 Welcome back to the 21 convention 2020 of Orlando, Florida being over the first time ever at the big and huge triple conference experience of 21 summit. Our next speaker is a huge youtuber even though he's brand new two years. He already has over 250,000, excuse me, 150,000 subscribers, which in two years is incredible, amazing. He's also the author of the evolution and free agent lifestyle and he was a woman's basketball coach college in high school for 16 years. Without further ado, please help me unite the coach gang by welcoming coach Greg Adams to the stage. Thank you brother. Thank you very much. I appreciate it. What's going on brothers? Now this is who's seen my YouTube channel so far? Okay, we've seen most of them. So in order to feel at home, I got to do my YouTube introduction. Okay. What's going on everybody? It is coach Greg Adams back in here at the 21 convention. Shout out to the coach gang for being in here, being involved and being active. Check out my two books, the evolution and the free agent lifestyle, the links in the description box below. That's how I get down. I always start everything off just like that. I appreciate you guys for coming here. Some of you guys being interested in what we're talking about. Obviously, men are reaching out to other men and they've been doing this for a few years, but this is my first opportunity to be in person outside of that computer screen, right? You guys are normally seeing me behind the computer screen talking about this stuff and most of the content is leaning heavy in relationship dynamics between men and women, right? This is why a lot of men are having problems. You don't have problems with your job necessarily. Most people know how to wake up, go to work. It's the dynamics between men and women and particularly the modern woman, right? The modern woman. Things are a little bit more complex in dealing with that. So as I'm talking, as I do on YouTube, I'm going to use some lingo that might not make sense to you unless you've been watching. There are words that I've come up with most of the time to beat YouTube censorship, algorithms and all of that stuff. So if you hear me say peace leave, everybody knows what I'm talking about there. There's an anatomical region in relationship to the woman that I have to say P dash sleeve. So if I say you get a couple pieces of peace leave, you guys know what we're talking about, right? What about more red flags than the Chinese parade? Okay, we're going to talk about particularly some people got more red flags than the Chinese parade and particularly sometimes the modern woman has these things, the Jazzy bell, the Jezebel related to the Bible. I'll talk about the spirit sometimes in the modern woman represented in the Jazzy bell spirit. And some of you guys encounter these women, you think they're normal, but it's the spirit behind them that you worship that might be causing you major problems, but we accept it as normal. Okay, monkey double back flips. Anybody heard me say that one before? That's that enthusiastic sexual experience that you usually get within the first six weeks of your relationship. Then it dissipates the minute you commit the minute you break down and goes away. Then you try to get it back. Okay, usually leads into some marital missionary. Everybody heard me talked about that. Okay, also the public school indoctrination camp. That is something that I talked about. And we'll talk about that that becomes important. All of these phrases become important because it all intertwines into the free agent lifestyle. So that's what we're talking about today. We're talking about the free agent lifestyle. I wrote a book about it. I have a channel dedicated to it. Obviously, there's an apparel line. Obviously, see that on the board right there, the free agent lifestyle is what I promote. Okay, so you guys aren't banging the 49ers. We already talked about that, right? People who perceive themselves as a nine on the marketplace value, but in reality, they're a busted Pillsbury biscuit can. All right, they really don't have a lot of value out there. All right, so these are some of the phrases that I want you to understand. These are what we're talking about here. Okay, so the first thing we want to talk about is, why do I call myself coach? Like, who is this guy? I know some people watching it like, oh, another coach, he named himself coach. All right, I've been called coach my entire adult life. Okay, I started coaching basketball after a failed junior college basketball experience. I didn't quite make it. I started coaching at my alma mater, women's basketball. Okay, women. And I spent the entirety of my adult 20s and 30s coaching women. Okay, traveling with them, being their mentor, being their father away from home, I got all the way to the division one level. Okay, you see me here with the group of women coaching. Believe that was at Utah State, but I coached at five division one universities. And one division two, I was the head coach. That was my career. I thought I was going to do that forever. Well, you take a bad job, you do a bad job, you find something else to do. Okay, but what you have to understand is, in the context of dynamics and understanding the dynamics between men and women, some people don't understand, I spent all of my life with women. Okay, and I spent it in a time or in a place where most guys don't get it. You guys don't get to hear what I saw. Okay, or hear what I heard, see what I saw, see them in a light that is different from how they want you to worship them. And there's people that want you to worship them, that spirit. I traveled with them, airports, hotels, locker room, I heard everything. And people would be like, oh, you don't know women, not all women are like that. And I'm like, yeah, a lot of them are. A lot of them aren't looking out for you. A lot of them trying to get over on you. And I try to tell you that based on some of the experiences. So by the time I was, I think I was 19 when I started coaching. That was high school. By the time I got to college, I was 23. First division one university program. I think it was Cal State Northridge. Okay, then I moved on to Southern University. Then I was a top assistant at San Jose State. Okay. And then I think I went back to a high school, then I went to be the assistant head coach at Stony Brook University in New York. Okay. And my job, literally, how I got paid, why people kept hiring me, was to get on the phone and talk to girls aged 16, 17, 18, 19, and sell them my university, whoever I was working for. So I spent night after night talking to them. The reason why they wanted to talk to me wasn't because of me. You think they waited on the phone call and said, I can't wait to talk to Coach Greg Adams? No, it wasn't that. It was because I had value. I had something they wanted. So they waited by the phone, they called me, contacted them. And my job was to sell them university, sell them an experience. And then once they got there, then I was direct manager of those personalities. I had to convince them, learn them, convince them to run through the wall for me in a timely manner. I had to learn how they would manipulate me. They're going to use words to manipulate me. I'm going to learn those and then be able to have authority over them enough to be able to manipulate them, run through this wall for a free college education. Okay. And we had that relationship and I had that relationship for 16 years. Okay. Do you think I took anything home from that experience? Do you think that's important? Pretty important. Okay. So that led to a lot of this stuff. This is before the beard. This is after the beard, right? So a lot of my relationships have been with women, traveling with them, adult women, the coaches. Okay. I was always on the road with them, always in council with them, always can see them. And I'm a type of person that can read people very well. Okay. That's why they call me coach. So a lot of coaches are named coach. This has been a name that's been with me for a long term, long term. Well, those experiences pretty much with the biggest red pill. Everybody heard of the red pill? Okay. Red pill, blue pill. These experience became some of the biggest red pills in my life because I had to basically demystify what people would worship. We would go through our airport and they would be like, you must be the luckiest man alive. Look at you and all these women. And I would tell them, I'll trade places with you anytime, any day of the damn week. All right. It's not a fun experience because you're getting to see a side of them that normally not a lot of people do. So it was a great red pill. Ultimately, I left that profession and then I started doing fitness training. So I went to Newport Beach, California, started doing fitness training. Of course, most of my clients women. Okay. So I'm learning exactly what I applied coaching, recruiting, providing value. Then I'm introduced to more women. People come to my channel. You don't know what you're talking about. And I'm like, yes, I do. All right. I spend a lot of time with women. Not to say that I didn't like the time. These people are good. Okay. They're good at what they do. But what happens is this, it allows me to create patterns of behavior to make me draw conclusions about people. Now I can't do it 100%. Some people call me coach to Domus as a nickname on Instagram, because I can predict things. And the way I predict them is I don't use the whole strategy. I basically say, Oh yeah, they're doing this. So this is about to happen. All right. Most people say, Oh, I wish it doesn't happen. Or I hope it doesn't happen. Oh, people aren't that. And I go, No, that's about that. That's about to go down. Okay. Because I accept the pattern of the human behavior. So what I eventually will do is apply all of these patterns of human behavior into content. Okay. So that's my background on the coaching personally, personally for me. This is just an introduction. Okay, raised by a single mother. I was a statistic. I beat the odds. Most people who are raised by single mothers don't beat the odds. They become a statistic on the opposite side. I'm the anomaly. I actually found my way out of that path, but she's a great mom. Very much the strong and independent model work for Fortune 500 top companies. Very corporate. She raised me to do right, but she focused on the work. My dad was around. I knew who he was. We didn't have a very close relationship in terms of me being him being there every day. But we knew each other. We called each other. And then most of my teenage years were spent across coast from each other. So I didn't really have a lot of opportunity to spend with him or learn from him. Okay. But that led me into the next part of my life, which was an attempt at a marriage. Oh boy. A single mother raised boy who didn't have direct counsel with his father. It's going to get married. Now, let me tell you something. Do I have to even mention the divorce statistics out here? Do I even have to say it? I mean, we, I mean, look, I might have to say it for the people who are watching this, but we are well above 50%. I mean, well above. Most people can probably pull out data to say we're at 60. Second marriages in 70%. Talking about a third marriage. Oh, let me give this a try at third time. Damn near 80%. It's almost the damn near guarantee. So here I am, know nothing about family. Know nothing about anything. I'm going to get married in the idea of the modern world. So I gave it a try. We produce two beautiful children. I have two teenagers right now. So we got two kids out of it. However, the jazzy bell spirit will approach. Modern feminism will get in there. She will feel like mother is not enough. I need to contribute. That will interfere in your marriage. We don't know why things break up. Most of the time, if you, how many people have been married, by the way, raise your hand. Okay. You guys know what I'm talking about here. Anybody been divorced? Okay. We got 50%. Most of the time, when you go through the divorce system or she introduces you to the legal system, this will give you a big old red pill. You will go, Oh, I didn't realize the business contract of our relationship. And it wasn't with her. It was with the state. I said, Holy moly. So now I'm introduced to the legal system, cost me several tens of thousands of dollars to get my kids half the time of their life. And you don't really know why you get divorced. Like you get divorced. Like you try to figure it out. You really don't know till you drag each other through hell. Then you drag and drag and drag. You might find out five years later. Oh, that was why. And that's the reality of the modern marriage. Who wants to get married? Raise your hand. Okay. Some people are looking to find wives. Okay. Do you know that? That's right. So it was, we had the people who have been married and the people have been divorced and the people who want to get married or was that haven't been married in divorce. I just want you to understand that you have a lot of things that are working counter to you in your ability to be able to achieve that goal. If you were raised in a single mother household, the chances that view divorcing is damn near 80%. You don't know anything about family. You don't have an idea of what that is. The only idea you have is what the media and what women have sold you. The ability for a man to have the authority over his house, especially if he hasn't gone through what I call the free agent lifestyle. If you want to take on that task, you're going to have to be able to be the leader. The world doesn't want you to be the leader. Everybody doesn't, they don't want you to do that. They want you to do what she wants you to do. And by virtue of that, she is an agent of the state. She will literally make it difficult for you, but not because she doesn't love you. It's because she can. She can. Now that experience led me to make a YouTube channel. I said, I'm going to go out there and talk what the hell did I just go through? Okay. Now I've been listening to Elliot Hulse. I've been listening to a lot of red pill guys for two years sitting on my bed wondering what the hell just happened to me. I tried to be the good guy. Try to be a good husband. What the hell happened? So I said, I'm going to go on YouTube. I said, if I get 500 people, 5,000 people to listen to me, that'll be good. That was like my favorite YouTubers had them. Okay. That was September 2018. 100,000 subscribers later. I said, oh, these people want to know something. This is crazy. All right. I was just talking about what my experience was. Funny. A lot of other guys were experiencing the same thing. And I'm going, it's the pattern of human behavior. This is exactly what's going on here. Okay. Now in this idea, what's happening is this. Okay. Men are looking for direction. Well, I'm providing direction. I come up with these theories. This is the iceberg theory. Anybody ever see me talk about the iceberg theory? If you've been on my channel a long time, I've talked about this. See, what's going to happen is this. This is you right here. That's you, man. You believe she has your best interest at heart. I'm here to tell you, I've been around women a long time. They don't, they don't. And until you accept that, you cannot move forward until you accept that, what's going to happen is you're going to set yourself up for failure. In this iceberg theory, he is holding a rod, which I call on my channel, the baloney pony. Okay. That's a reference to your anatomy. Okay. You're going to go out there led by that rod and you're going to throw it out there hoping that you're going to find that one. I'm going to find her and she's going to be right by me. She ain't never going to leave me. And then you're going to apply all of these things you heard on the internet, masculine frame and all of this, all of this stuff, you know, to keep her. And the criteria for your selection is going to be what you see right here at the top. That's going to be your criteria. I'm going to see how old she is. I'm going to see how fine she is. Is she a dime? Does she got that wop? Whatever it is, that's going to be that. She got that wop, but I'm here to tell you that's just the surface. I've lived with women for a long time. I've traveled with them. That's the surface. What you don't see is a lot of what society has programmed into her. That is going to directly affect you and it's going to come down to everything that you're going to fight over. Should you become the statistics of more people leaving marriages than staying? What do you have to consider? Emotional intelligence, emotional stability? Does she have too much consumer debt? She going to spend all your money? Because some of you guys look for shortcuts. We're going to talk about that in a second. I'm going to just make some money and she's going to be with me. Dr. Dre, Jeff Bezos. How's that money working out for him? It ain't working out. They have to split with it, right? Does she spend all your money? Does she going to lose? She had too many sexual partners? She in student loan debt? You know 70% of the student loan debt is owned by women? How did that happen? Go to college. Make something of yourself. They got them. Sometimes the fool is just ready born every day. They got them. 70% of the student loan debt owned by women. What's the likelihood that you've been introduced to a woman and she got more degrees than a thermometer, she raved it right in front of your face and she worked a job at human resources. She got debt. Investigated. She probably didn't even finish her degree. She got debt. Okay? See, this is the stuff you don't see and the other stuff you don't see is right here, the shark. See, you don't throw your baloney pony out there in the sea hoping, wishing, thinking I got whatever it is to get her. Oh, it's going to make me immune to all the BS. There's the shark waiting for you. What is it? Society, the expectations. She's the victim 100% of the time. Okay, 98.9% of the time. She's always going to be the victim, no matter what you do. You start yelling at her, you do whatever you need to do. She's going to be the victim. Just know that. She's always going to come out of your marriage, your relationship smelling like roses. You, not so. Just know that. And knowing is not enough. You have to accept it, right? What about this? The government, you want to get married. Where's my guys that said they want to get married? You know who you're marrying? The government. Not marrying her. You're going to marry a state and they're going to give you a piece of paper, a marriage license, with a whole bunch of family law codes you're not going to be introduced to until she's ready to introduce them to you. And then you'll learn them. Holy moly. I didn't think I was going to have to do all of that. Yep. That's what you just agreed to. But you have a piece of paper, right? You're going to be introduced to people walking around with the itchy scratchy as I call it on my show. 25% of women walking around with boils in between their legs. Okay? That's a statistic. Okay? For you cold approach gamers. Okay? Pregnancy. What if I knock her up? All it takes is one to get loose, slip up. All it takes is one. And she got 18 years of your child support money and the ability to move that kid all across the damn county, all across the damn state. You agreed to that when you lie down to her. That's the shark. And then marriage, of course, with the statistics so ridiculous. This is what I talk about here on my channel. Okay? Also talk about this. And it's a little bit blurry. This is patterns of human behavior. I know a lot of divorced people. I know some married, I know a lot of married people. I know a lot of unhappily married people. You talk about the divorce rate, 60%. What about the people that are stuck together? They don't want to leave. They can't afford a divorce. They can't get divorced because of religion. They're too old to get divorced. All right? There's a whole bunch of things that are happening here. So I created this marriage wheel and said, this is what's going to happen in your marriage. Okay? From step one to step zero. Okay? Right to the end. You're going to connect with her. Y'all going to be all love you, W. Oh, that's my baby. That's my boo. Then eventually you'll say, let's stay together forever. It'll be great. Listen, if you can find this and do it, more power to you. Okay? But in today's world, it's going to be difficult. Then I'll tell you, eventually you're going to have to invest in this. She's going to want a house. It's going to be the car, kids. A lot of things are going to come along from it. You're going to spend money. While you're doing this, she's good. She's riding, buying time right now. Okay? She's like, oh, he's investing in this. I'm going to just sit this out. Okay? I'm going to do whatever you need to do. By the time you've got fully invested, you get to the stage of what I call the bait and switch. At that particular point, once you're invested, she can do whatever the hell she want to do. Well, whatever you said I was supposed to be doing, I don't want to do it no more. Now you can't go to your family court office to say, you know what? She's not giving me any, she's not doing any more monkey double backflips on me anymore. Can you make her give me sex? Nope. She's spending all my money. Can you make her stop spending all my money? Nope. Okay. You have no authority. She can change her mind and change your world. Now, how many times is this happening in the country? Over and over and over again. How many people have been to the family courthouse, like the building in the courtroom? Okay. See, a lot of you guys, only three people raised their hand, by the way. A lot of you guys haven't even seen what people look like when they used to love each other. They used to, these people loved each other and now they're dragging them through hell. See, if you haven't seen it, you don't understand anything I'm talking about. This is why I wrote the books. We'll get to that. Okay. After the bait and switch, she's going to disengage from you. How many times is this happening? A lot. Over and over again, every day, and you don't even hear about it. The only time you guys hear about it is when Dr. Drake gets divorce rate. That's the only time you guys are paying attention. Oh man, it sucks to be him. That's how men deal with it. It'll never happen to me though. That's what I thought too. Okay. And then they have all of these reinforcements to make you cooperate. Family court, child support system, the family counseling, alimony, you lose your kid. They have all of these systems in place for them to make you, and listen, I'm not saying that they're wrong for it. What I'm saying is, the systems are in place already hedging their bets against your failure. It's almost guaranteed. It's almost guaranteed. Okay. Now, say for instance, you say, well, baby, don't take me to child support court. What have you now done? You've now been to your knee to her. She's in control. She has authority now. Now you didn't get divorced. You didn't become a statistic, but now she has authority. You're done. You can never recover from that. That's the future of the modern relationship. Okay. So you can have some choices and some people say, I'll try again. Maybe it was just her. Yeah, it was her. She was the one acting up. You never take accountability for your lack of leadership. You never step up as a man. So you go out there and you try again. Remember, I said 70%, 80% the next time you do it. Okay. So the reality is this, man, men are reaching out to other men, which is great. There was a time when men can even talk about this, right? We couldn't even talk about this. The minute you talk about it, oh, he just bit her. He just hurt. The minute you talk about it, oh, man, don't talk about that. Okay. What people typically did was they reached out to other people. Okay. They reached out to other people. So now we got, for me, I got hundreds of thousands of people watching me taking in whatever they can take in. Okay. Because before that, they depended on the media. Oh, the media is going to tell me what to do. The media has my back. They're going to say happily ever after and they're going to sell to you. Sell, sell, sell. Buy her this, buy her that. She'll be happy. Okay. And you'll be like, okay, I'll buy her teddy bear, chocolate box, Graham, whatever it is. They'll kind of convince you into doing these things. And that helps who? Does that help you? Because the minute you did that, the next day she said, what have you done for me lately? Okay. She was happy at that moment, but now not so much. So the media sells again. Oh, well, try this. That doesn't work. Try that. Okay. The media has an agenda and the agenda is not you. I always try to tell men that's not the case. Okay. What about women? Okay. What do they get out of this one? Okay. If you follow women and unfortunately some guys still listen to what women have to say about relationships. Let me tell you something. I spend a lot of hours on the bus and the hotel and they ain't thinking about what you're thinking about. They don't care. They don't. You must know that and accept it. Now you can not accept it and roll the dice and hope you find somebody that doesn't do any of these things. It's a strategy. Hope is a strategy. It's not a good one. It's not a good one, but it is a strategy. I hope out of the 100 million women in this country, this wouldn't happen to me. Okay. So you seek counsel in the refuge of women. How can I be a better man and you buy books by them? You listen to them on YouTube and you think they trying to help you? I'm here to tell you they're here to benefit off what the media has already told you to do with them. Oh, you should do this. Why did they know that? Like, where is that? Is it in the Bible? Is there a book that says what men should do? Okay. You should pay for the first date, sir. Right. And it should be $200 date. All right. It gets ridiculous every week. All right. You like what? Okay. So they're just going to benefit. They're going to capitalize off of the blue pill conditioning that the media has set in front of you. And you hear this submissive language in men now. Do we not hear it? Happy wife, happy life. She wears the pants in this relationship. She's the better half. All right. This is this is media programming, by the way, because where did you hear it from? Like, did you come up with it? Did you think about something like that? You would have never thought something like that. Okay. But they programmed you over years to think of relationships in this dynamic. And you buy it. You get down on your knee and you bend down to the authority. Did she beat you up? Did she twist your arm? What did she do? She just closed her legs like this. And then you as a woman worshipper fell for it. Okay. She had to do nothing. Well, this is where we are. Fortunately now men are listening to men like me. Okay. And when you do it, they're going to say, don't listen to that guy. You know, a lot of women, the few women that come to my channel, oh, don't listen to him because they want you because what I'm telling you to do is to be masculine. Okay. I'm telling you to be masculine and they'll tell you all the way until they say, well, I changed my mind. I'll be exactly who that guy said to be afraid of. Okay. Now you're like, oh my God, what did I just do to myself? Okay. So I came up with this idea of the free agent lifestyle. I wrote a book about it. As you see, I have this shirt here and this plane is symbolic. This plane here is symbolic. A lot of people think it's like I'm telling you to go out and travel, which I do. That's part of the book. You need to get out and do stuff like that. Get away from your area. If you've been listening to my content, I'll say if you live in Columbus, Ohio, get the hell out of there. All right. Don't stay there too long. You live in Tupelo, Mississippi, Boise, Idaho. Always come up with some small area. And then I kind of just twist them a little bit. Like just get out of there. You're dating in that area. Just leave a little bit. You probably will figure it out. But the plane is symbolic. See, this plane, this pilot learned how to fly this plane in a specific way. And it is different than you learned how to fly your relationship. See, this pilot learned at one particular point to know the mechanics of the machine. Pilot also probably learned how to take off. Pilot probably learned how to land the plane. And then in between, they learned how to keep the plane at flying altitude. Right? Is that how you learn relationships? See, they got guys that will tell you how to take that plane off. Oh, I got what you need. The approach game. Run up on 100 women that have no value to you. Ain't proved nothing. She got the itchy scratchy. She a single mom. She got so many red flags, more red flags than the Chinese parade. You don't know nothing about her. She produced no value to you. You're gonna run up on her. Good idea. Okay? But they'll teach you how to take the plane off. They might teach you how to at cruising altitude, maintain that plane. Look, just do this. We got autopilot. Just do this. What is that? Happy wife, happy life. Buy her this, buy her that. Buy her the engagement ring, six months worth of. They'll teach you how to keep that plane up. But what they will not teach you is how to land that plane. They won't teach you. How many people have been divorced? Yo, did they teach you what to do? Then they simply did like this. Oh, you get okay. They just walk right out the door. And then you start calling people. Hey, what's going on? Hey, what do I need to do now? Oh, we ain't got nothing for you now. You messed up. See that landing is very important. People aren't teaching me how to land a plane. They teach you how to take off and now you up in the air, no parachute. So now men like me are telling you, I'm telling you the whole method and my emphasis is on the landing because that is the most crucial. You can take off in any plane you want. You can't put that bird down unless you have this knowledge and not only have it, you must accept it. Not saying that you shouldn't get married. That is a part of the free agent lifestyle tenant though. Not saying that you shouldn't. I can't tell you what to do. You actually make the own judgments of your life. However, I'm going to tell you basically if you do, this is the landing. Society is not telling men the landing. And if you do want to find out the landing, what do you do? You find a woman, your mama, your grand mama, her best friends. You're going to act like her best friends are going to tell you what to do in your favor. It ain't going to happen. Remember, I've been listening to women for a long time. One thing about women though, I'll say this because a lot of people will say, oh, this guy hates women. He's just man. I mean, I've been with him for 16, 17, 18 straight years. I might feel it with something way about him, but the reality is it's human behavior. If I would do this against men, I could do the exact same thing. Well, this guy's probably going to do this. It's just recognizing that men keep walking into the same trap and then they come out the back end with no protection. So the free agent lifestyle, you guys probably want to know what is this about? The reality is I came up with it because obviously in sports, free agency, recruiting, that was a big deal. Everybody knows that a player under contract has no leverage. He has no power. He has nothing to say. He made a deal with the team. He's under contract. He can perform well. He's going to get the same paycheck. He can perform poorly. He's going to get the same paycheck. What does that sound like? Marriage. You get under that contract or relationship, let's just call it. You get under that contract. Guess what? It doesn't matter if you're a good man. It doesn't matter if you buy or a diamond. It doesn't matter if you hold masculine frame the whole time. It doesn't matter. You're going to get the same damn results from her. That's what you agree to. A free agent, everybody knows that free agent player that the year his contract was going to expire, what did he do? He got better. He was like, damn, this is going to be my last time. Sometimes he'd get better for that one year. He'll sign a big deal and then he'll get fat. He'll go right back into what he did. But the free agent lifestyle is the free agents got treated the best when they had value. Free agents get treated the best when they have value. Married guys don't get treated very well. They honestly don't. I don't think they do overall. Don't talk to me about the one. There's always going to be the, well, my wife does too. All right, look, I'm not here to argue. I'm just talking about overall in general. Free agents with value are recruited. They beg for them. The team shows up and they say, we're going to throw all this money at you. And the reason why is because you show them, you've given them a reason. You didn't take yourself off the marketplace too early. You actually did things that have value to that person. Now you could play this whole game all day long. You can play for five years, 10 years, however you want. But that's basically how I came up with the free agent lifestyle. And the idea is that you have to accept. Remember this. I always say accept because knowing is half the battle, right? Have you ever heard that? Knowing is half the battle. Now you got to do it. You got to apply it. You got to accept. These are three things that you got to accept. And you can take notes on this one, or you can listen to the playback. And it's counter to what society will tell you as a man. And that is first and foremost, first and foremost, you are the prize. You are the prize. Now you got Cardi B, Meg Dostallion, all these women on Instagram running around thinking they're the prize. Why? Anybody know why? Because you choose to worship them. She ain't done nothing for you. Nothing. She showed her leg, she showed her butt, she showed her titties. Now all of a sudden you prioritized her. You've elevated her. You pedestalized her simply for that. I'm like, what else does it do? Because that's important when I get to the selection process. Remember the iceberg theory? What else does it do? See, that's the most important part. Most of the time it don't do nothing more than what they've just showed you. Most of the time it doesn't do nothing more than what it showed you. But we're in the element of women worship. And I'm not pointing fingers at you. We all do this. We all have Instagram, Snapchat, all of these things that basically make them believe that they're the prize because we choose to make it. But the reality is the prize is the person that has the most standards set against them. That's the prize. Like if I told you you had to win a million dollars, guess what? I bet you you had to do a whole bunch of stuff to do it. You don't just walk up. I'll sign up. Thank you for the prize. All right. There's going to be a whole bunch of things. Apply for this. Tell me your damn children's social security number. Block, block, block, block. That's how you have to qualify. See with women, they don't have many standards. They used to, remember they used to have some standards we used to be able to say, this is what you're going to do. And then she would do it. Well, that's not the case anymore. Men have all the standards. Take me out on the first date. It must be 200 dollars. Then to get there, you're going to have to do this. Text message me. Respond immediately. If you don't, I'm going to move on to the next guy. You must be X amount of inches tall. You must have muscles ripping and raging all over your body. All right. It just goes more and more and more. The minute we lacks our standards, the minute we lessen our standards, okay, you can be fat. Now you got no choice. Now you got 60% of women walking around looking like a busted Pillsbury biscuit can. And you can't do nothing about it, but select one of them. That's the minute we said, okay, body acceptance. So now did that make women actually work out harder? It made them say, all right, well, they taking them like that, I'll do it. Okay, we have the most standards yet. Most of you guys are pedicilizing and worshiping, choosing, choosing to worship them. The second thing you must accept is that there's tremendous power and masculinity. Tremendous power and masculinity. How do we know that? They're telling you not to do it. Toxic masculinity. Don't be that. They're telling you not to do it in order to keep the advantage. And at the same damn time, what are they doing? They're being more masculine. You're like, what the, where's Jesse Lee Peterson? What the, okay, how's that? I'm going to go out of work and we can do everything a man can do. Okay, they're doing exactly what we were doing, but we've abdicated the throne. We've allowed them to do it and they call us names when we go ahead and try to do it. It is the craziest mine ever. Crazy. But there's great power and authority and masculinity. Okay, but with great power comes great responsibility. See, sometimes with masculinity, we think it looks a certain way. It should, it should have a beard, should have a ball head, should have muscles. The reality is masculinity, you know when it's not there and you know when it is. That's what masculinity is. You can be five foot four and be very masculine. You can be six foot eight and be a beta male monkey, sympansi. All right. That's what I call it. It could be a beta. It could be no masculinity in you. Okay, but it must have these two qualities. It must or else forget it. Value, free agent lifestyle and authority. Without those two things, forget it. You ain't got no value. Forget it. You don't got authority. Just it's a it's a wrap. Okay, you can forget about being masculine. I know a lot of short news that's straight masculine. And they pull women left and right. You know why they pull them? They got value. Remember I told you, remember I told you when I was a college basketball coach, why the girls were talking to me? It wasn't because of me. It's because I got a scholarship. I could give them something. That's why. So I have value. Yep. That's why they keep talking to me. That's why they keep sharing stuff with me. I have value. I control their playing time. They're like, I better talk to that guy. Same thing with dating. Same exact thing. They have value. And they also maintain authority. As soon as you give that up, forget masculinity. Because I'm going to tell you something. You don't have kids. I have kids. The minute you allow something, don't believe, don't think you're going to get that back. This is what's happening in the country right now. And I'm not going to get off on too much of a tangent. But the minute they take something away from you, don't think they're giving it back like immediately, right? We're going to take that right away for a little bit for our own benefit and for everyone's safety. Okay. See, how's that working out? You guys getting your country back? You guys getting your state back anytime soon? Nope. We'll give you a little bit at a time in California. They give you colors. Oh, it's purple today. You can have this. See, this is why you can't release authority. Okay. The last thing, the third thing of the quality, the thing that you must have stepped is that you must value your time more than anything. Because let me tell you something. You will lose a lot of money with the wrong low quality person. You'll lose a lot of money, but I'm going to tell you what you lose more and which is more important. You're going to lose time. You're going to lose time, time, time, money. You can get back time. You're not going to get any of that back. And so if you choose to adopt or accept the greatest resource or give away the greatest resource, which is your time, a way to worship, a way to worship in women as opposed to live in the free agent lifestyle. Guys, do you realize what you can do with your time? You realize that you can do. You realize that you make the most money out of everybody here. You realize that women spend 83% of all consumer goods. They buy everything, but they don't make a lot of money. Like how do we work that out? Let's work this out. Let's do this math. They control 83% of the consumer spending. We control 17%, yet we make the most money. Gender pay gap, right? That's what they're telling us. How are they spending 83% of the money? You know how? You are choosing to invest that power into them. You're giving it to them. You're advocating because you're giving them your time. Okay? Listening to these organized campaigns. Hashtag believe all women. Women create life. Happy wife, happy life. Name a campaign that they recently had for men. Like name a campaign. Like men are good. Or like what? Like think one. Every week is a new one. Okay? Oh, your mother's the queen. The black woman's the queen. All right? The black girl magic. I mean, every week it's a new marketing campaign. Did you have one? That's a negative, right? That's not in our favor, right? But there hasn't been a lot of campaigns created. Why? Because they know you worship women too much. They know it. Look at your Instagram feed. Look at your Instagram feed. I know. I'll test you. If you really wanted me to test you, I can test you. I'll show you my Instagram feed. You show me yours. And let's count how many asses are out. By the time we scroll and at the end of five minutes, all right? You're either the winner or the loser. This is what you spend your time on. And this is what guys do. This is what kills me. This is opposite of the free agent lifestyle. Everything you do, the first thing you think about is, well, are there going to be some women there? Go to the club. Are there going to be some women there? Let's go to the gym. There going to be some women there, right? What college are you going to select? I'm going to select the ones with the best women. These, like literally, I'm telling you, that's worship of women who've done nothing for you. You selected a school for a woman that did zero for you. The whole damn campus did nothing for you. You selected a school for that. Okay. These are the things that we do that keep us in the position we're in. Okay. So the tendency of the free agent lifestyle of this, and this is specifically for men who have been either divorced or going through a bad breakup. Okay. This is why we get to other men. This is how you got here. You probably were like, all right, I ain't too good with women. I need to know how to do it better. You want your shortcuts. Okay. There's a lot of shortcuts out there for you, right? Let me talk about that real quick. I'll get back to that. So let's just get back to the tenants. The tenants of the free agent lifestyle of this. You're recovering. You're trying to figure it out. The last thing you need to do is get involved with another woman. Period. I had a 50-year-old woman tell me this when I was going through my divorce. She was like, don't mess with regular women for three years. I said, damn. She said for three years, don't even think about a relationship. I was like, what? Really? And she said that because I said, oh, you know, I met this girl. She's like, no, regular women off limits. It's like, damn, that's a red pill. See women, older women will read, they got red pill knowledge. Why? Because they ran out of time. They got, they see the world completely different. Nobody worships. They don't get worship anymore. So they see the world completely different. So she could see it. And not only that, she has a son. Women with young boys, they either going to make them son husbands or they're going to protect that boy. And she had a boy who was a teenager. So she was like, damn, I'm not going to do what my friends did to these men. I don't want that to happen to my boy. Okay? The three tendons of the free aging lifestyle, no cohabitation, no long-term relationships, no marriage until you have value and authority and you have accepted that as your reality. Now, most of you aren't going to get there. So are you ever going to get married? Nope. I would never advise you to do so. Don't do it. You don't have value authority. You don't have masculinity. Forget about your marriage. You're going to be a statistic. The marketplace is so ridiculous now. You go on the dating app, these women will act like at age 48, that they're a princess. You're like, what? I'm a single mom, two kids, two different baby daddies, in and out of jobs, tattoos all over, more red flags than the Chinese parade, more tattoos all over my body. And here you are, light double tap. Can I take you out? Can I hit that? And what have you just wasted? Time. Your most valuable asset. You just killed time. You're killing it. And you can now see the worst thing that this is the worst thing that happened. Okay. We'll talk about this probably tomorrow, when I'll talk about, oh, sorry, on Sunday, or Saturday, when I'll talk about the evolution. The worst thing that happened, other than feminism, is they put in the hands of every woman a camera. They put a camera in her hands. And at that point, she has made it so you cannot compete attention for attention. She now has in front of her massive audience. Now, what the hell am I going to do as one man? Like, what can I possibly do when I'm competing with thousands of people, some women, hundreds of thousands of people, some women, millions of men. In terms of value, she can never see you as more valuable than what she can get. Attention is her currency. That's something that you should accept. So here's the deal. How do you know, because you're trying to figure this out, and I'm giving you solutions here. Some people come to my channel and they email me, well, you haven't given me a solution. I'm like, I wrote two books. What are we talking about here? There's no solution. No, you don't like the solution. That's what it is. You don't like what I'm saying, or you don't like it. You don't see that as an option. So you're going to move in to single mother, then you're going to email me eight months later. I get it all the time. You're going to set up a coaching call. Damn. You were right. That's like I told you. You don't move in low quality people. People, not saying that she's low quality by virtue of that, but she made her decisions in life. It ain't your problem anymore. You moved it in. You didn't need to. You could have avoided it. Yes. Okay. So how do you know when you're ready for this? And this is where it's important right here. I'm going to give you three reasons why. Number one, you're stuck. You're looking for a solution. You're looking for counsel. You come to things like this. I'm stuck as a man. I want to be masculine, but my family will be mad at me if I'm masculine. My wife will be mad at me if I'm masculine. You start talking like I talk. You're going to run women away. They will pack their bag up. Why? I'm not easy to manipulate. I learned this as a coach. The minute I said, okay, y'all don't have to run last for throwing the ball all over the damn gym. Guess what happened in that practice? They threw the ball all over the damn gym. They didn't care. The minute I say y'all running every time y'all turn the ball over, guess what they did? They got in line. It was like, all right. They start calling out, hey, Tiffany, make sure they don't drop the ball. They drop, Tiffany dropped the ball. Guess who? Guess who's yelling the most? The women. I didn't even have to say a word. I just stayed over there like this. They always said, my players always told me this and I love them. They know I'll do this stuff. They always said when I got quiet, that was when they worried the most. Not when I was yelling. When I stood over there and said, okay, this is what we doing today. That's when they tightened up. They were like, all right, he's serious now. Isn't that crazy? Some of you guys yelling and screaming. You're going to do all of this stuff. It's when you sit back and say, oh, I'm a walk out of here. All right. Or there's going to be a penalty for what you're doing. Okay. So you see counsel in these guys, you come to stuff like this, you're stuck. I give you a solution. You take 5% of it. You try to apply it to your life, whatever works. I'm not opposed to you saying, well, I agree with 50% of your stuff. I'm not opposed to that. That's fine with me. Okay. That's great. I've done enough. But what you might do still is you might do what I call shortcuts. And I'm going to name a few that I've been seeing on social media lately. And I'm not taking any shots at people. I'm just calling it out. You're going to say, I'm going to put on a nice suit and that's going to change the game for me. So you follow the guy who says, put on a suit. They might not even say put on a suit. You might see him in a suit and you may be like, that's the solution. But you ain't changed nothing about yourself. You didn't change. You didn't defend yourself against the marital laws. You didn't defend yourself against the government. You didn't provide value. You didn't provide authority. You did nothing but put on a suit. That's a shortcut. Eventually you're going to lose time because you're still dealing with the same low quality women that you worship. Okay. The next one, the dating act game. I know it's hard. You're so curious as men. This isn't the free agent lifestyle. Curiosity ain't nothing curious about this world. There's so much of this world that you haven't even seen. There's so much life that you haven't seen. There's so much potential that you have as a man. You're making, you had a job right now. You probably make it $30,000 a year. In two or three years, you'll make 70. In two years, you'll make 110. Not many people can do that. Men can. But instead, I'm going to waste my time swiping through low quality women. Women with more red flags than the Chinese parade. Now, listen, if you want an easy piece of peace leave, two easy pieces of peace leave, three easy pieces of peace leave, you want some woman to come over and do monkey double backwards all day long, all day long. At some point, what more value can you get from them? It's only going to take them a matter of time. Oh, I'm pregnant. Oh, sorry. I didn't tell you that I have the package we'll call it. And now you got it. What about this one? This is another shortcut. I'm going to approach 100 women. Okay? And the, the, uh, success rated back is 3%. So you approach 100 women, you might get three of them. And out of those three, you might get one of them to lie down and open their legs for you. And I said, what did you just do? You just wasted your time with 97% of them. Like what value did you get? Now, some people will argue against me and say, you at least got some balls to talk to women because that might be a problem for you. I, for me, I don't see it as a problem. It's obviously not a problem for me. I've been talking to women all my life already know what they're going to say before they say it. They only really talk about five or six different things. Hair is one thing. Close. Okay. They're going to talk about any one of these guilty pleasures that they watch on television, basketball, wives, Kardashians, any of that. They might talk about their job. You go on a date with a woman who's going to, at some point, push the receipt over to your direction. After she just bragged about her being a working strong independent woman, you're like, damn, I thought you had a job. Oh, I still got to pay. See, at some particular point, you're going to realize these things don't work for you. Okay. Some people are going to say, I'm going to get a fast car. Some people will say, get a fast car, you'll get women to come after you. Yes, this is true. However, it's a shortcut because now you're still probably going to be in that process of wasting time. I know a lot of guys, I live in Southern California, home of the, what they call it now, clout, chase or flossing or fronting or whatever they call it now. A lot of people got nice cars in California and live with their mama, live with a roommate. Okay. The car is the ticket in California. And then they live in the hood. Okay. You got to watch out for the car thing. Car is not exactly value. The last shortcut that I'll mention, I'm going to be more alpha. Oh, that was a big thing here in the last couple of years, alpha. Like what is that? Like, does that have anything to do with value or authority? No, it means you probably look alpha. There's a lot of guys that are alpha looking in their beta. So you were like, oh, I'm going to get some muscles on my body. All right. I'm going to put a Prince high heels on. I don't know how you're going to achieve this, but that's what you're going to do. But I believe what you're looking for is masculine, not alpha. You're looking for masculine. Okay. But you think it's alpha. So you start adopting characteristics of that as a shortcut. And yeah, you're going to get a couple of pieces of piece leave when you do it. Okay. Maybe not quality, but you could. Okay. But the reality is when you think about it, all of these shortcuts, what did it attach the value to? It attached it to the woman. You didn't build no value for yourself. I'm going to do this as a response to what their response is going to be. You didn't do anything for yourself. I'm going to put a suit on. That's all you did. I'm going to walk out here. Like that's woman worship. All of the shortcuts that I tend to see tend to still put the value proposition on the woman. And I'm like, guys, that ain't it. I'm like, don't do that. Okay. Free agent lifestyle. I'm like this, this is where it is. Okay. Build yourself up for yourself. Build yourself up first. For you. Don't worry about them. Okay. What eventually is going to happen is eventually is going to happen is remember, I told you about the women that run when they hear me talking. You know how many percentages what I would, what I would suggest the percentage of women that hear me talk and say, I don't want nothing to do with him. I would say it's 90%. 90% of them will say, Oh, that ain't it. Okay. They're already liberal minded. They've already been indoctrinated through public school. They're already probably a product of single motherhood or eight. They've probably been divorced. They probably a single mom. And what do I say? Good. Leave. I have nothing to do. I want nothing to do with you. Okay. You can offer me no value. You're already not willing to do so. You know, you can't manipulate me. So I show on the door, great. I don't want 90% of you either. That's a direct mating strategy from women. What do women tell you? You got to be what? How tall? Six foot or better, right? The taller, the better. What is the percentage of six foot men in a United States? Less than 10%. This is less than 10% of men that live up to that standard. That's a direct without my strategy in terms of free aging lifestyle is directly from them. They are immediately chop off 90% of the men just based on height. Then they say you got to make what? Over 100,000. You know what the percentages of people in the country that make over 100,000? It's almost less than 10%. Most people make far less than that. So now you want a six foot two guy that makes $100,000. You really just cut off the nose to spite your face. All right. I mean, so what I'm saying is if I don't want low quality and they don't want low quality where we're obviously not going to be a match, okay? The second reason why you're going to come out going to see if the free aging lifestyle is for you and some men are like this. I've been in this position. You've been on your dating apps. You get success. You're banging women. A lot of 49ers. A lot of guys will tell you that they're banging a lot of women, but I don't mess with fat women though. I'm like 60% of the world of the United States is fat women. Like your numbers statistically probably included some of them. Just a guess because you ain't banging the hot ones. They already married. Half of them are married. Half of them are bipolar. All right. 25% of women are on head mats. Did I talk about that in my iceberg theory? Okay. So you only got like 25% of the good ones, right? The skinny ones or whatever it is. Got it. Okay. But you get tired of that. You're like, I can't take another big single mom. I wasted a lot of time. What do I do? Well, there's a whole bunch of life out here to live. There's a whole bunch of value to build. There's a whole bunch of authority. There's a whole bunch of you can learn about men. I was a guy that I was like the church ain't nothing out here. My mom used to tell me to go to church. All I saw was a lot of rejects in there and them trying to pair them up with good men in the church. I was like, damn, they go on the singles retreat. They take all the single moms and they bring all the good men in there trying to do right by the Lord. And then guess what? All y'all pair up. Y'all be good. All right. I saw that too much. I was like, I'm done with church only to figure out that what was missing was a good church. Okay. I was like, damn, we actually that's what we needed. All right. Now you can take the spirituality out of it. Okay. Take the religion out of it if you want. But where a lot of this indoctrination has also come not only from the public school indoctrination camp, but from church, they're leading men right into the wolves. Right. So you get tired of it. What else can I do with this life? A lot. Men. There is a lot to do all by yourself. People watching you do it. All right. That's the benefits about social media. I'm going to do your game. I'm going to make you watch me live this life. And what are women going to do? They're going to watch you and say, damn, I want to do that too. Now all it takes, because we're talking about low quality women, all it takes is two or three women to see some value in you. But unfortunately, men want validation from 100% of the women out here. Every time you walk by a woman, oh, she didn't even look at me. Your self-esteem goes down. Oh, she didn't even give me choosing signals. Your self-esteem goes down because all your value is in what she thinks about you. And I'm telling you that is not a good strategy for your life. Okay. The third thing that lets you know if you're going to be ready for this is when you're ready to see your value truly increase. Not dating low quality women paying for dates, buying cologne, nice fresh clothes, cars, getting a nice bachelor pad. All of that has been great for my bank account. I've been stacking. Damn, dating is expensive. Especially when it comes to dating low quality women. Damn, I wasted $200 on that. $50 here, $20 here. But what I did by not doing that for a year, two years, three years, see the first time I did it, it was like for 90 days. I ain't going to do it. I'm going to delete Tinder. Plenty of whales. I'm going to delete it. At first it was bad. I jumped back on. Then after 90 days, I was like, damn, couple more dollars in my bank account that I can use. Let me try this for six months. Damn, a little bit more money. And I got a lot more time to actually invest in the things that make me more money. I'll try it for a year. Now, I haven't looked back. I'm like, oh, hell no. You think somebody coming in here with that old BS that they've been telling you what men should do, real man do, right? We already hear that. What a real man does is takes care of low quality women. That's what you would have to just replace everything that they do. Real men take care of low quality women that are saying by indoctrination, we are doing nothing for you in return. That's worship. That's the deity. Okay. That's the Jezebel spirit talking. Ma'am, what do you bring to the table? I am the table. That's what a God would say. I don't have to do nothing for you. That's what a God would say. That's the deity. That's worship. In the minute you comply to that, you just lost authority. Okay. So that's there's my 90%. That's 90% of women. I just go, okay, that's how you feel. Peace. I don't try to change minds anymore, guys. Okay. You guys will cancel your appointments. You will cancel the chance to network. You will cancel your gym membership. You will cancel your chance to play pick up basketball with your boys all to pursue a piece of peace league that 50 to 100 people have had already. Okay. They've already had it. But here you go. I'm going to go get some of that too. And you gave up a lot of what's out there for you free agent lifestyle. Okay. In terms of where you can find me, I have a lot of free content guys that I talk about this stuff. Yeah. Some people might hear for the first time and they're like, God dang this dude is out there. But I'm going to tell you, man, financially it's been great. In terms of the women that I deal with, it's been great. They don't give me no headaches. They already know me. They find me before anything found you on social media. So they already know what to expect if they choose to deal with me. They already know. I don't have to go on some dating app and then have the whole damn conversation to figure out. She believes she's the table. Right. And then I went back and forth with her. I don't have to do that now. Okay. I have a lot of free content. This free agent lifestyle podcast is just me talking. You don't see any videos. Sometimes I record them available. Soundcloud, Apple, Google podcasts, Spotify, anchor. I've noticed that people wanted to see or hear content from me and I provided almost every possible way to do that. The reason why I'm self-employed. You don't know a thing about self-employed people. They got a lot of power. Listen to what they're saying about Trump. He only pays $750. Yeah, you can do that when you got your own business. Okay. Self-employed people got a lot of power and they got a lot of ability to do stuff. Okay. So that's one of the things I actually suggest to you, even if you have a nine to five job, start your own business. Instead of swiping on 49ers, busted, build a buried business. I know. Y'all like, he's just talking on these women. All right. But look, instead of doing that, why don't you record a pop? Why don't you start your own business? Okay. First thing some guy does when I say that, well, I don't even know where to start. Oh, that's too hard. I don't know where to go. Bro, you know what it takes to start a business? $150. You go over here, you go to the city, you put your name in there, you put a doing business ad name in the newspaper. You got a business. You open a bank account. All right. That easy. And you can do that when you have your nine to five job. Instead of swiping on hoes, now you can build up your portfolio. Okay. What's going to be more necessary for you in 20 years? A piece of peace leave or your business. Just, just wondering. I know people want to argue with me all the time, but I'm going to tell you where the value is. Okay. In terms of this, I wrote two books and this is all in a two year period guys that I've done this. Y'all like, dang, how much peace leave is he getting? He must be getting no peace leave. He must be scared of women. I'm like, no, I see where the value is. I see where the authority is. Where am I going to put my time? I'm 40 some years old. I don't got a lot of time. I got divorced. I lost a lot of money and a lot of years. I got to make all that back. Am I going to work? Am I going to chase more women that are indoctrinated with the Jezebel spirit? Easy choice for me. I wrote two books in a two year window and writing a book guys. Damn. It's a hard thing to do. But these books, I have some here. I didn't bring a lot. Free agent lifestyle is what I talked about. There's more in there. The men's guide to peace, quiet and freedom. That's important. What do you want? Coach? Hey man, like any man, I want to crack a brew, put my feet up after a hard day's work and have peace. If I can get a piece of peace leave on the side, that would be great. If not, okay. All right. But freedom, we've lost a lot of freedom in the last what? Eight months. How, how valuable is freedom now? All right. Goodness. Freedom is valuable. All right. That's more way more important than trying to prove I can get women, right? The evolution, Jezebel spirit or the Eve, biting from the apple. What does the apple look like today guys? It's all consumed. You let her chow down on it. All right. And now you get the after effects. And if you still in the worship of women, well, this is what you have in front of you or you can live the free agent lifestyle. Right. All right. Some of them, one of them has an audio book to it. It's not on audible. Okay. But it is on some audio book formats. If you don't like to read what I found is that men don't like to read. Okay. So if you want to listen to it, it is on audio format. The evolution is not on audio because after I've recorded the first audio, that was hard. That was a very hard thing to do. If you ever record an audio book, it's why it's not on audible because it was any little background noise. I don't want to have it hosted on the platform, but I had to find other ways. Okay. And those are free by the way. Those are free. Podcasts free. Well, the book's not free. The website right here, if you put in Coach Greg Adams, I'm going to come up. This is why if I went out there on the dating app, I'll get flag real fast. All they got to do is get my name. They'll find me. You can go on my website. This is what I just started. Okay. It's called conquer. If you notice a lot of the words that I use signify value and authority conquer. It's time to conquer life. Men right now can't even conquer their own damn life. You got a boss. You come home to a boss. So I created this teachable course, which you guys can get. 21 con is the code 50% off 50% off of the course. Anybody watching on live stream, you will get this code. And this takes you through game, but for life. This is where a lot of guys are missing. We talk about how to take care of your financial game. We talk about understanding women, talk about their lingo. They're great at being a cunning linguist. I mean, is that a joke? Okay. They're great at talking and saying things and hitting code. How do I know? I coach a lot of women and I knew what the hell they meant when they said a certain thing. All right. They're not as direct as we're going to be. Why? This is how they survive. It's how they've been able to survive. You go out there and you fight the sabre tooth tiger. I give you some peace leave. All right. And then you go out there and do it. And they go out there with no scratches on their back. Okay. So this is what we talk about. These are some of the things. Okay. Check that out. And I appreciate you for letting me talk here. Thanks, Anthony, for letting me come through here. I appreciate you guys. If you have any questions, there's a mic there. If you want to understand anything, you want to say anything to me. This is your opportunity other than that. Thank you guys for listening. Hope I didn't scare you guys. But thanks again, man. Appreciate it. Welcome back to the 21 convention second patriarch edition live in Orlando, Florida. Welcome to the 22 convention. Welcome back to the 21 convention 2020 of Orlando, Florida, being held for the first time ever at our very first and inaugural 21 summit events. Welcome to 21 summit in Orlando, Florida. Well, here we go. We risked again with the 22 convention, the patriarch in 21 convention, all three stages together in one event. Not only did we sit down and say we're going to come together in meat in mass, but we're going to take it a step further. We are going to dare have a conversation about the sexes openly, honestly, and engage the woman that had been like, I am amazed that I will swim. We did a brand new event. We did the second patriarch and we did the main event for the 19th time. It's so much more than sitting in an audience, watching a man on a stage, the conversations in the hallways, the connections that people make, the challenging, the collaborations. And that's what we need. It all starts with men and it's not just men. That's what I like about this. We don't want to overreact to feminism and then hate women. That's not it. This is about men getting their act together, doing what they're made to do. You had meals. You had to run security. You had to run travel plans. You had to ensure people were where they needed to be. Three stages, cameras everywhere, and it was pulled off with flawless execution. It's evolved so much. I really appreciate how Anthony has allowed you speakers to evolve and to grow and to share that and to encourage that with all the other men here. To hear so much talk on family and fatherhood. There's more depth. There's more room for who they could be. Is the word patriarchy or patriarch offensive to you in any way? Not to me personally. Okay. Not at all. It's something that I cherish it. I love it. I grew up wanting it. You cherish the patriarch. I do. In mansplaining news, a three-day conference for women led by men hopes to make women great again. But women need to be taught how to be great again. Oh, me too. It's like how to land a husband. How to lose weight. How to pump out a bunch of kids. Why don't men think they need to fix the problems of women? Well, it says the world's ultimate event for women. In Orlando, Florida, that's going to be the scene of the crime. It's mansplaining Palooza. Say no to the toxic bullying feminist dogma. Patriarchy is the future. It's good to see it in person. I'm just until I got here and saw it and you can see the people in the audience, you see the men that are here committed to listening. I mean, it's just changed my idea of what the conference is. The professionalism, the staff, the way everything is organized. It's given me a different perspective about this particular idea and I'm ready to put some more fire into it. Welcome to Dream World, ladies and gentlemen. What he represents is patriarchy. We're here to do work as men, as patriarchs. There's nothing more natural than being a father. Welcome back to the 21 Convention's second patriarch edition 2020 of Orlando, Florida, being held for the first time ever at the big, bad-ass 21 summit. Our first speaker of the day here at 21Con Patriarch Edition is going to be Coach Greg Adams. He spoke for his first time yesterday at the 21 Convention main event for men. This will be his second time returning to the 21 Convention stage. He was a woman's basketball coach in college and high school for over 16 years and a couple years ago on YouTube became a coach for men. He's been blown up. He has over 150,000 subscribers across all his channels. He has a bunch of them. He has like a media mogul here, a media empire he's building. That's awesome. And I even hear Socrates better watch out. Harry's runner-up nominee for Vice President of the Manusphere. So without further ado, plus let me welcome back to the 21 Convention stage, Coach Greg Adams. Thank you, brother. Thank you very much. Thank you. What's going on, gentlemen? Appreciate you being here. Yesterday I did a little bit of intro about my background coaching. I'm not going to do much of it. So if you missed it, I'm sorry, I'm not going to do it again because I had to make time for the other stuff that I'm doing. But I'll give you a little bit of a background. I got coaching after a subpar basketball playing career. All right? As you can see, genetically, I wasn't blessed with a lot of height. A lot of people got tall, right? And a friend of mine said, hey, I'm looking for JV Girls basketball coach. All right? I said, I'll do it. From there, I started coaching high school AAU basketball. Then eventually that led me into college basketball coaching. I don't know how I got there, but I did, all right? Coach that five Division I universities. Then I was a head coach Division II. So I spent 16 years being a parent father figure for women's basketball. Okay? This is a great career. I got to travel the world, move coast to coast three times in moving bands. Eventually got married, had two children. We'll talk about that. And the reason why I kind of got out of that and started a new thing, got into fitness training was because I wanted to raise my kids. Okay? I dealt with a lot of kids that weren't, they didn't have father figures in their lives. They didn't have parents. Okay? Either strong male figures. And they saw me out to be that. Okay? So I raised a lot of kids from high school, middle school, all the way through college. And then I got the opportunity to be a father. Now, how many guys are in here fathers right now? Okay? You already have children. All right? The vast majority. How many, how many in here would like to have children? Okay? You don't have children now. You would like to have children. Okay? Good. All right. So the conversation here is going to talk about the absence of male authority. Okay? And this father figure idea that we have that maybe if you want children, this idea that you have in your head, we're going to talk about what obstacles you face going into wanting to be a father. Okay? Now, if you follow my content, I've made content that is geared towards relationship dynamics between men and women, being a guy that's been through a divorce and having to fight for my kids through the family court. Okay? That's going to be my experience. And we're going to talk about how that has played a role in society. So for the people who said they were fathers, just out of curiosity as I'm presenting this, how many of you still live with the mother of those children? Okay? So I would say half of the fathers are divorced, co-parent or something, some similar arrangement to that. Okay? That's going to be important to what we're talking about. Okay? Because if you listen to my YouTube channel, I tell people about the free agent lifestyle, which are, there's three tenets to the free agent lifestyle. And that is no cohabitation, no long-term relationships and no marriage. Now, I advise guys of that because of the dangers that come with it. If they're not prepared to be a leader and authority over their child and they just want to have a kid, we'll talk about that. They're not going to be prepared for what the world has in store for them. You guys are seeing some of the social unrest that we have here. You guys are seeing it. The reason why we're seeing it in my opinion, in my opinion, it's because there's an absence of male authority. So when people come to my channel and they see and hear what I'm talking about and I say, you just went through a divorce? Stay away from moving in with women. Stay away from long-term relationships. Don't marry again. The reason why I'm telling you that is because the deck is stacked against you already. The worst thing you can do in the first three years of your post-marriage, post-bad breakup is to get back into that. Until you build value and authority, then until you build that, you're not going to be ready for what it takes to, if you're going inside of those three tenants. So people watch the channel. They're listening. They're not all red pill hardcore. They're like, what is this guy talking about? I want to find love. What if I want to find, what if I want to have kids, coach? That's what they ask me. What if I want to have kids? And to me, it's the toughest question to ask. Answer. What do I tell a guy? I just told you not to move in with a woman. I just told you not to get involved with them long-term, unless you have authority or are willing to lead. So instead of holding in my hands or with my mouth, my words, instead of holding their ability to procreate the ability to pass on their lineage, their legacy, their ability to want to have the pleasures of having children, instead of doing that, what I tell them is you need to do your due diligence in terms of what it takes to be a leader in an authority figure. You need to do your background information and understanding what the powers that be might have in store for you. As you guys know, I have two children of my own. So I am a father. So it's hard for me as a father who loved my children to tell another man, don't have kids. So I will never do that. I will just give you information that you need to process in order to really figure out if you really want to do this. First of all, you're going to need to be able to have the authority, be willing to lead. See, the desire to have children is not enough. It's not enough. You're going to want to have to lead and be a responsible person for them. There's going to be some things in place for you to knock you off of being a parent. I call it the removal of the children. If you've been watching anything going on in the society right now, this removal of the children is very intentional. If you're looking at the kids now, it's very intentional. It was designed to subvert the authority of men, remove them from the household. It was designed to pervert society. This is where we're going with this particular presentation. And you as one man, it's not enough. Your desire to have one child, two, three, it's not enough. These things are in place intentionally to divide not only the family, but to divide everyone else. If they have access to the child, they must remove the man. And if you're easily removed, then they have access to the child. Once they have access to the child, then they have access to the rest of society. And they do right now. We're going to talk about how they do. And we're going to talk about why it's important for you to claim that authority amongst all costs. Now, some people may view my content and say, man, this guy's a Debbie Downer. I'm more of a realist. I basically just call it how I see it. You can take it or leave it. You can take 10% of what I say. You can take 50. You can run with it and take 100. But I just kick it real. I'm just telling you how it is. I don't live what I call the hope strategy. I don't prescribe to it. I don't lead you guys into hope. I don't wish. I don't pray in the point of a lucky star. I don't pray to God. I don't do any of that. I see what I see and I devise a plan to see if I can be work against it. So for you guys, let me give you some positives so you can say, at least you talk positive about being a dad. The positives are the majority of kids are still raised in two parent households. The majority. But that number goes down every year. Every year. Right now, we're hovering around 60%. For the most part, another positive real quick is that a lot of these two-parent households leads kids. They have a better chance into being productive citizens, two-parent households. So if we can keep the vast majority of people raised in this condition, it'll be great. Unfortunately, let's go back to some negatives. The media has told the two-parent household raised kids that they have what they call privilege. Oh, you got white privilege. You were raised in a two-parent household, lucky you. Okay? Well, it wasn't designed for the rest of these people to live in a two-parent household. Okay? They already had influenced them to live in a single-parent household. But now they continue to demonize it and saying two-parent households are privilege. How likely are those people to want to do that when they grow up? Remember, I said they're designed to pervert the society. Let's take a look at something real quick. Okay? We have what we call going on right now, beta male energy. Beta male energy right now going on in society. We're seeing it. Now look at these numbers right here. They have what we also call single mothers are heroes. Look at this. 1950, these are percentage of births that are to unwed women. We think single motherhood has been around for a long time. It really hasn't. This is a new concept and they use marketing campaigns to get you to accept it. 1950s, 5%. Not a lot of children born to unwed mothers. We get the 2012, we're almost dang near half. Okay? Some communities, some communities, 70% of the children born to unwed mothers. What typically happens right now, the father absence is a crisis in America. 19 million children, more than, more than, well we're approaching half at this particular point. This is in 2017. Live without a father in the home. Okay? And I'm telling you this for a reason, because the guys that want to be fathers, the four or five of you that raise your hands, probably half of you will not even raise your kid from zero to 18. You won't even have the authority to do so. The systems are already in place. They got a whole bunch of things in place for you to not be in that home. Your job is to maintain that authority. Remember I said, oh, being a father is not enough. Or wanting to be a father is not enough. You have to have the authority. You have to be willing to lead. Okay? So what does that lead to? You, kids that grow up without a father, four times as much to be raised in poverty, seven times likely to be a teenage pregnancy victim. More likely to be experienced child abuse. That's normally because potentially the single mother, the co-parent has moved in another man into your domicile, into her domicile. Okay? Behavioral problems. Who in here was raised by two parents? Okay? Wow, look at this. Okay? That represents, remember that graph I showed you? That represents that. Okay? What about this? Incarceration. They talk about mass incarceration. More likely to go to prison. The stat that I put in my second book, The Evolution, 73% of the prison inmates were raised in single-parent households, primarily single mothers. Okay? Child obesity. Are we seeing this today? Are we not seeing this? Okay? Two times it's likely to suffer from obesity. Why? Video games, social media. We're going to get to that. Crime. More likely to be a criminal. Somebody said one time in the 80s, oh, the numbers of the crime rate is going down. Okay? While single-parent hood was going up, they won an explanation. But why is that happening? Okay? It's happening because they're all in jail. Right? Can't be out there committing crime when you're already locked up. Education, two times more likely to drop out. See this? Beta male energy right here. This is beta male energy. Okay? And the media can get to your kids to incite you to do anything when you don't have an authority figure around. They can incite you into this division. Now, you see me, I'm black, but this right here ain't it. This ain't it. This is right here being a victim. Now, if you have a father that's leading you, you're not going to be a victim. If you've got a father that's leading you, you're not going to say, yeah, let's go outside, son. If you grew up with a father, you're not going to be out there thinking that this is going to make a difference. See, I teach my kids they're not victims. You make your own way. You design your own path. You don't go out there and yell and scream in the streets to try to force people to give you something. This is beta male energy and I called it out. I'm not afraid to call this out on social media. Okay? I called it out from day one that this ain't it. Okay? What about this stuff? Anybody hear this? It's a movie called Cuties in which these girls represent 11 year old girls. Okay? And they're in provocative poses designed to, well, the producer of the movie and the director, oh, this is a coming of age film about girls developing and realizing their sexuality and their power. Really? Is that what are you calling it? Because this looks like none of them had a dad. This looks like all of their mothers dragged them down to the audition and said, this is the only way to do it. Let's sell that peace leave if you've been listening to my content. You know what that is. Let's sell it because that's all we got girls. See, if these women have fathers, these young girls have fathers, you're not going to let your daughters go out there and do any of this. Okay? Even if you were in a marriage, okay? Even if you're in a marriage, a lot of men right now you're in hand pecked relationships, meaning she's the authority figure in the house. You can't even say anything about raising the kids because she believes she owns the kids. We're going to talk about that. So being married and being having the kids in a two parent household still is not a guarantee if you do not keep the authority. So let's go to my background a little bit. I have two kids, love them to death, 14. My daughter's age 14. She right now is developing her personality. Boy, is she ever, all right? She is now engaged in the world. Okay? My 13-year-old son, they're separated by 16 months, so they will have that, you know, year they're born close together. Okay? He is more like me. The daughter's more like the mom. I'm not saying anything negative. Both of them, black belts in Taekwondo, I got them really active. My son following my footsteps and my mother, we both played basketball. So he wants to be a basketball player. My daughter wants nothing to do with that. She went from soccer to U.S. Junior National Tennis, and then now she's a cheerleader. Okay? So I was very influential in their life, solid students, loved being a parent. So this is why it's difficult for me to advise you to not be a parent, but I want to tell you what you have ahead of you. Okay? But I have what they call a co-parenting agreement. Anybody a co-parent in here? Okay? We got a lot of co-parents. I can go on and on about my opinion about co-parenting. Okay? That's another topic. All right? I'm not a big fan of co-parenting. Two kids, two authority figures living in two separate households, splitting time. I think that was probably trying to make a deal with the devil at this particular point. It's not that beneficial. I don't think they turn out any more better than single-parent, raised households. That's just my opinion. Okay? But in order to get that deal, I had to fight for that. This is where you need to know. I want to be a dad. Well, this is probably what you're going to have to do. I had to fight for that. Through the courts, spend tens of thousands of dollars to get a 50% custody arrangement in which I see my kids half of their childhood. Not a second more. She doesn't give me a second more. Now, that's what it was the first seven years. Since I started doing YouTube, she said, uh-oh, I better make sure I let this guy do something. I'm tired of him calling me out. Okay? She made three attempts to get full custody after the initial judgment of 50-50. Over seven years, she went back to court. I want the kids. She went back to court. I want the kids. Went back to court. I want the kids. What did that make me do? More lawyer fees, more lawyer fees, more time. Remember, we got 50% approaching single motherhood. Showed you the graph. We got 70% in the black community. You know how much this is going on every day. Have you ever been to a family courthouse? Anybody raise your hand? You ever been to a family courthouse? This is going on in tens, I mean across the country everywhere. 10, 20 cases per judge, six courtrooms. And they're fighting for these children. They're fighting for the authority. Okay? So for me, a lot of people would say, look, just give them up. Pay your child support. Let them be raised by the mother. Save yourself the money. Don't fight. To me, I said I can't do that. I've seen too many strippers, rappers, kids that have got molested basketball players all saying, well, if it wasn't for my father not wanting to be there, I would have been this or my father was never there. Okay, so I didn't want to be that guy. I already medically knew that that wasn't going to be me. Okay? But for me, okay, I didn't want to explain to a broken child about the system. They don't want to hear that. I didn't want to explain to them that the women have an advantage in the courthouse. I didn't want to do that. I didn't want to tell them, oh, well, you know, the system is designed to get the male authority figure out. You think kids want to hear that? They don't care. They're like, where were you dad? So I had to fight, pay $60,000 to see my kids half of the time of their life. Okay? And I found other ways to see them. This is what I'm trying to advise you to do. So if you're in a situation, this is what you have to do. Okay? If you can afford the time and if you can afford the expense, these are possibilities for you. She wouldn't let me see them. So what did I do? I volunteered at the kid's school on the days she had custody. I said, I'm going to go volunteer at their school right in the classroom. Teacher, what do you need? You need a math assistant that day? I'm going to be there and I will go in there sit at the kids' tables. The kids love me. They were like, oh, how are you doing, Mr. Adams? They love me. All the kids. And the teacher saw me. So when she went in there being a spin doctor, oh, that's dad, dad, this, that, that, they're like, well, he's in my classroom all the time. Okay? I coached all of their sports. I signed them up. You're going to play basketball. She, she balled. The mom was like, no, I was like, they're going to play basketball. Tell, tell your son he's not playing basketball. So we play basketball. Who was the coach? Me. My daughter played soccer. Who was the coach? I ain't know nothing about soccer. Nothing. I'm doing soccer drills. I played ball with my hands. I don't know nothing about soccer. But I learned I was the coach three years straight, five teams, spring summer, spring season, fall season. I'm coaching them up. She's on the sideline telling the moms how bad of a dad I am. They're going, hmm, girls seem to like them. I got on the PTA board. I was on the PTA board. I ran a fundraiser for the kid's school. You know, she called the police twice on me for having access to my kids on the days her custodial day. My daughter's at a tennis tournament. She called the police. It wasn't my custodial day. She brought my daughter to tennis. I'm talking to my son. You can't do that. It's not your custody day. Call the police. I recorded it. Put it on YouTube. She took me to court. The judge threw the case out. He can do whatever he wants. He has freedom of speech. Plot twist. Unfortunately, she fell ill. Had to get a medical transplant. I can't give out too much advice. I mean information on that. HIPAA laws. But I got full custody during that time for a year until she recovered. She came back to get 50% custody. The judge said no. Eventually, she got back to full health and all of that to be able to get back to resuming to our co-parenting. But listen, I tell you all of that as a backstory to make you understand that you want to be a dad, you better anticipate that that is a possibility. Why? You don't have authority over that woman. She can do whatever she wants whenever she wants. There's judges, lawyers, mediators, social workers, counselors, child support officers, child protective services. All of these exist for the moment. She says, you know what? I don't want this man in my house anymore. By virtue of that, I can get the benefits from him being here, aka financially. But I'm going to remove his authority. Now, when I tell you all of those things are in place, they're designed for this very thing. The absence and the removal of male authority. Okay? So what must you do? Okay? What must you do? You must select who you procreate with very carefully. I want to have kids. Select them carefully. Now, the process of procreation does not require great judgment. You get real dumb real fast. Okay? You don't intend to procreate with people when you do. You're just practicing. Okay? However, that practice becomes reality when you let one slip past the goalie. And now that is your co-parent. If you haven't married this woman, the likelihood of you getting co-parenting rights dang near zip. Good luck. If you were married to her, you got a little bit more of a power position, which fortunately I was married to my children's mother. Then you have a little bit of negotiation in terms with the judges. Okay? But today's young men, they're missing out on their fathers. Okay? You look at today's young men and women. You try to find out what's missing. If a kid is born after 2010, essentially, they were born with what we call a smartphone in their hand. They know no other life. They're used to being able to access information from that smartphone. If you ever been around kids, and I've been around a lot of them ever since, when did I start coaching, 1998? 1998, 96. Okay? Kids will look like this now. Okay? It's what they do. Their whole world is right here. See, I was born. You're born anywhere in the 1970s, 1980s, maybe 1960s. Some of you guys, you don't know nothing about a smartphone. You live life without one. Your world is outside of that. Kids today, their world, their authority, everything they look up to is right there, plus video games and all of that stuff. Okay? For some of them, the drive, the ambition is no longer there. You were born in 1970s. Remember, you wished you had a video phone like the guy on the Jetsons? You remember that. They was like, damn, you got a video phone. They got them now. They can have, we live it in the Jetsons world. So with that comes the lack of drive, because everything's right in front of their face. They can get to it. They're running around with a $1,000 phone in their hand. You guys couldn't even get shoes from Payless. You had to beg your mother. Now they have that. So they're giving everything and a lot of their examples, unfortunately in America, most kids want to be not doctors, not engineers, not lawyers. They want to be content creators. They want to be YouTubers because they see YouTubers getting rich. They worship women. Worship of women comes from social media. Do you realize a kid has seen more naked flesh before the age of 13 than your grandmother, grandfather, granddaddy, great-grandpappy ever would have wished he would have seen? Your kid has already seen that. And if you're not managing it or willing to manage it, guess what? You're not ready to be a dad. You're not. If you're not willing to take that phone away from them, if you're not willing to go on their social media sites, let me see who you're following. Let me see who's following you. You're not ready. And a lot of people aren't. You see the tight jeans wearing guys. Remember that beta male behavior, everybody walking around with tight jeans, tight clothes, okay? Subservient behavior, especially from boys towards girls. The whole women empowerment, they can't talk to anyone. They're scared of girls now. You can't even say anything negative to a girl. You're going to be considered what? Toxically masculine. Anybody heard of the app Tick Tock? I call it Tick Thought on my channel. Okay. You got that going on. You got obviously emotional behavior and responses to things. Emotional responses are what? Beta energy, feminine energy. Boys crying. Boy, you can cry. That's what the mother would tell them. The father would be like, let me see some son. I'll tell you something. You need to wipe them tears real quick. You need to learn how to respond to things without using emotion all the time. This is what a father probably would tell a kid. The mom would tell them just to fall out and cry. Okay. They make excuses for failures in their life. Make excuses for failure. Kids got to excuse for everything. Don't be born black, short. You got one leg longer than the other. All right. You can get out of anything. You can get extra time for tests. You could claim my kids are half black and half white. They could claim they half racist. People half racist to them. It don't matter. There's an excuse for everything. This right here is on purpose. The society was designed to provide kids with excuses in order to divide. Anybody got teenagers? How many of them leave the house? They wake up, go get some breakfast, go right back in their room, video games all day, social media, little online porn. They're satisfied. They don't got no reason to go out. So listen, here's the deal. We turn over our kids to people who don't have our best interests. Now, this is kind of the meat of what's going on. This is what's going to tell you, you, I want to be a dad or you're trying to be a better dad, what you got coming for you right now. Okay. What you as the authority figure, once you release that, once you put yourself in a situation, divorce, co-parenting, you knock a girl up. Okay. You're a weak leader in your house, no authority. You let the system remove the kids from you. You don't fight. If your mother, the mother of the kid has authority of them, she's going to turn them over, see something here to social media, video games. Okay. Tick, thot, snapper, chat, Instagram, fake book. Okay. A lot of these things are distractions. The kid cannot release themselves from these apps. They can't. They're designed that way. They're direct marketing machines for socialism and communism. You don't see what they're seeing unless you check. Now they'll have conversations with you and you'll pick it up and you'll be like, oh, where'd you hear that? Well, you know where you heard it from. They heard them from these things. Okay. On tick, thot, there's daughters. Your daughters closes her bedroom door, starts twerking, grinding, and she's doing this for her friends, her girlfriends. She posted, oh, isn't it cute and this funny? There's grown men watching your daughter do this. Seductive dances. You go on this thing, man, and they're doing it. Girls everywhere. It's a smorgasbord for pedophiles. She doesn't have any idea about child predators. You can tell her all you want. Are you going to give her access to this? Are you going to deny her the ability to post? Are you going to control the post? If you're not willing to do that, I'm going to tell you you're not willing to be the authority figure she needs. Okay. Once slip up, she posts her address. She tells everybody where she lives. She puts a shirt on her school. She does a dance. Everybody knows where this kid goes to school. She's a target. Okay. This is what social media is doing. Okay. So the social Marxist movement, they're dominating the feed. Your friend follows the recording artists. Oh, this is my favorite artist. You better do some research on that artist. You're like, who is that? See, when I was growing up, we had the gangster rap coming in. Too short. We had Tupac later, NWA. My mother caught me with a two-short tape. Made me take it right back to the store. I was raised by a single mother, corporate America working woman. Somebody at her hair, one of her hairdressers said, if your kid comes up with this two-short tape, kill it. All right. Guess what I came up with? She said, where'd you spend that $10 I gave you? Oh, I bought some music. What'd you buy? Too short. I was like, she ain't going to know. She said, oh, you got bought two short tape? Take it back to the store. And this was before the parental advisory explicit lyrics. Stamp was on there. Now what about your son? We talked about your daughter. What about your son? He's seeing a lot of naked girls on there. It's basically going to kill his drive to go get a piece of peace leave himself. Why he got it right here? All he needs is some napkin, some lotion. He good. I'll jump right back on the video games. And then you said, what son? Why don't you want to be anything? He already got it right here in his phone. Now, what about what he's seeing from his female counterparts? We talk about sexual marketplace value. I don't have time to really talk about it, but kids at a certain age group, young girls develop, they're going to get a lot of attention. Young boys are simply not. That's just the reality of the situation. He's going to witness his female counterparts on TikTok, 10,000 followers, 20,000, 30,000 million followers. What does that do to the dynamics and the hierarchy on campus? Can he get this girl now? He has no chance and he's going to grow up with them through high school believing I have no chance at women. This is what's happening with the garnering of attention. The self-esteem of this kid is going to get killed. The only thing he can reach out now to are Instagram thoughts and pornography and video games. This is our culture. What's the next thing? Teachers, teachers, remember your teacher used to come to school. She had a big old nice modestly dress, big old dress on. Hi students. Anybody here what these teachers are doing now? They're doing monkey double backflips all over their students. Crazy amount of what's happening. A lot of them. This is a teacher, by the way. This popular meme is a liberal professor. She's a teacher. Do you realize when you send your kid to the public school indoctrination camp? That's what I call it. 93% of their primary school teachers are female. 93%. From kindergarten to sixth grade, 93%. You're the male authority figure. God forbid you don't have to go through a custody battle. You remain with your wife. But you send them to school, 93% of the people that they're going to get in contact to encounter are women. Today's modern teacher are young women. Like this. They've been trained in the public school indoctrination camp themselves about how to make kids the victim. They're not teaching arithmetic. They're teaching victim studies. Your kid comes back fired up. Oh, my teacher says she don't like Trump. I'm like, why is she talking to you about Trump? How did that conversation come up with your fifth grade teacher? Has no place in the school, but that's what they're doing. When they get to high school, the chances get a little bit better. 76% of the teachers that they're going to be around are female. 76%. More women exposed to women, more women exposed to socialism, Marxism. So you have less of a chance. By the time they get to college, 31% of the college professors are female. So let's focus on academic studies. If you look at the test results of kids, they're not performing very well. There's no emphasis in that. There's really no need for it anymore. You can make money without a college education for the most part. But in regards to the socialism that is going on in these universities, the gaslighting of the kids, talking about issues related to social justice, which is social division, it's prominent. How many men are in here fighting for these kids? You've been at work all day. Your kids been on that screen way more than they've seen you. I want to have children, coach. I'm just telling you what you're about to come against, okay? You got to be willing to be able to be the dominant over all of these things. If you're not, I'm going to just say good luck. Good luck. Not only that, your co-parent selection skills, your main selection skills are going to have to be perfect. In these, what do they call it? Coronavirus. This coronavirus, the teachers in Los Angeles Unified School District, their union decided when they said it was safe to open the schools, they said, well, as a union, we don't want to return to school until you meet our demands. You think they would have said, we would like more fathers to be present. We would like the kids to have better exposure to books. You think they would have said, we want kids to be able to have a great learning environment when they leave this? You know what they said they wanted as a list of demands? We want to defund the police. We want increased taxes on the wealthy. We want implementation of Medicare for all. This is what they're focused on. They're not focused on your kid. They're focused on indoctrinating your kid. Where's your authority going to come in there? Some teachers said we should just get rid of history altogether. Guys, if you know anything about history, all right, the people who lack knowledge of history are normally doomed to repeat it. They are covering up their misdeeds. They're hiding things. This is what you have to deal with in the school. So again, I volunteered at my kid's school to be able to see them more. I saw nothing but women. The new name was the women, the lunch ladies, women, teachers assistants, women, PTA board member. All of them were women except for me, special ed, et cetera, et cetera. So you think you're just going to go to work and leave your kid at the public school indoctrination camp and all as well? No, they're creating more division in order to subvert your authority. You have to be able to counteract that. Who's the next person you're going to leave them over to? Oh, there she is. Mom, who grew up with a mother that was a stay at home mom. Okay, look at that. That's more than I would have thought. That's more than I would have thought. Okay, see the myth of single motherhood has been exposed. I gave you the statistics already. Kids are failing in that dynamic. It is a recipe for disaster. It is exactly white, it is exactly privilege if you have the opposite of a single motherhood household. Okay. So today's woman is told, get your career, go to work. I'm not against that. Go ahead and do so. Oh, you're going to be a super mom too? That ain't going to happen. It's not going to happen. You're going to have to make a choice. 72% of women today work either full time or part time outside of the home. 72%. In the 1980s, it was 50%. Okay, so those guys that raised their hand, they looked like they were, you guys grew up in the 80s. Okay. So they have a special place for her to drop off the kids because you work and she works. The public school indoctrination camp. If you get a divorce, they'll do it for free daycare or we'll give you a program. You never meet the teachers. You never meet these people that are dealing with your kids. As a result, what typically happens is these kids are taught more on how to be a unwed mother. We already talked about the statistics. In order to do that, she'll pass the kid through a network of babysitters, elderly relatives. If you're in a single parent household, free programs to drop off the kids. Many times she uses these as a network to prevent you from getting custody. She doesn't even have custody of the kid and she's fighting you for custody. You go, what is going on here? This is because remember I told you about the lawyers, all of these people, the mediators, counselors. These things are in place to remove your authority. A working mom, in my opinion, cannot raise the kid properly if her only option is to pass him through the public school indoctrination camp. There's no way. There's no way. Do we see the results of this now? Look the evidence supports my argument now. The people who don't want me to say this, oh well that's not necessarily true. And then they enter into evidence the one obscure case of where it worked. Oh look, look at this kid. He's okay. Well I'm looking at, remember I worked at schools in volunteer, I'm looking at everybody. Everybody's a sample case and I'm looking at it. It's not working. So when you select your mate, are you selecting a woman that has more degrees than a thermometer, waving her degree around? I'm a single strong independent woman and you knock her up. Well you have a publicly school indoctrination camp raised kid. Son husbands produce products of the single mother raised kid. That's basketball player kissing his mother. I have a mother. I don't kiss her like that. Not as an adult but the son husband is a direct effect of the removal of the masculine man who she could not maintain or chose to turn over his authority to sell you out for nickels and dimes in support and turn them over to the public school. The son husband essentially is the, he basically is the masculinity, he's the masculine presence that is used in place, he's the masculine present that is used in place of the absent male in a single mother's life. That community in particularly 70% or better, I believe he's from Washington DC, go look up the stats. He basically is going to assume the duties of the father who was removed or poorly selected by her and he's going to give her all of that masculine energy up into a point. I won't say what else is going on but what she's going to do, she's going to keep him close as she would a husband. She's going to guilt him into supporting her because she highly likely is never going to get married ever again. She knows that she hopes, she's on Tinder trying to date me or date somebody who has beta male energy to be the father who stepped up. All right, not the stepfather but she's going to guilt him into being that lifelong support as a husband would be. She's basically going to sabotage any connections that man will have at selecting his mate. She'll sabotage you because she knows that is her means of support going forward. If she has a daughter, that daughter is going to be seen as competition to her. So if that daughter remains in the household long enough, what's going to happen is that daughter is going to be the younger version of her. She's got to remove that daughter in order to find her a man. So she'll feed that daughter to the lions out there, Pookie, Ray Ray, Chad, Tyrone, Dexter, Derek, whoever it is, she'll release them to the hounds and she'll be a victim. Teenage pregnancy, pregnancy at a young age and then guess what? The cycle repeats. We're going to keep this wheel going. Who benefits? Not you as the man, not the male authority. Who else benefits? The government because now we got future prisoners. We got public school indoctrinated kids. Okay? We got a whole dang thing that can feed this line, this beast that we call United States. Church, the pastor. All right? We turn over all of authority to give nickels and dimes to this man. Unfortunately, there's not a lot of men running the church. The church is a rest haven for progressive thought and ideology. The church is no longer. Okay? But there's still people that have faith and believe, they have spirituality, they have religion. No big deal. You'll still be able to go there, but you'll see a lot of, a lot of things that you don't want to see there. A lot of trans ideology, a lot of homosexuality, people masquerading as choir directors with more feminine energy than you see in even the women. They will volunteer themselves to raise your kids in the nursery program. You don't even know. You're listening to the pastor and they're twerking for the kids. Okay? The progressive ideology has infected and infested the church and the pastor doesn't want to fumble the bag. All right. I'm not going to give this up. I'm not going to assume authority even in my own church. I need this money. What's happening? Money becomes the priority. So instead of leaving a man, all right, or instead of leading men with the message that can help empower their community, empower their church, the church is led by women, now female pastors. Okay? Which that is against the biblical principles, right? That's against the Bible. As far as I'm concerned, I'm not a very big Bible scholar, but I grew up in the black church. They try to hook me up with all the hood rats, the single mothers and try to save their life. And I say, hell no. I don't want her, but that's against biblical principles. But progressive ideology has told them, let's just let it happen. What's the worst that can happen? Those are some words to die by. What's the worst that could happen? Oh, they just want to get married. What's the worst that could happen? Where do we see now? Little boys got TikTok, Instagram channels, putting makeup on themselves. You remove the authority of the man, you feed them to the lions. So you guys, I want to be a dad. This is what you should think about because it is happening live in front of our face. You got to be the authority and it's going to take fighting every day, paying attention. We turn our kids over to coaches. Some things are good. This is a good thing. I was a coach. I took care of a lot of kids. I was with them through a lot of their first experiences with things. They came back and talked to me. Some kids, this might be the very first male authority figure that they've ever seen. The only way they see them is they show some sort of signs that they can be talented in sports. If they're not talented in sports, they miss this person all together. So this man basically volunteers. He may be a self-employed guy, blue collar worker. He may be a dad himself. He may be a guy that just loves sports and be passionate about them, but he's going to give your son or daughter their first lessons and being responsible. He may push them. But let me tell you something. I started coaching in 1996, 1998, something like that. And coaching from there to when I left in 2012 was completely different. The kids were different. Everything was different. What I could say to a kid was different. Oh, she got an eating disorder. Don't say you got to be. Oh, don't tell them to run through the wall. Tell this one to run through the wall. Oh, be conscious about this. Oh, this one has special needs. Geez, Louise. I'm just trying to get my kids to perform. But now I got to be a counselor in this one. This is what the responsibilities are. This person is essentially the savior in many communities. This is the only port of masculinity left. And I'm going to tell you it's not very much left. Okay. By the time they reach coach, it might be way too late. Some of your biggest sports heroes right now were products of single mothers. And a coach saved that kid. A coach saved that kid from being on the 7 11 all star team. LeBron James, Kevin Durant, they had to go get these kids out of the house. No, he needs to be at this tournament. We're gonna pay for that kid to fly all over the damn country to be seen by prospect, be seen by scouts. Okay. Zion Williamson. Same thing. Mother was single mom. She met a man. She married him. That was the basketball coach. He was the basketball coach. Now he was the number one pick in the draft a few years ago. Both of these men, Kevin Durant, Zion Williamson got on TV when they had their best moments in life. Kevin Durant wins the MVP. Zion Williamson first pick in the draft. These men built like the most alpha men you would ever see in your life. They got on TV and cried like babies about their mama. My mama's the real MVP. Really, she's made selected very good. You never seen your father. You were dragged out of the house to be an all star. Your mama's the real MVP. Oh, she sacrificed. She got up early to take me to practice. That's what a mama does. That's what they do. Now if she had a dad there, guess what? Probably would have been a little bit better. She didn't have to sacrifice. Zion Williamson got on TV. Stepfather dragged them all over the damn country to play coached his teams, et cetera, et cetera. He cries about his mama. And I'm looking at this going, is this what we're really going to teach everybody? Listen, I'm not big on women's worship because it's by design. We worship women every day of our lives. They have marketing campaigns to worship women. Hashtag believe all women. Hashtag me too. Hashtag women create life. I'm like, did I miss science class? Did you miss science class? I think two people created that life. She was the incubator. She passed it between her legs or her stomach. Thank goodness she did that. You probably wouldn't have been here. However, she did her role. I did mine. Mother's Day, we make a big old celebration. Father's Day, here's your tie. Enjoy the football game. See, the last bachelor in the hope right here is you. See, that's you. You're the protector. You're the authority figure. They put all of these people in place to subvert your authority. By the time your kid gets home, from all of these people and all of these vehicles of influence, there you are. Now, what are you going to do? I want to be a dad. Time to be a dad. You got to follow up and see what your kid just went through all damn day. That's if you care. That's if you can focus on that. How many people got time for that? You got time for that? You better make time for it. You better make a whole bunch of time. Because if you don't follow up with this kid on a routine basis, the influence will not be you. Now, our fathers and mothers, sometimes we forget how young they were when they had us. When I see my kids, I'm like, okay, my kids are 14. You know, I had my kids around 28, something like that. My mother had me when she was 20. Now, when I think about that, I'm like, dang, like, wow, these people were really young when they had us. But they didn't have the things that we had in place to supersede their authority. So as a father, guys, I just want to let you know, you're facing uphill battle. Many of you guys will be displaced from the home, unfortunately. And even if you're displaced from the home, you got to be the authority. You have to find a way. Divorce rates are approaching 60%. Single motherhood rate in the black community approaching 80% in some areas. In the white communities we're talking about, it's approaching 50%. Most of them, your kids are going to be split up in these so-called co-parenting arrangements. Since I have a little time, I'll talk about co-parenting real quick. There's two castles. There's two set of rules. How in the world are you going to be able to manage what that person does with your children? It is impossible unless you're one of the few co-parenting situations where you have a good relationship. I was talking to a brother that was here earlier and he seems to have that or on his way to have that. And we're like, that's not the norm. So good for you to have that. But I've seen co-parenting situations where the kid comes over. This was a teenage daughter of a neighbor that I knew. When the daughter was at the mom's house, the boyfriend would come in and spend the night. This daughter's 17. Is that happening at the dad's house? Hell no. But it's happening at the mom's house and legally he has no say in that. How good is co-parenting working? It ain't going to be too good because the dad has no more authority over that child. So that is the problem with co-parenting. Even if you get along, there's two castles and the kid can do what we call parent shopping. I'm going to ask this parent first if she says no. I'm going to ask the dad and I'm going to go back and forth till I get what I need from one of them and I'm going to use both of them, pit them against each other to get what I want. Kids are very crafty. So these are why I don't agree with it. What's the solution? Well, damn. Some societies just leave the kid with the dad. Why? The dad's going to look after the kid better. How do I know that? Look at United States of America. How are we doing with the kids being with the mom? So another uphill battle, you'll be disenfranchised through the workplace. I hope you guys are doing well in your employment. But there's more women coming in. There's more competition. They can lower the wages. It's going to be harder for you to keep up in this world right now. Especially right now, they're ruining your businesses. It's going to be tough for you to keep this up. If you have a bad situation, you might face disrespect from the mom, the mom of the child, and you'll get trampled over in the courts. If you're not willing to spend, okay, all my dad's to be, I want to have kids, you're going to have to spend 20, $30,000 just fighting, fighting for your kid if she happens to go rogue on you. I have a thing called the marriage will in my book. She'll probably go rogue on you. We call it the bait and switch in which once you're fully invested, once she's got what she wants, she got the house, the car, the kids, she don't have to be anything to you. You're worth more divorced than married. She can still get the benefits from you and remove you and then live independently. And the government and the states, they will prop her up and give her a false sense of security. Here's a job. Here's a little bit of support. Here's a program for this. We'll have you get some free day care. Guys, the days of where they could, their only choice was to stay with you, they're gone now, okay? And a lot of people have this fantasy of being with kids and being with a family. That's almost a thing of the past for the most part. If you live in a major city, that's gone. You live in Los Angeles, New York, Chicago, Washington, DC or something like that, it's gone. If you live in like Orlando, we're here, might have 200,000 people, a little bit more possible, okay? Because you don't have that corporate element dragging and trying to get them out of the house, all right? It's still here but not, okay? So you might hear me talk about women a lot. I don't blame the women for this, okay? I don't like anyone. Children, men, they will take advantage of the situation, okay? They'll just take advantage of what's presented in front of them. You'll do the same thing. If it was you, that was going to benefit. Unfortunately, you're not the beneficiary in this, okay? So you'll watch your children be taken from you and have to come up with the solution or you'll have to try to maintain that authority. It is important that you do not abdicate your position of authority and allow women to continue to lead. They're not born to lead. Biblically, they tell you that. They're meant to be in addition and a support to your life. Some people are uncomfortable with men who say that, oh, we hate women. No, that's progressive women we talking about. I don't hate women. I hate them progressive women because they have bitten from the apple of feminism, okay? And your young boy and your young girl's life are at stake, okay? Now for the irresponsible fathers, I do have to say, hey, man, that's messed up that you did that to your kid. Most of the time, it's not the kid that they're trying to be away from. It's the woman that they chose to bust a nut in, okay? That woman becomes problematic. It seems a lever. So you guys, again, with mate selection, you have to really be careful about what's going on here. So look, solution wise, again, be conscious about the mate that you select if you want to have authority in your life. If you have kids now, try to get back into your position of authority with that kid. Be involved with all of those things that we talked about because all of those things, all of those people, social media teachers, all of that stuff, they will see your kids way more than you see them, especially when they get to middle school. They'll have seven teachers now. Five or six of them will be women, all right? Then they'll have a coach. Then they'll have their phone. By the time you come in, hey, dad, all right, are you gonna say, hey, hey, hey, Johnny, get back here. How's your day? Worst question you can ask a kid. Damn. Fine. Good. Yep. Hey, Johnny, where's your phone? Let's go through and see what you've been looking at all day. That conversation's gonna get real. Eyes gonna start bugging out. I did that to my daughter once. She jumped out of her skin, wasn't ready. You should be doing this to your wives too. Your wife should be doing it to you, okay? Because if that's what you're gonna do, everybody's, oh, we need a little bit of privacy. Oh, no. You need privacy? Okay. You don't need no marriage then. You damn near don't need no kids. Kids want to go and close the door. Bam. Oh, no, we got closed door hours here. Your door can be closed between these hours and these hours. The rest of the time, open them damn doors up. So when I walk by, you can see what the hell you're doing. Those computer screens, all right? I want to be able to see it walking past the door. I don't want to have to walk clean into the room, turn around, and hear you click, clicking off that damn app or whatever you're doing when I roll up or they hear you coming up the stairs or right down the hallway. If you have a chance, get involved, stay involved. If we don't do this, I'm telling you, if we continue to go in the direction we're going, kids have no chance. You dads need to stay involved. The future dads, I know I just chased a lot of you guys away from being dads, but it is now more important than ever that if you choose to be a father, you have the mindset to be an authoritative father. Doesn't mean you have to control everything, but you have to be the position. Because I had the father last right there, right? The father should have been first. Everything should be influenced from there. So for me, YouTube is where you can find me. I have a YouTube channel here. That's what it looks like. The return of masculinity. Masculinity for me is not how you look, how strong you are, how many bench press reps you can do, how many girls you can get. It's about being valuable and having authority. These are two books that I wrote. They had some in the hall. I couldn't haul it all the way from California. Everything, but the free agent lifestyle is really geared towards men who, maybe you went through a bad breakup, you're trying to recover. You went through a divorce, you're trying to recover. You're single and you're trying to find your way in a society where there's no more women willing to present value to you, and they're presenting entitlement to you. How do you adapt? They want to be worshiped now. Can you outworship the internet right now? Can you outattention the internet right now? You can't. They got dating apps. You know how many do. You want to know, find a marginally looking woman, five photos of her, make your own dating app. As a woman and see what response you get, you will be shocked at the amount of men that will throw themselves into worship at her feet. You'll be shocked. I've done it and I was like, wow. Now I see why she won't return my message. Same thing on Instagram. Same thing with DMs. It's going to be difficult. The Evolution is the other book that I wrote, Feminism's Reverse Engineering of American Women. By design, they've done the Adam and Eve live in front of you. And she bit. How do we overcome that? This is my podcast. It is free, SoundCloud, Apple, Google Podcast, Spotify, Anchor. That's all free. That's my website right there, Greg AdamsOne.com. Then you can get to everything. So people are like, how do I find you? Either YouTube or the website will direct you to everything else. This is a course that I did here because a lot of people in talking to about relationships, they believe that I'm saying, be scared of women. I'm saying, be more selective. And where should your focus be in life? Men focus too much on women. Everything you do revolves around women. Except for the 21 convention. You probably were thinking, where the hell is going to be at? Even coming to a men's convention, you were like, I wonder if there's going to be something at the 22. Maybe I can go over there. I know it. You want to go to the gym. You thinking about all them girls running around with the booty shorts. You doing your bench press. You come by. She knows you're watching. Okay. You waiting out there trying to get a date. So I try to get men to remember why we're here. Yes, women are fine. I love women. I love the pleasures of them, but it ain't going to be my all day, every day thing. There's a whole bunch of things that I can accomplish in this life. And men right now are stagnant because there's too many women to worship. All right. I always told the last group yesterday I said, let's play a game. Let's go through your Instagram. I'll pull my Instagram up. Let's roll through five minutes. Let's see how much ass is on your Instagram and how much is on mine. And I can tell you who's worshipping women the most. You guys following all these thoughts on Instagram and you wonder why you're distracted. Okay. And conquer. We teach you everything that you should be thinking about other than that. And then when you get to the women, there's a section on there. I'm teaching you how to understand their lingo. I've been around women for 16 years from age 16 to 22. Every day I've been hearing them. They learned how to manipulate me. I learned how to manipulate them. I had the position of authority. Therefore, I often was the winner. Right. So I understood what they were trying to do with me and what they mean when they say certain things. Specifically, when I hear men say this, I go, oh, they say, I feel, that's what they start their sentence off with. You feel. I feel that. That right there is a red dead old flag. All right. No men should be saying, I feel. You should say, I know, I think, I believe, I understand. See, that's evidence. You're about to hit them with evidence. A lot of people that counter me with the stuff that I produce. I feel like you're saying that. So are you saying, no, you know, you're putting words in my mouth. You're leading with feelings and I can't counteract feelings when I present hours worth of logic and evidence and prove and background. You see what I mean? I feel requires no evidence. It only requires the feeling. That is a female characteristic of female trait and they will use that against you. Well, I feel like, okay, let's get past your feelings. Now, what evidence do you need? What evidence do you have that something exists? Okay, so there's a code there for this coaching program 21 convention or it says 21 con 50% off what I call conquer. You can go to, if you go to my website, Greg Adams one.com. It'll be there. And thank you very much gentlemen. I hope this was enough information for you to think maybe you can take 10% of what I said and apply it to you. Maybe 2% maybe 50 100 doesn't matter. But if you have any questions, there's a microphone there. If not, thank you very much for listening. I've got a question. Yes, sir. At first off, I want to say thank you. Thank you for saying it real. Thank you for sharing some of your story on what what we need to be prepared to do to fight to be fathers. So say I had a kid today or tomorrow, right? Just, you know, Thanos snapping the thin air. What do you see as some of the upcoming trends 10 15 years down the line when that kid is a teenager, right? Because you talked about smartphones today time now, but in the future, what do you see as potentially complicating that issue even further? Good question, man. Thank you for that question. I really believe this trans issue is going to be prevalence in our society. Okay. And this is because there was a recent court battle between two co parents, two divorcing parents. One was a liberal professor. She's an educator. Other dad is a employer or worker. Well, they had a son. On the days the mom had the son, she wanted the son to be a daughter. On the days the dad had the son, he wanted the son to be a boy. They went to court, duked it out, duked it out. He won initially. Then they, because what happens is when you go to court, there's a hearing. The judge makes a preliminary judgment, but then you go in and fight at the trial. So once they got the preliminary results, the judge was in favor of not having a procedure hormones to be injected in this boy to make them a girl. Okay. When they went through the trial, the mother won. So the kid is going to be chemically altered. And I believe the kid is no longer than 11 going to be chemically altered to a girl. Now they're pushing this guys. They're pushing it. And now some of the people that you've seen, there was a clip here. I'm just guessing. Let me see if I could go back. Okay. A photo that I showed you. They sneak this stuff in. Okay. One of these girls looks suspect to me. Doesn't look like 100% female. Okay. Could be wrong. However, they sneak in this stuff in guys. And they're introducing this stuff to your kids. They're introducing this stuff to you when they're at school. They're teaching them how to play with the butthole. All right. And then over time, you're going to see more that you don't see kids right now dressed as boys and girls or whatever vice versa. But in the next 10 years, you're going to see it with your eyes. And by the time you start seeing it with your eyes, you have to realize that fight's been going on 10 years ago. Okay. It didn't just happen by the time you saw it. They've been fighting this battle already. Now I'm not a sensitive person. So I'm not sensitive to the needs in regards of people's wanting to express themselves the way they need to be expressed. I just know how society balances out. Stuff is either natural or not. Okay. We need hierarchy, which is important, and we need order. Some of this stuff that they're opening up, they're allowing them to do everything. There's people that are black saying they're white now. There's people that are white growing dreadlocks and saying, I'm a black woman. There's a woman running for vice president saying she was black. Then she was Indian. Then she was Asian because India's in Asia. What the hell are you? Okay. See, this is what we're talking about. This is all chaos and disorder. And they introduce you to this stuff. They're your kids to this stuff every day will make sense. No longer make sense. So that's what I would see right now. Next 10 years, you got a kid that transition is going to be big. And they're going to come home one day, you're going to see your kid come home. Remember, you put your t-shirt on your head and act like you have female hair. All right. He's going to have a full wig on. What do you do now? What do you do now? All right. Thank you guys. Appreciate you. The man in that clip, Anthony Dream Johnson, who says he wants to abolish feminism and make women great again. It also says with the trademark, make women great again. Always great. Make women great again. They're going to do a three day seminar for women led by all men. In mansplaining news, a three day conference for women led by men hopes to make women great again. How the 22 convention will make you the greatest you ever. Raise your femininity by 500%. First of all, how is a man supposed to tell a woman how to be the ultimate woman? A woman needs to be taught how to be great again. All my words. How to land a husband. How to lose weight. How to pump out a bunch of kids. Why do men think they need to fix the problems of women? Well, it says the world's ultimate event for women. You know, Orlando, Florida, that's going to be the scene of the crime. It's mansplaining platoosa. And say no to the toxic bullying feminist dogma. Taught by men to make women great again. Taking the stage now is the founder of the 22 convention you're in for a treat, Mr. Anthony Dream Johnson. Anthony Dream Johnson. Anthony Dream Johnson. The first president of the Manosphere. It's run by all men, which promises to quote, make women great again. This course is guaranteed to raise your femininity by 500%. Together we will make women great again. Excuse me, I'm mansplaining here. She said there's nothing. And welcome back to the 22 convention for that being held for the first time ever at 21 summit 2020 in Orlando, Florida. Our next speaker is now a returning speaker to the 21 convention stage over here with the 22 convention. So it'll be his first time at 21 summit. He's actually a huge YouTuber with over 150,000 subscribers from around the world, mostly men, but some women too. And before he actually was a coach for men, which is a big thing for him now. He's been a almost lifelong coach for women, coach women's basketball in high school and college for over 16 years. And now life has come for a circle. He's back to coach women again. So without further ado, please let me welcome for the first time ever to the 22 convention stage coach Greg Adams. I'm going to take all questions towards the end of the presentation. So if you have questions, please write them down and I'll be happy to talk to you. Okay. How are you guys doing with all of this femininity in the United States? All right. Everybody love it. Men are leading the charge in femininity. They have taken over where you have abandoned it. There's more men being feminine and accepting and being happy about being feminine. And women are assuming the masculine position. Now I'm going to tell you how we got here. I'm going to tell you how we got here. See the hardest thing for women to do is admit fault. Okay. And they don't have to because they've been under a shelter of campaigns that protect them from accountability and responsibility. Anytime they do anything wrong with a smile and two fingers behind their back cross, they can get away with anything. And weak men, feminine men have allowed them to do so. This is why we're here. Okay. So what are the results? We hear these campaigns that I call women worship and I'm going to talk to you about why I don't consider women worshiping a good thing. These campaigns, we've heard them all. Okay. Believe all women, which we know is a foolish deed. They're human. You can't believe human. Okay. Women are queens. Black girl magic. Campaigns designed by marketing companies to get men to say, oh, yeah, we should worship them. Women create life. Last time I took a biology class, I was told otherwise. Not all women would. These are things that we have right here on the tip of our tongue ready to bail out any fault. Smile two fingers cross behind their back. Okay. So this is how we got here. And we got here because of what we call this equality movement right here equal. Some people don't understand what equal meant. We have twisted it into a different strategy, meaning equal outcome. That was never the design, equal opportunity and rights was the design. Okay. So because of communism, I mean, I'm sorry, feminism, there is basically a force that has been applied to society. Okay. There's a great force. The intent was probably genuine. The communists jumped the board twisted it a little bit. Okay. But if anyone's heard of Sir Isaac Newton in physics, he talked about if you apply an equal force, there will be an equal and opposite force applied. So a lot of times you think, oh, this is good. All right, more women at work. Women make more money. But as a result, there's going to be an equal and opposite reaction to that force. And there are going to be things which I call consequences and repercussions. They're going to be things that occur because that happened. And it's going to be opposite of what the intent was. Okay. So equal and opposite is what I'm talking about today. Okay. So we've experienced this because of what I call the women worship, the side stepping of accountability. We now see the side effects of what feminism has brought us. So we talked about the feminine, the feminine role that men have assumed. A lot of women are frustrated with men. You're frustrated with men. What's wrong with these men? The famous words of every woman 35 and older, where have all the good men gone? That's the question. They're gone the way of feminism. Okay. Let me tell you how we got here. This is how I became coach. This is me suited up. Those are the ladies that I coach. That's me at the college level. Division two head coach. I was division one assistant coach and assistant head coach for a long time. Did this for 16 years in which my job was to convince young women age 16 to 19 to come to my school. I was selling. I had value. I had a value proposition for them. They performed based on me. My job was to not see them and worship them. If I worship them, I would fail. I had to see women in a different light and I started this at age 19. I did it all the way up to age 36. I saw women as human beings. I never got into that worship position where I elevated them based on these marketing campaigns. Okay. I had to get them to run through a wall. I had to get them to perform. I had to get them to agree to come to my school. I had to get their parents to say watch over my daughter when she gets there. And then I got to see that daughter. I got to travel with them. Go to hotel, the hotel, airport, the airport, bus to bus. I got the inside information that a lot of men in that age group don't get to get. All right. They don't get to receive this. Okay. That's me. You can see me down there. I was always around women, young women, older women, the coaching staffs. I was almost always the only men that traveled with these women. They would see me in the airport. We would go to restaurants and they would say some guy would see me with all of these women. Oh, you must be the luckiest man alive. More women worship. And I would say I would train places with you in a second. I'm done with these women. Okay. Add the inside information, the intel. Now, this is what I call the greatest red pill of all time. You hear about the red pill, the blue pill, you've been following any of this content. This experience has been the biggest red pill in my life. Okay. It taught me what women could be, what women are. So now when I go on my platforms and I tell men, yeah, they're not sugar and spice and everything nice like you believe, they're looking out for themselves. Now, this could be considered hate speech, but it's not. I'm telling them that these are just human beings. They don't deserve the worship that our society has given them. Neither do we. However, people believe that I'm doing the wrong thing by telling men this. Listen, I do what I call recognizing human patterns of behavior. On Instagram, one of my nicknames is Coach Dredamas. Okay. Because what I do is I take an event and I say, well, based on what I've seen people do, this is probably the outcome. And people go, man, boy, you just gotta be downer. You don't have any hope, any faith. And I say, no, I know people. I know when these things occur, this is probably gonna be the response. And I do that for men and women based on my experience. So once I got done with this, I started a fitness training program in California. And of course, most of my clients, women. So I left coaching girls. Most of my clients, 70% of them were women. And I got to be with them. I'm their psychologist. I get to talk about them, their spouse, their boyfriends, their breakup, their ups and downs. So I'm getting information most men aren't getting. They're getting the worship. Praise her. And I'm getting Jesus. It's another human being with a lot of faults. But I'm seeing not a lot of accountability and responsibility, right? Okay. So what I decided to do was go on YouTube and telling my experiences. And why? Well, listen, was born to a single mother. They were both, you know, mother and father, not married. Father was around. But as a teenager, me and my mother moved across, we were cross country from my father. So he was just a telephone call away. He's not a really great communicator. So the calls were like six months apart. Okay. So I grew up in the single mother household. So I have some intel on that as well. Okay. She was a corporate driven individual. I wouldn't say strong and independent, but very much independent work for three or four Fortune 500, Fortune 500 companies, very talented and skilled person when they came to that. However, I'm a young man without a father. Okay. I'm a young man raising himself. I'm the statistic. I'm the anomaly that made it. Most young men don't make it in that environment. Then I did what most people do when they live the hope strategy. I attempted marriage out of that marriage. I produced two children. They are now 14 and 13. Got a daughter. The oldest son follows their 16 month apart. Okay. Like most people in America, marriage doesn't work, especially if they've been raised in a single mother household. The likelihood of that working is slim to none and slim just died. Okay. These people know nothing about marriage, nothing about family. All they know is what the media has told them about it. They sold them a dream. And they also sold feminism to that woman. And at any particular point, she can latch onto that and destroy the family. Okay. So I've lived a crazy life by this particular point. So now I say, I'm going to go on YouTube and tell all these dudes what's going on here because not only did someone introduce feminism to my wife, then wife, she introduced me to the legal system associated with it, that feminism took 18 months to figure out how to divide zero and zero. Okay. Then not only that, not only that took us seven years for her to figure out that I am a co parent, went to the court three times to get full custody after the judge said, no, we're going to make it 5050. She couldn't live with it. Tens of thousands of dollars. Meeting with judges, mediators, attorneys, counselors, child support office, child protective services. Police called on me three times just for talking to my son at a common event. My daughter was playing. I recorded it and I put it on YouTube. She took me to court. See, these systems are in place for women because of feminism. Feminism put these things in place to destroy the family. Now people don't know this because they've never been to a family courtroom. You never been to a courthouse. So the people that say, Oh, don't you want love? Well, that's not what marriage is about. It's not because I go to the family courthouse and I've been there over 100 times. I'm looking at people who loved each other, going at each other's throat with people employed to make this happen. That's the safety net for women. So when they get in marriages now, a woman knows, hell, this doesn't work out. This is my starter husband. I can destroy this family. And this guy's worth more divorced than married. I can get some benefits from him, go out there and ride the carousel, enjoy my strong independent life. Who gets hurt the most? The children. We've done this for the last 40, 50 years. And we wonder where have all the good man gone? You know where they went? 60 million aborted. There's probably some good men in there. Okay, probably a couple of good men in there. But we fight. Oh, this woman who went out there and threw her body around the carousel, she gets to decide because she created life wrong. That's wrong. She did. She was an incubator. She passed it from her body. Two people created that life. But feminism will say one person did and she gets to decide. Where have all the good man gone? Good men will agree with this stuff. Anybody heard of Gladys Knight? She had a song called Mr. Welfare. Stuff the media will hide. They'll never play this song. It talked about women don't go see Mr. Welfare. It's going to destroy your family. You don't hear that today. We hear women praise women worship. Women can do no wrong. Women have choice. Even when they mess up, even when they're at fault, can't blame them. The oppressor did it. So here I am on YouTube two years later, literally to the almost to the day I've been doing this for two years. Okay, over 100 and something thousand subscribers on one channel. I have six channels dedicated to this in which I'm giving her hitting truth. People call me a lot of things on these channels. If they oppose my view, women, hater, bitter, hurt. I've heard them all. So don't think you're going to get on the microphone after this would be like, you're just I've heard all of these things. One thing they never call me, though, they never call me a liar. They never say he's lying to you. They're going to use all of these other phrases to try to distract you about what I'm telling you based on my experiences. I talk about stuff like this. Selecting a mate is vital important for men. So for women too. This is the iceberg theory which I say for men mate selection and this is his what I call the baloney pony because I run to be PG 13 program. I don't curse. This is his rod that he goes out with and he throws it out there looking for a mate. He selects from three characteristics age, sexual attractive or sexual attractiveness and his desire to have sex. Most of the time any man that lies down with you, he's not intending to have a baby with you. He's just practicing unless he agrees to it, then he intends to do it. Unfortunately, you go to the courthouse. Remember, she created life. Well, go to child support court and then apply that principle. What do they say? Oh, you did it too. So you're responsible. What happened to she created life? Okay, what happened to that? Oh, now all of a sudden I'm in it. You see the imbalance is there. Selecting the mate, the dangers of the wrong mate selection. Guys don't think about this. They don't think about looking at her financial background, her emotional age. Yes, she's 22. She act like she's 10. She's 45. She act like she's 20. Okay. These are the things that you need to look out for. What about this student loan debt? You know who the bulk holder of the student loan debt is in this country? Women. Almost to the tune of 70% of that debt. Somebody said, what? Go and learn. But they also saddled you with debt. So if I'm going to pick a partner, I'm also assuming her debt. That's going to be important, right? Okay. I also talk about this. It's a little blurry. It's called the marriage will. They lead with emotion, which I'm not big on. I'm not going to leave with emotion. I'm going to leave with logic, evidence, proof, background, validity, all of these things. But people lead men to the slaughter with love. So he connects. He engages with her. He thinks that she loves him. Then he invests. There's an investment made. Okay. Children, house, cars, bills. You guys go on family vacations. You take pictures for Facebook, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. We already know how the story goes. Then you get to the point 60% of people fail. Why? Bet and switch phase number three. She can change her mind about the rules that we agree to up front. And when that mind change occurs, all hell is going to break loose. You're going to drag each other through hell. He might not even know why she might not even know why, but the system is certainly in place for that to happen. Most men don't want to hear this. They hope. And I say hope is not a strategy. Okay. You hope she doesn't change her mind, but if she does, your investment is going to be put up on the block. As a result, the disengagement phase occurs. What's going to happen? All kinds of stuff. Divorce, family court, child support, all of these systems that are in place. He's going to lose his kids or he has to fight for them, et cetera, et cetera. Then people come in, some people re-enter 70% second marriage failure rate. Third marriage is fail 80% of the time. Okay. We're talking about almost a certainty and the lawyers are happy. Okay. So we're going to talk about the scoreboard of feminism. Okay. Let's go back into Newton's third law, which is for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Remember I said everything that you do, if you apply force to it, it's going to have an opposite reaction. If I apply the same principle to feminism and we just say, oh, we're celebrating more women at work and make a little bit more money. Okay. What else happened? Something opposite had to happen. Society doesn't want to operate on Newton's law. They just want to say everything's good. Okay. I wrote this book called the evolution, feminism's reverse engineering of American women. This is by design. It's not women's fault. It's not women's fault. Now, if you come to my channel after watching the week's worth of video, if you'll be like, damn, he blaming women for this. But after a while, and there's a person that's been on my channel for a long time back there, she's shaking her head. After a while, you'll be like, oh, I see where he's pointing the finger. Okay. I see where he's pointing the finger. And the story is, is old is time. The story has been told already. We're just living it again. Adam and Eve sound familiar? Jezebel spirit. Okay. The Cleopatra in the Roman Empire is a Mark Anthony and Caesar. Okay. Same thing. On the back of my book cover, this is the front of the book cover. He's about to eat that apple on the back of the book cover, which I ran out of books. Unfortunately, that apple is consumed today. That's feminism. Apple represents feminism. Hey, you guys want good jobs and good money? Of course, you're gonna make a deal with the devil. In my opinion, feminism is failure. It has failed us. We've allowed it to dissect us, infect us and infest our society. Look at some of these things that not took hours to research them. They have references. They don't have references in here. I'll go through a few 60 million abortions since 1973. Where have all the good men gone? Okay. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. When I made that graph, it's actually 80%. Eight out of 10 times when the divorce is initiated, a woman goes down there and files it with the court. Okay. 45% of women age 25 to 45 work full time. And I say they're trading their fertility years for a paycheck. This is not by nature. This is designed to destroy. This is a direct result of feminism, but when I apply it, people go, oh no, what happened? Accountability, umbrella, women worship, two fingers behind my back smile. Oh no, has nothing to do with it. 85% of those living paycheck to paycheck are women. And I always tell men, women are broke. Okay. They're broke. You gotta know that going in. If you don't accept that and knowing and accepting are two different things. If you don't accept that, you're going to have a surprise on your ass. Very few times what I heard. Women owe close to 70% of the student loan debt. More women receive welfare, alimony and child support than men. 77% of black children born to unwed mothers. This is 2015. That can't be good. Have the obesity right there, which I don't even know might be higher than that. 52% of American women are single. That is the highest percentage in American history. It has never been that high. Most women married for a purpose. Purpose was for the family, right? Okay. 60% plus divorce rate. Okay. That's just climbing, especially now that people have to really, their marriages are really getting exposed. You got to sit up under each other. All right. How many people following for divorce? It's outrageous right now. One in four women take mental health meds, which on my show I would say then three and four walking around undiagnosed. Right? Did you catch that? Okay. So percentage of births to unwed mothers in 1950s. It was almost unheard of today. Single motherhoods are heroes. What happened as a result? Boom. Women's worship. The minute you take away a standard, then they say, well, I don't have to live by it then. I'm going to do it. Same thing with body acceptance. It's the same thing. Except their body. Sounds like a good idea. But what's going to happen? Most women are to say, well, shit, it's an old matter. I ain't gonna do it. The father absence crisis in America. This is the real hook. When you remove the father, you destroy the family. When you destroy the family, you destroy the culture. This is a direct side effect equal and opposite of what feminism is. Can't argue me down. I'm not going forward. There's nothing you can say to change my mind. I've seen it. I coach women's basketball at college. The biggest thing that they pushed was Title IX, which made zero sense when you applied it to logic. You were like, what? Oh, women get to play in the big stadium, but there's 100 people in there. Why are we playing in the empty arena? Why don't we put them in the small gym? Oh, no, well, we get to play in the big arena because the men are playing in there. Yeah, they got 20,000 people screaming in there. Okay, look at the attendance. Why does that make sense? Oh, well, because it's equal. See, that's dumb. What's happening when you remove the father? Kid grows up in poverty. Kid more likely to be pregnant as a team. Behavioral problems, child abuse, incarceration. 72% of the people incarcerated grew up single mother household. Single mothers are heroes. Yeah, I did too. I grew up in a single mother household, never went to jail, but based on that statistic, I'm the anomaly. I made it. So you can always point to the person who made it and said, well, that person made it. Doesn't matter. Child obesity, more likely to be fat, more likely to commit a crime. Two times likely to drop out of school. Then you get this beta male energy. I call it beta male lives matter or black lesbians matter. That's what I call it because it's the truth. Okay, you got people out here that they've done this in 1990. I was there 1960. We're going to keep applying the same strategy, run out into your neighborhood and blow it up. Why are we doing this? Because there's no fathers there to tell them, sit your ass down. You're not a victim. I'm going to impute into you success, but they removed so many fathers that these beta males run out here thinking that they're doing something. Okay, the spirit of Jezebel. If you guys go to my channel and you want to review one video, review the video, just say Coach Greg Adams. And I think I called it jazzy bell, number one to get around the YouTube algorithm censorship. And I also did it to save the jazzy bell. But the spirit of Jezebel, they released the song wet ass piece leave is what I call it on my channel. See, one of the worst things to happen to gender dynamics is this. They put a smart phone with the camera into women's hands. That was disastrous for relationships and gender dynamics. From there, she can worship herself. She can broadcast to other people to worship her so much so that if she has a spouse, a boyfriend or whoever people pursuing them, they cannot match the attention that she can get on her own. They cannot match the attention that she can get via Instagram, take thought, snapper chat, all of these vehicles to broadcast herself for women's worship. And the beta males are eating it up. See this cult was designed to destroy manhood and drag womenhood into shame. The spirit of Jezebel, you had so many women supporting this. And the worst of it were older women were saying, yeah, I'm in it too. I want to throw my wet piece leave out there too. And they can, you'll have 25 year olds come over and blow your back out with no problem. But if you study the natural order, if you study Jezebel in the Bible, her dependency on manipulation was to have weak men worship her so she can manipulate them. She selected a weak husband who was the king of Israel, King Ahab, and he manipulated him. This is common of what we see in today's marriages. Women holding out, holding out, then she throws a half court buzzer beater or what in football terms would be is a Hail Mary. And at the last moment, when the eggs dry up like the Sahara desert, she tries to select a mate. Most times a weak male and she parades him around because he's easily manipulated. This has been written in the Bible already. She had the weakest king and it established the basis of weak marriages today. Do we see weak marriages? They certainly are strong. Look at the statistics. They're not strong. They're weak. Why? We're selecting weak men. The domineering wife will soon master the weak husband and enter in what the Bible referred to with Jezebel as immorality. Do we see that today? Immorality and idolatry, the worship of false gods, the worship of women. That was what the story of Jezebel is. You guys want to look at that? Go ahead and go back into the Bible. The man that opposed her was a man called anybody. We don't have people that walk in the faith and spirit of God here. Neither do I, but I'm not a religious person. Her opposition was a man called Elijah who called her out for her idolatry and immorality. I'm Elijah right now today for this hour. What did they do to Elijah? Well, the weak king Ahab drove him out into the desert, said we're not going to listen to this. They called him a woman hater. They called him an anti-feminist. They called him everything but a liar and drove him out into the desert. So they can come out here and continue to do this. What does it lead to? What's happening next? Oh, this doesn't have anything to do with the next thing. Shelter the umbrella of accountability and responsibility. Oh, it doesn't. This doesn't connect. Interesting. Interesting because it connects in my brain because I'm using logic. I'm using evidence. The Jezebel was defiant until the end when the new king came and told her you will be put to death. Dogs will eat your flesh. Society will be destroyed. Did she change? Nope. To the death she defied. Do we see that today? I call out women's behavior and they go, oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no. Until the dogs eat her flesh. This is why I say, and again, I'm not blaming you. People are providing you with the shelter. But what I say is for this to turn, we might have to go ahead and let the barbarian hit the gate. See when the barbarian comes, it starts knocking. All of a sudden, all of that equal rights, all of that men can do it too. I mean, women can do what men can do. All that's going to go right out the window and they're going to say, where are the real men at? Protect us. Do what you're supposed to do. Oh, wait a minute. We're supposed to do it. You can do it. You said you can do it. Now you don't want to do it. Did we see that March 2020? All of a sudden, women want to go back and be housewives. And then they did because they got laid off from their paper and pencil pushing jobs that they propped them up with and said, what did they say? Essential workers, men. Essential workers, men. Primarily men. Primarily men. Okay. Let's get to this. The absence of male authority. We're seeing right now, men just getting roasted, lambasted, just ridiculously. Now the system is in place for men to be removed. The minute a man speaks up, he's the enemy. So some of you guys right now are going, this guy, the reality is I haven't told one lie since I've been up here. I told 100% truth. You just don't like it. Do I care? I don't care. I'm here to tell the truth. Okay. Male authority, all gone. We turn our kids over to the prizes in the relationship and they turn them over to social media. The kids now consume more social media. They get these cultural Marxist promotions and propagandas. The teachers are telling them about abortion and how it's not baby murder. 60 million people. These people go on there and they watch women get worshiped. Your son watches his teenage classmates, female, get worshiped from around the world. She shakes her ass. Old men, men of all ages, they flock. What is the sexual dynamic doing to these boys and girls? I look at my female classmate with a million followers. I can't get 10. How's she getting? What does these women do? What does the young girls do? Well, in order for me to make it, I got to be a Kardashian. The boys, in order for me to make it, I got to adopt feminine traits. Got to put on tight jeans and I got to dance too. These young boys are putting makeup channels on right here on social media. Did I lie yet? Nope. Young boys fear women. They've been told don't be toxically masculine and they watch their female classmates be everything but feminine. What else are they going to turn them over to? Teachers. Trained Marxists. Liberal. Adopting philosophy. They teach these kids in school how to vote. They teach them where to lean. The teachers union say, don't send the kids back to school until what? Not until we get fathers involved. Nope. Until we get families involved. Nope. Until we defund the police. That's what they're going to ride on. Teachers. We're not going to educate your kids until they tax the wealthy. Is this, is this what we're talking about? Is this what education is about? Nope. Yep. That's what we turn them over to and every day your father, his father, the kids' father's there not to debrief them. If he's still a part of the home, he's emasculated already. He's the weak King Ahab. 93% of teachers K through six women. 93% when they get to middle school 76%. So your son and your daughter is being influenced by people who have been trained into destroy the family. Some of these teachers don't even have families. 85% of those who live paycheck to paycheck women. I'm going to guarantee you that some of them are teachers. There's the mothers. What is she doing? She paying attention to the kid? Nope. She's working. I got to work, baby. Now, for all fairness, they got to work now. That's just a side effect of feminism. The economy is designed now, too much inflation. We got to do it now. Can't go back. Even if you grew up and you said, I just want to be a wife and a mom, everybody's going to chase you right off that block. Hell no. Why do that? You're a woman. You can do just as good. Chase you right off the damn home. And for the first 10 years, women make more money than men. 23 age 23 to 33 women outperform men in money. Are we told that? Nope. Now after that, because of how things are, yeah, men have to bust their ass for the next 30 years. Women can say, I'll step out. I'll just back out of this for a minute, maybe to create a family. I don't want to hustle. I'm going to seek an arrangement to find a rich guy. They start adopting all kinds of strategies, right? Okay. In the 1980s, 50% of women weren't either full of hard time today, 72%. And then they drop them off in exchange for free edumacation of their children. The public school indoctrination camp is where she's going to send this kid for the majority of their time. And if she's a single mom, that kid will see networks of babysitters, free lunches, free daycare, public school indoctrination camp. The state runs the prison. They also run the school. Okay. So we're seeing right now when it comes to it, if she wants to go back out there and work, remember phase three of the marriage will the bait and switch. Hey, honey, I've been thinking. I'll go out and work now. He could destroy the family. You know, the marital divorce rate is so high at that particular point. He might not say, he might say that wasn't the deal. Does he have any choice in a matter now? Nope. She just go right over there. I'll go talk to this attorney. Okay. I got to comply because I'm invested. Now, if he doesn't comply, 83% of the physical custody primarily goes to women, most time unchallenged. Most time the man says, I ain't dealing with that. I'm not paying attorneys. We know the single mother hood rate, et cetera, et cetera. Now, the next slide, race yourself creates the son husband. You remove the man from the house. And what you now have to do if you don't remarry, if you did remarry, most likely within the first three years of going into divorce, 70%. Okay. Well, she needs a masculine figure. So only right. Who is she going to make the masculine figure? The son. She's going to guilt him lifelong guilt. We need to be there for him. You need to support me. Why? Because she backed out. Oh, I don't want to work for the next 30 years now until I'm 68. Take care of me, son. Take out the trash, son. Do this, son. Protect the house, son. You're the man of the house now. No son should be the man of the house. No son should be the man of the house, but we adopt this. We adopt these things. It's silly. Silly to me. This man right here won the MVP and he cried and he said, mama, you're the real MVP. This man was adopted by the neighborhood coaches and they dragged him around the country, saved him from Washington DC, which you've been there. It's not a great place for young black men to be, but they shelter him and saved him from being a statistic. And he cries to the mom. He's forever a son husband. She will sabotage his future relationships with women to protect her man, the only man she will ever have here on out. Church, let's talk about these churches. It's a rest haven for weak men and women who have made mistakes with themselves early on in life and they want to be redeemed and they will seek the blood of the lamb and have their sins all washed away. The church will provide this and they will pair up these weak men, good doing men with these women all to protect the preacher's pockets because the women are going to put the money in the plate. The men aren't. Some of these pastors have had relationships with these women. And if not the women, the young boys, some of these churches are infected, infested with progressive ideology. Some of them harbor trans people in their thing and these trans people will do what? Oh, I want to work with the kids. And they'll say, damn, what do I do? Live by the Bible or progression, progressive movement. They got to make a choice. Coach, see, the man is not even here yet. The man is all gone and they pass through all of these people. Now, if the kid has talent, a coach will save him. He might, but by the time the talent is even realized kids 12, he ain't seen his daddy. Some guys chose to run away from the responsibility. Most of the time they're not even running away from the child. Who are they running away from? The mom can't deal with him. Can't deal with her. Now, the reason why he can't deal with her also because he chose wrong. He chose to lead with his little head. Now he was practicing making kids and then damn, one slip past the goalie. Now he's got to deal with her. But the coach shows up and he's supposed to teach the kid how to wear a suit, how to be a man, how to tie a tie. He's the last bastion of savior for the community. He's going to teach this kid the first lessons of masculinity. Now we know by some of the stories of fantasy, sometimes the mom will start relationships with the coach and undermine that whole relationship. These things happen. I was a coach, by the way, so I know. Not saying I didn't do that though. By the time all of this happens, you hope a father is around. And this father is supposed to be strong enough in his family and have authority to debrief the child after they've been passed through all of this. Now he's a co-parent and I'm not big on co-parenting, although the government has forced me into this agreement. There's two castles. There's two set of rules. How well does that work? The kid lives out of a backpack for all his life. How well is that? Would you want to live out of a backpack? Go from here, there, week after week, day after day, month after month, year after year. Is that raising children? Hell no. But if you do give, just so happen to give the father a chance, he now, with half the time, 25% of the time, visitations, saved that child. He has to have time to debrief that kid. We're not seeing this. If you're seeing this, let me know. Now, we got an uphill battle going on right here. I wrote two books. The first book is Aim That Men, okay? Free Agent Lifestyle. Men's Guide to Peace, Quiet and Freedom. At the end of the day, most guys just want peace twice. He wants a little couple pieces of peace lead. She been watching my channel. She knows that me. He wants a little sex and quiet, freedom. He used to have freedom in the United States. Now they tell us what to do. Go here. You can go here. You got to wear a mask here. You can travel this time. See, once you've given it up, once you've given up freedom, don't think they're going to give it all back at the same time. They'll give you a little bit at a time. You got control of you now. Stay in the house. Don't come out. You easy to govern in, okay? But Free Agent Lifestyle is for men. You probably won't be interested in it, although I've met women that have read the book, okay? The Evolution, Feminism, Reverse Engineering of American Women is also probably something, if you're interested in learning or knowing about feminism, that's there. The Evolution does not have an audio book. Free Agent Lifestyle does. Free Agent Lifestyle podcast is what I tell men, especially divorce men, men that go through breakups. I tell them, last thing you should do for the first three years after your breakup or divorce is deal with regular women. Leave them alone. Go live your life. Go build some value. Go build some authority. Until you learn how to build value and authority, don't try to date because men take shortcuts. Men love shortcuts. And everything seems to revolve around women. What is wrong with these guys? They love to worship women and you guys eat it up. Cougar, milk, I mean, everything's a, have you ever been on an adult website? No, you don't have to answer that. You should see the categories out here. Full of women, worship, and any possible means. So I tell men, if you can do so, don't worship women. Go live your life. Build some value in authority. And until you do that, don't come back. I'm trying to create stronger men. Could benefit you. So all that hate, I just talked about you. I'm also directing it to men. Tell them, love, yo, do it right or not at all. Most men can't do it. Okay. But that's on all the, the Spotify, SoundCloud, Apple, podcast, Google Play. That's my website, GregAdamsOne.com. It's a one-stop shop to find everything about what I do. Most of it is free content. Okay. I made this course for men called Conker. Value authority. I believe in it. We've given women plenty of opportunity to do so. When it's convenient for them, they advocate. They step back. I can do, I'm strong. These boots are made for walking. I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan. Guess what? There's the barbarian. Go get them. Oh, hell no. Where are all the real men? And real men, what that means is a person that does everything that's going to benefit the woman. A real man would accept me no matter how I am, whether I'm crazy or not. A real man would open the door for a woman, meaning me, right? It is always a direct benefit to the woman. It's not like a real man would have value an authority over me. It's never that. It's always a weak proposition and a benefit directly to the woman. That's what I've noticed. Patterns of human behavior. Conker, the ultimate game for life. People talk about game a lot. Oh, how to game women and what to say. Look, you guys have heard it all. You guys have heard all the pickup lines, all of this stuff. If I walked up to a woman today, I'm so happy you walked by me. You are a pleasure to see. I would love to get to know you. You guys are like this. It just goes right down to the damn floor. You heard it all. You got your social media account. The women are now worshiping the other women on there. I looked down at a woman. She got her whole ass out like this. I go to the comment section and women worshiping. I'm like, go girl. Oh, yeah. I'm like, what is going on? We're lost. We're lost. We're out of order again. I didn't blame women for that. Weak men and women allow it up until they need us. We're of all the good men gone. Then they want to come back. Okay. There's a discount code there if you're interested and ladies, that is my presentation. If you have any questions, comments, or anything that you would like to address with me, please hit the microphone and let me know. See if I can help you out. Yes. First of all, let me say I'm sorry that you actually got treated bad by some women who actually created this thing that you are actually spilling out. You are very well spoken and clearly you have done your work, but you have done your work in a biased way because you are putting all women in the basket of... She's saying not all women. Okay. Nonproductive and dependent on men and weak men. I have a very strong man and I'm a very strong woman. He worshiped the work, the grounds I walk on and I worship the ground he walks on. So does that mean does that mean that I am unique too? I'm not unique. I belong to a group of a lot of strong women that actually have a lot of strong men worshipping them. So because your situation happens to be that way, I resent the fact that you're telling people that she works, I didn't have to work my behind. I'm a professional woman and an accomplished woman. I have a man who's strong enough to stand up to that. You have a husband? You have a husband? You have a husband? It doesn't matter. Oh, no, it doesn't matter. Oh, hold on. No, no, no, no, no, no. Go ahead and finish your question, but you're not married. It doesn't matter that it's not a matter of is it a husband or is it a man? A real man. A real man is a man who's not afraid of a real woman. A man who sits there and blames women for all their shortcoming is weak. And in my opinion, if I have to tell you that you have to take responsibility for yourself, if you have to, if you complain because you have to pay for your child to be raised and you say it's because the women tricked you into it, you are weak. In my opinion, you're weak. So call it whatever you want. Painted. You can take a pig and put makeup on it. It is still a pig. So there are good women out there and there are good men out there. If you did not do your homework to pick that good woman and ended up in that place, don't blame every woman. It's not fair. I don't blame every man. I'm divorced. I was married for 20 years. I'm divorced. So I don't blame every man and they're not Jezebel. I don't, nobody calls me Jezebel or anything. I have a great man. I have a strong man. I have a strong man. That is what the problem is. That's enough for the question there. What I'm going to tell you is, did you hear me say anything about good man or good woman? I didn't say anything about good man or good woman. I said real man and I said it in the context of that. Now, did you hear me say all women? I never said all women. Well, you shouldn't have said it. So now, here's the deal. When I said all, if I say women, I say women statistically overwhelmingly do these things and the statistics back it up. And not only that, not only that, when I say it, if a woman hasn't done it, all you have to say is yet. She has the ability to do so. Now, the ability to do so is just as dangerous as her doing. And it's just as dangerous in society. If you are able to do it, like say, for instance, I was able to just cheat on my wife, but I never did. But there was no penalty. Is it still dangerous that I'm able to do it? Is it dangerous to your relationship? Yes. So it doesn't negate the fact that you haven't done it, which you have. You've already been divorced. You're already not having a man as a husband by that definition. Maybe you've already been a statistic. You've already put your man through it. And I would advise that man, most likely that you are as dangerous as anyone else that has done. Of course, you can always put your weakness out on me. But of course, of course, I'm good with that. I can't handle that. I'm woman enough to handle that. So I can handle that. One more question. I have a question for you. I do have a question for you. Do you really think feminism is the problem? I mean, first of all, it's such a broad definition. I don't even define myself as a feminist. That's ridiculous. I am a woman who actually succeeds. And I have a man who succeeds. I mean, it's not a gender bias. It's just people succeed in what they do because they put the effort behind it no matter what gender they are. So this whole thing, I mean, if we are to change the situation that the way that it is right now, what we need to do is to find commonality, is to find a place where we meet, to find a place where in your case or in case of a lot of men that actually feel that women are the cross, the reason why they're going to what they're going through, what we need to do is probably make look into ourselves. But even better, as the reason why I'm here. Is there a question? Yeah. The reason why I'm here is to find that place. Where you, myself, or all of us can sit here and find that one place of commonality. Not that place where I'm going to sit here and listen to people tell me, you are a slut. You are a dust. You're not married. Well, maybe I chose that. Okay. Does that ever occur to you? Go ahead and have a seat. What I'm going to tell you is this. So you're telling me the benefits of feminism, which I said there were already said that were benefits. There's women making more money. Fine. Great. There's women working fine. I can't decide for you as an individual what to do with your life. However, if you're going to do it with the benefits of feminism, okay, and as a result, take that care of the feminism and not deal with the after effects and the opposite and accept it. Well, then that's not smart. I'm not telling you you're wrong for making decisions about your life. You could do whatever you want, but just know accepting this deal and then saying, well, I don't really agree with it. Well, doesn't matter. Like if I walk into a courtroom and I'm ignorant of the law and I'll tell the judge, well, listen, I didn't know. I didn't know that was a crime. I didn't know that was going to have a negative effect. Your honor, please let me go. Guess what the judge is going to say? Well, there are laws. There are consequences. There are repercussions. Doesn't matter if you're ignorant of it. Doesn't matter if you only accept this part of it. This is the reality of it. Now you can continue to live this way and say these things aren't a result of feminism, but to me that is leading with emotion. That's an emotional choice. I feel that most of the things she said was I feel. I feel this and I feel that and I feel that after I produced hours of evidence, data, statistics. See, when you come to my channel, I say, listen, I just talked for an hour and a half with evidence, data, facts, sources, research and your feelings you want me to consider your feelings. See, that's a female trait and we pass that on to men. And now men, first thing they say, I feel, I don't give a damn how you feel. Doesn't matter how you feel. Doesn't matter how I made you feel. See, that's your feelings. I can't operate on each one of your feelings. I could just operate on my truth. Now, I'll deal with this real quick. I had one failed marriage, but shit, most people were running around here with two, three. They got dead bodies, cemeteries, work with people they were ridden on on the cock carousel. So a lot of people fail at relationships, specifically 99.9% of relationships fail. If you're not with your sixth grade high school, sixth grade sweetheart, you fail. So don't turn my failure into that's why you believe that. You fail that plenty of relationship. And most of the time it's some divorce woman that wants to come in and I'm like, you're divorced, you're single. You might want to benefit from this information. Yes. Hey, thank you for coming out and speaking to us. So I wanted to say that the 6 million, 60 million aborted, probably some good men in there that's so powerful, so absolutely powerful. And to think about that, it's a little bit overwhelming because we do have a problem with there being men who have adopted a lot of feminine traits. And when you engage with men who are not stoic and detached and have a positive, you know, baseline in dealing with it, it turns into arguments and you hurt their feelings. And then all of a sudden you're trapped in this cycle of combat. And you know, the covert contract is real, unvoiced expectations, indirectness, all these things. So what can we as women do when we encounter these men? Because it's a daily basis thing. Sure. Every single day there's going to be a weak man that comes and gives you feminine energy and it will push you right into the masculine. Yes. It's unfortunate, again, that men have adopted this feminine trait, fighting, arguing. It don't take all of that. Relationship should be semi easy. If there's a disagreement, that's humanity. But when people are fighting it with emotions, that means the man has come down onto the playground of women. He can't lead. He has no authority. He has no value. See, men who have no value and authority have to argue. They have to fight you because they're on your level. Not saying that it's a lower level, but they're on your level. I can't fight them up with somebody that I'm stronger than. Like I can end this whole conversation with strength, with value. That's the door, hit it. I can walk away. I can stop spending. I got value. I got authority. I don't need this. But when I don't have value and authority I have to argue. Now, the marketplace is now such that it's almost sexual harassment if I walk up to a woman and talk to her. What do you do? So now where do we have to meet each other? Internet. Good luck. Internet is the cock carousel. All you're going to meet is weak men, fornicate, and that's about it. Every now and then a woman will get lucky and give you hope. Oh damn, she met her husband on the internet. Damn, I'm going to go right out there. Then you go out there and you go, damn, Jezebel spirit, and you walk out there looking for King Ahab weakness. Okay. This is what's happening. Now remember when I said patterns of human behavior? I call it out and I predict it. Now, am I right or wrong when I'm talking about this? You might not like it, but am I not telling the truth? I'm telling you the truth. You don't like it. And I'm calling both people out. Did I say weak man? So don't come to me and say I hate women when I just called the men out, but you don't hear it and went one ear. It didn't even marinate in here. It went right out the other and you say he hates women because he bailed. What's that? No accountability. Exactly. I've been calling out men the whole time, called out the government the whole time. So it's not just women, but I'm sitting in front of you saying you're the catalyst. You allow it to happen. You're the person that seeks the shelter of protection, lack accountability, responsibility when it's convenient for you. And they use you because they can. Yes. I'm here because I want to hear your story and it's very different from mine. So I appreciate that and it brings value to my life. I haven't looked at things that direction. So I think it's important for us to hear something and accept it as it is presented. So thank you for that. My experience has been that perhaps that Newton's law, that push and pull for me has been violence against women. And so when I see it, you know, the women reacting and doing this, can you speak to that for just a moment? Like I get that, you know, you can you can quote the the Bible that was written, you know, many years ago and through translation come up with really great stories to tell and use, you know, the Jezebel and the apple and all of that for us to relate to. But our current day experience and I'm going to try to leave the internet out of it because I get that is kind of a whole new thing. But for that rippling for some of us women who have been involved with violence from men to women, how would you kind of address and help us acclimate to this point of view from that point of view? Got it. Thank you for your question on that. Again, selection of mate is vital. Choose weak men who argue, fight, deal with some of these things. If they're confronted with issues, they don't have value or authority. They're going to do things like that. If there is violence, I'm not sure if this is physical violence that you're talking about. There's data that would almost say that it's catching up that women are as physically violent to men. It's very close, very close. We're talking about like 60, 40, very close. And oftentimes what can women do if they hit their husband? Step back under the shelter, umbrella. I'm just a woman and then if he retaliates, then the police are called and he's hauled off the jail. We already see it. If you watch, just watch cops and that's what happened. All right. They also have data which I can't, I can't quote right now, but they said a lot of times it's instigated by women, right? You're getting emotional. I want to do this. You caused the stir. He was just sitting there watching the football game. Remember they say in the Super Bowl, domestic violence shoots up. It's not because his team is losing. It's because he want to watch the game and you came in there with some bull. Now, I can't prove it with that. So don't take my word on the statistics there, but physical violence is almost toe to toe statistically. It's getting there. Young women tend to deal with this. So by the time they're 35, 40, they're like, man, this guy used to beat me up. You know how many women that I went on dates with off the internet? I'm coming out of an abusive relationship. I'm like, here we go. All right. Listen, I understand that that's the case. He's stronger than you, but I have a daughter. If a man put his hands on my daughter, what would the father with authority tell that daughter? Get away from me. You got to go. Now she's going to say emotion, emotion, emotion, emotion, as an argument to the state. If you don't have male authority, a father strong enough to say, get away. That husband is not him pet. That husband has value proposition in his house. He would be able to influence the daughter to do so. Not all the time, but he could. Did you have a father that has stepped that a dad that stepped up? We celebrate that man. Take care of another man DNA that she went out there and threw around on the carousel of Tinder. I don't believe men should do that, but she didn't have a father. Did I just not prove my point about male authority? You remove the man as a result. Stuff like that happens, unfortunately. It all goes back to male authority. You remove it. People are left unprotected. Now we try to figure out on the back end, or what should we do about this? What should we do about that? How can we do this? Well, we need, bro, can I give you the solution? Keep men in authority. Oh, I don't want to do that, though. What else can we do? Okay, listen, I gave you a solution. You didn't like it. What do you want me to do? I gave you evidence for the solution. I gave you reason. I gave you data, facts. You gave me emotion. You gave me let's work around it. No, do it my way, coach. And your way ain't been working for 70 damn years. See what I'm talking about? I gave you the solution. You can agree with it or not. It is not my bag to hold anymore. I just go out here and teach this, and I provide the solution. You put it in this ear, you let it marinate right here, and then you let it go out. Most people just go shoot and then hit me with emotional arguments. I can't feel sorry for you. I don't feel sorry for anybody. Remember I said I coach women for 16 years? If I let every woman come in there before the game, hey, coach, I got this problem. And I'm ready to coach the game. Can I coach the game with 16 problems? I can. I can hit you with, this is how I'm going to hit you with the solution. Everybody get on board. That's how I coach coaches. That's how a man trains and develops and has authority. If you want it otherwise, you don't want them in an authority. Well, good luck. Good luck. Thank you. We can win this war. We can win this war? Okay, well, joining us from Orlando, Florida is the man in that clip, Anthony Dream Johnson, who says he wants to abolish feminism and make women great again. No, but it also says, with the trademark, make women great again, full women, always great. Make women great again. They're going to do a three-day seminar for women led by all men. In mansplaining news, a three-day conference for women led by men hopes to make women great again. How the 22 convention will make you the greatest you ever. Raise your femininity by 500%. First of all, how is a man supposed to tell a woman how to be the ultimate woman? A woman needs to be taught how to be great again. Oh, yes, we do. Like how to land a husband, how to lose weight, how to pump out a bunch of kids. Why do men think they need to fix the problems of women? Well, it says the world's ultimate event for women. Yeah, Orlando, Florida, that's going to be the scene of the crime. It's mansplaining and say no to the toxic bullying feminist dogma. Taught by men to make women great again. Taking the stage now is the founder of the 22 convention you're in for a treat, Mr. Anthony Dream Johnson. Anthony Dream Johnson. Anthony Dream Johnson. The first president of the Manosphere. It's run by all men, which promises to quote make women great again. This course is guaranteed to raise your femininity by 500%. Together, we will make women great again. Excuse me. I'm mansplaining here. She said there's nothing. George Bruno with the 21 report. We are at the 21 summit in Orlando, Florida. The year is 2020. This is a big year. And I'm having a talk with Coach Greg Adams. Welcome to the show. Thank you very much, George. Appreciate it. Absolutely. Your first time at the 21 convention. Tell me what you think. Well, it's good to see it in person. I'm just glad I got to see it in person. I've heard about it for about three or four years. And I always had an idea of what it was. Until I got here and saw it, and you can see the people in the audience, you see the men that are here committed to listening to other content creators, give their message. You get to see them relate to you. Hey, I watch you on YouTube. And you see the man behind the screen. I mean, it's just changed my idea of what the conference is. The professionalism, the staff, the way everything is organized. It's given me a different perspective about this particular idea. And I'm ready to put some more fire into it. It didn't take very long for you to just be one of the guys here. You are now one of the guys, one of the team here. And the way that I know that is I'm looking at how the attendees are responding to you. You can't even walk out there without being surrounded by guys. That means your message is important. Sometimes you don't get it. You're looking at numbers half the time. Oh, I got this many comments, this many subscribers. So that's how you're evaluating your message. If you have a book, you're looking at how many they sold. But not until you meet somebody in person that says, I know you and I watch you, and they can recognize you just walking down the hallway. It gives you a different perspective on the value you're presenting to the people. And not only that, I look at even the content creators, even the people that have big personalities, even if you don't agree 100% with what they say, there's a mutual respect across the board for everyone. And that's important. Everyone understands what we're doing, why we're doing it. So you put all of that behind you and you don't bring any of that up. No one's kind of confronting each other or arguing and saying, I'm right about this. Everybody has a mutual respect for the next man. So that's encouraging. And it encourages you to keep going and doing what you do. What would you say your main message is this weekend? Right. Well, I had an opportunity to talk twice so far. And I'm going to talk one more time to the to the ladies tomorrow. That's right. You're on three stages, three stages. Well, so it's been a lot of work. I do all of this. We do the dinners. And then I stay up until it's midnight here where we are. But it's early nighttime in California time. But the first two messages I got to talk about the free agent lifestyle. So that is basically the encompassing message of what I talk about. That's the book that I wrote. And I got to describe it of how I got there, not necessarily what's in the book, but why I wrote the book. And a lot of guys can relate. You either been divorced, you had bad breakups, you're dealing with children. And a lot of guys can relate to that. So I got to introduce some of that. And then the next talk was directly to father. So that was the patriarch. And the idea was that there's a system that is designed to remove the masculine man from the home. All right. What are the consequences of that? So you're talking to a dynamic group of men, divorce, divorce fathers, men who want to have kids. And there were people in the audience that I was trying to relate that message to. And that can understand it on that level. So amazing opportunity to be able to talk to these people about it. And a lot of people gave me great feedback from it. It's great. Typically your message is for men. That's pretty much who your audience is. But you're going to be speaking to women soon. What do you have in store for the ladies? Well, I'm going to talk about the femininity, the lack of femininity and the presence of femininity in men. Okay, we're going to talk about how they deal with femininity. Because in our society now, femininity in men is celebrated. And for femininity in women, they don't want it. So the roles are actually switching a little bit. And we're going to talk about the confusion and chaos that's created from that. And why we are now most, there's more single women than ever. There's less married people. There's the birth race declining. So I'm going to try to put a context on that and talk about how we're basically causing confusion. But the reason why we're doing it is for our own selfish needs of resources here. So I'm going to put that message into play. I'm also going to talk about the book that I wrote about feminism. And we're going to talk about why we got here. It's interesting to me to tell you the truth. There's a group of women here that are looking for a message and they're coming to these particular groups of men forward. I think that's phenomenal for them to take that step. And they're willing to be open-minded and listen and take something from it. I don't know what they'll take from it, but they'll take something. I think you're going to get a few amens in there to be honest with you. Right. A lot of men say there's no good women out there. But from a woman's perspective, when a woman looks at her prospects in the men's community, the fact that you said that many men are being feminine or that's being celebrated, that's got to grieve a woman. They don't want that. I mean, you would think they would want that. That's what the media is pushing. Politicians are pushing. The great narrative is that they want men to show their feminine side. They want them to be emotional, express themselves. Yeah, that might work once or twice, but that's not what they need. They need a rock. Most women are looking for rocks. They were looking for strong men. After a while, you keep presenting that presence, that feminine presence to her. She's going to lose respect for you. And this is the dilemma overall that women have. Unfortunately, though, it's kind of like playing both sides of the coin. They're getting the benefits of men's femininity, right? You don't want to be competitive in the workplace. We'll take those jobs and they'll step in up for those resources. So we're at a really critical crossroads in gender dynamics. However, this group of women are saying, we've got to figure this out and they're willing to listen. Yeah. You have a couple books. First one is Free Agent Lifestyle. And you have a recent book called... De-evolution. De-evolution. Tell us about that. It's basically America's Reverse Engineering of American Women. So what feminism is, is basically the reverse engineering of American women. There's a lot of celebration of feminism. And of course, women are in the workplace now. They're competing. They're making more money. They now make up the vast, the majority of the employed workers in the United States by 51%. But the reality is, there's been a scoreboard of feminism that they're not revealing. Okay? There's been a lot of things that have come, basically not good results from it, but you're not going to hear it unless people dig out that information. And that's been a great amount of that book, digging out that information and presenting it. A lot of people don't like to accept the information. And that's a critical word. They don't want to accept that that's a byproduct of feminism. But I believe in cause and effect. I believe in an equal and opposite reaction to everything. So whatever positives you got, you're certainly going to get negatives. People just have to accept those negatives. If you don't want to accept the negatives and place blame on other things, well, then you're not accepting the full weight of feminism. So that's what the book's about. What is the price that the community has to pay for that? The community at large in the world. There's a critical price because you got to say you remove both parents from the household. There's going to be a result to that. I mean, I think the kids are suffering as a result of the gains that are made and then not only that, men get disenfranchised just a bit in the workplace. Those job. Listen, when you bring in additional workers, there's not additional jobs. You just brought in additional workers, right? So if women feel jobs, that means men lost some jobs. Now there's a balance. You got to accept the balance. And then as a result, you're going to say we're all the good men. Well, a couple of them got disenfranchised or displaced. Okay, not only that, you look at the family structure. As a result of both people leaving the homes, kids suffered a little bit. The grades are down. Performances are down. Kids are more obese. They're less productive. How do we deal with that? Who's going to deal with it? We obviously, the school's not dealing with it well. Are the parents willing to take on that responsibility? Or are we going to just point fingers? Right now, we're pointing fingers. Men aren't strong enough. Women are too aggressive. And we can't meet in the middle. Until we until we really take responsibility for the cause and effect, the good parts of feminism and the negative parts, we're not going to get anywhere. Do you think you're going to end up with some female followers after this weekend? We could. I met a couple on the hallway that said they've been following me for a long time. And it was like, you know, one of those who would have thought it was kind of like, yeah, you know, sometimes I look at the analytics and I say, well, there's females following me. You know, a good six to 10% of the audience, but there were women who knew me. They knew video titles. They said, I commented on this video and I'm like, it's incredible to think that they're engaging with you along with the men that are engaging with you and they're contributing and they're investing in you. So when you think about that, you know, you don't want to really cater the message to them, but they like the message where it is. So they're saying we agree with it. Let's continue forward in this. Maybe they want to change. I love it. I love it. If people want to find out more information, where can they go? First thing to go, YouTube is the biggest platform. If they go to my YouTube channel in the description box, there's a lot of places where I send people. But if they have some problems, they can go to my website, gregadams1.com and they'll be able to find everything there. They can direct me to, direct to the books. They can direct to all the YouTube channels, apparel and all of that stuff. I know the title Coach Greg Adams originally started with you being a coach, literally a sports coach. Are you a coach now? Do you coach men one to one? I do coach men one to one. So people do reach out to me. I have a place where they can reach out to me. They usually do that through my YouTube. And what happens is, you know, I was a basketball coach before that and I coached women, all right? I coached them for 16 years. Now I'm coaching men and I'm directing them using the information that I learned being around women like almost 24-7. And now I'm saying, well, this is how I can help you out. Maybe I can change the direction of your life for providing you one bit of detail that you might not be thinking about. Yeah. So it's a beautiful thing, man. I like that. What does 2021 have in store for Coach Greg Adams? What do you think? Well, hopefully we can get back to moving around the country a little bit and maybe we're moving around the world and that is basically the free agent lifestyle. It's not sitting at home, you know, I want to get out and move. Fortunately, I've been able to make some good connections with people like you, Anthony, that wasn't available to me early in 2020. Now we have that. Hopefully we can build on that. Maybe I might write a third book. Who knows, all right? But I want to continue building the audience that I am. The numbers are going up daily. So I'd say they're here for a reason. I'll keep giving them confidence. I'm watching you grow and I'm watching your social media just get deeper and wider on a daily basis. And you are a lean, mean content machine. I just look at my phone and like, there's another video. It's like, how in the world do you go at this pace? It's amazing. It's crazy. I think what happens is I've learned how to do scheduling very well. So I'd use these schedulers and then I'd spend half of two or three days recording and then I schedule the post. So there's a lot of things going on and now I'm at the point. Now I have to hire someone. All right. So I've been doing this for two years and the audience has grown so crazy that I now have to bring someone in to manage just a little bit. Yeah. Yeah. Well, this is completely amazing. I'm glad that we met face to face. Absolutely, man. And I'm happy to call you a friend. Absolutely, sir. Yep. Absolutely. Thank you, George. Coach Greg Adams, known for the free agent lifestyle at the 21 summit. This is George Bruno.