, hey, you go and you just lean on it Yeah, and the force of gravity means that Eventually she'll probably just give in because it's easier to have sex with you than to try and push a large Australian man off you Yeah, now as I said, this is this is not what I I definitely do But this works because the intent is clear. It's it's ugly. It's it's brutal, but it works Whereas the polite gentleman who goes up and has a pleasant chat about topics and interests and so on Goes basically nowhere For a number of reasons which we'll get into Now when I'm teaching what is what is called natural seduction? Okay, so now I definitely was not always natural at this and this is something a lot of guys think when they meet me because I'm very Confident I'm charismatic. I know how to look people in the eye and fuck them in the brain with my eye contact That I was always that way, but I definitely wasn't I'm self-taught natural and the and I've hung out with a lot of guys who are way better than me when it comes to picking up girls You know, I'm voted Australia's best dating coach and best natural Using a an election process that's similar to an African election, I guess Not necessarily indicative of the actual realities But I'm definitely the best dating coach when it comes to natural game Because the difference between me and some of my friends is that they don't know how or why it works And so they'll say things like what was one beautiful quote Man fuck whole that was that was like the entire Description of of the the method and for a natural that's that's all it is It's because anything else that doesn't go without reality doesn't exist and anyone who doesn't understand that it's it seems very very Confusing, but I went through a very long and arduous process to get to the point where what I do is freeform and natural But because I was able to go through that entire process I understand the stages that all you guys are at and will be at in the future, which is the advantage in my my teaching So let me tell you a little bit about the genesis of me as a great ladies man Was anyone he bullied at school? You know, I know you were what do they call you Sasha? Oh And look at him now. We all want to talk to him okay, I was I was savagely bullied at school because I Was quite good at music classical music as a young man, and I went to a very sporty school and my mother read a book called the right instrument for your child and It was based on you know your physique and your temperament and and then they would choose an instrument for you And this would be the right one for you apparently due to the fact that I was waif-like and nervous the flute Was the right instrument for her child Which as you all know is one of the sexiest and manliest instruments available and So I studied the flute and I became quite good at it and as a result I got beaten up a lot at school Because I didn't fucking like that because that's a poof there's instrument and instruments in general poof there's a bit definitely the flute one is a poof instrument and so I Went home to my mother and you know I was crying because you know with my flute bent and and bruised and so on Like the guys beat me up, but she's like you know what you should just hit them back I'm like all right. I'm gonna do that. So the the next afternoon or the next time a group of large savage Australian kids came at me I went To one of them and then they beat me up a lot harder and So it didn't really work But what I did do then is I did seek out martial arts teachers I decided that originally I got into it because I wanted to learn how to not get beat up so much because this knows if It ever gets broken he's gonna ruin my beautiful face and I kind of afford that because then I'd have to rely on my charm and So I started doing martial arts at a young age and this along with music became my obsession and I was lucky enough to find some very very traditional Shaolin kung-fu teachers in in Australia believe it or not and Decided to follow that and see where it would lead me Now I'm gonna be talking a little bit later about lifestyle design because I think that's an area that tends to get neglected in this field and It's one of the best ways to get laid to have awesome experiences to create opportunities in your life It's to engineer a lifestyle that is attractive because then it becomes a machine for drawing people into you It's not the only thing that you have to do you have to you do need to know how to be able to go out there Meet strangers on the street or wherever it is and draw them into your life But if you don't have an amazing life to draw them into if they're I hate to say this word high value If they're women with high self-esteem that lots of people want to be around then they want to be around guys who've got something going on Yeah so many years later, I I went to China to study Chinese medicine and If you want to if you want to study at Shaolin temple if you want to study kung-fu there You you can't just rock up. You can't just turn up and go teach me there's there's a very very strict process you have to be at a certain point in a lineage and You have to you know have worked your ass off for ten years plus before anyone's going to accept you in there Now I was over studying Chinese medicine and I decided at the end of that to just go and check out the temple I knew that it wasn't wasn't my turn or anything, but I just thought I'd go and fucking check it out So I rocked up at this place Which is which to me was the which was the most amazing place that I could ever go to You know, whoever your mentors are whoever your heroes are Imagine going to that place on the other side of the world and being finally there in the in the presence of these people And I rocked up and I walked around the Temple with all the other Chinese and Western tourists and checking it all out and going You know one day I would love to just come back here and really fucking do this properly and Then I missed the last bus out of out of that temple and so there was no way for me to stay and it was a nice summer's evening, so I decided to buy a rice mat and take my Bamboo flute and go and sit and meditate on the mountain and sleep the night there and I was walking along a Chinese lady came up to me and she said Kejia, how do I say I've forgotten all my Chinese where it's a nice you is that all right Don't I need you? Where are you going? She's like, yeah, sure Hey true, all right, I'll just make up Chinese words All right, she said where are you going and I said I'm going to the mountain and she said no No, don't come and stay at my place and then she and then when we were halfway there Then she like said it's gonna be very expensive, which is you know good Chinese businesswoman and Asked me what asking me what I do. I said, oh, well, I studied kung fu was ready kung fu I would love to study here with this particular teacher and She just her eyes lit up and she and I told her who my teacher was in Australia She ran off and then five minutes later Coming down the mountain was the child who is the monk that I had always dreamed to to me And he's my height a huge mongolian with a massive beard and carrying a monk spade Which is this huge thing with blades on either end just like in a movie walking down the road I'm like, oh my god, it's the child and He comes up to me. There had been some misunderstanding She thought that I knew someone that I well that I did know but that I was higher up than I was He asked who I was he looked me dead in the eyes And I said actually I'm nobody and he said what do you want? Niaosha ma he looked me in the eyes and asked me that and in that moment I Had the choice I could say well, you know, I just came to check it out So, you know, sorry for bothering you sir and I said Well, yeah, I'll show she I want to study with you And then he looked me in the eyes held my gaze for a very long time and said Ming Tian would be in tomorrow 5 a.m.