 Hi y'all, she is sipping. Okay, so I have a question So on my last video I talked about This lady who Found out her husband Was on the down low meaning he was sleeping with other men while they were married, okay? So that situation has escalated. I'm gonna tell y'all what happened, okay? I'm not telling names because this is their business But I'm gonna tell y'all what happened. Okay, so the person The lady whose husband Admitted that he was you know Sleeping with me He was basically ignoring her treating her bad, you know verbally abusing her, you know not giving her the attention and She felt lower than you know the low she had low self-esteem She just wanted to know what she could do to get his attention. He just wasn't you know feeling her anymore So when she confronted him about asking, you know, are you gay? Are you with other men? Are you cheating and he told her yes, I am and Basically what he did to her was to flip the script and Started giving her all this attention Saying now we can be closer now that the secret is out and I Wouldn't mind if you went and got another woman and we can all bring them back and you know have fun and I'm so glad I could be me now and You know blah blah blah blah I've always liked men and blah blah blah blah blah and She's Probably a little bit confused and she's like Listening to him and can considering all this, you know Stuff because now she's getting the attention and the closeness and the intimacy and the sharing and the communication That she's been lacking from him all this time. So now she feels like if she accepts that That they will become closer and that their marriage will improve and that whatever whatever So There was like a person that she was talking to about all her marital problems, which was you know that guy That all women go to and run to to talk when they have their marriage issues Well, this guy was thinking she was gonna leave him the husband And go to be with this to go be with him So, you know, he did the comfort thing. He said I understand cry on my shoulder. I got your back Knowing that when she found out he was gay he she was gonna come run into him But actually backfired Now she's gonna probably stay with the husband try to make that crazy marriage work and You know the guy whose shoulder she was crying on is now left lonely baffled and Wondering, you know, how can this man manipulate her into accepting this lifestyle in a supposedly straight marriage and my advice was You were just the shoulder to cry on to boost up her self-esteem enough to go to her husband and come from him About what he's doing and after he realized, you know, that this could be it he flipped the script to manipulate her and To agreeing with what he was doing in exchange for the attention the affection and the communication that she was yearning for in the first place, okay? And I've done videos on other channels about how certain people think Especially homosexual people trans people they they are more Merged in their thinking in their thought process, you know, they think on the feminine side as well as the masculine side So, you know, they know how to manipulate like a woman and they can put the logic to it like a man. So if you're I'm just trying to be honest with y'all, you know the the most You know genius minds Mentalists Alchemists they have to use both sides of their brain in order to figure things out now When you have someone who uses their feminine and their masculine qualities together, you know You're gonna have to be on top of that, you know, she's thinking just on the emotional side of it. She's not thinking the logic So I Want to know I Want everybody to answer Comment, what do you think about this situation? Can it work? should she leave him or Do you think he's manipulating her and she really doesn't want this or Do you think she just has low self-esteem and will accept anything she's given or Do you think she's brainwashed and Put some on a pedestal I don't know just y'all put it in the comments of what y'all think about the situation and if it were you What would you do? And also like if you are You know gay straight by lesbian or whatever I want to hear from y'all too because I want to know what the viewpoints are from every angle that I can get because This video is going to help at least two people. So if you can help them Put it in the comments and I don't want to mention names, but these are younger people Well younger than me anyway so and in the marriage there is like two small kids and I Think they were together the the couple was together since high school or something. I don't know So let me know what y'all think all right or college. No the couple Was together since college. Okay. Yeah So let me know what you think and I oh and also I forgot to put something else in The the lady owns her own business. So she's not like Depending so, you know, she can make her own money. So let me know what y'all think. All right. Bye