 Ladies and gentlemen Compute over here Decided to do this last minute. You got a second wind of energy I got everything set up over here. I think I set this up the right way tonight. I You'll think I have this down pack, but On the cell phone sometimes I hit the wrong button, but one to pop in really quick do a Q&A tonight Let me make sure I have the chat turned on. Okay There it goes. I have it Hey there Lashay Sherry Or Sherry Thank you. God bless you So yeah want to pop in this a bonus chat for the blessed tribe as you know I do these on Sunday nights 9 p.m. Eastern But if I get time throughout the week then I'll Pop in and do a bonus Q&A Try to do Our tonight unless I get stuck on here a little longer, then we'll just be our Answering y'all's questions one of my Tonight is a show coming on Chicago PD. I never watched it, but One of a guy who used to work with me Um That I was telling y'all about going on 30 years old Man of God, he gonna be on there tonight Virgin saving himself until marriage So I may have to catch the replay, but he gonna be on Chicago PD The night he sent me the post about it Britney. God bless it. We just getting started. You already Showing out on here. God bless you So now put the hashtag Q in front of your question, I see here we go. When are you When you are 60 plus is there a need to wait? For six months to marry Yes, that still applies to you and the reason being because a man has not changed and It takes men a long time to fall in love and so a Man who is 60 plus could want to get married in three months because You know his SS item ran out or he don't have any doesn't have a retirement plan Because he's been winging it working under the table been an entrepreneur all his life He won a woman with a nice 401k. So he might get you know he might get a Married quick Then you have Men if he know he's getting ready to go on out Lord finna call him home. Then yeah, God bless you for finishing your coaching certification He know he getting ready to go on out. He may want to go ahead and get married so he can you know have somebody to Carry him on out So understand that Tony will you do a video about mama's boys? um I probably could but it probably be one of them seven minute videos ten minute videos like like a lot of coaches do Reason being is just because I I'm not a mama's boy And so I really don't under and I've never been a mama's boy. So I really don't understand that type of man all too well I don't know if it's edifice complex with these guys I don't know if the mama treated them like her husband because his daddy wasn't good to her or because she was single And she married a son. So I really don't understand mama's boy too much So I may do a person's life coach certification course. Thank you for inspiring us to work With others while working on our cell. Hey, God bless you Chrissy. You're doing the right thing I'll be honest with you when I became a coach. That's really what helped me change my life People say oh should I can I coach others if I'm not perfect or if I'm still working It's like absolutely nobody's ever perfect But when you speaking it into the lives of others you actually speaking it to yourself too Shamara Bless you after your wife left the second time. Did she pray for you to change or did you change give your life to? Christ on your own. Can you elaborate? Your change from who you used to be to the man you are now No, she she she probably you know said a normal prayer But nothing like what y'all hearing on social media when people saying what's the prayer you prayed for? your husband all that just talk because God is not going to answer your prayer for a man life Because God gives people free will so you could pray till you blew in the face If the man does not want to receive God's help then ain't nothing God gonna do So it really is up to that man. And so but what you have to realize is My change was a drastic change, but you have to also be mindful of who I am today and what I'm doing in my life in regards to healthy love So the men who were as bad as I was or the men who are as bad as I was they may not make this kind of change because I'm called by God to do what I'm doing and so the type of change that I made is Literally something that only God could get the glory for you know So it really was me changing Because I wanted to change but because my wife held me accountable Kiara God bless you. How do I tell if a man is damaged? Just like anything, you know, how you tell a banana damage. How you tell an apple damage Like you've heard the saying hurt people hurt people. So if a man is hurting you then you know, he's damaged because a Good tree don't bear bad fruit and a bad tree can't bear good fruit. So you'll know You'll know the tree by the fruit it bears as the Holy Bible says So that's how you'll be able to tell Hey, God bless you. God bless you and first lady rocks. You got bless You know what somebody lady today? I want to shout out. God bless you Lady today sent me a blessing on cash out. Hey God bless you And you know just sent me a blessing and I was blown away This morning when I seen Kylie God bless you Boy, I don't know like been with my baby father for two years He left and married another woman for his green card and asked me to wait He's slap-crazy Cinema pepper cinema a bottle of baby powder in the in the mail the slap itself with He's slap-crazy gone about your business gone about your business. Please don't wait for that man NK I always get annoyed when I see other guys Coaches copying your topics and phrases on YouTube, but do you care? Hey, that's a UVA mother-in-law. Nah, I'd be seldom. Yeah. Yeah, you know, I care I do care the reason Ben is because you I had to go through a lot of mess to get my message And I really wish other guys would tap into they mess to pull out their message and let God give them a Word, you know, so call them out and say listen We don't need a Tony Gaskins replica We need you to be you and that's what I tell guys like listen It's cool to be inspired by somebody but be bold enough to be yourself and some of y'all it was a it was a page on Jasmine God bless you Jasmine TV. It was a page on Instagram spiritual word that post this guy with mistakes women make in Relationships and the guy watch my video and took notes. That's why I be trying to tell y'all men do watch it You just don't see them in the comments. This man watch my video and took notes and tweeted it word for word And I mean the post going viral all the different pages posting it and some of y'all went in the comments like Yeah, that's Tony Gaskins verbatim and I was like, man, that's that a y'all really paying attention But see a lot of these guys they doing this for clout. It's like come on, bro What you doing that for like you gonna dedicate your life to it? But they doing it for clout and and you know why why it worked It works because men still believe women are naive and stupid. I'm gonna be honest with you Men still believe women are not even stupid. And so because a man opposed that They will see some women that support me and that stamp my message and They will see that as a weakness so they're a post of message knowing that a woman gonna think that He live in that and then she'll get in this DM and Then he'll knock it out. He'll knock it out and she won't know what hit him what hit him Jocelyn be God bless you when I refused to let him control me. He wanted me to delete his number Hey, that's that's good. That's good Let him go on by this business. No need for God bless you. God bless you poor. I didn't know neither lie poor in a lie God bless you welcome new members Question put the hashtag have a question. Y'all see share message put hashtag queue in front of it No, Nika. God bless you. Don't need to came on here showing that you didn't mean Yeah, Lysonda In order to sign up as a life coach on your site One has to take your course or if a person already has a certification from somewhere else or no certification can they still sign up? You need to be certified if you took it somewhere else, you could sign up on my mentor dot life You could sign up on my mentor dot life if you've taken a coach training If you haven't taken a coach training Then you need to have at least done 12 or so coaching sessions so that you understand how talking on a coaching call works, but It's for certified life coaches, which essentially means People who have taken a coach training because certification is not regulated like counseling and therapy So it's not like somebody could shut you down if you don't take a certification course You can't get in trouble. There's no such thing as accreditation in coaching and there's no such thing as like certification the same way it would be for a counselor or a therapist because they can diagnose coaches don't diagnose Nor can coaches prescribe medicine. That's why it's not regulated by the state Because a coach is like a motivational friend like a like a guy like an accountability partner. So it's different in that sense That's why I don't try to charge a million dollars for my life coach certification Hey, thank you so much Joya for saying that about my mentor been a vision I had for a long time and God allowed it to come to pass Having said Tony, do you recommend that a new coach get a second line for the business or buy another cell phone for the business? Which company could I use for the second line? It's not really necessary you coaching people paying to talk to you After you coach them, they're not gonna be blowing you up. They're not gonna be calling you I don't have that problem. You know, I use one phone with my clients That's just an extra expense But if you want to use a different number, you could use a Google voice number the message is still gonna come to your phone So it's really no sense You could get another phone if you can afford it, but it's really not necessary The only time I have people who sometimes Some women will text my phone or continue reaching out is those who are Senior citizens, I don't know if they just been around so long that they just feel like oh this guy's so young He like my son, so I've just keep on writing them But or if it's just their personality because they grew up before cell phones and they just believe in keeping in touch But I only only time is is senior citizens who that I coach that will you know Continue to text or what have you But it don't really happen. Natasha. God bless you. Why did men? I've dated ask me why I won't cook for them or check on them and make sure they are not hungry Do I have to am I being inconsiderate? They trying they just got a backwards view of what a woman is and the role a woman plays in a man's life And you got to check them. You just got to check them. Some people just raised so old-fashioned and just Always saw a man foot on a woman neck and a woman just being a do-girl. You just got to check them I've been listening to you for four years. God bless you Tricia. God bless you I learned a lot now. I'm able to pass the knowledge to my daughter. God bless you. I Really, I really appreciate that. Oh Linda. Thank you so much never thought about it in that way. I'm sure you have Saved from you have saved from supporting to on my 401k and pinching a God bless you She needs bless you pull out in her life Brandy Bless you pull out in her life been seeing a guy for one year says he's not ready for a relationship But I'm the only one he's seen and he doesn't want to lose our friendship since I brought up the Relationship he has pulled away some do I cut them off 100? Yep. Cut them off If you're looking for a relationship and he's not looking for a relationship Let him go on by this business because you're not the only one he's seeing you the only one you know about But he's he's not ready for a relationship because he's seeing more than one woman Jennifer God bless you. I'm upset with myself for tolerating the mess. I did why do I even feel sad about ending it? Just because you know, you got used to it. You got a release from it You know, it means something and you got a good heart. You're not a savage And so that's what that's normal to feel like that when you walk away from something like people give up a bad habit and feel sad about Giving up that bad habit because they just not getting that release CJL my ex-boyfriend and I were together one and a half years I ignored the red flags after we broke up He got involved with a girl right away and proposed after one year Did he really change or just found a girl on his level? he could have on his level could be below you so he Probably just found what he was looking for doesn't mean that's a good thing. He could have been looking for some That's somebody gonna carry him somebody he could do stuff to and with you don't know the reasoning and sometimes men do that because One relationship prepares them for the next and it's just kind of the way to the mock flops and the cookie crumbles You can't really take it to heart Pandora. God bless you my ex cheated and called me twice afterwards Now I return his call to retrieve my belongings and he ignored me. Why I wasn't in the wrong He playing my games y'all going tip for tap and He's playing mind games. They pull out in y'all like the VIP line kind of long up in What's going on now God bless y'all now. There's a stimulus come in. You know God bless you Why didn't they lie? Lashonda God bless. I'm grateful for your wisdom and I have your book a woman's influence and because I'm a single mother with younger girls. I bought you a book what daddy didn't tell his little girls I'm going to take your life coach course. Hey, bless you in this season right here their life coach core it can't hurt you because it's inexpensive and you want to make your investment back because it's something you could build for years to come and Even if you on my mentor that life for a year before you get your book and when you get your book in it and pay for your in Reimbursed your investment and most times the client when they booked you they're gonna do four sessions on average So it's really just something That I put out there because I see how it's blessed my life and how it's allowed me, you know as a coach I probably I probably do Probably around 15 grand a month and so In coaching so I say that to say you can build up sometimes the people look at a coach and just think like Oh, I'm gonna be just struggling but no as you build your brand You it can become a full-time, you know living of course I've been at it for a minute, but I started so young That's why it took me so long, but for you those of you who already over 30. I started at 23 You know the age is Equated to wisdom so it can be a blessing to you and why are you blessing others? Elizabeth God bless you. Thank you. Tony. God bless you and your family Appreciate that. Okay, Samantha. God bless you. I told So need to check see if they sent me old stimulus. I Need to see When when my stimulus gonna hit I Need to be stimulated My ex keep checking my IG why so tired now see sometimes so time sometimes just because they follow you and when you watch a story I just that really upset me the way YouTube is doing this to now Because I might watch a story. It could be my wife story or it might be a story of somebody book somebody posting my book and Immediately after that story it rolled over to a loose booty story And I'm like, I don't follow these these people like what so now lose booty 901 probably looking at who watch a story Oh my goodness Married Tony askin looking at my story. No child Instagram just gonna roll right to you So I say so sometimes it's that so once so don't go to feeling yourself Just cuz you see your ex in your view history Because he could have clicked out of there so fast like I do but it already done, you know So don't get caught up in that Uh Aphrodita God bless you. Thank you for all you do I've been listening to your videos for three months ordered your book and thinking of taking your life coach certification course. God bless you God bless you Like I'll tell you that that coach of course ain't gonna help it ain't gonna hurt you Some people took it in 2013 I've been doing this in 2013 at seven years ago and they just not starting a business and the reason why they could Do that you ain't got to rush to it cuz you ain't spending 50,000 like you did to go to college Latina fathers of my father of my son now wants to marry Together since 17 one child not living together. I broke it off January 2020. He's chasing Together since 17 now unless you 18 unless you 19 let it but go let it but go Because now he want to get married As you know how to try and you had to cut them off after the check this game It's all game. He is chasing and pleading about marrying And me moving in and him change. Nope. Keep on Keep on the way too late Bill with the man since 17 years old and now he just nine Want to try to get it got no no got to go got to go Y'all how let's Just see each other put on time Get get your weekend get some of your weekend got got go It ain't gonna work trust me. Trust me. I see it too much Shan God bless you dated a guy for one year four months on and off That's that's a red flag. We recently Rekindle and it's just been tough. Mm-hmm red flag keep keep on going about your business But now he wants his face for himself to think what the that mean that you shouldn't have never went back to him That mean you wasting all of your time. That's what that is what that means That means you got that ain't gone about your business Do you recommend getting the LLC for life coaching? I'm on the last lesson of the course and want to take the speaker course next. Hey, God bless you You invest in yourself. That's gonna that's gonna do you well. Um, yes I recommend LLC and reason being where the LLC is You know, you can write everything off like you get right off when you have a LLC So now, you know your rent or your mortgage because you're working from home So now you get to write this stuff off. So even if you only make five thousand dollars Government probably cut you a little chat just because you a business now and you see like what this SBA loan That they just gave up. It's really forgivable That SBA loan you get up to ten thousand dollars just for being a sole proprietor having the LLC Not everybody who don't have an LLC not even a sole proprietor single member company can't apply for it You know, so they just you're stuck in the water. So it really is a blessing Tiffany God bless you Tiffany Pearson. God bless you the divine PBJ Hey Why don't y'all like I'm praying Lord bless y'all for being a blessing to me I'm 22 years old and 22 you got your back on you like that not a Don't do no charge bite. Okay, 22 Sending blessings in like that 22 years old and I just wanted to say thank you so much for blessing me with your wisdom I listened to you faithfully. I also took your birth your book course. God bless you, mr. God. Hey, God bless you and write that book now write the book. Don't sleep on yourself. Don't sleep on yourself Real lady God bless you if a good guy is my neighbor who wants to date is that living too close? I feel like it is three years. He has been in a he has been a complete gentleman What you got to ask yourself is if you date them and y'all break up what you're gonna do What you're gonna do now hold on sister. Okay to divine now it's showing two 99s for you now sister, so I Check your statement check your statement because the other 99 got a got another other got a heart with it I don't know if that was just a run-on message or if you hit that twice now check your statement, but Just do a call back on one of them do a charge back on one of them God bless you. I don't know if the system glitch and Google trying to Get some money. Yeah, but see what you got to realize before you date somebody that live in your neighborhood and your complex or that you work with You got to be careful Because if you break up what you're gonna do are you gonna move and especially if he touch you See if you let him touch you what I'm talking about when I say touch you I'm talking about on your back If you let him get you on your back and y'all break up now What you gonna do when your when you meet your husband now your husband get knocked the car coming in and your neighbor What's up now playboy? Hey, God bless y'all and your neighbor over there looking at your husband like that And you just don't have the bonds to pick up and leave so You know understand that Trisha God bless you I feel my purpose is to coach men and eventually become a life coach I heard you say men don't listen to me well men listen to a woman They absolutely will they absolutely will but a lot of them gonna try to get you on your back So you just got to make sure you're spiritually secure and that you doing coaching by phone Because a man will hire you for the wrong reason just like a lot of women hire a man for the wrong reason Nacocha is software engineering school a great investment. I want to do life coach course, but an introvert I'm actually an introvert. I'm actually introvert. It's not this is not me I'm on here just because I'm not really talking to y'all. I'm just I'm talking to my cell phone But if anybody who had met me in person, I'm actually very shy and quiet So we're coaching you really just talking to the phone Now the software development school it just depends on what it costs It depends on what it costs and I would look around for a lot of different courses It's a lot of courses for free out there. So I would look into that Software development also is typically something that somebody been doing for years and years something that your competition Maybe started doing it at 13 15 years old and it's a lot of different languages to that software development So it's not easy now So it's something that you can start now, but your real bread may come in 10 years from now So you just have to be down for the ready for the marathon. Don't think it's just gonna be no quick easy money. I Finally got my rn license after my husband cheated on me with a recently divorced woman who has two kids I always love them respect to him, but he always disrespected me. We have two kids together. I Ain't see a question in there, but God bless you. God bless you doing the right thing. Keep moving forward Keep moving forward. Keep the strength. Stay strong Real lady God bless you God use you to confirm Exactly what just said because it's already how I feel he is too close. Thanks Hey, God bless. I'm glad Latina. God bless your party like a I'm I'm Praying the Lord bless every last one of y'all That's sending that blessing I'm a my mentor coach and author and I have a full-time job But I know things are shaky right now if I take the entrepreneurship course Can I be up and running within 90 days? I mean if I go all in You really up and running to be honest with you and the entrepreneurship course is Really gonna lead you back to what you're doing the entrepreneurship course with purpose It's really talking about earning a living living your purpose and and being a coach is that that's a purpose base that's that is Coaching is purpose-based entrepreneurship. So You really there What you can do is put your my mentor link in all your social media bio and Then what you also can do is take you a nice picture on Portrait mode on an iPhone if you don't have a professional picture already another thing what you can do is write about three blogs a week on your my mentor profile and Then share your blog post to your Facebook and and that's gonna help you drive clientele But yes, if you go all in you can't bill you some clientele We have some coaches on my mentor who then already coach more than 30 40 clients So it definitely can work fitness mom. I know I thought you were fitness mom. Let's say fine mom. Okay Okay, so what now? Tg. Hey, God bless you. Thank you so much for everything that you do I've watched your videos so much that I'm answering the questions in my head before you do I'm gonna teach a proud student. Hey, God bless you Jasmine TV God bless you if you can please expound on you leaving Verse them leaving you I always leave them first and they keep coming back I never respond and I never sleep with that. That's the way you need to do See the only time you can give a man a second chance is when you leave him If he leaves you that means he don't want you So you never take a man back who left you but if you left him You could have left him because of he was immature and he wasn't doing what he's supposed to do He can go and get the knowledge and grow and learn and then come back You keep your legs closed watch the video that I posted today about should you take your ex back? Study that inside and out and then you can see if he really changed With those tips that I put in that video today But if a man leaves a woman never take that man back because a man will never leave a woman That he really wants to be with Unless she did something unless you cheated as a woman unless the woman cheated or you know with lying too much or ran him Oh, but he left you and he's not saying I'm leaving you because you a cheater because you was lying and all he just leaving you Tell me I need a break. I don't know what I want Do not take a man back But if you had to leave him because his attitude or whatever he did Then it's on you to decide if you want to give him another chance Nanny P. God bless you found your videos never had a parent or bro to put me on the dating game So after two days of finding your videos two days. Wow God bless I realized what I was doing wrong and got over a grown boy. I haven't talked to in eight months Thank you. Hey God bless you What in your life on Wendell God bless That's it Tessie God bless you part in your life Mary or Marie God bless you. Thank you for all you do your work will break generational curses for young girls coming up As your messages are shared God bless you. I really appreciate that. I really appreciate that Wale God bless you need advice on marriage for six months had an issue with wife and Baby mama where she left and soon coming back home any advice Yeah, well depends on she left because of what you was doing if she left because of what you was doing then make sure You make the changes and that you're doing the right thing and that you learning that you grow you get the coaching You get the knowledge now if she left you just to go out and test the field Go slide on other poles. Then you need to really consider if you want a bike You know, I wouldn't be taking a bike if she left you just to go see the world and test some stuff out I'll leave out there to be honest with you You'll never take somebody back that left you For no fault of your own now if you push them away, okay now you got to get right if you want to be back with him J.A. God bless you God bless. I tried to book a session, but you are so booked up I'm hoping maybe you will pick my email for your next post during this hard time Do you think that I should help my ex financially? No, no, no, no, you don't help no ex financially No, don't help no ex financially don't help a next financially, okay? You got to let your ex sit in a mess. Let them call on the Lord. Let them call on the Lord Let them let them the stimulus check coming. That's what the government for let this stimulus check coming stimulus check coming unemployment is out there Let the government take care of your ex You keep your money in your pocket and you bless other people that you might know that's in need Can someone single be a life coach absolutely because there's so many different types of coaching You don't have to coach on relationships. You can coach on self-love and single life, but you also can coach on confidence mindset Health and wellness Finale God bless you in a relationship. How do you close the distance and repair the lack of intimacy? You got to start all over and fall in love all over again and if you can't do that and Y'all aren't willing to do that then You got to move on but if the two of you will start over do the things you did To fall in love Then it can work It can work Brandy God bless you God bless you Why do some men get their wife or girlfriend pregnant planned? Cheat while she's pregnant and then go be with One of the side chicks to be a father to her kids He just he was already on the way out. He was gonna be gone anyways But some men want them a roster some men want multiple women some men just so selfish They just so broken lost and hurting that they take it out on everybody else And so that's why you really got to pray for discernment And you got to be able to read between the lines and you got to really get that knowledge in to be able to see Because it's red flags always and that's why you got to have the knowledge of what a grown boy Does and says and looks like so you can see it and then when you see it You got to jump on it because anytime you end up in a situation like that It was red flags that you ignore because maybe you didn't know what they look like but now that you got the knowledge going forward your inner man could be Capable of doing that same thing, but now you're gonna have the knowledge and When you got that knowledge Then you're gonna know you're gonna be able to you know do do the right thing Kia God bless you. God bless you. Let me see Okay, uh Ariana by making the videos longer Now the day was short, but normally an hour now But see Lord ain't calling me to do a video over our not to record it kind I do more than an hour on these I'm trying to be out of here on an hour tonight, but um, Lord willing but um, I Think I only got a couple coaching calls tomorrow, so I ain't got to be the bed too early Tia God bless you Some Christians justify a woman's pursuit of a man by the biblical story of Ruth Positioning herself to boas. Tell me your thoughts on how you think that relates to the pursuit of a man by a woman I totally disagree Explained you are absolutely right. Are you absolutely right? That was a different day and that was a different time and Ruth She was not chasing Boas and and in there in their day and time it was of a different custom and Reproducing and replenishing the earth was a Huge priority and she was listening to what Naomi told her to do. She was young and Naomi was telling her a don't just sit up under me Get married So let him know that you out there and she was just in the field working Naomi told go lay at his feet But it was a different day then because see if if if in this day and time you go lay at a man feet Just what he finna do grab you by the feet pull you right up in that bed and have you Just like this hill. What did what did boas do? He said, okay? All right, I see that you come into my presence Let me go down to the city hall. Let me go down to the city hall and talk to the elders And get the clearance to see if I can marry you Another family member was in line. See they used to be with a family back then. That's a whole another type of scarcity Another family member was in line for her And then that family member say well, I don't want to I'm straight. I got I got my I got my old lady So you can have a boas. I ain't got I ain't got the money to take care of And so boy, I say, okay, I got okay. Cool. Let me do what I got to do That's a totally different time today. You don't have to go marry your your uncle Or your your husband brother your husband cousin your husband nephew So, you know, a lot of people just It takes stuff out of context And we you know, but but positioning yourself is getting out the house and getting in the field working What that means is be so busy on your grind And be out there working the way you could be seen So that your husband can see you you just ain't racing the work and racing home But you out and about making moves Let me see Miss chris says she want to promote her business and you weren't about the wrong thing And you is now miss chris why you want to promote have you been up there in the vip line? Nancy don't come in with the spirit of give me. Okay You trying to promote ain't seen up there being a blessing Okay, least let the folks that's up there being a blessing promote a business Okay, you trying to come promote and All right How to grow a better bond with son and father when parents are separated um The father that's on the father's place You know to be able to grow that bond to show up and have his weekends to have his visitation And if a man is not fighting to be in his son life, then you can't try to force That son on to that man because whenever a man is not trying to be in their child life It's because that man knows He'll do damage that man knows that he'll do more harm than good So leave him be and and don't get caught up feeling like a child needs a father like that is That's a blessing but a child ain't gonna be No worse if mama is good If mama doing what she need to be doing because see god expected for You know god expected for Men to god knew men are get lost in battles, you know defending their country God knew men are go out to hunt and won't come home So he gave a one man enough to be able to be everything That child need if that comes down to it So understand that and and vice versa It it's a blessing But be everything you got to be and then let that man get in there If he want to be in there Queens and curls god bless you. Thank you so much for your wisdom and advice your videos have helped me so much. Hey bless you bless you Panaka god bless you. Hey, Tony. Just purchased the life coach certification course. Thank you so much for being obedient You and the queen have been a blessing to my life. Hey god bless you god blessing. I pray the lord bless you On your coaching Journey I know if it could happen for me as a coach and i'm just one person We got seven billion people in the world. So I only coach Maybe 10 clients at a time. So We need more coaches. Um, miss chris. Do you have a specific platform small business saturday where we can promote our Followers. Yes, sir. I was in here asking about the speakers course um Not a specific platform, but you know Feel free if you got something to share or you feel like somebody could benefit from your facebook page or your business You know, you could put it in the conference youtube block it a lot of times um On my mailing list what I do is if you are in a course on the academy I will Support businesses there and send it out to my students that's in the academy I'll send it out to the mailing list So you could email in if it's something that you want and we may have a little something for you To where we could do you a little promo deal But typically for me, it's real organic with promoting business and stuff It's people that I don't seen around seeing their name over and over in my courses I don't seen them, you know, and then I learn what they're doing and it's more organic Just because there's so many sharks out there Not that you would be one of them, but just so many sharks out there If I do something for one then I got to do it for for everybody But just visit tonygassonsacademy.com for those y'all who want to see the the classes J. A. God bless you. What if we both had faults him entertaining other females and me retaliating By breaking his toys Today in the child breaking the toy Then do you think giving it another go is a no go the beyond switcher? Yes, because y'all childish Okay, and so when you childish Y'all would just be just bumping heads bumping head. That's not a good relationship when both of y'all petty You need somebody who gonna hold you accountable when you being childish and then Somebody you could hold accountable when they being childish. I thought I saw somebody gets a glare on my life um Tony do you have other times besides 11 and two for coaching 11 and two so you must be like central standard time. No, that's my only two times that I offer the beyond switcher, I'm Really not supposed to be doing one-on-one coaching, but I still do it just to try to help But my business has grown beyond coaching But I just kind of so I be having so much other stuff that I have to get done You know, I'm a writer it take time writing ebooks. I'm a ghost writer I'm running other companies. So coaching is something that I do just to Keep my finger on the pulse and and be accessible But I really I don't coach all day because you know, I've been coaching for 13 years So I built my business and my brand to a point to where You know, I have to focus on some other things creating generational wealth versus just on that phone now If you need another time what you're gonna have to do that's called a A vip session. So you got an email support at tonigaskins.com Email support at tonigaskins.com now understand the vip line is cost more than The regular line anywhere you go Okay, first class cost more than economy. So for other times you got the email support at tonigaskins.com Ashley Beverly. God bless you. Just wanted to send a blessing to you and your work You have helped me so much and I feel free to love and be here. Oh, God bless. I'm glad that's that's helping you um trace test God bless you. Hey, pull out in your life. May the Lord richly bless you. You are a true servant You have enriched my life so much. You have so much passion. Your book is amazing Please keep teaching us the lessons of love and healthy relationships. Hey, God bless. I'm gonna do the best I can Lord, give me strength. I'm gonna stay on out here and keep doing what I could do Uh, bam, bam. God bless you should we try to rebuild our relationship even though He wasn't supportive during the time of my miscarriage No, no, I wouldn't try to rebuild that you with a savage You with a savage when you went when when you carrying his And you have a miscarriage and he won't help you He won't be supportive you with a savage. Keep on going going about your business Going about your business Lm God bless you. Thank you. I appreciate all that you do. Blessings to you and your family. God bless Hey, when I say God bless, I really be meaning that I pray the Lord bless y'all and send me a Praise report when you get your blessing to now. How do you know? Uh, oh, how do you know you are truly over your ex? You know, you're truly over your ex when you can love as if you've never been hurt before When you can move forward and not give the next person a strike or two strikes When they've not even when they haven't even done anything. That's when you know you over your ex But when you go to that next relationship if you blaming them on things and you holding stuff against them And they haven't done anything then that's when you know that You're out of pocket. That's when you know that you're hurting. That's when you know you haven't Forgave or gotten over your ex D love met up with ex tonight to talk. He kept emphasizing marriage alone now alone now alone now Your ex had at 19 now. He's a You don't know what kind of spirit he got on now. He got a spirit at 19 on he wanted to meet up with Now think back to what y'all was doing when you met up with him. Did he have on a mass? Okay, now that you thinking about it as soon as you walked up on he And then you ain't even catch it. So listen, I'm gonna pray for you. Do not meet up with your ex no more let your ex Social distance on the phone in this hill season. I don't don't don't play with this thing now come on now And then he see this the thing It's because we on this here situation Now he wanna now he want to meet up to talk emphasize marriage and settling down He wants me to cook for him. Okay. I'm glad I kept read so he want to meet up With you and then give you some stipulations like I need you in the kitchen cooking You didn't cook in the past should I buy into this? No No, don't buy nothing return to sender Return to sender unopened. Don't even take it past this hill conversation. Just go on about your business Oh, sorry Snakey booty man. Don't don't wait till the lock down to talk about let's be together He coughing all in your face Apple helps God bless. Apple helps. Okay Apple bottom gene You got the boots with the first it's supposed to say she can let y'all know she got apple helps apple They broke up Hey broke up with my ex son's father 18 months ago 18 months ago. He is in a new relationship now He gets our son every other weekend I asked him if I could meet his new woman since she would be around my son and he said no In that case you just I mean you really You kind of overstepping anyways because in the sense that You're not going to meet the real her anyways Like if he lets you meet her She's going to show you her she's going to put her best foot forward She's not going to be like hi nice to meet you. Guess what? I thump your son in the head whenever he takes a nap. So How do you like that? You know, she's not going to do that. You're just going to see oh hi great to meet you, you know And she's going to be looking at you like, mm-hmm got your man now what you're going to do And so you really it'll just be making the situation worse for you So how you judge the new woman is you got to look at your man Can you trust him your ex? I mean your your son father. Can you trust him? What kind of person is he now if if he smoked? drank curse You know play video game four five hours at a time if he is a grown boy Then you know he's going to have your son around some mess And then that's when you put your foot down But if he an upstanding citizen he live, you know, he live a decent life He's pretty mature. Y'all just didn't work out. Then he's not going to bring No mess around, you know your son So you just got to go based off him when he don't want you to meet her Um crystal god bless you gotta divorce my husband. He doesn't think I'm serious and still trying to come pick up things I blocked him and he pops up. I don't want to be mean, but I'm done. What do you suggest? Let him get his stuff Let him get all this stuff. Let left set up the date. Let him get his stuff You could go half on the moving truck you if you really serious You know or you pack up all this stuff put it in all the box you take it to him drop it off But you can't be holding the man's stuff hostage talking about you want to be done with him now So Let him come on get his stuff. You know, especially he's not doing, you know harm. He's not a threat Let him come on get his stuff And then when you let him get his stuff, then he's gonna know you serious But if you holding his stuff If you holding his stuff, then he's like, oh, she don't want to leave That's why he don't thank you serious because you won't let him get his stuff Tamika Olivia. God bless you. They didn't got three months. Let's close. He feels like we are not growing because No love making he's been consistent with calls and dating. I'm skeptical because he needs green card Okay Okay, okay. Yeah So definitely don't open your legs Not because he asked for too much You want a green card and you want a piece of A piece cobbler. Oh Oh, brother, you need to pick what's the one you want, brother Do you want this green card or do you want Use some piece cobbler because you can't have you can't eat it too Now because you're asking for too much, brother. So calm down pump your brakes Pump your brakes. So understand that there don't stay off your bike. Do not get on your bike And you got to be careful with that card now Let him apply for citizenship and if y'all president say if y'all president say no I'm sorry for your playboy. You got to go on bike way you come from then let them go on bike way to come from Don't be the reason he could stay here Because you could apply for citizenship in whatever country you in and they gonna look at you and see if you were the of citizenship in their country So i don't know if you're in america or wherever, but they're gonna look at you Somebody say what's a green card? Wow You know, um Oh, you ain't never met nobody from another country You know, the green card is kind of like a residency card like let people get you know Saying you legal to be here for now If everything go well and you got this time limit and you know, then you need to get some citizenship or go on bike The way where you're supposed to be is basically what that is. I you know, it's probably not the technical You know sense see love. God bless you took first real love class in march 2016. Wow You've been here a while see love you've been supporting this long god bless you wanted to take it again Is there any way to access it or do I need to buy it again to retake? um, just email in the support at tonigasin dot com and just um Let them know that you're a student that you took the course and you should probably still be in the system But I don't know if this is a new system since 2016, but um Yeah, just email in just email in if you can find the receding your In your email it make it better. But if not, just let them know that your name see love on um On youtube and I keep an eye for them I let them know to keep an eye for you And then anybody else don't write in and talk about your name and see love because You're gonna block your blessings if you write in line So let see love claim what's already rightfully hers. Okay Uh gooseberry dreams god bless your boyfriend was upset with me when I didn't give him security code to my home When lost his home and car He said I let him suffer when he needed me the most he didn't want to stay with his mom at her house Was I wrong you was not wrong You was not wrong and I'll be honest with you when when a man losing his house and car I'll be trying to get gone because how you gonna be the head of a household and you can't even hold a house How you finna come over here? And you can't keep your own place to live You ain't got a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out of And you want to come over here and get a security code When you lost your whole security So don't lose your whole security and then want to come over here and get a security code No, go back from whence you come you come at your mama Return to your mama Don't lose don't let all your stuff go because you want to gamble your money You want to catch an attitude with your boss knowing that you don't have No entrepreneur skills and you want to lose your job So then you lose your house lose your car and then come over here talking about Give me your code absolutely not so you could be popping in here anytime of night stank Just dipped out of another woman coming in here talking about let me lay with you When you didn't lost all yours and you supposed to be bringing security You're supposed to be bringing security not Not confusion not broke busted and disgusted Looking like who shot john and forgot to kill him. No brother. You don't need no girlfriend. You need your grind Okay, you need to get your life in order You know, you might have to screen record this and send that to him brother get your life in order Okay, you need to be bringing something to the table other than a fork and an appetite Bring a dish to the table better yet bring a table to the table. Then we could talk Okay, then we could talk But no, man, it's 2020 the year perfect vision Tc god bless you god bless you Shanice pinks than god bless you so great for that passed away before I started dating god God rest his soul Well, I said that before I read it god bless you didn't even get the chance to have that talk with him nor with my mom with the birds and bees Continue. Okay. You got another park. God bless you Birds and bees and brother not even in the mental space to be a big brother I believe they was just focusing on survival or maybe it was never talked to them. Thank you so much for your wisdom Shanice god bless a that what god told me to be that what god told me to do So that's why I'm here and that's why I go as hard as I go and and the lord blessing me the lord blessed me You know why he blessed me because he'll touch your heart to be a blessing to me So as I'm sitting there talking an hour a day giving away every little bit of game that I can think of then Y'all y'all are blessing to me too. So, you know, it goes both ways. So god bless you. I thank you for your blessing uh, apple helps My ex son father lives in a one bedroom apartment. He gets our son every other week. He told me he has a girlfriend My son sleeps in the room with them. I'm concerned. I'm concerned my son seeing him and her doing it Now that's a whole another Um addition to your earlier question and I'm glad you clarified that And in that case, that's the issue. Okay, because I don't even think Legally a young boy is supposed to be in the room with a woman Or a girl once he passed the age of five legally, I think you're supposed to be separated and and yes Yes, he is hearing He is hearing stuff and if he is not hearing it He's smelling it because he go to wonder What's that cooking and he trying to sleep? It's the middle of the night and the baby can't even sleep because he Okay, three oh, okay, and he's smelling stuff And so what so definitely with that you need to talk to a dad and say listen This ain't gonna be at work because you're not in a position You're not in a position to be a father right now and you got this musty booty woman in there In the bed and I know y'all not abstinent. So what's going on? And so yeah with that he up with that situation right there if I was you he'll have to take me to court He'll have to take me to court and I'm uh your honor May I submit? for your consideration That my ex has a one bedroom And has my son sleeping in there With him and his girlfriend and I feel like that is inappropriate for the eyes and ears of a minor And that is an unsafe and unfit environment may I submit that for your consideration your honor? That's what I will be saying in The court of law and I believe a judge will in this day and age with all the stuff going on I believe a judge will say you know what? you're right and Um, sir, you need to get your life together. Okay, you need to get a two-bed room It's a difference of maybe a hundred and thirty dollars, sir So let's get that together if you want to really or you need to let your girlfriend Have her own place to stay and and I'm going to authorize a nanny cam for his mother to be in your room Just so that we can make sure that woman is not in there because I'm not that the woman would do anything to him, but that's just it's just too early too much exposure So your your son gonna be in kindergarten first grade trying to cuddle up, you know on the playground With a girl because that's what he's seeing his daddy doing and that they're just too close too much exposure Um, talk to god bless you. Hey, tony love your wisdom been with a guy in and out of prison for five years now Things we did before he left. I won't do anymore. He wants to marry me when he gets out this year But no love making until I'm afraid he will cheat To be honest with you, um, I agree with you because Love is a moral act and this is why I try to help people understand is that love is a moral act and um apple helps god Bless you god bless you. I'm glad I was able to answer love is a moral act So if a man has low morals if a man has low character, then you can't really trust his moves So me personally if I was Me personally I'm not going to entertain a jail bird If you've been in and out of jail In and out for the last five years use a jail bird and that is why the cage bird sings and me personally I'm not going to entertain a jail bird because that's a low character You why you are if you go to jail one time I went to jail one time in the ninth grade. I ain't been back since And I ain't going back unless somebody tried my family I'm not going back But one time in the ninth grade at 15 Like there's no reason for a grown man to be going in and out in and out in and out So if a man going in and out two times or or three times Then he's going to cheat because he doesn't have High character. He got low character and you can't trust that jazzy love god bless you poor I don't know life. She needs god bless you poor out in the life. Hello, Tony. I would love to thank you I've been watching your videos. I have more confidence than ever to leave my boyfriend almost three and a half years He is not ready to get married. I felt drained and led on Hey, you're doing the right thing once he crossed that three year mark and y'all grown He's not really making forward progress and you got to look at your life and life is too short or wasted with somebody who Don't know what they want out of life Taylor rose god bless Ewood burr god bless you. He says i'm not going anywhere and neither are you Yet fails to make necessary changes to better their relationship. Should I know you need to go? Yeah, yeah, if that means run that red dress mean run you need to run When a man tells you that that's like spitting your face. That's in manglish. He's saying You so lost gullible naive and confused You wouldn't know a sorry man if he punched you in your nose You're gonna be right here for the rest of your life sniffing my booty because you don't love yourself That's what he's really saying in manglish And you know, he just you ain't I ain't going nowhere. Neither are you that's letting you know he has lost all faith in The the female race he's lost all faith in women and y'all strength and ability to love yourself and to stand on two feet And gone about your business That's what you got to understand when a man tell you that he's spitting your face Nicole frank. Thank you. Tony. Hey god bless you, Nicole I just started listening to you and I have learned so much about what I need to change be blessed Hey god bless. Hey y'all now I got 26 more minutes now y'all to push me over the limit, but I see that there's a lot of questions and um I'm doing my best on here trying to keep up with you prestigious wisdom god bless and poor that are lying Dated a guy for three months felt like he sabotaged what we had he wanted to stay friends Love making friend with benefits I told him no we still work out Oh y'all still work out together. Okay feelings are now deeper For us both no love making should I take them back? um You didn't really put any red flags in there Um, you got on your bike. Okay You got on your bike So it wasn't necessarily his fault Now you don't cut that off. You didn't come into some knowledge Because y'all working out together y'all got endorphins running. Okay Y'all got serotonin and dopamine being released to feel good You know chemicals being released y'all bonding y'all building Without making love y'all making love to the mind. So y'all actually building on a friendship so Should you take him back is if he's asking you to take him back And he's showing you that he can love you make love to your mind without trying to make love to your body Okay then That's what he'll that's what you can do and uh now Now listen I just saw that message pop up and say caramel kids at times somebody out now Okay, caramel kids that y'all listen y'all need to keep these rude comments to y'all exes and child fathers. Okay Um caramel kids ain't playing with you now don't have no typos in your comment Because oh you meant to say something you thought you were saying And she put you in that time out now. She probably could block you too. So a caramel kids to share I ain't seen too well in a while Well, she ain't in no bad relationship But they uh moderators on here. They don't work for me personally now They just heavy supporters that I've seen over and over and over And so they they do what they will in the comment section you get out of hand now. So We don't let we don't let Satan behind the enemy line. So don't let him use you Yes, good. God bless you. He gave me the silent treatment. I checked him. He did it again What's my next move when he's back? He seems mature And great qualities except with this your next move when he's back you're gonna stand there and wait on him Um, two brothers held a weekend. Okay. She tied up tonight. Uh, you waiting on the wrong man A man get you silent treatment over and over and over again. He playing mind games now He childish he need to learn how to talk how to communicate You can't just stand there and let a man keep doing silent treatments because the behavior that you Reinforced will repeat itself. So you can't let you got to talk to a man. Say listen I don't do silent treatments You grown i'm grown So if you want us to be together you're gonna have to learn how to talk and if you can't talk Then we can't be together point blank period. You got to let him know that and go home about your business Um, little crystal styles. God bless you. My son's father had my son in the bed with him and his girlfriend And I called cps. Okay, that child protect the service. Good job. Look crystal. Good job You did the right thing and call him every time and hopefully your son could talk If your son up the age of talking and ask him every time anybody else was in that bed Anybody else was in that bed ask him every time every time he say, yeah Call child protect service again The ratio god bless you Hey, so I gave my ex several ops to send A third party to pick up his things that he failed to do so Multiple times and I ended up getting rid of his things Will he still know that i'm serious? Yeah, he gonna know He gonna know He is gonna know especially when he come back to get his things He definitely gonna know so i'm hoping that He's not a guy that'll get Out of hand now because You know make sure you got The boys in blue on speed now, but yeah, he's gonna know you serious if you got rid of his stuff Mr. Rich. God bless you. God bless you. Hello He compliments my looks and work ethic, but never met in person He told me he wants me to have this equipment $200 Or more it could cost for my work Is he investing solely professional or is it romantic as well? Thank you now y'all got to I read a little slow On here because i'm trying to get everything in here and i'm processing what you're saying Um But no a man don't invest in your business. He investing in you That's personal a man don't invest in your business. Man don't care nothing about your business Especially y'all not together. That's not your husband and he complimenting you. Yeah, he investing in you now But main thing keep your head low And understand this when you allow a man to work for you If he playing games, he gonna play itself, you're not losing anything But here's the thing Don't accept anything it didn't feel like you got to get on your bike or you got to kiss him Or you got to let him do something to you to your body or you doing something to his body because of what he did for you If you accept something from a man, the only thing you owe him is a thank you But i would say oh no man nothing but love him But love him So now if you feel like he that's going to put you in a position where you feel indebted to him Or that if y'all stop talking he gonna say hey give me my thing back Then don't accept it don't accept it Tiffany mclean god bless you What's the difference between a man getting space to gather his thoughts and a man giving you silent treatment? um It's going to look the same and only he knows the difference if it's a difference But a man who is getting space to gather his thoughts is typically when He's unsure about you. He's unsure if you're the one he needs to marry He's unsure if You know he should move forward with the relationship a man giving you a silent treatment is typically because Something you did to him that he doesn't like and he's trying to teach you a lesson by not reinforcing that behavior So he'll give you a silent treatment if you did something that he wants you to cut out So That's how you would tell the difference. It just you have to ask yourself. Did I do anything to him? You know and what is this about if you didn't do anything to him then it's him's really saying Let me cheat in peace Because a man don't need time to sit and think oh is this my wife is this not he already knows So when a man just said I need time to gather my thoughts, let me cheat in peace Let me cheat without having to delete messages out my phone And hide my phone and all of that But now if you've been yelling cursing or lying cheating you doing something and then he goes silent That's him saying listen. I'm not going to be here for the foolishness Shamaya god bless you god bless you um l m Bruj Bruja Linda has a question that she sent in super chat Let me see if I can find that Uh, sometimes they delete those super chats So she could have withdrew it or or it got deleted, but I'll see if I can find that. I doubt I'm gonna be able to find it blue flame They know strip clubs. Oh no. No, I'm talking about me I'm like, what? I don't know. He throw it off right there for a quick second. Uh, god bless you. Thank you for that blessing dating for almost two months Invited me to a wedding and offered to pay both looking to be serious and have not been physical Should I pay for anything? No, no, you're going to a wedding for him. So it's a double thing. He get to be around you he get to be around you and um He offering to pay because this something this for his family So he get to look like he's complete by taking you so you're doing him a favor Let him pay don't offer to pay you can't offer to pay for something that An expense that wouldn't have otherwise been in your life Had he not introduced it, you know, don't don't so yeah, you can't pay for that Now and anytime a man offers to pay for something let him pay Y'all have not been physical Should I pay for anything? No anytime a man offers to pay let him pay Because that's a man who has the provider mentality And he wants to do for you. So be okay with that um precious Do a message not everyone you lose is a loss Okay, I try to remember that um And now let me look for that super chat they told him about from To me real quick. Uh, let me see did I answer this? Yup, missy rich. I saw that y'all hold on right quick. I'm looking for a super chat that somebody Say somebody sent Yeah, I'm not really seeing that Yeah, I don't see that So yeah, you have to submit it again I don't see bruiser linda if y'all could see the super chat I don't know how y'all remember her name y'all just remember people name Okay bruiser I see you right there post your message again in the regular since you are a member of the bless tribe You can post your your question right there now when you remember the bless tribe Don't put no question in the super chat. Just put it right there Bless tribe members asked it could ask your question for free Somebody said she's at seven oh eight in the comment I I can't see the time on my side. I don't I don't I don't have time on my side of whether scroll to seven oh eight or I can't I can't My question was how can I let my lover go on good terms? um Good terms is up to him or your lover Him or her but good terms is up to how they take You leaving it's really hard to let somebody go on good terms, you know, so You got to Understand that that all you can do is just say hey, this isn't working now I don't want to waste anymore your time. I don't want to waste my time I have to move on with my life And I want you to move on with your life. You can't control how they take it So it's not something that you have complete control over all you can do is do it In a respectful way to try to give closure What should a woman write about when she is making her first book? Turn your pain into purpose teach the lessons that life taught you Uh, Libra goddess I told her I did a super chat question. I don't think you saw it No, I didn't see it on Libra, but post your question again Libra I try to keep an eye if you post it Right around now. I might get to see it Got about 14 more minutes on here Uh, why do I always meet insecure men? That's every man You know nine out of 10 men insecure if a man says He will call back And don't for the rest of the day. No explanation. Should I go ghost? Not unless you're gonna stay ghost But if you're just going ghost to play a head game, then when you play mind games, everybody loses So what you got to do is when he calls you back the next time you say, hey Last time you said you're gonna call me. You didn't call me back. What happened? And then listen to see if you believe that That excuse that answer that he gives you listen to see if you believe it If it sounds like Hulk watched and say listen, I really don't deal with people who can't keep their words So if you're going to give your word keep it otherwise Just don't call me period because I don't have the time And so that's what you have to do on the next time you got to check the behavior And so that they know that this behavior got to be eradicated not something that it's like you playing a mind game And then now you're all going, you know tip attack. Okay, leave regardless. I see you question here now Should I avoid a guy who keeps pressing me for a relationship? But I'm not ready to settle down with him um If you're not ready to settle down with him that means that's not your husband Because he went up when when it's your husband He's gonna he's gonna bring an energy that makes you feel whole that makes you feel ready to love It's gonna you're gonna feel a presence and an energy that's gonna shift that brokenness inside of you So when a man is approaching you and he keeps coming and coming and you don't want to be with him This the mistake that women make now. This is what I want you all to understand What a lot of women do is You dealing with some hurt and pain and so this man calms and you pushing them away you pushing them away and then eventually You you change your mind and now when you change your mind at this point He has gone into gamer mode now. He's gone into this a challenge. This a competition And so now you ready to love but it's really because you didn't want him to begin with But now it's like, oh, I ain't got no other options. Oh doesn't that's going on. Oh the man. I really won't hasn't come Let me get a little other little try And so now you want to give him a try and now he mad because it's like you're gonna make me chase you For six months for eight months for nine months. Okay now I've been a dog. Yeah So that's a mistake that women make it's like when you see a man Do you want them or not? If you don't want them? Yes, cut them off and move on with your life. Let him know this is not gonna work Because a man with husband energy You're gonna feel it You're gonna feel it. Um, kisha. God bless you. What our quality is to look for in a good man when you first meet him You can't really tell a good man when you first meet him You could tell a bad man But but you can't really tell a good man because what most men you're gonna meet their representative So every man gonna look like a good man And so you just got to make sure that you're not desperate and that's where a lot of women fall short is He showed you his representative And then you end up on your back because you thought he was a good man So even the devil knew bible scriptures the devil could quote the Torah, you know the devil could quote You know the prophets so understand that you won't necessarily know a good man it take time to get to know if he a good man because patterns Don't lie habits don't lie. So by month three you gonna know If he a good man by month six you gonna know if he a good man Just bought your course to birth my book. I am so ready. Thank you again. Hey, god bless you God bless you now that that course really works now. I had one little devil One of satan minions gonna come sign up for the course Download all the downloads take the course and then right in y'all like a refund that course was petty I almost stepped outside of my christianity, but I said lord I'm not gonna lay down my christian for this person because it's hundreds of people that are birthed a book off this course I birthed 30 books off this course How you think I became an author? I made the course based on what I do the right books Well most had the I bought I had to let the customer serve and handle it I bought wrote up about man if you don't get your sorry I'll say boy y'all got it when y'all if people who do that she only like one of two people three people That did that but when you do stuff like that you blocking your own blessings. You can't prosper in life like that You can't probably have course 47 dollar. Come on now. You come in and steal all the content. I need a refund Ain't been in the course. I mean she just download all the information hadn't even been in the course of our I'll say say now rebuke you Baby daddy been in my aid for four months Miss daughter second bday. This all happens after I asked for my key back because his son's mom Facebook Mess me saying I messed up her family and she is Still sleep Okay, it's a few typos in the up and I understand it's a messy situation And um, but it sounds like He cut you off because he's mad And now he up under her Understand this right here. Let him be gone. Let him be gone Let him be gone when a man could do that to his own flesh and blood That just that's bigger than you and him. He's just sorry Because a real man ain't gonna ever let you come between Him and his child He ain't gonna let nothing stop him if he really want to be In that child life. So understand that Hey, y'all only got about seven more minutes now if y'all just joining y'all a little late now I've been on here an hour and 23 minutes Taking the course right now. It's helping me On second chapter of my book. Hey, god bless you. I try to see let me see if I can find a I missed some questions right here random guy on social media messages me Starts asking all types of questions Like he is trying to get to know me is he shortcutting the process by DMing me? I'm turned off. Am I right? Well, sometimes you know what you got to realize Not every man knows how to approach a woman Not every man knows how to how this stuff goes Some men new to this and they got that social media courage. So sometimes what what you got to say is You know, if you really can look and see if it's a real person and all of this and it looks legit And you really want to talk to him then You got to let him know I don't do messages in in in the DM I won't message in the DM and see if you're going to ask you for for your number And understand anybody to get your number you can block them. But at the same time a lot of men doing this stuff Because they play in the game and they get close to a woman She get desperate next thing, you know He asked him for a loan the help is sick grandma Nanette, um, joya, and I see joya. I see your question, but I didn't see Nanette question now y'all hold on real quick Let me see if I can find the net. Okay, should my first book be super vulnerable or is that too much? That's up to you. That's up to you. The best books are vulnerable Tell your story. I when I wrote my first book my mama was mad my daddy was mad You know, the devil was mad everybody was mad. I stepped on everybody's toes But that's that's what a book is You know, that's what a book does you got to be real you got to do what god told you to do You can't worry about people feelings Somebody say he kept the representative for three years. It was too perfect. I was so bamboozled, but I know better now My god, I'm glad you made that thing out a lot at Ted Bundy nephew Yeah, hey look like we didn't came on to an end here now because I'm looking for y'all quick. Okay, somebody popped up here 12 years of marriage 15 years of relationship. Remember I kind of read I remember that gtq. I remember your name if this surely I remember that gtq though Guatemala god bless you After seven months apologize for leaving but not sure if coming back It's starting to get closer, but told me he hates me. How should I interpret that? What should I See now, I would imagine y'all got kids in 15 years. You didn't mention them though But I tell you this once a man tell you he hates you He don't let him tell you twice Once a man tell you he hates you Don't let him tell you twice be anybody tell you they hate you got to go Got to go You know don't don't don't listen for that twice and see what he doing He coming to keep you stuck and realize this y'all been together 15 years and it still ain't right going about your business Going by your business completed life coach certification join my mentor My mentor searching for next steps to get started. Thanks for all you do now You on my mentor what you got to do is log into your account and at the top you're going to see It says vault V a u l t click on the vault and read all them blog posts that tell you how to perfect your profile and Your next steps and then go back through the life coach certification course and make sure you download all the forms That tell you all the next steps. You need to take everything right there. You just probably rush through it Jay dilla. God bless you God bless you my brother Hey, I thought you were going jay dilla. That was since we got into it in the comment section one time and uh You were trying to check me and I was checking you and I ain't seen your sense. So i'm glad you still help my brother On Shakira harrick. God bless you. God bless you jay dilla was telling me he felt like sometimes I'm lying to y'all women. I told jay dilla's age start you up youtube start your youtube balance it out Uh rose petal. God bless you My kid's father has not reached out to check on his kids throughout all of this quarantine Okay, now I can't say all these words through this 19 process He is already on child support should I take him back to court to get more money? No, don't worry about no more money Don't worry about no money when you got old sara man like that Let the man stay out of distance Don't create more stuff to get in Close with old sara man get tangled up with a sara man bringing your energy down. He already paying Just let that be it what you got do step your grind up step your grind up You know step your game up and you you make up the difference let them pay what they told them to pay and just Just keep it down. Don't even Lower your vibration trying to get tangled up in the weeds with him Um aish God bless you Thank you for loving what you doing letting God use you I laugh I learn and I share your wisdom With friends constantly be blessed ash Ask God bless you. Hey, thank you Hey y'all, I really appreciate y'all God bless you. You know, it's been a a good look. All right. All right Somebody hit with the last question. This is my last question now. Last question x broke up with me 14 months ago came back and I turned them down happy in a new relationship But I don't want to hurt him. He knows we spoke and he seems insecure Um, well, he already know you spoke you just got to assure him you got to assure him See the thing about it is everybody insecure. Everybody got some insecurity But when you notice that a person has a genuine insecurity, but it's not a controlling Me nasty insecurity. You just got to say You know what? I'm so over that. I'm so far away from that I would never in my life go back to that never in my life. That was the worst situation I'd have been through I learned my lesson that I wouldn't if me and him was the last two people on earth I wouldn't go back to that like That's what your partner be wanting to hear they'd be wanting to hear a real explanation Some some fervor in your voice to really know that you really serious about this whole thing Mama tish God bless always remember man can't take away what god has for you. Thanks big bro. Stay real. Hey Hey, I appreciate you. God bless you hit him with that buzzer beater Hit with that buzzer beater. Hey god bless y'all. Um I My phone on 10% so I got to go. I'll be back on here saturday. Lord willing y'all know I do a daytime and a nighttime on saturday and then sunday night, but god bless y'all and um Will will be in touch. I'll post a video tomorrow Talk soon sharing caramel kisses Sharing caramel kisses. Thank y'all for for holding it down tonight. God bless y'all God bless. I really appreciate you