 And remember words can really kill the spirit, they even did an experiment with the flowers, so you know they brought two sets of flowers and they were talking to one set in a very nice way, you're so beautiful, I love you, I'm going to give you water, you're going to grow to blossom and the other one, you're such an ugly flower, you're never going to make it and this is exactly what happened to the flowers, even the flowers and the animals can actually be destroyed by our tongue, that's why Rasul Allah SAW said if you are a true believer people should feel safe around your tongue, your words, and around your hand, your actions.