 There's only one way to really destroy your life if you're You know if you hate it if you just don't like what the fuck you have in your life and That's about a building up massive massive discontent Sorry by the way for the noise is going to get a lot less loud in moments What do we mean by discontent you know that feeling in your gut It just tells you that shit is not right that you you hate something about your life and You try to suppress it basically you try to hide it Maybe you live for other people, you know like oh, I'm not sure I want to do this for me Oh, but what will my mom think what will my dad think? Oh, I don't know. I don't know and you're just in this constant half-stepping Thing of not really living for yourself, but not really living for others as well because again if you live to serve others That's amazing. That's noble, but you're not doing that. You're like in this horrible place where you're not doing both so I get a lot of people like this who who contact me who are Extremely unhappy by the way this looks like Vegas Who are extremely unhappy about their life? but they're not changing it and Anytime somebody contacts me the first question I ask myself is How much discontent does this person have because I know that the bad person's capacity to change is made up of their discontent and their inspiration So if I can inspire somebody enough He'll take action. Like if it sounds amazing enough But most people what they usually need is not inspiration. It's discontent. It's to feel bad it's to hate their life and You know society and everybody they try to take you away from it Because they don't want to see you drown Because the only reason this shit show is Going is happening is because you're keeping it afloat not just you but like everybody you're keeping it afloat What does that was what that means is? We're all in quicksand. We're all in water. We're all drowning but Because we're constantly doing like this like oh no, oh no, you know, oh the bills I need to take care of the bills and oh my friend. What happened to my friend and my ambitions my ambitions and We're always peddling Then we always kind of stay just a bit afloat and some people just stay up to here And they fucking hate it like they fucking hate their life and I know that because I've been that guy many times and And you have that feeling of discontent you have that feeling of Hating who you are and hating everything about your life. Maybe secretly and you'd look for Stimulations to help you forget about it all these things that stimulate you, you know, like watching YouTube playing video games Alcohol drugs anything you can escape your life with and You'll notice this is something amazing I noticed that if you stop Trying to be a nice member of society, you know If you're a little teeny job and you're a polite shit and everything What happens is you start drowning because you're not putting any more energy Into animating this This thing that's happening. You're not putting any more energy into it. Oh That's a beautiful scene So tall So yeah, you're not you're not putting any more energy into it and then what happens is you start to drown and You notice that people don't let you drown Like you can try like I'm not swimming anymore. I'm not making money anymore people like no no here's money Here's money, you know, maybe it's your mom. Maybe it's your friends. Maybe it's the government But it's like no no no here take money take money. No no no you can't drown you can't drown But like I'm not gonna do this. I'm not gonna do like nobody's gonna let you fucking drown people Look at this view So bad, it's not as beautiful as it looks from here So yeah, nobody will let you drown nobody will let you go down And die, you know What looks to them like dying but the reason people will put so much energy Into helping you and making sure that you don't drown is Because they're scared of drowning because for them When a guy or girl like stops being motivated and stops doing the society thing, you know Just pay your bills do this be a good citizen when somebody stops doing that. It's like jail You know outcast misfit homeless and And it's so scary. Everybody's so scared. They're not gonna let you fall So you have to build That this content you have to really just build it in yourself by by by paying as much attention to how much you hate things as Possible you have to Stop avoiding it and actually face it the more time you spend alone By the way the better and when I say alone, I mean without your phone I mean actually sitting and being with yourself the more you can feel that feeling in your stomach the stronger It's gonna grow Now why do you have that feeling? Why do you have that feeling of discontent? the reason you have it is because you It's I call this made a video about it is I call it the difference between content thinking and structural thinking so content thinking is Is oh, I hate my apartment structural thinking is Who said I have to live in this apartment? Says thinking outside the box. It's moving changing the box itself rather than the content So this is applying structural thinking to your entire life. It's like I hate my life I hate my life. Okay. Who said your life has to be this way, but in order to change it You have to first, you know kind of start metal with it meddling maybe destroying it. So it's fucking scary So what's happening is, you know, you just want to imagine How much energy, you know, what's the sheer amount of energy that's going to be required in order to make And strong enough boom, you know strong enough blast To basically pull your life apart to completely fuck up your life Okay, so just ask yourself how much energy will be required to take everything I know and love about my life and You know, it's not something you do in step by step. It's boom like just make one move Destroy it all so I can rebuild it the way I want it and That's the energy will take The energy you think it will take that's how much it will take and that's the reason your discontent is building up because You're not gonna fuck up your life like that because of something positive The only reason you will fuck up your life like that is because you can't take it anymore It's so bad that you don't care You're like, you're like, I hate everything. I don't even enjoy anything. I do anymore So there's not there's not even anything to risk because everything is just bad I can't even get enjoyment from it anymore And when you reach that point where you're dissentercised to everything You're that that's the point where you're going to take action to change it most people it takes them 50 fucking years to do that literally like, you know, this is the midlife crisis and And you know, it's just sad. I mean first time I did was like 19 Probably younger Now that I'm like bragging but you know, you see the results like when you do that at such a young age You get an amazing chance because you can keep doing it because now the next time you don't like your life You can basically destroy it again and feel good about it because You already did this like you already done this before you already destroyed your life Before so, you know how it looks so So when you get that feeling of discontent again You're like, oh, yeah, well, I've been in that story. I know how it fucking ends So, you know might as well do it now and I'll wait until I hate everything and I'll just leave you with one last Point in this video and the point that I want to leave you with is a simple Question and it was put by Immanuel Kant He's a famous philosopher from I think the 1800s and What he says is that the first question any person should ask himself the most pivotal Honest question anybody should ask himself is Should I kill myself? Should I commit suicide? And the reason is that life is inherently meaningless. There's no Point to life So the very first question you should ask yourself if you're going to engage so many years in something that's completely meaningless is Why even play at all? and You know, I talked to a guy just an hour ago and he said oh because My mom and dad are important to me and you know, my family would feel so bad if I killed myself So I explained to him let that When you said these Goals based on what other people will think Based on like oh, I want to prevent you know prevent them from feeling bad Like if why why are you alive because if I kill myself? They will feel bad That's a bad motivation. That's not not even the right motivation. So the real question is Assuming Nothing matters assuming you have nothing to lose anyway What's the reason for you not to kill yourself? And you can also say I Don't know. I don't have a reason at the moment. I need to find it. That's good. That's a good answer but But you have to eventually find that answer because if you don't know, you know barring everything Let's say, you know fuck family fuck money fuck bitches like everything you could get and say that you just had you and there's nothing to gain Why would you? Live why do want to be alive? What's the point behind it? And when you can answer that question you can honestly live without fear because you face the devil You ask yourself like okay? There's nothing to live for nothing to risk. There's nothing to lose. I Still want to live and this is why and you can always go back to that goal And so there's nothing to be afraid of anymore I Hope this video helps you a lot I know this is a subject that many people are going through, you know Many people contact me for advice and you think I'm gonna tell them about how to find their life direction So I sometimes I go to the value based solution. I help them find the values but sometimes like people like the guy I just talked to you are Highly highly discontent. They just hate their life. It's not even about values values you do after your life changed because there's no point in finding your values before you have the The willingness to to change your life Because until then, you know, you could know your values first of all you couldn't know your values because Either way, you know, you're not even mature enough at the moment to know them But even if you did you wouldn't change anything so There's multiple stages in life and again, it starts without this content. That's like Turning into an adult and until you have that discontent where you question everything and just like bam destroy your life You're not even really an adult to some degree because you don't know what losing is, you know risk true risk is So again, hope this video helped you. 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