 Can we agree that intimacy or sleeping with someone is a very intimate act? And it seems to me that if we wanna take this a step further, kissing someone is a very intimate act. And yet probably in the last 20 or 30 years, kissing on a first date is a very common thing. I want you to think about that for a second. So if kissing is a very common thing and it's also an intimate act, are we kissing people, are we having sex with people whom we really know? Do we really know if we can trust this person? Do we really know this person has our best interest at hand? Coming back to kissing is very intimate act. And yet we kind of say, okay, that's kind of expected on a first or second date because it's a sign of affection.