 Welcome back to the 21 convention 2020 of Orlando, Florida being held for the first time in history at the first ever 21 summit our next speaker is a very good friend of mine a frequent panelist in the red man group and Host on the occasional red line on the red man group as well He's also a returning speaker to the 21 convention He spoke for his last or his first time last year three times at the Patriarch Edition 2019 in Poland at the front 21 convention and get in the fall. He's now returning for his fourth speech at the 21 convention He's the founder of the man mindset. He's tough motherfucker. He'll be tough on you. He's gonna be hard on you You could take it including the people at home So without further ado, please tell me about welcome back to the 21 convention stage Steve the Dean Williams Oh Wait, I'm like give me the microphone. Yeah, that's it How's everybody doing today? So that's how is everybody doing today? y'all got to learn how to speak the fuck up when someone's talking to you because if someone's talking to you You got to come with some authority like you know what the fuck you're talking about That's some of the problems that we're having today. Somebody's talking to you You got to bring it from within someone's actually how you're doing you tell them how the fuck you doing? So how the fuck are you doing? All right, that's motherfucking better One thing I always want to tell you guys is before we start this don't listen to the message, okay? Don't listen to the message Become the message. Okay. I'm just giving you something. I Want each and every one of you to take that something and grow and use it into your life to become better men You see gentlemen, I Always tell you to do your homework It's important to do your homework. Oh Wait, let me go back. Oh, there we go. Oh, wait. There we go. There we go. It's important to do your homework Because you have to learn that History always repeats itself and that's why I want y'all do right the right this down and do your homework Cuz I one thing I always tell you even when I go on my shows on YouTube. Don't fucking believe me Because you don't know me You don't know shit about me Don't believe anything I say find out for your fucking cells Okay, that's how men do it. We just don't take things in blindly You know Newton said this thing we only know is a drop what we what we what we know is a drop But what we don't know is a notion And you see the problem is a lot of men today will take drops of Information that they hear on YouTube and they will make it fact They will make it seem like the person that's saying it It's telling you a truth beyond any other truth out there and Which you guys don't know is that as I said history always finds a way to repeat itself Did you know your predecessors two decades ago some three? Ross, I think Ross Jefferies was in the within 89 with speed seduction. So it goes back But I'm only gonna take you back two decades ago Because two decades ago history what you were seeing now has already happened And that's why I tell you to do your homework to see why it happened Okay, people want to take another man's information and make it his truth 20 years ago. I've been doing this shit for like over 30 years guys I'm not a part of a man's fear not appeal. I'm just a motherfucking man Teaching men how to be men, but 20 years ago They were doing this. This was manhood 20 years ago telling young boys your age to wear makeup Eyeliner boas goggles Lie to women all this stuff just for a piece of pussy or getting close to a piece of pussy 20 years ago, this is how you had to dress if you wanted to get a woman her attention if you wanted to get a one-night lay they called it 20 years ago Why am I telling you this? 20 years ago these young men Ran away from their fucking name Always tell people all the time You don't know how your ancestors got you here Some of you came in above the boat Some of us came below the boat But the one thing our ancestors did your ancestors in mind regardless of how you came here is that they knew their name they knew the importance of their name and No matter what was going on they would tell and pass that information on to their sons To be proud of who you are 20 years ago They said fuck your last name change it to pua Get your last name. Just get rid of your last name Add pua to your name so you can become part of us They taught tactics Invisible card trick all these kind of tricks and gimmicks and they also created communities called layers Now make sure y'all look that up layer Again, don't fucking believe what you when I'm saying I want you to see it for yourself You see a layer gentlemen Was a place where men got together to pass fucking recipes around on how to manipulate women 20 years ago and here's the thing guys women didn't know about that shit There was no metal back then no purpose no fucking hypergamy There was none of that shit back then because these motherfuckers living high off the horse They were manipulating women women didn't even know what was going on until I think it was August 8th 2007 where VH1 released the pickup artists That's when shit turned around. You notice after 2007 all of a sudden. Oh, we become the victims now You know, they created the Frankenstein, but then now once Frankenstein's out in town fucking shit up They're the first ones bitching and stuff, but they were created communities. Okay, very important to see they taught you how to think by telling you their thoughts and Doing whatever they can to make you believe that those thoughts were real and true But let's look at 20 years ago verses today because history does repeat itself You see 20 years ago, like I said, they would get rid of their name and put PUA in front of their names or RSD and whatever the fuck be BITC H I don't give a fuck they just took all these things and put it in front of their names. What are they doing today? It's the same thing Taking y'all taking you guys away from your name Saying that your name is not good enough be part of us be part of a group where they got you're saying met Tao sysbm a bit more than a fucking in your name Now now they own this no flap thing. That's the new thing whatever, but you know, that's what it is Also 20 years ago, they came up with their own language 20 years ago afc nag escalate Hv high value these were things that were going on 20 years ago gentlemen And what are they doing today? It's the same thing be on your purpose female nature hypergamy pushing it to a point Where you're so caught up in this shit? You're just regurgitating what they're saying because you're following them and not yourself Because gentlemen, let me tell you something about hypergamy. I want to say about this shit. I've been in a game for a long motherfucking time, man I'm Slaying dragons since I was whenever not really nine, but I was in the bed with a chick at nine I just couldn't get my dick hard to fuck but that's here though there, but I was I've been in this game for a long motherfucking time There's never been a word hypergamy Because the game is not about women. It's never been about women fuck them. It's never been about them. I Don't give a fuck if she's going up down left to right the fuck doesn't got to do with me As long as she's going up down left to right on my dick. I don't give a fuck fuck her. I don't care But what they do is they again 1979 look it up scared straight write that down because I want you to do your history 1979 right scared straight and look at the premise of scared straight It was to take some boys who were bunch of knuckleheads Into the jail system where the convicts scared those motherfuckers to be good little kids It's the same thing all these things have one thing in common and that is to scare you motherfuckers off from something That even the game about women Y'all they got y'all scared that a woman's gonna go up down left to right. She's got every right to do that Like Greg coach Greg I was was telling you Look these women gonna fuck y'all over. He's right But when I'm trying to tell you I want to try to prevent the fuck over by you motherfuckers learning that This is some bullshit. See if you learn more about yourself and Create a motherfucking standard Then you don't have to worry about coach Greg Adams telling you what it is because you would already be prepared But because a lot of you're not prepared you got a great man like coach Adams bulldog You got a lot of men here trying to tell you look This is where you at and it's not the woman's fault Stop blaming these bitches for shit Stop getting mad at women for shit Woman's gonna do what you allow her to do and I always say if your pussy is tighter than hers She's gonna treat you like a bitch. That's it That's the truth Fuck what she's saying fuck her thoughts because it's always gonna be about me 20 years ago The tactics line the women pick up lines in direct game NLP tricks gimmicks manager trick. This was 20 years ago gentlemen 20 years ago do your fucking homework and look that shit up, but what are they doing today? tactics indirect game lie to women Fuck her till she falls the fucking sleeping all this other stupid ass shit Indirect being indirect show me an indirect line and I'll quit this motherfucker Show me a line that's in the Serengeti walks up to the zebra and says you know what when you jump in my mouth, please Because I have to wait for you to choose me because some youtuber said that men have to wait for a woman to choose them Think about that shit 20 years ago like I said they created Layers and I'm talking about all over the world Afghanistan Pakistan Russia India Japan Hong Kong the Philippines China Nova Scotia Welles they did in Mexico Jamaica East Coast and the side of country Everywhere around the world they had layers 20 years ago And today They have created cuddle parties for men. Don't believe me. Look that shit up Because it's okay to be emotional and it's okay to tell everybody your feelings and all the poor women was so mean to me And I don't man fuck you in your fucking feelings That's the problem with y'all y'all in your feelings and shit the fucking it is when what is so special about a woman? Well, you got a fucking bitch wine moaning complain about her instead of just walked the fuck away Because you are the fucking opportunity. You know woman's option nobody's option 20 years ago again They created a cult 20 years ago Where you young boys took the umbilical cord out of mom Well, then and now took the umbilical cord out of mom and you have attached it to some youtuber that represents mom Because when the real motherfuckers Challenged those guys you will be the first one to protect that cult leader Because what he's telling you you think it's fact And half these motherfuckers can't get pussy. Let's be real look at some of the motherfuckers talking all that shit Do you really think they're getting pussy? Do you really think they're getting pussy because if you getting pussy How can you bitch about women if you fucking if you got pussy day in a day out the only complaint you should have is my Dick is sore. I need to put some ice under my balls because this bitch wants my dick right now I just got done fucking her Keeping this shit all the way 100 like you say see if You guys take a drop of information Okay, and You don't know that person and you make it his truth You go away from your nature you go away from your last name You go away from the thing that made you who you are you go away from your ancestors like I told you above the boat Or below the boat having to get there you're saying fuck you You're saying fuck you I don't I don't need you anymore for some of you You might be the last of your kind because you believe somebody's motherfucking so bad You don't want to create anything. You don't you're not looking at your future. You're not looking at a bloodline Because they got you thinking that every woman is fucking evil yet. Hey, guess what they're evil when you're a bitch You goddamn right there evil Because the way a woman treats me or you is not going how she's gonna treat me. I'll be goddamn She's not gonna do that bullshit to me You want to know why cuz I have a fucking standard and that's what I'm trying to get you guys to have today You know my boy one of my one of my best friends rosebud bitter-dose. He's an ex pimp. I love that motherfucker He has a he's had a show. He was on American pimp Great thinking man been in the game for what 40 50 years. I call him the Yoda of the game See, I was a gigolo. I I used to get paid corporately to fuck women I was never a pimp and as a gigolo, I'm on the island with pimps But to me he's the Yoda of the game because I don't have no women on the street bringing me money I just have individual bitches paying me to just cuddle with their ass and shit But says this you can't win today's game with yesterday's score You can't win today worrying about what a motherfucker did to you yesterday You can't win today when you're worried about oh my god. She's so pretty. How am I gonna talk to her? How am I gonna approach her? What am I gonna say? What if she rejects me? Well, you can't win It's kind of like that Rocky. You remember that rocky scene where he was getting his ass kicked the thing was a club of lang was whipping his ass No, who's beating that motherfucker's ass? I've got who the motherfucker was whipping his ass But his girl his wife like right you can't win You cannot win today's game Where yesterday's fucking scores it doesn't happen because a man doesn't live in the past Now a man might use the past as a compass But a man doesn't live in the past Because I'm present. I'm future. That's what a man does and if every single day of your life You're worried about a fucking woman Worried about what she thinks what she's gonna do worry about approaching her or worried about a rejection Y'all don't even understand you tell y'all something real quick Always tell Everybody listens to me that you were born a winner and I know y'all here like damn that come on Steve that that born a winner shit That that'll mean nothing. We're gonna win. Let me tell you something. You got to the egg, right? Your mom your dad met there was a race You verse thousands of hundreds of thousands of your little brothers and sisters that was saying fuck you I'm gonna try to get to the egg before you but you had drive you have passion you had discipline You didn't need hypergamy to get to the fucking egg You didn't need purpose to get to the fucking egg you didn't need female nature to get to the fucking egg You didn't need any that shit what you needed was you to get to the fucking egg and you got here That's why you're here today. Ain't me. It's you motherfuckers It's just somewhere along your goddamn life. You gave up on your motherfucking cells Somewhere in your life. You said you know what? I'm not good enough Because the same thing that got you to the egg is the same fucking thing that all you motherfuckers have inside of you You know what that is man? You couldn't take no breaks you couldn't sit on the sideline you couldn't come up with routines You either got to that motherfucking egg or you were dribbling down your mom's leg I'm sorry guys don't say that shit, but it was that that's the truth. Fuck y'all. I don't give a fuck what y'all think That's the truth But for so many of you guys you think what you have is fear You think what you have is not having confidence You know, there's a movie and y'all need to write this down to go see it's wanted with Angelina Jolie and Morgan Freeman It was about a guy Whoever see y'all say oh, yeah, I see the fucking go in there. Yeah, it's about a guy Who every time he had these anxiety attacks He would take pills to suppress the feeling because he labeled the feeling anxiety So every time something came in his face that he felt that he couldn't handle his heart would start racing and racing And he would get nervous doing that his blurry vision would start to shake and rattle And he will grab some medicine to hold that down gentlemen, I'ma tell you something man That feeling you get when you get around a woman is not fucking fear It's that line inside of you saying get the fuck out my way so we can get our dick suck Why you keep holding me back? Let me go See you I tell you to embrace that feeling You run away from it because you think it's fear you think it's anxiety you think it's an excuse But inside of you it's saying just get the fuck out my way. It's the same thing that got you to the egg But you've labeled it wrong so you believe the story of what it is. Oh I'm sorry. Let me keep going back. All right. Here we go Yeah, okay, here we go. Let's see right here. I'm sorry See as a man when you Walk towards somebody else's son with other people You're losing who you are as a man You're losing your name your birthright and everything that you fucking are when you're following herds of people When you go on YouTube and see these guys. Hey, what's going on mental Mike? I don't know jerk off Rob. How you doing all this other bullshit, right? following people to the slaughter You know 50 Cent said it best in his book if you're always following someone's son What are you gonna do when that son goes away if you're always following somebody? I always tell you fuck don't fucking believe me. Don't follow my motherfucking ass. I don't want you to be me I'm trying to bring you out of you Don't follow me fuck me not fuck me but turn the fuck I'm saying But what I'm saying is Y'all when you follow someone's son that means your second best because you're trying to be somebody else Based off of him telling you false information Like I say goes back to the drop You see gentlemen a Man is it's lonely. I ain't say alone, but the journey It's the most loneliest journey in the world You're gonna lose your friends. You lose family. You're gonna lose women It is the loneliest journey in the world because no one should understand who the fuck you are Because you're authentically you you are the only one of your kind in this fucking world And that is why you as the only one of your kind has to take this journey By yourself you can't take this shit with somebody because they're not you You have got to begin to realize that you have are a part of something That is greater than nobody can even imagine once you believe that you are good enough to walk on your own The problem is for a lot of you guys. You're in high school. I mean you you still hide your grown-ass men and fucking high school thinking I Get I'm fine in elementary school if you didn't have confidence in shit All right, my nuts dropped a little bit from my stomach when I was a little older But I'm fine if you didn't have confidence in elementary school when you saw a girl I'm fine if you didn't have confidence in the note the fuck to do in junior high school Hell, I'll be a little fine if that would happen in high school But the problem with you motherfuckers is you carry that shit over into the real world in the college the same guy Same thinking Some of you guys think making a nice Dinner for a woman is thirsty. Some of you guys think why the fuck when I put some music for a woman Who does that shit motherfuckers? I get asked to that shit. That's who does that shit, but they got you thinking that Everything you do that men do is thirsty and why do they tell you that because the motherfuckers can't do it themselves Think about this You have people out here telling you not to be smooth romantic sensual sexual but only be kinky dirty and nasty But you don't understand your opponent your opponent Knows you and that's the problem because your thinking is just like high school. They've known you since elementary school your life's the same Every day is the same every hour every second is the fucking same and you wonder why you feel like you lose You wonder why they don't want to talk to you women don't want to fuck with weak-ass people. I'm sorry, man I just want to be real with you. They don't want to fuck with you But they will fuck you in a way. You don't understand. You'll be their chauffeur fuck You'll be that motherfucker buying her dinners and drinks You'll be that motherfucker they show to the crying one fucking bulldog or goddamn coach Greg Adams puts a dick on their forehead They want to cry to your motherfucking ass about that shit. Yeah, you'll be that guy You'll be your bank account and all that shit. You will get pussy, but it will be on her terms How many are guys texting women? Hey, let's go. I don't know I'm not sure. I'll think about it I'll get back to you and all you crumb snatch your mother for he's like, okay. It's the best crumbs I ever got I got almost got a chance to fuck this chick. Oh, man. She give me some play. Oh, man Well, there while we go out somewhere. No, let's go to that nice restaurant They had that has that fucking valet parking and the motherfucking MatriD and the fucking violin player and all that shit Shea France way I call that shit on a corner of you sucker-ass motherfucking you bitch. Fuck that No, I want to take her ass. She got two choices of places. We're really four, but I got my two favorite ones We go feed the duck at Lake spread your ass cheeks Or we can go for ice cream on a corner of your face of the pillow or your ass up in the air That's who that's options. I'm giving you Fuck that When you are the same you are always the first one to be well I can't listen women are allowed to bitch because they're emotional Women are allowed to complain. They're allowed to be victims. They're unaccountable for their fucking women. That's what they're supposed to be like We ain't supposed to be like this make excuses Blame it being a victim But that's all you motherfuckers hear nowadays on youtube or they attach that Well, you need to be on your purpose, man You need to be like let me tell y'all something about this purpose shit Gentlemen, if you want to work out work out because you want to do it If you want a nice suit a car all that shit get it because you want to do it But as soon as you do that shit for a fucking woman, you're done And let me tell you something show me how your body's going to help you when it's time to text message a woman Show me when that nice car those nice clothes going to help you when it's time to put some yak in it Flavoring her motherfucking ear and flavoring her ass so she can come over and suck your dick Don't know that kind of shit because they don't teach you that because the motherfuckers that's pushing this shit are not really fucking They're not getting women Because motherfuckers want to teach you how to navigate life because maybe dad wasn't around to help you navigate life And that's where the frustration Because do you you don't have your compass which is your name because you run away from it because you think well He's got five hundred six hundred eighty five thousand nine hundred sixty four hundred subscribers So oh shit. He knows what he's talking about Then I mother get on here. Well, you know these women man. They're just not fair You know, you know, I you know what it's great. Let's just stay on your purpose Yeah, you know I'm going to toilet seat my peepee hurt all that shit y'all like wow, that's amazing that guy's amazing and all that shit Let me introduce you to somebody named Kobe Bryant, man Kobe motherfucking brine The reason why I want to talk about Kobe Is because Kobe has this thing That i'm trying to get you to understand and that is his motherfucking name and he knows what he wants You see Kobe started out in high school But Kobe said to himself Fuck college I want to be an MBA Did he sit around on youtube? Did he sit around on facebook that used hypergamy purpose female nature and all that shit? He said fuck no I want to be in the NBA He got an MBA But was Kobe satisfied Fuck no, he wasn't satisfied because He said, you know what now that i'm here. What's next? I want to start But you know what life doesn't happen the way we want it because Kobe didn't start Kobe didn't start when he first came into the NBA man. His ass was on the motherfucking bench He was on the bench But did he complain? Did he bitch? Did he whine? Did he moan? Did he say poor me? Did he want to take his ball to go home? Did he blame women? Did he blame hypergamy? Did he blame female nature? Did he blame purpose? Did he say i'm not a high value man? He said no, fuck that. I'm Kobe motherfucking brine And what i'm going to do is i'm going to fucking Fucking study the game And i'm going to practice By myself i'm going to go towards my own ocean by myself And practice and practice and fuck up some more and keep practicing And guess what? Oh, i'm sorry Oh, wait, jesus went too far back. Here we go. Sorry What's Kobe getting practicing? And he did start that wasn't good enough Because at this point I gotta perfect my shot I gotta perfect several shots because every team is not the same I've got to be more than one thing So i've got to make adjustments based on the opponent that is in front of my face But that's not good enough. You know what? I now that i'm a starter Sure the average guy be satisfied, but a man is never fucking satisfied. Kobe said, okay, i'm starting. Guess what? Fuck that I want to be an all-star I want to be an all-star Fuck starting. I'm going to be an all-star And he became one And once Kobe became an all-star Was that good enough for him? Did he stop? Do you think that was great? Well, tragedy happened But he knew that being an all-star wasn't going to be the end for him because he wanted to be amongst the great And he wanted to fucking win a championship I oh being an all-star is great, but you know what? I want to be a fucking champion I'm not going to settle for be most of y'all settle He said no, I want to be the best of the fucking best I wouldn't win a championship because I know what the fuck I want I know who the fuck I am and no one can tell me different But was he satisfied even winning that? No Because he had his sights settled something and like I said because of tragedy he would have got there and that's the hall of fame I want to be the top of the top But remember he started with just a thought of trying to just get his fucking foot in the door And once he got himself in the door, he asked himself what am I going to do next To make myself better to make myself greater and I'm going to push myself where everybody wanted to probably do the drugs Fuck with women go home lazy and all this other shit. He said fuck them I am my own person. I'll work on myself Nobody can tell me different because my strive is to be the best the game has to offer And so when we think hall of fame, yeah, we think about Michael Jordan But we also think about Kobe Bryant You see guys Yeah, this is me. I think in about 40 years of some shit You got to learn that as a man You got to learn how to evolve every day You must evolve every fucking day And that's what we're going to be talking about right now You have got to realize That if you are not constantly growing you're dying it's death men evolve You see When you evolve you just don't take a drop of information and make it truth It's a drop of gas in your car to push you a little bit further It's that little bit of water you need to go beyond the point where you think you can't go on anymore When you want to evolve You see for a lot of you guys you or what I call find time guys find time guys And what a fine time is you'll never find the time to do the things that matter most You rather sit on your ass watch youtube videos Sit on your ass make excuses wait for the next youtube show to come on Sit on your ass watch tv. Hell i'm gonna play video games, but hey, at least I ride my bike five miles a day Motherfucker, so I'm saying the same thing. I play video games, but I don't sit on my ass. I do something But when you're a fine time person You guess what? You have to learn That if that you've got to be a make time motherfucker You see if y'all know anything about me people hate me because they're like damn steve Why are you so mean to me? Why are you always cussing me out steve? Why I mean oh steve Can't you can't you just talk to me even simply no Because my mother fucking daddy ain't do that shit Let me fuck up on a bike You better not cry i'ma give you something to cry about motherfucker Matter of fact my mentor that got me in the game talked to me worse Called me all kinds of bitches told me I wasn't shit But he toughened my ass up he showed me that guess what out that goddamn door They don't give a fuck about any of us out there. Don't care about you Don't give a fuck what you think fuck your thoughts You think your thoughts matter fuck no, they don't matter They should matter to you though Because that's your compass to fight what is out there gentlemen But you find the time to listen to guys All the time Well, you gotta be my child for women man. Hey, man. I just can't believe that women fucked me over Man, I just can't believe that she was sucking his dick when I walked in there I just didn't understand why why is that happening? You man guys y'all y'all gotta be careful Y'all gotta worry man. Oh my god. Yeah, she's gonna suck somebody's dick Or she's for the streets and she's this and she's that and and don't fuck nobody and don't put your dick in her mouth Because if you do my god, you don't know you get germs and germs are bad and germs I mean all this shit they try to y'all get caught up in the feeling of mom Because you taking the umbilical cord out and you put it in mom You put it in the youtuber because she because the youtuber made you feel not that he was mom But it gave you the feeling that someone's here to protect you Let's keep going. I'm sorry. Here we go Find the time to be a victim Oh, here you go time to remember the people bitch. Okay Yeah, you find the time to cry victim Find a time you never ever want to grow See it's easy when you want to go down to current because there's no pain. There's no anguish. Everything's great. Everything's fun. Everything's relaxing But the problem is when you listen to these motherfuckers you don't listen to them for a day Or maybe a few hours and he's gone and then you're left by yourself And then you get frustrated because nobody's telling you how to navigate your life You get frustrated So then when you get mad you want to go to someone that gives you comfort instead of someone saying it's your fucking fault I can't blame women for Guys, I wish I could blame these bitches for shit. I I wish I could blame them. I want to blame I always try to find something to blame these bitches for but as a man You treat it you teach people how to treat you So if you're with a woman and she pulls your punk card Can I blame her for you being treated that way? Can I blame her for walking all over you? I came I'm dude. I'm trying to be right now. I'm trying to think a way. I can blame a bitch can't do it Wish I could cannot do it You find the time to do everything in this fucking world except work on yourself Except go out there and navigate your world and learn it's okay to get your ass knocked down Oh, man, guys, y'all don't know how good if guys You don't even know the you don't even understand the feeling when you see a motherfucking woman from I don't give yonder Where the fuck the bitch is I just say yonder and shit and you look at her And you say to yourself, you know what? I bet I can get that bitch to suck my dick and probably what maybe three text messages One hello and a partridge in the pear tree I bet you I get that bitch to suck my dick. I bet on me You want to know why because I know what I bring to the motherfucking table Do you know what you bring to the table? Do you know what you can do with the woman? That's why I always tell you man Game is I can always tell my guys on my show Why don't you have wine above your bed? motherfuckers look at me like See what the fuck would have wine above my bed because I want that fucking woman to see the wine above the bed So she can ask me why the wine's above my bed So I can tell her as when I have women over my house I'm too lazy to go in the kitchen So I just got the wine right here because I got too much pussy in my bedroom And then I'll give her another one. You know what? It's nothing like pouring that wine over the glass a little bit so I can pour on your body So I can taste it off your body to see if there's a difference between the wine on your body Then the glass motherfucker that's yak That's flavor right there. That's the shit that makes her pussy ting a little bit instead of the Well, what do you do for a living and when was your last boyfriend and what are you up to? Man, I don't want to hear that shit Saddest part of my day, man is at 11 59. There's ever a sad part. I'll get y'all know I'm a cowboy fan So I've been through some shit. So fuck y'all first off But the saddest part of my day is 11 59 Because at 11, not really 11 59 because I don't go to bed 11 59 But 11 59 is when I have to let myself go I fall in love with me From the from when it when the moment my eyes open up It's like Christmas all over because I get to meet the brand new me and I I fall in love with me I become infatuated with me and I stalk me. I man, it's just so great. I just follow me around so much because I'm not who I was yesterday So when 11 59 hits, I'm so caught up in me I know I got to let him go I can't be the same motherfucker, man It's not in me to be the same motherfucker And it's it's the hardest thing to do But I got to let that motherfucker go So that is if there's a sad part in me and I get emotional It's when I got to let the best part of me go Because I know tomorrow I'm going to be a better me than I was yesterday gentlemen See as a man, I don't excuse me go back here. All the way we go right right here you go You have got to set what I call laws rules codes principles vision statements legacy statements mission statements on your fucking self And these are non Negotiable that once you created you can't sit there and say well, can we change the contract fuck? No, this ain't football I'm a drama free man. That's non negotiable. If you bring drama into my life, you're gone If you raise your voice, you're gone If you question my authority, you're gone. If you withhold sex You're gonna matter of fact the bitch has got to do a lot to stay because I won I'm trying to kick these motherfuckers out of my life You want to know why because I got non negotiable standards that I've hold to myself Because I know what my name is And it's her luck to be with me Shit, hey, you you ain't special I can fuck a million one million women like you in any shape color size But you'll never find a motherfucker like me. So if you want to go take your ass on goodbye Well, I don't want to go. I'm sorry. I just wanted to work things out. That's how they are You've got to create non and no negotiable standards That means when you see something you like you go after it gentlemen You don't sit a fuck around and make a bunch of excuses to which should I what should I say? What should I do? You get up off your lazy ass Because that's a non negotiable and go after what you want and accept What comes your way? It doesn't make you a loser For her saying no to you what makes you a loser is you not doing anything at all. That's what makes you a fucking loser This is part of This is like if you peel back my cake ass This is it right here. This is this is what I am right there Everything I say everything I do How I talk text if I put that bitch on a dove and throw it towards the bitch If I do a smoke signal, I don't give a fuck what it is This is what I am right here Any and everything I do I own it I stand by it I'll fucking fight for it. I know why I'm doing it And I'll be willing to walk away from a woman because of it That is what a standard is about Because it's it's mine I don't have to change myself for you. Fuck you But that's what they want you to do because they know that you will do it because all you want to do is fuck She can't change me She can't make me do anything. I don't want to do because I own me Every move I'm even if I want a bowl of cereal motherfuckers. I know why I'm doing that shit. You can't tell me different So why do you think a woman's any special? She ain't special So when I say a lot of you guys you talk to women y'all say shit Y'all just throwing shit up on the wall trying to get something to stick I'm trying to move her to getting on her goddamn knees and paying homage to my dick. That's the fuck I'm trying to do gentlemen You have to understand man when you're following the crowd and the drop of water There's two different kinds of thoughts that you're going to have That's different from what a man has and how a man feels Gentlemen, I know again, this is not me blowing smoke up your ass, but you guys have me and you and I got you I don't I'm not I don't have me and you but as men What you hear on stage right now? You've got this It's inside of you But here's the thing man You see when you're following the crowd You're always going to expect certain outcomes You're always going to be looking for relationships. You don't look for women I want to go out there look for sex and shit like that. No, man As a man, I go out to do what I want to do. Let's say if I'm getting some cereal and shit I'm going to get some cereal. That's all I'm thinking about now if a woman so happened to get my view I'm a bite of motherfucking neck and take up the tree But not only by her neck and take up the tree my first text message to her is the story Of how I met her Shit when I was a little kid, I love fruity pebbles because I used to have toy prizes in there You know, and I love eating that shit. So, you know, today I was out of fruity pebbles I decided to give me some fucking fruity pebbles and as I was walking I saw your ass sitting over there And I had to make a choice Do I want fruity pebbles or do I want to bite this woman's neck and take her up the tree? I will tell her that shit because that's the truth because I will own that shit Back that up stand by it I'll tell her why and I'll die for that because I know I'm adamant because I know me I don't need a lie to women for I don't need to lie. You don't need to lie to women You need to be 1 000 percent you and tell them what the fuck the deal is Same thing that happens. Okay When you're going for somebody else's drop of water you're following other people's definition of manhood You're letting other people tell you purpose female nature hypergmy. You don't believe me. Just go on youtube and look You'll see people changing their names till whatever the person tells them to change their name to You'll see a lot of that but you see about a man. I define me Now listen now say this with love I love y'all, but I don't give a fuck about y'all like that. I care about me. I'm selfish. I'm conceited I'm arrogant I'm I'm egotistical because I love the fuck out of me. I got time to worry about you. I'm too busy worrying about me I'm too busy trying to navigate my motherfucking life. I got time to hold your hand now I'll push you in a certain direction, but if you don't want to go fuck by That's how the world works because nature works that way nature doesn't tweet facebook or anything like that They're like fuck you if you ain't damn fuck you and for a lot of people out there. Y'all don't even understand nature. See uh, uh Y'all will have relationships. Y'all will get pussy. I'm not saying that But even in nature zebra's an alpha You put it when a zebra is in amongst other zebras There has to be a top zebra right because he's the one fucking all the zebra bitches and shit You know, there's one zebra. You think he's a bad motherfucker on the block Put a line next to that bad motherfucker. See what you become So don't think because you're getting some pussy you're doing something because as a man you must define your own success Look at these guys out here using using money and success to say is manhood Money and success ain't manhood. That's what the fuck you do. That's not who you are You're supposed to be responsible motherfuckers. You're supposed to want success You're supposed to want to heart you want to make money that doesn't make you a fucking man But that's what they push to you motherfuckers. Ah, get your money ride get your body ride. It'll be successful No, let me tell you something. I stand on my non-negotiable standards. I might not have shit, but I got me Because when I was a whore in a slut hamburger helper Uh cereal and ramen noodles Had to take two buses to work Because I was trying to save gas Didn't have the nicest clothes or anything, but you know what when I got out of work I had that fucking BMW pull up Where she gave me the keys. I got in the car and I was driving his shit I'm just being honest with you. So you can go for that money. Shit all you want But I just want to say thank you for letting me drive in your car and shit Can we get to the next slide wait that you slide it over one? Y'all have to wake up man. I'm trying to wake you motherfuckers up Trying to show you that you can be better than who you are Now let me continue as we while we're waiting Not still up still trying to work it What I'm saying to you guys out here is that It's okay to be the bad guy It's okay to not be I don't want you guys I don't want a woman to like me more or less. I don't want you fucking guys are like I don't want to be your fucking friend. You're my competition Now I will give most y'all fruit basket because there ain't nothing like fucking your woman while you're sitting there doing like Whatever she tells you to do because motherfuckers out there. It's a cruel world man. It's a cruel world people don't care man People want what they want But unfortunately for the people that you listen to what they want is your loyalty mentally They want to lock you into a system and a thought of what they think the game is all about. Let's see is this working? Okay, here you go You got the nine and ghost will say look See most guys going to run away from their fears escape the unknown When you follow another people but as a man you'll face your fears And then when you get your ass knocked down, it ain't nothing like laying down dusting yourself off and saying motherfucker Is that all you got that's all you got for me. Give me some more Okay, a lot of guys out there when they don't when they have that drop award and follow another people What they will do is they fail they'll give the fuck up men No, we're willing to fail a million times to learn what we are And in closing this because I want to do 10 minutes if you have any questions But what I'm saying is start to seek yourself and clarify your name Your name man You don't know how important your name is everything Your name is everything Clarify who you are to you first before you clarify to other motherfuckers That's your problem You don't know who you are because you've been listening to people That's been declawing you and defaming you all the time man Evolve learn what you do stay in your lane learn your qualities of what makes you you That's success This shit ain't about women fuck them bitches man. Can y'all give me one. Can I get a fuck them bitches from y'all? Get some nuts drop let your nuts drop for a second. Can I get it one more time? God damn it dude. Come on man. I'm trying to get y'all right evolve to lead from within yourself You be your guiding your your compass You'll be the guiding thing that gets you where you want to go Don't let somebody define your success for you because if you let someone define Your success by what you think they are then you're just being them. You're being second best You've got to be the one thing in your life that is better than everybody even if you fail Because I love failure I sleep with rejection and failure matter of fact they right behind you can't see the motherfuckers But they roll with me all the time rejection failure excuses blame pour me they with me all day every day But you know what they shut their ass up when I get some pussy though. They're like, oh shit. He know what he's doing, man Listen always communicate who you are not just to people but to yourself Once you begin to communicate who you are and as you become evolve as a man You will become untouchable because the secret of the krabby. I always called the krabby patty sauce because I'm like I love spongebob, you know square work, but don't judge me fuck y'all But the secret of the krabby patty motherfucking sauce is that She doesn't have a playbook on you Because you're authentic She shouldn't know who you are when she meets you You will be a brand new out of the box book because she's never met you before When you go down that journey by yourself gentlemen Generate your own vision Be the man that you want to be Don't be the man that they want you to be Because they will always do everything they can to take you away from not only your manhood, but also your greatness. Okay guys Now listen, please do your homework. Don't fucking believe me. You don't know me See it for your fucking selves Go to the manmindset.com You go there I got nothing but receipts of bitches from my clients. You get to hear the women Say how much they want to fucking the clients But fuck that go there and go all the way down to the bottom And in the three videos at the bottom You get to see me live on the air Using my mouthpiece and I type the other one make it a woman play the pussy live on the air and come Give the pussy up to a client live on the air You want to know why because i'm a bad motherfucker But guess what you can't be too when you believe in your motherfucking cells Now thank you if you got any questions fuck with your boy Questions any questions? Anybody got questions get your ass up there and holler at your boy get over there, man And let me tell y'all something You're already losing right now because a lot of y'all got some fucked up issues Get up off your fucking ass and ask some questions because when this is over with i'm gone Just let you know. What's up fam? I can help you so when you uh dating a girl and For example, she's not doing everything the way that you want or she's not playing by your rules Like I put them on time out, but then do you just you know continue just to keep adding new ones to the stable? Well, I well you gotta have a roster. See I I like a roster of least five to ten I like to have a a dinner chick. Uh, but I want dinner she cooked dinner. I like a breakfast one a lunch one Uh, I like one that does massages. I like one that just chills out chill out chick And uh, I think there's one more I'd like to have Uh, uh, no, no, maybe a combination But no if if a woman Gives you any kind of problem You check the fucking behavior But don't check it you let her ask know what the repercussions are if it happens again I don't need you you need me more than I need you So you can continue this behavior all you want But guess what I'm gonna do the one thing that a lot of y'all has never done before I'm gonna take my dick right off that table. You don't get no dick. You don't get any of my time I'll put my time in another woman so either you're gonna change your fucking behavior Or get your ass out my door. I'll call somebody as you're walking out And then if they you know, you took some time away from them Like how do you let them back in do you just well? That's a judgment call because it's based on the disrespect That's where the man. That's where you come in at you got to know what your disrespect is Now if you're raising your voice and hang up on me, I'll let you grovel But your grovel you can come over and maybe suck my dick And then I'll send you back out and I'll I'll think about it based on how good your mouth skills are But if you're doing anything on a high just because I got no tolerance I don't have high tolerance low tolerance. I have no tolerance I don't put up with shit because I know my value my worst So what I'm saying is it's got to be up to you. What is your See, I love the question, but this is a lesson in the question gentlemen See the regular guy would say, oh, let me do my tap dance. It's hot pergamy. Oh, it's female nature Oh, it's your purpose and it's not it's not uh, you're far and do that song and dance jive bullshit No, motherfucker, you need to know who you are. You need to know what you want I'm just putting weapons on your table What I'm just saying for you is know what disrespect is to you and know what the repercussions are Own it stand by it Defend that shit know why and be able and willing to walk away for it Who's up next get your ass over there Let's eat. I ain't got much time. I got six minutes. What's going on? Now I want you guys to think listen if you ain't getting up you see why you're losing I'm telling y'all right now. Y'all sit y'all ask what y'all want, but I'm just showing y'all for me. Shit. I'm asking questions. What's up, man? What's going on, Steve? I watch you on the six a lot with Donovan Sharpe and stuff. I think uh, I love all your content So, uh, I just want to ask like right now just the biggest question Like where do you get most of your prospects now with like COVID? Like how do you be bagging? Well, it's easy because you got them all willed in and online You all like tender and stuff. No, you yeah, you just take you you can fish online now May they're all on online See the problem is most of you guys think that Talking to them at a bar is different than talking to them online. Remember you're the one constant in everything So it doesn't mean if she's online when you're online. Look, I'm gonna give you something real quick Go in those Facebook groups and just start posting shit, right? Post things that are funny But I tell you this make sure you delete all that women hating shit because they ain't gonna fuck with you Because they're gonna do that. I don't have any of that. Yeah, yeah, me. Yeah, yeah, right So go ahead post you know something there and then when the women are gonna like it And some women are gonna reply to it When they do that that means in that moment they're thinking about you and you'll get the notification That's when you could click on a dm with no dick pics guys Hit them on the dm and ask them. Well, you know, I want you to elaborate on your thought or why you like what I said Allow me to introduce myself. My name is steve. How you doing and the reason why I'm talking to you is what remember Remember the song head shoulders knees and toes knees and toes y'all don't fucking remember that shit You go shoulders up Your eyes caught me your smile caught my attention And I you know and the reason I'm over here is because I want to get to know you in a more intimate way That's saying I want to fuck you without saying I want to fuck you because I want her to say well, wait a second So what you just want to have sex with me? Baby, let me explain to you what intimacy is Intimacy is a hug a kiss a touch a look and right now we're in an intimate moment right now So yes, I want to get to know your intimacy and you can do that anywhere. All right. Thank you No, thank you who the fuck is up next. Come on. Yeah, you'll get your ass over there. Let's go Let's eat. Me ain't got much time But see this is how this hot a game is you got to you got to move boom boom boom. What's going on, brother I mean, it's good. Appreciate you being here. I appreciate you Question for guys who are in longer term relationships. I know you have one going as well. Yes over time It can get harder to check certain behaviors, especially like when they get kids involved stuff like that How do you do that and how do you manage it? Okay? No, it's not because I'm the one constant I am the rule. I am the law. I am the code only thing that's going to change if I change it Remember ironclad. I don't care if it's the first time we met. I don't care if it's 10 20 30 years I am the standard of my household Regardless of kids and either you're going to follow the plan and allow me to lead you Or there's the door because you got to be willing to walk away I'm just being honest with you because I'm not going to let a woman walk over me and try to tell me What the fuck I should be doing Look, I'm doing it because I know me and I know the world and I know how to protect you and guide my family name Because my name is that important, sir All right, next up. What's up big dog Steve hello. Thank you. What are some of your favorite opening lines? Hi, excuse me See, okay. I've got three minutes. Think about this women are always doing something. This is my approach boot camp See the first thing I always tell people because I'm I'm different in real and shit I always tell you go get when you when you get a chance today or whenever you get home go buy a puzzle box Okay, go buy a 100 piece puzzle box. See nobody tells you this kind of shit about the lace y'all bitches or some shit Get a hundred piece puzzle box throw the box away Throw the throw the top of the box away and begin the process of building the borders and work outside in So you begin to communicate with yourself And you know what your best lines is once you communicate with yourself. That's what we call standing on your square See from this team, they don't teach you about standing on your square on these goofy ass youtube But that means whatever I create that's where i'm riding on But the reason I say excuse me is because i'm interrupting her day That's my pickup line. I say excuse me because I know you've got shit to do So i'm not going to be here long. I get your name or how you're doing my name is Steve And your name is and you tell me your name and I just tell you what the reason why I came over here It's it's it truth truth truth truth truth. That's all i'm doing clear concise Transparent and impactful. I'm telling you why I'm coming over here And i'm telling you what I want to do and you're gonna call my motherfucking ass. Here's my number Don't be taking no numbers from no goddamn women unless you offer yours first Call me Because I came down from the land of ass and titties took the form of man to fucking give you a chance and opportunity For you to tell your goddamn grandkids that you met a motherfucking man You'll be able to say oh, oh, well, you know it's the year of year 2020 and I met this man and He just he just made my pussy wet and yeah, that's that's how I feel What's so funny? I want to laugh too motherfucking. I'm serious Yeah So you're good. That's good. All right. We ain't got one minute two minutes to go. Who's up next come on man Who needs help gets your ass up man? This is what we're talking about get up Don't be afraid Learn you don't be afraid because while you're sitting down. Just looking at me. You're still the same person Take this information and get it in it encoded. See that's what I'm talking about. Talk to me, brother All right, brother. Hey, so good to finally meet you man. Watch all your youtube Got the birthday package You know i'm saying but yeah, I guess a quick question would be how do we how do we uh Uh Like take off like just just being nice man. Just just this is a nice guy. I'm a nice guy. I'm a I'm a nerd I'm a geek, but I know I'm I'm a nerdy, but I'm a truckie. I love star trek. I told you I watch I'm shared a fuck y'all. I'm so I watch spot-by-square pants All right, I'm a I'm a big kid. I play video games. I love ice cream But don't take my kindness for weakness because I got a standard I see what I do is not me I am me because I know how to say no because I will walk the fuck away you You can be you but you just got to learn who you are You got to get away from the poisonous people that are telling you you're not good enough Or blaming women for every fucking thing that goes in your life, man. You can't do that, man So my my time is up But in closing I just want to say this man look Stop looking out the window, okay Because when you look out the window and you don't believe me do this shit because I always say don't believe me Look out the window. You'll see a light version of yourself But who's ever on the other side of that window will see you for what the fuck you are It's time for you to start looking in the mirror Start loving yourselves and being the fucking men that I know every motherfucking one you can't be And last thing I want to say if you take what I say and you are fucking Just when you got a bent over just take a moment and look up in the air and say steve This is for you. Just better ask one time for me. Thank you guys. Thank you