 This makes you a narcissist magnet. This makes you attract narcissists into your life. When you become successful, you will attract a lot of narcissists into your life. You will attract people who want what you have as you have been becoming more and more successful. You have become more valuable. You have become useful to people. You are useful to them now. And naturally, this will attract more fake people. This will attract narcissists to you because they are looking for people that they can use. They are looking for people to rescue them. When you become successful, you will become a narcissist magnet. You might have had no one in your life up until this point. But as soon as you become successful, suddenly everyone wants to be around you. But they're not there to give anything to you. They're just trying to piggyback off your success. They're trying to take advantage of your existing system. It's like you've already done all of the hard work. And now they want to come around to reap the benefits and rewards. Even though they didn't contribute anything to get you to where you are today, they are trying to exploit you. They are trying to make full use of and derive benefit from you in a way that might be considered unfair or underhand. When you become successful, this will naturally attract narcissists into your life. They won't have any interest in getting to know you. They won't have any interest in your feelings or what you want. They're just coming around you so they can reap the benefits and rewards of your hard work. They won't make any effort to get to know you as a person. They just want to leech off your hard work and success. The more successful you become, the more that you will attract people who are trying to get something out of you. Until you feel drained and lifeless, they will act like they're trying to help or support you. But they're only there to get something out of you. Before you became successful, you might have been alone. Maybe no one talked to you or had any interest in you, but as soon as you start becoming successful, they start praising and flattering you excessively in the hopes that they will get something in return from you. As soon as you start becoming successful, you will have all sorts of people coming into your life. Saying that they want to be your wife or husband. Saying that they want to be your friend as though they want to help or support you when really they're just there for their own benefit or gain. When you become successful, you will attract narcissists that want to sabotage your success. They will be gossiping about you. They will be plotting and scheming to tear you down and you will be able to sense it around those people. You will notice that something is not right about them. That they are not comfortable with your success. When you become successful, even your own family and friends will turn against you because they feel like you're leaving them behind. They feel like you're doing better without them, which makes them feel insignificant. It makes them feel as though they don't belong in your life and so you don't need their support. When you become successful, you will attract jealous insecure people who are only there to destroy you because they feel like your success is taking something away from them. They feel inferior to you so they come around you and then attempt to bring you down to their level. Although being successful may make you a narcissist magnet, it will also make you a magnet to other successful people. People who are inspiring, powerful and attractive. People who have something to share with you. You will attract higher quality people. Successful hard-working men. Beautiful women. You will attract completely different people. People who are charismatic. So being successful isn't always a bad thing. It may attract leeches to you, but it will also attract other people who are on the same level. It will attract other people who have something to share with you rather than just taking everything from you for their own needs. The main difference that you will notice between these people and narcissists is that narcissists will try to attach themselves to you. They will be dependent on you for their own survival. They will try to compete with you. When you become successful, you will attract people who say that they want to help you, but you need to observe their actions rather than just listening to what they say. When you become successful and you start making loads of money, it will attract greedy people into your life. People who have an intense and selfish desire for wealth or power. As soon as you start making loads of money, people will want to take it from you without any consideration for the work you put in to get to where you are today. Now they want you to pay their bills or look after their kids. They will harass you and pester you for money as soon as you become successful and you manage to make some free time for yourself. They will want you to take on their responsibilities because they are jealous of your success. They are trying to take it away from you and they hold you to a higher standard and expectation than they do for everyone else because they realize that you are better and greater than most people. So they expect more from you. They will hold you responsible for their responsibilities because they see that you're becoming successful. They see that you're accomplishing things. When they see that you're doing better, they expect you to take care of everything. They will expect you to be responsible for everything while they're sitting back and being lazy because they know that you have the natural ability or talent. They know that you've got the drive. You've got the ambition so they see it as though they don't have to worry anymore. They haven't got to work hard anymore. They haven't got to do anything because now they've got you but just because you can do everything. It doesn't mean that you should. Don't let these narcissists take advantage of you. They will come into your life thinking that you are the solution to all of their problems. They will spend all of your money. They will use you as an emotional punching bag because they see that you have all of this enthusiasm. They see that you have all of this ambition for success so maybe you can reserve some to take care of their problems and that is why when you start becoming successful you won't just attract people who need money but you will also attract people who are emotionally damaged. People who haven't healed themselves. Narcissists. They will come into your life and try to damage you emotionally. They will have temper tantrums. They will damage your stuff and you will be wondering what you did wrong but these types of people just want to break you down mentally and emotionally. They want to manipulate you into giving them what they want. They will play all of these games with you because they want you to think about them. They want your attention because they know that you're not worrying about them anymore. They know that you're more focused on your goals and dreams and this really gets to them. They are competing for power. They are fighting for control. They see that you are becoming successful and they feel like they are beneath you so they will play games with you. They will try to damage you mentally and emotionally because they're jealous and insecure but you have to keep moving. You have to continue on your path to success. Some people may not like it but you cannot let them hold you back. Be cautious of the people you keep around you but keep doing what you need to do to succeed. Preserve your success and no matter what people say about you or try to do to you you have to keep moving because the longer you stay around them the more time they spend in your magnetic field. The more opportunities they have to interact with you and immerse themselves into your life. Don't stop for anything. Leave the narcissists in the dust and keep moving forward into your path towards success. Thank you for watching. I hope this video has it with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. 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